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in europe, even as an ordinary resident.if any strange money enters my account beyond what I earn.i will be summoned to give account of it.we need to get to the level where everybody is questionable to the source of their wealth.it is in nigeria,you see a young boy driving the latest jeep and even in europe where you manufacture them,they hardly use them.it is in nigeria where you see people applaud criminals because they are members of their tribe.it is in our country that when you try to expose corruption, they tell you that you are also corrupt and they dig into your past life to find cases where you have been involved in corruption.i was discussing with somebody that a particular government was corrupt and the person told me that even thou that government was corrupt,every body enjoyed. any body with ridiculousamount amount of money should be able to explain the source.










[quote author= post=75023458]Look at the youths that their future is being stolen away still supporting all manners of CRIMINALS!!
And you see them begging for 100 naira data to come online and support a man with billions and billions of naira that he 'forgot' he had, along with 55 mansions!!!
With youths like this, the future is bleak.
All your future kids will ask you with a knock on your head what the h3ll you did with your youth.
Shame on you all!


[b]God bless you for this.[/quote]

my problem with nigerians is thry don't tell themselves the truth.we need to ask,who are his friends.we know a rich man makes friend with the rich and that is why the rich keep getting richer and the poor poorer.the gap between the rich and the poor get wider and

afroniger:
Oh really? Is that your plan for NNPC? And where does that leave the rest of Nigerians that aren't your 'friends'?

if you will be truthful to yourself.the negative name that people have about nigeria did not start now.you seem to be biased.i love to say the truth.nigeria had a very bad reputation before Buhari came unless you are not truthful.some of this negative view is even caused by nigerians living abroad.in malaysia ,nigerians are not rented house because of their nationally.they are known to be scammers and people are afraid if them.we blame everything on government.the truth is that the whole system in nigeria is corrupt.a situation in which people believe that it's ok when politicians steal and nothing is wrong provided everybody is enjoying.a situation in which people even defraud members of their own family.i will say that corruption starts with the ordinary people and in the home and escalates in to the everyday life and government.there is corruption in every country in the world but the level of corruption is very low as compared to that in nigeria

frank202012:
good write up,Nigeria is not a nation...
that's the only mistake in ur write up...
man made country...

yes.the negative view about Nigerian are being propagated by the media and also the people of Nigerians.some European countries are much more poorer than Nigeria but you will never see them talk about it on their media.in Germany,you see alot of people sleeping outside in the cold with no home ,you will not see it on their tv.alot of people are in the europe with no source of living and hungry.you don't hear it on social media.Nigeria is far better than some countries thou many may not believe it.The problem is that we are our own problem.The opposition party sees it as a duty to tell the outside world that nigerians are suffering,the government go out to seek aid from international bodies that their people live in poverty ,hungry bloggers are used by politicians to spread bad news about nigerians. foreigners learn everything they know about nigerians on social media.you will never see our Nigerian media proclaim something good about nigeria .80% of what they do is negative.when you ask an average nigerian about nigeria.they tell you nigeria is a bad place and some people even call Nigeria a zoo.when.you call your country a zoo,then what do you want others to call it.every country has got its own bad side,right now we are dealing with corruption ,corruption is a big problem in Nigeria,it was handed over to US and it will take years to bring to a minimum level.it may be very hard to eliminate corruption but it can be reduced.the negative view people have about nigerians is also displayed abroad,some nigerians living abroad engage in very bad activities and bring bad reputation to the country .so the problem is not only with the government but also with the people itself.

dear forget Germany or any eu .you have got 3 kids.you need alot of money to migrate with those kids i am talking of more than 10 million naira for just the kids and tankless of your hubby.i live in europe and it's really difficult working as a mother on full time.children are giving full care and most mother don't work full time and some even menial job.when you don't take care of your kids.the government collect them from you .you lose them to the government.life abroad is not as easy as nigerians think.their citizens are considered first and then foreigners.you may be lucky to get a job but don't think it will come easy.assuming you are single without kids,hustling may be easier and you dont have to think about kids.i believe instead of spending more than 10 million to come abroad.you had better use it in Nigeria.However,i believe instead of relocating ,you can use that money in business that involve travelling abroad to buy and sell goods like clothing and legal items

