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Romance › Re: How To Make A Lady Crave Your Attention. by T3Amo(f): 8:48pm On Jan 30, 2018

When you hear advice like this, you really need to apply some common sense.

You are ignoring a lot of girls now. Not intentionally, of course, but you certainly don’t pay attention to every woman you meet. Are they chasing you?

Let’s assume not.

Now, think of the last time some girl ignored you. Did you become more enthralled with her?

Probably not- you don’t even know her.

So, not to argue against a straw man, let’s detail the full strategy:

Step 1: You get a girl interested in you. <-This is the step you are missing.

Step 2: You tell her you will call but you don’t. <-Mind games.

Step 3: She can’t stop thinking about you and makes the first move. <-Fantasy

Does this work? No. It makes you a shit head. Do you want to be a shit head? Well, it’s better than being a nice guy…

Sigh.

Let’s examine the theory behind this strategy. Men who are studying this sort of strategy generally aren’t having success meeting women. Ignoring women isn’t going to help.

The concept behind this is not to overdo the initial contact- like, don’t friend her on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, WhatsApp and text her six times all in the same day.

Best advice? Treat people the way you want to be treated. Don’t try to manipulate them into liking you- it is more likely to backfire and make you look like a creep.

Problem: girl doesn't like me.

Solution: figure out why, and change it if possible and if it's worth the effort.

Better solution: find a girl that likes me exactly as I am.

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Romance › Husband Constantly Oggles Women by T3Amo(op): 4:58pm On Jan 05, 2018

got married last year July and before that we were in a long distant relationship for several years(both in different countries) before coming together 6 months before our wedding.

I think that was why I never noticed or should I say all the times we were together he never oggled women in front of me. The first time I noticed it was we were at a wedding. I was part of the bridal team and we just finished and was getting food for him. I caught him oogling(not just staring) at a lady over and over again and staring at her legs, ass etc and just continuously staring at her that he never even noticed when I came up next to him. I was upset and I could see he was embarrassed about it and said nothing.

This happened a couple of times. Basically every time we step out of the house the first girl he sees it's like he steps into a trance and starts ogling right next to me sometimes even turning around. He literally does this to every single woman and it is starting to work on my nerves.

I have spoken to him about it that yes everyone, m and f, notice good looking people. Staring briefly and then going on is okay. But when you are in the presence of your wife and you constantly oggle women unashamely for so long is so disrespectful to me. It really makes me feel bad to the point I start to dread going out with him cos I know will have to deal with his ogling.

Not only is it uncomfortable for me but at times the ladies he oogles also notice and it can get uncomfortable too especially when they are with their partners.

I really don't know what to do about this anymore because if we were just dating I would have ended the relationship already but now we are married.

Sometimes I also feel like "ogling men" just so that he can see how it feels like so that he can stop it.

Am I the only one going through this? How do you deal with it? Men do you have to oggle other women like that especially when your wife/gf is present.

Family › Re: Husband Constantly Oggles Women by T3Amo(op): 4:49pm On Jan 05, 2018

elantraceey:
Oh Mehn, you're in deep shit

please forgive me for laughing but your husband needs deliverance

Girl I can't take it anymore cry

Family › Re: Husband Constantly Oggles Women by T3Amo(op): 4:48pm On Jan 05, 2018

delishpot:
Ahhh...........the beauty of being a man.
Your wife will beg you to please look small and commot eyes and she will pet you ontop of it. Imagine if it was the wife even smiling interestingly while answering greetings from males while the hubby is there. Dem for Don throw her bags out through window. Man's life sweet o.

That is the hypocrisy. When men stare at me etc he doesn't really like it yet it is okay for him to do that with other ladies

Family › Husband Constantly Oggles Women by T3Amo(op): 4:37pm On Jan 05, 2018

I got married last year July and before that we were in a long distant relationship for several years(both in different countries) before coming together 6 months before our wedding.

I think that was why I never noticed or should I say all the times we were together he never oggled women in front of me. The first time I noticed it was we were at a wedding. I was part of the bridal team and we just finished and was getting food for him. I caught him oogling(not just staring) at a lady over and over again and staring at her legs, ass etc and just continuously staring at her that he never even noticed when I came up next to him. I was upset and I could see he was embarrassed about it and said nothing.

This happened a couple of times. Basically every time we step out of the house the first girl he sees it's like he steps into a trance and starts ogling right next to me sometimes even turning around. He literally does this to every single woman and it is starting to work on my nerves.

I have spoken to him about it that yes everyone, m and f, notice good looking people. Staring briefly and then going on is okay. But when you are in the presence of your wife and you constantly oggle women unashamely for so long is so disrespectful to me. It really makes me feel bad to the point I start to dread going out with him cos I know will have to deal with his ogling.

