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Yvonne, Mom and Dad

Yvonne with sisters

Yvonne Okoro is really beautiful.

Think she is really underestimated!

I always believed that if I ever get cheated on and I find out. I would leave the guy immediately, however it is a different situation when you actually go through it. I have been with my boyfriend for 3,5years and we were planning to get married next year Feb. If I leave, who is to say the next guy won't cheat on me(the devil you know is better than the angel you dnt know I hear), if I stay, things will never be the same again, I can eventually forgive him but I dnt think I can forget not to mention the trust issues. So it leaves me with the option of cheating. Then he will know how I feel and it feels like, we would be even and then we can start afresh. It sounds crazy I know but it seems like the only way. Am I a bad person to cheat because I was cheated on. To make him feel exactly how am feeling? Is tit for tat always wrong? After-all Karma is a b..itch!

Lmao to all those who think it was me. Firstly i can never be as silly do such a thing because of poo . Secondly if it was me i would have stated so.

Maximus85: Alphabetically the last country in the world and the poorest economy in the world. Now they are sending investors out of their country. Who be their finance minister?

people should use Google if they are unsure of themselves before someone uses what you say to insult you. DRC is the poorest followed by Liberia



http://www.therichest.com/rich-list/world/poorest-countries-in-the-world/

Bleble-swag:

and who says i was judging? was jst asking why it tends 2 be, n i said nt evry ugly gal ve gud xter, dats cos i ve seen 1, if nt i wudn't said anytin.

This is true. I agree with you.

Bleble-swag:

hey! dnt judge me yet, u dnt even knw me.

Yet you are judging others too? Hypocrite

DailyNews: every man; old and young, rich and poor crave for respect, and most not-beautiful girls are respectful and don't usually make a man feel small, so that's y most men go for the even after dating so many beautiful women. Character is one of the greatest beauty a woman can possess even though physical beauty attracts men first and most.

But a beautiful girl with good character is a rare gem and will forever be cherished by all men that comes across her. So its left for the so-called beautiful girls to distinguish themselves from the crowd and disprove people from d usual belief that beautiful women usually have bad character

Just like there are handsome men out there who are not players and good guys. Men like to generalize a lot. Why not see for yourself whether the "beautiful" lady is good, instead of judging her already as a certain way. Character is not limited to looks. Anyways "birds of the same feathers" flock together. If you attract certain type of women, you should clearly look inwards and see why.

Bleble-swag:
wait a minute, all of u sayin, d ugly 1s tend 2 ve gud xter bt d pretty 1s dnt, i so much disagree wit u, cos i ve seen ugly peeps wit their ugly n smellin xter, my uncle's wife is an example, so, i dnt agree wit u guys.

Just by your words i can tell you are ugly inside, and that is more important then how "beautiful" you claim you are. Smdh

Beautiful girls end up mostly with average or "ugly" guys and vice versa. It just seems to happen.

Secondly it does not mean just because a girl is not as beautiful that she is not beautiful inside. There is something about her the guy loves, also he may find her beautiful even if you think she is ugly.

Donxavier:

Even outside naija sef it will cost her in legal fees and all. By the time they drag the case out she would have almost spent the money she loaned out. So what's the point? The real issue is what is she doing with the guy if she doesn't trust him?

Maybe because the devil you know, is better than the angel you don't know. I am in a relationship and i trust my bf 95% but not 100%, because at times i have doubts or thoughts etc, he is a good guy at end of day so am not going to leave him because i do not trust him 100%.

Anyway if the man is a great giver himself and genuinely had need for assistance i would if i had, BUT not when he hardly ever gave me any, then suddenly coming to ask me for some, ONE GOOD TURN DESERVES ANOTHER U KNOW!

Most importantly On the issue of borrowing; don’t lend it to him if you know that you still need that money; it’s either you give him and forget about it, or you tell him you don’t have any money.