Gokoyer0:
Op,this list is on point. But as per Germany, you may need a good German language skill before you can land a proper job after your studies. Go to Estonia if you are into IT.

i know the game plan of pdp.they have a comprehensive strategy to win the election.thry have media team to tarnish the present administration image.they produce fake news ,come up with fake videos.they have people on Facebook to spread fake news.its all game plan to win election and spoil the mind of the people to the present government.we are in the era where parties engage in social media warfare.

dayomike:
With the comments I read so far it clearly shows that kids have taken over nairaland and they refuse to use their brains effectively. No where trader moni or market moni agents put on any thing that has political party logo on it, they put on trader moni vest, they are BOI staff and bith the trader moni and market moni beneficiaries data were taken electronically not by the one you prepared to tarnish the VPs image. Don't let hatred turn you people to dunce. Its election and not war for heaven sake. I pitty your offsprings

i agree strongly with you.90% of the problem is caused by the people.corruption is a big thing and can't be totally eradicated by any government. it can only be reduced with time.corruption starts with the ordinary people on the street and then at the peak in government.living abroad is not as easy as people think and every country has got it own challenges.the issue in nigeria is that the people support corruption and I can't believe yhat some people like an administration because despite the high level of corruption ,the people still have a little enjoyment .it's a case of somebody stealing billions and keeping the people silent with only 100 naira.corruption starts when a young boy buys an expensive jeep and nobody questions the source because he uses his evil money to help people.its when parent are happy with ill gotten wealth of their children without questioning source.i must say in the developed country.the government knows what everybdoy earns and any unusual amount in your account is questioned .in Nigeria,it's opposite. people have unexplained money in account .thry are supported by bankers and bank managers to loot .

Avedonn:
Canadian police had nothing do to with his death.

He died as a result of extreme cold.

Living abroad is not all that rosy as some people are painting it.

If only Nigeria can be fixed, many people would prefer staying back than travelling out. But unfortunately government alone can not fix the country. It's a collective responsibility between government and citizens to make a country work.

All the democratic elected government from 1999 to date kept on coming with different good policies to make Nigeria work but it kept on failing due to the simple fact that Nigerians refused to change their ways.

Yes, I know some elements of our government officials are corrupt but that shouldn't stop us from developing.

Take Kenya for instance, they have an extremely corrupt government but they are developing because they have refined citizens.

Nigeria as it's today, can not be fixed and it can not work whether Buhari or Atiku wins next year's presidential elections without us the citizens changing our mentality and way of doing things.

the world is changing now and women constitute most of the problem we have in the world.The modern day woman wants equality , they want to prove they can do things better than men.they want to prove they can do without men, some women are lesbians because they feel they don't need men, they use intimacy gadgets because they feel they can do sex without a man .in some homes, they want to prove they can do things better than their husbands, they want to be richer than the men.Always trying to compete with men, they want divorce because they feel they can survive without men, when they do things they want the whole world to know they did it without any man support, they want to be the man in the house.one thing is so clear, no matter how a woman tries, she can never be a man, she can only try.we are living in a very dangerous era, the developed world give so much power to the woman and you see them abuse power, you see a woman throwing her husband out of the house.even some women when put in power are more corrupt than men.quiet a crazy world of women

its wrong when coming late becomes an habit,assuming the timing of God for a particular thing was 8am and you happenned to be there by 11pm.You missed it and may take several years to recover.However there are really no standard rule about coming to church,the purpose or reason for being late determines if it is wrong or right.God judges the heart and motive of everything, if coming to church late was caused by a situation beyond your control, God sees the very heart.Even a sinner that comes to church late may be better than some people who sit down at home and never comes at all.i discourage lateness to church but there are no fixed rules about it.Somebody may wake up feeling very discourage to go to church but he may need encouragement from somebody, this may be a fellow christian or a leader who decides to call him,he may eventually drag himself to church.sometimes it happens.

i think you are entitled to your own view if she does not mean anything to you.keep it to yourself.Learn to celebrate people's success because one day you will be celebrated.Her rising to fame is not man made but an acts of God.You have so much hatred in you.BBC is a big organization and for you to say they don't know what they are doing is wrong.She has covered a lot of foreign medias, how many have you covered?. Please learn to appreciate the good in others, she may not be perfect now but with hard work and encouragement from people, she can come out very strong .