Not only is it uncomfortable for me but at times the ladies he oogles also notice and it can get uncomfortable too especially when they are with their partners.

I really don't know what to do about this anymore because if we were just dating I would have ended the relationship already but now we are married.

Sometimes I also feel like "ogling men" just so that he can see how it feels like so that he can stop it.

Am I the only one going through this? How do you deal with it? Men do you have to oggle other women like that especially when your wife/gf is present.

Family › Re: Nigerian Man Visits His Wife In Sudan, Surprises Her At Her Graduation by T3Amo(f): 5:01pm On Jun 07, 2017

JasonScolari:
Nigerians now study at Sudan?

Congrats to Mrs Eeyrah Manhood.

who said his wife was a Nigerian? She could be a Sudanese.

Romance › Re: Wife Of Uber Driver Responds, Defends Husband by T3Amo(f): 4:30pm On May 22, 2017

porozhniy:
Same rule should apply to Ms. Exs' narrative, that she accused him doesn't make it true either.

Ms. Ex could be separated from her husband when she met Mr. Uber.
Mr. Uber may have been unaware of that small fact.

In the run up to the U.S presidential election, faceless women turned up to accuse Trump of sexual assault so as to discredit him before the voting public.d

What makes Mr.Uber trash? We weren't there when the water passed under the bridge, so how would you ascertain if he was guilty or not?

If the so called girl was separated from her h
So called husband than what is the problem?

She has even denied it as well as her friends and even suggested that those with proof of the so called marriage and those who attended the so called marriage should come forward. Besides that's not the point.

The guy is trash because he is a despicable human being , abuser, leech and a gold digger.

About the second ladies comment a DNA test will prove it besides some friends of the lady( a guy BTW) confirmed it too.

Wrt Donald Trump the was truth to it and proof. Just because 99 were right and 1 was wrong does not mean that he didn't do it. Even if 1 was right is more than enough.

Perhaps you are like Shola and hence will never see how his behaviour is trash but Karma is real. What you do will always come back.

I won't have a debate about this so if that's what you looking for don't bother to quote me.

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Romance › Re: Ex-Gilrfriend Of The Uber Driver That Married A Nigerian Lady Makes Revelations by T3Amo(f): 2:50pm On May 22, 2017

Everything you do will always come back

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Romance › Re: Ex-Gilrfriend Of The Uber Driver That Married A Nigerian Lady Makes Revelations by T3Amo(f): 2:49pm On May 22, 2017

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Romance › Re: Wife Of Uber Driver Responds, Defends Husband by T3Amo(f): 2:32pm On May 22, 2017

porozhniy:
Lol at all the women attacking the couple for getting married under 10 months. So y'all will no longer jump ship if he doesn't propose within 6 months?
Why did you all left the part where the said ex was married to attack Mrs Uber for defending Mr Uber.
If she doesn't defend him, who the heck will!

As for the gold digger crew; what is good for the goose, is it no longer good for the gander?

Just because his family and her husband claimed his ex was married does not mean it's true.

Firstly would a married women publicly post such on social media when her friends, husband, family, media and Co will see?

The said ladies friends have even publicly come to deny the claim that she is not married.

Secondly the guy after "knowing" she was married still continued to date her for 3/4 years. What does that say about him.

And another lady now after seeing his ex comments has confirmed that this same guy did something similar and he has a 5year old kid in Benin.

Am sorry but that guy is nothing but trash

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Romance › Re: The Lady Who Ask Me For Baby Contract. by T3Amo(f): 9:27am On May 18, 2017

You need to be very careful with such serious decisions. What if something happens to the lady in question or she dies during labour.

What will happen to the child? As the father it would be your responsibility to take care of the child or would you abandon the child to be raised in an orphanage?

Secondly a lot of women won't go for a man who has a child with another woman. What if you meet a lady you want to marry but because of this silly decision of urs you loose out?

Every action has a consequence and trust me whether good or bad it will come back to you. undecided

Fashion › Re: See The Dress A Lady Asked For VS What She Got by T3Amo(f): 11:39pm On May 17, 2017

TrapQueen77:

Hang on...the neck of that person tho..why so big? and the body but the feet so tiny...meeehnn...everything in this pic is juz so wrong...

That's because it's not a person but a mannequin undecided

Romance › Re: Nigerian Lady In Italy Cries As Her Boyfriend Dumps Her (Video, Photos) by T3Amo(f): 12:23pm On May 17, 2017

baby124:
The guy that dumped her is the one making the video.

I thought I was the only one who noticed it. Smh very childish

Romance › Re: Nigerian Lady In Italy Cries As Her Boyfriend Dumps Her (Video, Photos) by T3Amo(f): 12:22pm On May 17, 2017

baby124:
The guy that dumped her is the one making the video.