And finally avoid making it a habit of giving him money regularly because he might just turn you into his private bank

Dark or light, there is a man for every woman. There are some men who are attracted to light skin and some who are attracted to dark skin. Either way, a beautiful woman is a beautiful woman, whether light-skinned or dark skinned.

This is a compilation of crazy ways to break up with your partner (They can be funny, mean, far fetched....anything). Unfortunately people do not always break up the straightforward way. Sometimes maybe they find it hard to tell them or they cheated and you want to get them back etc.

1. By Changing your Facebook Relationship Status to Single

2. By text message. "I'm sorry but, it's over. It's not you, it's me.

3.Trick them into breaking up with you!

4. Create a mix tape of songs about breaking up and give it to them.

5. Have your new bf/gf go to his/her job and break it to them easy.


6. me: hey I want u to meet someone

guy: ok who is it

me: it's ur ex

guy: i don't understand

me: (hold out hand) it's nice to meet u


7. Get your best friend to do it for you


8. Do not answer your phone(he will get the picture eventually)


9. Start looking like a hot mess when you go out in public


10. Tell him you do not want to have sex until you are married( That will scare any man away )


11. Tell him that your period lasts for 25 days every month( do the math)


12. Change the locks(if he has a key)


13. I'm awfully sorry, but I have asexual tendencies...


14. It's you, not me...I mean it's me, not you.


15. Send a box of pizza with the words "I'm breaking up with you", Dig in"

16. I want a baby.


17. I've been thinking about us getting married.

18. My ex had a much bigger.. (this is where you get smacked )

19. I find that if you tell 'em straight-up to go away, they just want you more (Go figure?). Perhaps moaning someone else's name right before....ya' know....might do it.

20. You look too much like my brother, I can't see you anymore.

21. I was born with a penis

22. Here's the phone number of my doctor, I think you and he should talk...

23. Three simple words. "I am gay"

24. You've been a great rebound, but the game's now over

25. Tell them your other boyfriend/girlfriend doesn't like you dating other people

26. Your new voicemail tells them it's over.

27. Roses are red violets are blue I'm single now and so are you

28. By singing a song! “This love” by Maroon 5

29.Pick a fight and say, I just cannot deal with this gather all your things, so you want have to come back and just leave!!!

30.Tell them that you are going to the laundry mat, have all your clothes ready to go, and just never go back.


How did you break up with your partner?

fasho01: Truly that is all ladies need but not what they want. They want the exact opposite & even if they have that man you have just analysed they will still crave the badt guy.

Not all ladies, i have never craved nor wanted a bad guy, do not generalise all ladies the same way.

You don't need a Tall Handsome Man who is Rich and owns a fleet of cars and Mansions. You don't need a Man who will travel with you across the world, neither do you need a Man who will buy you everything you desire and make love to you passionately all the time.

WHAT YOU NEED IS:A man who will treat you right and respect you as well as Has the Fear and Wisdom as well as Knowledge of God in him. A man who has a Good heart and will love you till the end of time. A man who will do his best to support you in your goals of life and also have a Happy family with.


A man who cry with you and laugh with you as well as share every bit of moment with you. A man who is always available when you need him and will even do the Laundry when you are sick as well as cook for you when you are pregnant. A man who is never too busy to ignore you but rather stay focused and love you as his loving wife, friend and partner for life....

Emmy9ite: The guy has rabies! check your dog well..lol. Seriously! mehn, That's really serious o.

we both do not have dogs

This is quite embarrassing to say but my boyfriend likes to smell my ass. Like I"l be with him perhaps lying down then next thing he"ll go down and smell my ass? Is this some kind of fetish or is this a normal thing.

For generations they have signified femininity and glamour - but a pair of high heels was once an essential accessory for men.

Beautiful, provocative, sexy - high heels may be all these things and more, but even their most ardent fans wouldn't claim they were practical.



They're no good for hiking or driving. They get stuck in things. Women in heels are advised to stay off the grass - and also ice, cobbled streets and posh floors.