NwaAmaikpe:


BBC is a shame to professional journalism!

What's Olajumoke's merit?
What's her story?
What's her future?
I bet BBC doesn't even know the name of the boy who graduated with a 5.0 CGPA.

How is she an inspiration?
Olajumoke is simply a product of sentiments and corporate prostituting.

She has never caught my attention, empathy or respect, she never will.
She has been constantly shoved down our throats by the harlotry cabal that all of a sudden, she's now someone to reckon with.

God forbid!

A generation and nation which celebrates nobodies out of sentiments, fad and ethnicity has no future.

to me , a good church is like a school.Just like there are different types of schools,some schools are really good with good teachers and various facilities.i go to church to be trained for the kingdom, its is a training ground.It is the school of the Holyspirit.i learn from my teachers(pastors, fellow christians).Just like in a school,we meet with different people,i come to associate with people, learn to relate with people who think with like minds, just like in some schools, you have very bad students who lack purpose for coming to school.we also have alot of people who come to church without purpose, they are those who are carried away by activities and other things.A good student is equipped for life through knowledge gained from school, so also a good christian is equipeed to face challenges in life from knowledge gained from attending church.In life, we have people with various gifts, nobody is perfectly with all gifts,in fellowshiping with other believers, i get to meet people with extreme wondefrul gift from God and i benefit from them.Just like some students make bad grades in school,so also some xtians are amking bad grades in their walk with God and in the church.So if you dont like the school you are going,if you have a bad teacher(pastor), it will affect your grades in life and you need to change school,if you are not really seeing the right fruits in your church, change church.that is my analogy of a church and a school

i have many biafran friends but my question is, if you all ibos now go,what are they going to do in the small region called Biafra when they can easily trade and have wide business area in a bigger Nigeria.Do you expect to still have same rights to trade in Nigeria when you go out of Nigeria,we all need each other to survive, you cant tell me that Ibos are not benefiting anything being in Nigeria.I understand that there are some areas that they are marginalized but what happens if the government decided to treat Ibos leaving in Nigeria as foreigners inthe event of them leaving.Biafra issue needs planning , not a one day thing.The business man has to know his fate in the event of any crises

bigfish3k:
Hope from October 1,you will stop touching any resource from that area to develop the places you are driving us from, then we will go
and before you start saying we don't have anything. anambra, imo and abia have oil

i am so sad that most of our youth dont know the effects of war,i watched an events where nnamdi kanu was begging from Ibos in USA for guns AND SAYING those in UK dont have money to give them guns.Ofcourse, i believe the Ibos have a right to a self existence state.However, i believe that the steps taking towards it is totally wrong and it may be absurd to compare europe and asia with Africa.If you say malysia broke, pakistan broke up, united arab broke up etc.These are two different continents and different scenerio. If you say the new trend is conducting referendum, has africa got to this level where people carry out referendum without being manipulated.Our elections are manipulated in Nigeria and i dont see any elections that is not manipulated,so asking for referendum in Africa may not be the solution. I must say that the comfortable Nigerian Igbos wont want to disintegrate, there is power in a bigger country than a smaller country.I strongly believe that the Biafra issue will come to pass some day in future, when this come, it would come naturally without any violence.Now it will be hyprocritical to deny that the approach taken by Nnamdi Kalu is a violent option,His words are not polite as a leader, he speaks carelessly which is not expected of a leader.The process of disintegeration is a long process and not something to be rushed at, there is need to plan and also it is in phases.i watched a video on the Nigerian Civil war and i saw that the Igbos lost greatly during the war, lots of children died of hunger,lots of casualty on the biafran side.There were no sign of war in the Nigerian cities, activities were going on as normal in the Nigerian states while billions of innocent igbos were dieing in masses.i am sorry,i have africans friends who have experienced war and they will tell you that war is nothing good and they wish all africans would learn from their cases.Dont be decieved by those who are saying that they can bring Biafra out without war but by referendum, what step has kanu taken towards approaching this, has he met the united nation.Does he have support of the UNITED NATION.I must say doing this without any support may cause another genocide.I believe the igbos claim to be christians,do they really know if this is the right time for BIAFRA to come out.What i believe should be done now is for Nigerians to call for restructuring, every state should be independent and control its resources and also send a share to the federal government.it is sad that most people financing Biafra are abroad, in the event of war, their family are out of nigeria,and they wont be there to die ,let our youth recieve common sense and fight against corruption and bad rulers.The Ibos are very rich and successful people in the whole world, i believe that if they develop their region without waiting for the government, the life of the people can be comfortable and the standard of living improved greatly.

gentlechyke:
okay

How to permanently end Biafran agitation

A Yoruba friend asked me: Under what conditions would you support "One Nigeria" and let go of the Biafra agitation and let it die down and finally laid to rest for good?