I thought I was the only one who noticed it. Smh

Crime › Re: Ghanaian Man Gruesomely Murders His Girlfriend (Graphic Photos) by T3Amo(f): 12:15pm On May 17, 2017

NwaObinkita:

Another slay queen slayed.

Waste of a ~~good~~ dirty lay.

She could not even shave her armpits

You are a disgusting human being. Smdh

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Romance › Re: Man Looks Uninterested In His His Wife's Backside In This Pre Wedding Pics by T3Amo(f): 10:56pm On May 11, 2017

lefulefu:
hopefully it wont be d body of d lady u crushing on

It's probably pregnancy stretch marks. Some women have it bad after child birth.

Romance › Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by T3Amo(f): 3:11pm On May 11, 2017

malele:
Nawah o for most 9ja Men oo, how can u tell a girl that visited u the first day to enter kitchen and cook for u and ur friends. Nawah ooo

Lol yet the same men complain when some ladies bring their friends on the first date to come and eat.

Both are wrong but I guess everyone can justify their reasons and actions.

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Romance › Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by T3Amo(f): 3:05pm On May 11, 2017

Kakamorufu:
buh it's right to collect money on the first date

When did I say it's right to collect money on the first date? Did you not read the part where I said if the girl demanded shopping on the first date since its a man's duty to provide. A lot of men would be insulting the lady.

It works two ways. Nobody should expect wife and husband duties on the first date. If the lady decides by herself to cook and clean on the first date and a guy decides to be an ATM giving money out on the first date then it's their choice.

But demanding things on the first date in an uncouth manner simply because of "gender role responsibilities" and having an entitled attitude is a big no no.

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Romance › Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by T3Amo(f): 2:58pm On May 11, 2017

Lifestone:
Maybe we should try and find out who dump who! It's most likely that it's the guy that dumped her. As a woman I will respect men that eats at home than those that eats outside

Honestly I could care less who did the dumping. It's good riddance to bad rubbish. That guy has no manners and little regard for her.

She would be one of the millions of men who use such girls for cooking and cleaning and then still go and marry someone else.

On a first date there should not be an expectations of wife and husband duties.

The reason that men generally pay for the first date is because they are the ones that approached the lady and asked her out. However am not opposed to paying too or taking my man out at times and cooking.But what is required is respect as well.

There is a time and place for everything and the place and the approach the guy did on the first date was just sickening.

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Romance › Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by T3Amo(f): 2:57pm On May 11, 2017

Lifestone:
Maybe we should try and find out who dump who! It's most likely that it's the guy that dumped her. As a woman I will respect men that eats at home than those that eats outside

Honestly I could care less who did the dumping. It's good riddance to bad rubbish. That guy has no manners and little regard for her. She would be one of the millions of men who use such girls for cooking and cleaning and then still go and marry someone else.

On a first date there should not be an expectations of wife and husband duties. The reason that men generally pay for the first date is because they are the ones that approached the lady and asked her out. However am not opposed to paying too or taking my man out at times and cooking. But what is required is respect as well.

There is a time and place for everything and the place and the approach the guy did on the first date was just sickening.

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Romance › Re: I Dumped A Potential Boyfriend Because He Asked Me To Cook - Anne Oluchi Ifediba by T3Amo(f): 2:37pm On May 11, 2017

I would have dumped him too. The guy is very wrong on the first date inviting her over so that she can cook for him and his friends and justifying it because she is a woman. His manner and approach was very wrong.
This would turn most women off.

Imagine if the girl on the first date invited the guy to her house and started demanding that he buy groceries and do shopping for her because after all he is a man and it's his duty to provide? A lot of men here would be calling her all sorts of names. Hypocrites.

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TV/Movies › Re: Queen Sugar Series by T3Amo(op): 1:59pm On Sep 11, 2016

People all over social media have been raving about this show and the fact that it was renewed for a second season ahead of its first television premiere says a lot.

I have watched the first two episodes and it seems promising, there fact that one of the lead actors Kofi Siriboe is very easy on the eyes makes it eveb easier to watch.

Cast
1. Kofi Siriboe as Ralph Angel Bordelon.
2.Dawn-Lyen Gardner as Charley Bordelon West

TV/Movies › Queen Sugar Series by T3Amo(op): 1:33pm On Sep 11, 2016

Queen Sugar is an American drama television series, which was created, directed and executive produced by Ava DuVernay alongside Oprah Winfrey. The series is based on the novel of the same name by Natalie Baszile.

Crime › Re: We Switch Off Generators So Owners Will Open Doors — Robbery Suspect by T3Amo(f): 1:21pm On Sep 05, 2016

Maxcollins042:
Before you started throwing punches to the air you should have showed a little empathy?