And high heels don't tend to be very comfortable. It is almost as though they just weren't designed for walking in.

Originally, they weren't.

"The high heel was worn for centuries throughout the near east as a form of riding footwear," says Elizabeth Semmelhack of the Bata Shoe Museum in Toronto.

Good horsemanship was essential to the fighting styles of the Persia - the historical name for modern-day Iran.

"When the soldier stood up in his stirrups, the heel helped him to secure his stance so that he could shoot his bow and arrow more effectively," says Semmelhack.

At the end of the 16th Century, Persia's Shah Abbas I had the largest cavalry in the world. He was keen to forge links with rulers in Western Europe to help him defeat his great enemy, the Ottoman Empire.

So in 1599, Abbas sent the first Persian diplomatic mission to Europe - it called on the courts of Russia, Norway, Germany and Spain.

A wave of interest in all things Persian passed through Western Europe. Persian style shoes were enthusiastically adopted by aristocrats, who sought to give their appearance a virile, masculine edge that, it suddenly seemed, only heeled shoes could supply.

As the wearing of heels filtered into the lower ranks of society, the aristocracy responded by dramatically increasing the height of their shoes - and the high heel was born.

In the muddy, rutted streets of 17th Century Europe, these new shoes had no utility value whatsoever - but that was the point.

"One of the best ways that status can be conveyed is through impracticality," says Semmelhack, adding that the upper classes have always used impractical, uncomfortable and luxurious clothing to announce their privileged status.

"They aren't in the fields working and they don't have to walk far."

When it comes to history's most notable shoe collectors, the Imelda Marcos of his day was arguably Louis XIV of France. For a great king, he was rather diminutively proportioned at only five foot four (1.63m).

He supplemented his stature by a further 10cm with heels, often elaborately decorated with depictions of battle scenes.

The heels and soles were always red - the dye was expensive and carried a martial overtone. The fashion soon spread overseas - Charles II of England's coronation portrait of 1661 features him wearing a pair of enormous red, French style heels - although he was over six foot tall (1.85m) to begin with.

In the 1670s, Louis XIV issued an edict that only members of his court were allowed to wear red heels. In theory, all anyone in French society had to do to check whether someone was in favour with the king was to glance downwards. In practice, unauthorised, imitation heels were available.
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Red soles are back

Although Europeans were first attracted to heels because the Persian connection gave them a macho air, a craze in women's fashion for adopting elements of men's dress meant their use soon spread to women and children.

"In the 1630s you had women cutting their hair, adding epaulettes to their outfits," says Semmelhack.

"They would smoke pipes, they would wear hats that were very masculine. And this is why women adopted the heel - it was in an effort to masculinise their outfits."

From that time, Europe's upper classes followed a unisex shoe fashion until the end of the 17th Century, when things began to change again.

"You start seeing a change in the heel at this point," says Helen Persson, a curator at the Victoria and Albert Museum in London. "Men started to have a squarer, more robust, lower, stacky heel, while women's heels became more slender, more curvaceous."

The toes of women's shoes were often tapered so that when the tips appeared from her skirts, the wearer's feet appeared to be small and dainty.

Fast forward a few more years and the intellectual movement that came to be known as the Enlightenment brought with it a new respect for the rational and useful and an emphasis on education rather than privilege. Men's fashion shifted towards more practical clothing. In England, aristocrats began to wear simplified clothes that were linked to their work managing country estates.

It was the beginning of what has been called the Great Male Renunciation, which would see men abandon the wearing of jewellery, bright colours and ostentatious fabrics in favour of a dark, more sober, and homogenous look. Men's clothing no longer operated so clearly as a signifier of social class, but while these boundaries were being blurred, the differences between the sexes became more pronounced.

"There begins a discussion about how men, regardless of station, of birth, if educated could become citizens," says Semmelhack.

"Women, in contrast, were seen as emotional, sentimental and uneducatable. Female desirability begins to be constructed in terms of irrational fashion and the high heel - once separated from its original function of horseback riding - becomes a primary example of impractical dress."