Here was my response:
1. Close down Lagos ports and open up PH, Calabar, Onitsha and Warri ports.

2. Cancel all direct and major connecting flights to Lagos and Abuja airports only local connecting flights will be allowed. While this is being done, open up Enugu, Calabar, Owerri, Asaba, Uyo and PH to international flights direct and major connecting flights.

3. Ask all international and diplomatic missions to move their embassies and consulates from Lagos, Kano and Abuja to Enugu, PH and Calabar.

4. All federal governments’ agencies in Lagos and Abuja shall be relocated to Enugu, PH and Calabar. CBN, NNPC, e.t.c shall and must relocate to PH, Calabar and Enugu.

5. All multinational companies in Lagos and Abuja, shall and must relocate their offices to PH, Calabar and Enugu.

6.All oil companies must relocate their head offices to PH, as the oil capital of Nigeria.

7. Let the northern children gain admission into federal schools with 300 score points while the South Eastern Children should gain admission with only 20 score points .

8. Let all federal road projects in the North/SW should be handled by one local companies and the one in the SE/SS should be handled by Julius Berger and foreign construction companies.

If these conditions can be fulfilled and implemented for 50years , we can try one Nigeria and let see if you the North and SW will like it for a month. Meaning that Yorubas and Hausas needing to get international visas shall travel to PH, Calabar or Enugu to do that. Same with flying or connecting flights, same with shipping and importing their goods, etc etc.

The Yoruba friend replied: You can’t be serious, this is wickedness and I said... Really? Don’t you think South South and South. Eastern part of Nigeria have been suffering and enduring this very same wickedness for over 50 yrs?

He was quiet for a few seconds and said: Wow, you are right but it never occurred to me.

I said, that’s the problem with One Nigeria, those who are benefiting from it, love it and would love to maintain the status quo. Let each region develop at her own pace, with Airport, Seaports, industries, major projects open to be developed in any part of Nigeria without government interference or strangulation due to tribalism and nepotism!

Let Nigeria be fair to ALL irrespective of tribe, religion, and place of birth. Let there be true federalism and resources control, with the elimination of quota system and federal character in Nigeria. Let's have equal respect for one another irrespective of where the person is coming from in Nigeria. That is what Biafra agitation is all about.

THE SIMPLE TRUTH

Whoever tells you that if Biafra succeed or gain her independence that Igbos leaving in the North or Yoruba land will loose their properties and that things will become worst is an enemy and is among the people that are benefiting from the fraudulent arrangement that exist in Nigeria.

Yugoslavia broke into 6 countries namely: Serbia,Macedonia,Solvenia,Bosia and Hezegovia,Montengro, and croatia and heaven did not fall.They did not leave their Job,leave their formal country before voting to leave....... after voting to leave, all those in the new created countries automatically become foreigners.

Malaysia broke into 2 namely: Malaysia & Singapore and heaven did not fall.

Pakistan broke into 2 namely: Pakistan & Bangladesh and heaven did not fall

United Arab Republic broke into 2 namely: Egypt & Syria and heaven did not fall

If Biafra go, it doesn't mean we can't travel anywhere again provided we have our traveling documents ready.

Why is it that Hausas & Fulanis see Biafra break up as war? Are you not tired of sucking & stealing our oil down to Kaduna reserve, Bornu reserve, and now Liberia reserve?

Allow Biafra to go because Biafrans have suffered a lot of humiliation,intimidation & marginalisation in the hand of this wicked contraption called Nigeria.