Did you consider the time frame that the deposit was needed in order to save his sister's life?

What if the time frame is short,would brick laying generate N20,000 abi N10,000 at such short notice?

Am not in anyway justifying his action but conditions like his such as losing a loved one and you are handicapped can make you do the unthinkable. We should pray not to find ourselves in such position.

But he can't consider other people. Who knows how long their victims suffered to get what they now have. A lot of innocent people loose their lives during such robberies. Are they not losing their loved ones too ?

Truth is everyone has their problems and some people work very hard to get where they are. Everyone has a choice. I know of a guy who grew up very poor. He had one pair of jeans and no shoes, but today he is a doctor. He could have easily turned to crime but he did not.

People who commit crimes are simply lazy and evil and no matter how poor you are there is no justification for it. Imagine if everyone who is poor, or going through hardships decides to do crime, what would happen to the country?

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Romance › Re: 13 Signs That Make You Know That Your Man Is Madly In Love With You by T3Amo(f): 11:35pm On Sep 01, 2016

TeamLeader:
You are waiting for a man that will giv you all these abi, just be patient JESUS IS COMING SOON!!!

It's not impossible. My hubby is all of the above

Crime › Re: Kenyan Girl Who Stabbed Her Boyfriend To Death Wins Beauty Pageant In Prison by T3Amo(f): 11:23pm On Sep 01, 2016

Damfostopper:
miss prison or Miss killer.... Kenyans and stewpidity

The whole point of prison is to rehabilitate people back to society eventually. As hard as it is to believe, prisoners are human beings as well. Some people makw mistakes. One act of anger can change the course of your life completely. These people need to be rehabilitated well so as not to come out even more hardened or psychotic. People are in jail to serve time ans improve as individuals.

Sports › Re: Morolake Akinosun Won Gold Medal For USA by T3Amo(f): 1:38am On Aug 22, 2016

pippimp:
Understandable.

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Sports › Re: Morolake Akinosun Won Gold Medal For USA by T3Amo(f): 1:23am On Aug 22, 2016

Horsesmouth:
Frankly I dont understand how I could be a fuckboy online with someone I dont even know.
I maintain that Ireneony is prettier than you by leagues.

Lol you are such a slowpoke. So in your mind telling me she is prettier than me is for what purpose exactly ? That gal is always spewing garbage and today I decided to call her out, then you come out from no where and make a dumb ass stupid sense less comment. To make matters worse ur a man. Stop being a pssy ass nigga. PM her already and stop quoting me rubbish.

If I am not referring to you directly next time mind ur business. I know she can definitely reply on her own!

Sports › Re: Morolake Akinosun Won Gold Medal For USA by T3Amo(f): 1:19am On Aug 22, 2016

pippimp:
Woooah. Calm down lady. Such language. Sheeesh. I'd hate to see you really angry.

I am calm

. I can just be very expressive esp when the so called ish hits the fan lipsrsealed

Sports › Re: Morolake Akinosun Won Gold Medal For USA by T3Amo(f): 1:10am On Aug 22, 2016

Horsesmouth:
From where I am standing Ireneony is finer than T3Amo and Morolake Akinosun.
Just saying.

Lol one of her fckboys has arrived. Firstly I don't give a toss who you think is finer or not. I do not have a holier than thou attitude looking down on other women's looks. she called someone ugly which had no relevance to the discussion at hand and I simply told her she ain't Beyonce either. After all this are you going to get anything from her? undecided

Lastly my comment was for ireodeny and not u so next time mind ur bussiness. When females are talking amongst themselves do you go and start responding in real life to things that do not concern you? So not only are u a fk boy u a pucciassnigga. Smdh

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Sports › Re: Morolake Akinosun Won Gold Medal For USA by T3Amo(f): 12:34am On Aug 22, 2016

ireneony:
i tire ooo..if na other tribe u go see a nigeria girl won gold medal for USA.

The girl nor fine self

Firstly her name is a dead give away to wish tribe she belongs and to be honest who cares. If she is Yoruba she is yoruba. I really don't see the big deal in it.

You say she is not fine and so what? Are you going to marry her? At least she is doing something conducive with her time unlike you.

BTW you aint beyonce either and the fact that you have a nasty personality makes you uglier. Just because some fk boys have been blowing ur fan on Nairaland now you feeling like beyonce.

Fyi before you even start to make this a tribal issue i ain't even yoruba. Grow some brain cells please.

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Fashion › Re: Mr. NAIRALAND Contest 2016 - Semi-final by T3Amo(f): 4:29pm On Aug 03, 2016

I vote for:

Photoshoot, iamkingzlee

Cc Nljega

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