High heels were seen as foolish and effeminate. By 1740 men had stopped wearing them altogether.

But it was only 50 years before they disappeared from women's feet too, falling out of favour after the French Revolution.

By the time the heel came back into fashion, in the mid-19th Century, photography was transforming the way that fashions - and the female self-image - were constructed.

Pornographers were amongst the first to embrace the new technology, taking pictures of naked women for dirty postcards, positioning models in poses that resembled classical nudes, but wearing modern-day high heels.

Elizabeth Semmelhack believes that this association with pornography led to high heels being seen an erotic adornment for women.

The 1960s saw a return of low heeled cowboy boots for men and some dandies strutted their stuff in platform shoes in the 1970s.

But the era of men walking around on their toes seems to be behind us. Could we ever return to an era of guys squeezing their big hairy feet into four-inch, shiny, brightly coloured high heels?

"Absolutely," says Semmelhack. There is no reason, she believes, why the high heel cannot continue to be ascribed new meanings - although we may have to wait for true gender equality first.

"If it becomes a signifier of actual power, then men will be as willing to wear it as women."

source: http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-21151350

I met a Swedish national in Berlin while I was taking rest in the Press Centre during IFA 2007 trade show. He said he is a part-time technology journalist and part-time pastor. He did his higher studies in UK.

"So...you are from India...are you a Hindi?" he asked, while having coffee with me.

"Hindi is our national language. You mean to ask am I a Hindu?"

"Yes - I mean religion..."

"Yes. I am a Hindu by birth"

"Do you have Christianity there?"

"Yes, of course. Christianity came to India, centuries before it reached you in Europe" I said.

"Oh, really? Still you are a Hindu?" he asked again.

"Yes - why?" I was curious.

"Don't tell me you worship monkeys and rats..." he said with a smile.

"As a matter of fact, yes, we do"

"You can't be serious. You look like an educated person..."

"I am very serious and I worship monkey-god and an elephant-god...what's that to do with education?" I said.

"You must be joking....People were worshipping animals and trees during pre-historic times...but todays educated people, no way!"

"In fact, we have a pantheon of many gods and we can worship god in any forms..."

"Hey, come on....there is only one GOD" he said.

"Really? I am not sure about it..."

"There is only one GOD...a singular GOD..."

"Better say, you have the concept of a single god...that's your belief..."

"Concept? Belief...I am telling you the truth..."

"Who said so...?"

"All religious scriptures and sacred books say so... Christianity and Judaism say there is only one God. Islam also says so...”

"Those are great religions...what they say must be true. I don't know about it... I am not a scholar in Semitic religions or in Hinduism. So let's don't talk about the Holy books and religions...I am not capable to discuss it....But about GOD, I have a question."

"Yes - of course..."

"Ok... you shouldn't feel angry...I didn't feel angry when you ridiculed my gods...My question is based on your opinion of single god concept..." I reminded him.

"Shoot"

"You say that there is only one god - single god, right?

"That's right"

"Your single God claims that he is the only God, who demands you to should worship him failing which he would roast you in hell fire...”

"It is not fully correct...but continue...I am listening..."

"That means. You are following Monotheism - that is the belief in a single god. Monotheism insists that only a single God exists. Other gods are “false” or even demonic..."

"Yes- you can say that..."

"For me, it is difficult to accept..."

"Why?"

"If a God says: “You will worship none but me, that you will associate none with me, and that none of you shall set up mortals as deities besides me. If you commit the foulest sin by worshiping any other Gods (other than me) or associating partner with me, I shall throw you in hell fire as a punishment for this sin." - That's what, in a nutshell, your GOD says right?”

"What's wrong in saying that? You need to have faith in Him"

"Friend, isn’t this self-contradictory and dangerous?"

"How come?"

"First, explain to me about the contradictions...Had there been really only one God, it would not have been possible for man to find another God to worship, right?"

"Hmm..."