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Women should be feared,this woman thinks she is dealing with babies.I think she is playing on the emotions of Nigerians and the world>there is absolutely nothing you can hide from women.Women are very intelligent and tends to know things by suspicion.A woman knows when her husband is cheating on her even if she never caught him.There is no way she would say she does not have idea of what he is doing.women like digging into roots of all things.They want to know all things, when a woman is married to a poor man or a man not succeeding in life,she wants to know why things are hard for him, you see them jumping from church to mosques and spiritual home.This is because they are looking for solutions, if indeed she claim that things are not ok with him financially, then she cant claim she does not have any suspicion of his dubious act. Sometimes, i wonder why people amass so much wealth at the detriment of their name and reputation,i strongly believe this woman knows the source of his wealth .Possibly she might have been warning him on the other hand,but he must have silenced her with money and comfort.just my little thought.lol

NIGERIA , very funny country. i imagine say the north they feel like landlord way day give tenants quit notice of 3month lol

LionDeLeo:
Action towards its realisation will be expedited.

Besides, what are they doing in the midst of cows?

normally, i dont really like commenting on Biafra issues. I know the igbos have a right to leave Nigeria.I have several friends who are from the side.My issue with Nigerians is that mostly we do things without thinking of future and consequences in the future.Africans go to war without looking at the effect on their people and generations to come.The issue of Biafra is really complex and its not a thing that can be achieved over a day.Because a lot of issues must be cleared up.I dont blame the northerners too either because they are only fed up with constant shout of i want to leave Nigeria by IPOB.but if i would analyse what it means to be independent from Nigeria, you would agree with me that its not even a decision that can be taken within a year, talkless of 3 months.Here are my reasons:
1. Education: decisions concerning students from ipob youth schooling in Nigeria have to be taken, will they be happy to pay more since they would now be regarded as foreigners if they are no longer under Nigeria.does the ipob states have facilities to train all their youth and build universities that can accommodate them all.
2. Employment : can they employ everybody under their region since they cant be treated as citizens of Nigeria.Being Biafran, means they are foreigners and cant be guaranteed automatic right to employment in Nigerian
3. Pensioners: what happens to the several southerners who are working under the federal government and are under pension.leaving Nigeria without considering an reaching an agreement on them can be catastrophic.
4. assets of southerners in Nigeria: decisions on what happens to assets owned by southerners have to be agreed on.decisions on if they are to forfeit them or compensated must be taken.its is not a one year affair
I believe that a lot of folks don't really know what it involves and are just followers without using their intellects.I must say in the event of war,no country would like to accommodate Nigerian refugees.I stay abroad and i must say that Nigerians have a very bad reputation all over the world.Once you are Nigerians, people don't want to have anything to do with you.
The solution, i believe is a change of Name, the name Nigeria does not bring anything good again.i believe in a change of structure and administration of the country.it may be better if all regions control their resources and contribute a quota to the federal government.Nigeria is indeed very big and multi ethnic.Do you know that even within the governance of a state, some region still complain of marginization,an example is Lagos where some regions complain of being neglected in having governors ,another example is Rivers,Ondo and so many more.Soi believe nobody has exclusive right to governance and Nigeria belongs to nobody.It may be wrong for the north or any region to see the presidency as their birth right and all this things have to be discussed through a change of constitution and restructure.

ok,no problem

Newnas:
Well threads were created when the issue started, many people didn't see it because it didn't make front-page, the one-sided story of the OAU peeps is what made the front-page back then.

to be candid and if we read throught the post, we can read the intention of the op.Looking at the headlines of this post and then reading the post was to say that the Muslims were victimised.I must say that this event happened since last year (2016) .Why is it being brought on nairaland now if not to cause division among xtians and muslims.I must say that we shud be careful about what we post,posting anything without true facts is a crime and you could end up being sued for deformation of character.the op accused the dean of student affairs of being against muslims,a clear deformation of character.You need to ammend your ways and for once be truthful.Nobody who reads this post will not see that you are biased and you are an agent of hatred to the society of peace.

Maghan37:
According to whom and who told you so.

As far as God is Alive, Islam will never take over the whole world even the prayers of a few christians can ensure that.When we are gone out of the world through rapture.U may be champions of the world.I always knew that the moslems are trying to rule the world.I know indirectly some muslims support terrorist,i cant be decieved by hyprocrisy. God is still incharge of the world and nomatter what He still controls it in the face of this Terrorism.