"Had the God been confident that there is no other God except him, he should not have been jealous of another God, right?"

"Yes - but who is jealous here?"

"Think...If the GOD knew that there is no other God, he would have been confident that people will not find any another God to worship, right?"

"These are all mis-interpretations....that's not just right..." his voice became bit feeble.

"Think without biased, without conditionings...think with clarity...."

- The behavioral pattern of any single GOD in such concepts suggests that he is not confident that he is the only God. He seems always to be suspicious that there may be other Gods and people may worship those Gods instead of him.

- So the insecure GOD warns man not to worship another God. It, of course, is not a real god's message. Can’t you clearly see the insecurity and whims and fancy of a narrow-minded human being behind this message?

- Can any GOD be always feel threatened that a member of his followers’ gang may slip out of his grip and start to worship another God (probably the real creator of the universe)? So he had to enforce strict law that if any one of his gang tries to desert Him, he should immediately be put to death for apostasy.

- How can any GOD be so insecure? The single insecure god theory converts the basic instinct to insecurity right from the childhood. The follower’s behavior may be fostered by GOD’s violent teachings for establishing Himself as the sole proprietary God of the world.

- And one more thing - you say, your singular god does everything. If there is only one powerful god who controls everything, doesn't that also mean he creates bad things and causes bad things to happen?

"Do these reflections make any sense? Should I believe such a story or such a GOD?"

"You are talking non-sense, ridiculous..." his face turned red.................................for full article please visit or click here: http://udaypai.in/?p=54

My mother taught me TO APPRECIATE A JOB WELL DONE...
"If you're going kill each other, do it outside - I just finished cleaning!"

My mother taught me RELIGION...
"You better pray that will come out of the carpet."

My mother taught me about TIME TRAVEL...
"If you don't straighten up, I'm going to knock you into the middle of next week!"

My mother taught me LOGIC...
"Because I said so, that's why."


My mother taught me LOGIC... #2
"If you fall out of that swing and break your neck, you're not going to the store with me."

My mother taught me FORESIGHT...
"Make sure you wear clean underwear, in case you're in an accident."

My mother taught me IRONY...
"Keep crying and I'll give you something to cry about."

My mother taught me about the science of OSMOSIS...
"Shut your mouth and eat your supper!"

My mother taught me about CONTORTIONISM...
"Will you LOOK at the dirt on the back of your neck!"

My mother taught me about STAMINA...
"You'll sit there 'till all that spinach is finished."

My mother taught me about WEATHER...
"It looks as if a tornado swept through your room."


My mother taught me how to solve PHYSICS PROBLEMS...
"If I yelled because I saw a meteor coming toward you, would you listen THEN?"

My mother taught me about HYPOCRISY...
"If I've told you once, I've told you a million times: Don't exaggerate!"

My mother taught me about BEHAVIOR MODIFICATION...
"Stop acting like your father!"

My mother taught me about ENVY...
"There are millions of less fortunate children in this world who don't have wonderful parents like you do!"


source: ivillage

190-the-clown:


can i kiss you

Lol you are funny

homesteady: Messy as in, he leaves his saliva all over your mouth?

Yes -[

Harbosede02: funi,u guys can jst avoid kissing 4 sum tym,kissing is nt d only fin dat can be done in a relationship..mayb if u refuse 2 kiss im,he wud learn aw 2 kiss properly,bt dis 1 u want 2 dump im cos of d way he kisses u,don't u love im ni??

I do love him, that is why am still with him regardless. It's difficult to understand unless you have experienced a bad kisser. Do you think am happy that i do not enjoy nor want to kiss my boyfriend?

tsleazy: Geez so nasty to imagine...thanks fo' spoiling my breakfast by the way.

[color=#770077]You find it disgusting bcuz its not in ur culture. i like to be neutral on the unfamiliar, i like the challenge of my beliefs, it helps me to think the world is not for me only, that i shouldn't look at the world through my eyes only. Learn about it.