Jabioro:
Spotted ..Beware they are here!

Hmmm, nothing like bad egg among them.infact the real moslems are the ones who follow strictly the Quran.those who the world see as good ones are the one who have decided to pick the good part in the Quran and leave out the evil side that allows killing of unbelievers.The major goal of all muslims is to convert the world to islam by force.Now look at the countries where there are wars, they are all islamic countries and you see their people spread round as migrant round the world.This is one of the ways they want to spread their religion.God is far smarter than any human plan or tactics,i believe when those who claim to be true muslims begin to tell themselves the truth about what is in their book, the world will be a safer place.i am so sorry for europe and the western world, freedom of right and expressions have been abused by this religion.i believe a time will come when the whole world will begin to see the truth and the muslims will begin to see the truth about the religion. in the midst of all this terrorism, i believe God will use this their tactics even to turn more of them to Him.I dont hate any moslem and i have many of them as my friends but the religion is the problem.I cant force anybody to be a christian, its a matter of choice and even God does not force anybody to serve him.God even said that he has placed before men, life and death and He only advised men to choose Life.He did not force anybody to serve him.I dont care if the radical ones among them come out to attack me but for ones let us tell ourself the truth and nothing but the truth.

IRobot7:
The world will not know peace until the Muslims in the world stand up with one voice to weed out the terrorists among them and take this fight against terrorism to their doorstep. All these things keep happening because instead of picking up and dealing ruthlessly with the bad eggs among them, they are hell bent on defending their religion against criticism, thereby giving room for more of these unwarranted nonsense.

am not against restitution.wisdom is profitable to direct,when you are not at peace in your mind.it is one of the ways got speaks to you to return to him.When you have returned to God and still lack peace, then you need to make a second check.If you think, the devil also condemns and may steal your joy when you are ignorance of the word of God.I believe a right time will come when you wont need to struggle to confess to your husband,wait for the right button from God,he will signal you to do it if your lack of peace is from him.i must say that a lot of xtians are very ignorant about restituting and lack wisdom in this area.To solve your problem, read more of the bible and meditate more on the word of God, confess the word of God about forgiveness of sins.And also listen to faith fill sermons from great men of God.If your hubby finds out from external source and ask you about it.Tell him the truth irrespective of the outcome.
i believe strongly you need to excercise some restrain first, work on yourself first,when you have worked on yourself, then you are strong enough to face whatever thing that happens.doing the contrary may destroy you and your marriage and even make you lose faith in God.Please ignore whatever people say, even some so called Christians.when you build your relationship to a level with God,you just know what to do at the right time, the wisdom to handle anything that happens is given you.

holubee21:
My dear sister,this could happen to anybody...Truly God has forgiven u but you still need to restitute before your husband before heaven can be pleased with you..if u hadn't married,its another case but now u are married pray and ask for wisdom to put it down so u can av freedom of mind..

Wisdom is profitable to direct. Yea its good that you have repented and regretted your action and also asked God for fogiveness.The bible made us to understand that if we confess our sins,he is faithful and just to forgive us all our sins and cleanse us from all our unrighteousness.Confessing to God is the first step, however you may need to confess to your hubby at the right time if need be.Dont be so stupid to rush in doing that,at a right time,it would come naturally and you can do it without it having any consequences on you or your marriage.God is greater than your Conscience,if God has forgiven you, your conscience has no right to condemn you.I believe you need to work on your mind, you see some people keep asking God for forgiveness of a sin that he has long forgiven them.However, you need to win back the confidence of your husband and you need to build back your trust.Your problem with depression is caused by you condemning yourself, you need to forget the past and move on , dont allow the devil condemn you.work on your conscience , tell yourself that God has forgiven you,fill yourself with God's word and tell the devil that you are prepared for the worst and the worst is for your husband to know and eject you.God has a solution ,even before you fell into your sins.Cheer up and take over your life.If God does not condemn you, nobody has a right to condemn you, we have all done one bad thing as humans, like the woman caught in the very act of adultery, Jesus said go and sin no more.

sometimes people cant be pervert in their thinking and hypothetical.judging from the picture,there is 90% probability that the girl was excited seeing him and possibly thinking of maybe snapping with him.Most people would do that when they see a celebrity and she was possibility shy.i must say that those who misinterpreted the girls action are somehow perverted and its a reflection of what is in their mind and what they would do in such a situation.1000 people may see a particular thing and give a thousand meaning to it, the best person to give an explanation to this picture is the young girl and of course God knows what is in the heart of men .

YEA YOU ARE RIGHT,no marriage without a storm.Life is full of challenges.Even the big men of God faces storm in their marriage , talkless of the ordinary.i never said he should not marry her.it good to take a deep look at every aspect of everything when taking a decision, the physical aspect and also the spiritual aspect.i gave an advice based on my area of expertise,the religious aspect.so let those who are more experience in other areas and religion give their advise in their areas of knowledge. i respect your view and opinion and i would never force my opinion or believe on anybody.A biologist would give his view based on his knowledge, a social person also on his experience.I have given my view from the little i know,its left for the op to take it or discard it.LIFE IS MORE THAN MARRIAGE, MARRIAGE DOES NOT GIVE HAPPINESS, GOD GIVES HAPPINESS.THOSE WHO ARE DIVORCED TODAY WERE ONCE MADLY IN LOVE,lets not be decieved by what some people display outside and you think they are happy with their marriage.there come a time when storms who hit the marriage,can HUMAN LOVE STAND. i respect your experience in your field. by the way, poverty is a thing of the mind,I AM A CHRISTIAN and not a religious folk as you may think.I serve a rich GOD AND I THANK GOD that am far above poverty.my views

fatiaforreal:
Your write up is based on imagination rather than facts. What problems do people from different faiths face that people from the same faith don't face? I need just one, not even pastors or imams are exempted. You're just pretending to know what you don't know. I'm fifteen years into marriage across the divided of religion and even ethnicity in addition to that and I can tell you, most of the problems you highlighted are more imaginary than real except the only preoccupation you have in life is religion, in which case you belong to the past AC ND possibly the poor as well.

IN addition to my previous view,you may marry her if GOD leads you to marry her and in that case,GOD has a reason for such because he knows the end of a thing before the beginning.A good wife comes from God and i would say dont venture into anything that God is not in it, dont go on a battle that God is not going with you. Sad to say, i have seen a marriage of one year , the husband died a year after the marriage.It shall never be your portion but think and dont be decieved by people who say follow your mind.the path that God has laid for you is different from Tinubu's path or any other married person, LOVE IS NOT EVERYTHING, GOD IS EVERYTHING.HUMAN LOVE CAN FAIL WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT.THOSE WHO DIVORCED TODAY WERE ONCE MADLY IN LOVE

hmm, i would advice you to face reality.marriage is a life time decision even thou the present day world have a custom of divorce.Who you marry really matters and there are billions of ladies out there.How far you go in life is determined by who you choose to marry.Ladies are complex and so also are guys.As a guy, there are possibilities of falling in love with several ladies when you get in contact with them.I would say from experience that for marriage , LOVE is not everything, our feelings may deceive us..But you need Gods guidance in all you do as a christian,its not a decision a friend can take for you , neither your pastor can make it for you.if i would advice you, you need to sit the lady down and ask her view on religion.I must say that the best is for you guys to reach an agreement, one has to submit to another.As a man, what kind of religion do you want your kids to practice ,xtianity or Islam.You cant be in between.But know that women have great influence from their mum.Would their um agree to allow them go to church or would you be happy to let them go to mosque.i must say that don't be deceived by those saying love is everything.LOVE sometimes get cold and beauty is not even everything, even humans change based on situation.
life is a battle ground and the kind of support you get from your wife matters, sometimes in life, there are attacks, can your wife sustain you when you are weak or down on the field.
Once again, i cant decide for you on who to marry or not, the down fall of a man begins with a woman.marrying a wrong woman can set you back by ten years or move you forward at a supersonic speed.just my view.NB FORGET WHAT COUPLES DISPLAY OUTSIDE,some families display to the outside world that they are happy, but do you know what goes on inside their home,with the kids.Yeah some who give you examples of christians who married moslems and are happy.Do you know what they are enduring inside, i dont know the level of your christianity and also the level of her islam.But no strong xtian will marry a moslem and no strong moslem will marry a xtian.

everybody is entitled to his own believe.God of the Christianity does not force anybody to serve him or does he ask any christian to kill any body who refuses to serve HIM.Joshua in the bible asked the isrealites who are the descendants of Abraham to choose the God they want to serve, this question is still relevant today.God does not force anybody to serve HIM.the lady in question lacks understanding and has made her choice, she is not the first to do so and wont be the last.For your information,the bible has been translated to several language and just as God is known by different name in different language.Christianity is a personal relationship with God,GOD relates to you as a child and not as a servant.Mere reading the bible is not enough,it may not make sense to you because it is until you ask God to reveal it to you before you can understand it.It is by faith,its a coded language, the word does not make sense to the ordinary people,to the ordinary person,it is like letters but when you ask God to reveal it to you.you begin to understand it.so i don't blame her or anybody who does not understand or mis-interpret the bible.I challenge anybody who really wants to know God to ask God to reveal himself to him or her within a week.this is not about Christianity or Muslim religion.God is alive and not dead.He would surely reveal himself if you separate yourself and seek him,He said that those who seek HIM would find him.I am sorry to say that most Moslem and some people who claim to be Christians don't even know God.They only believe in what their imam told them or pastor said,they dont have a relationship with God.mere reading the bible is not enough, i am not a christian because of what my pastor said or somebody convinced me to be a christian, i am a christian because of the encounter i have with God, i am not a christian because of what the bible said but because of GOD REVEALING HIMSELF .SORRY to say , i dont believe anything until i have an experience or proof of it. i know the God i serve and have a relationship with HIM,anything i dont understand from his word, he REVEALS IT TO ME, its not what my pastor says i believe but what God said,so there is a far difference between what the moslems believe and the God i believe,everybody is entitled to his own opinion, this is my view.I know some moslems may even want to kill me or stone me for saying my view about God.My God is a GOD OF LOVE,Moslem only know the old testament and the laws of moslems but christianity is about the new testament.Please let nobody base christianity on the law of moses , for christ came to put an end to the law,so you may quote moses laws about stony people and killing people but that is not the message Christ came with.It is a mesage of LOVE , SHALOM.

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THIS IS A CONVINCE REASON WHY SHE.
EMBRACE ISLAM
1. Jesus christ when he was alive he never practice christianity, he only bring islam

2. Jesus was never mention anything like christian when he was alive. But in Al-qur’an GOD called us muslim like Qur’an 3:102

3. Jesus christ was never go to church when he was alive and there is no single verse in the bible that say go to church. But in Al-qur’an Allah says we should go to “jummuah”

4. There is no single verse in the bible where the word “BIBLE” is mention. But in Al-qur’an there was so many places where GOD mention Al-qur’an, like qur’an 4:82

5. There was no single verse where GOD or jesus says u should go to “jerusalem” But in the Al-qur’an GOD say in suratul hajj that we should go to hajj if we have the power to go

So, my brother & sister if islam is not the real way to salvation it will not be possible for millions of millions of millions of muslim today, from diffrent part of the word, from Europe, Asia, Australia, Africa, we will all garder to mecca. At the back on one Imam, if imam say “Allahu Akbar” everybody will say “Allah Akbar” if imam bowed down everybody will bowed down for GOD. Because of what is in the book of {Zephaniah 3:9}, so what are we calling islam, we have 5 pillars of islam:

1. We should believe in oneness of GOD not threenity, is in the book of {Deutoronomy 6:4} also in the book of {Mark 12:28-29}

2. We should perfom solat {worship GOD} is in the book of {Nehemiah 8:4-6} & {matthew 26:39}

3. We should be paying “ZAKAT” is in the book of {Mark 12:41-42}

4. We should be fasting for GOD. Is in the book of {jeremiah 36:9}

5. We should be going to Hajj, is in the book of {Isaiah 2:2}


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you are very ignorant of christianity. Christianity started after the death of Jesus, the new testament.Jesus came to put an end to the old and created a new way to God.The way to God is not through the old law, my brother have you seen Christians stoning or killing a blasphemer in todays world.The bible is made of old and new testament.Read the new testament to know more about Jesus and Christianity, not even all christians know more about why jesus christ died.Its not a coincident, it was Gods plan for him to die and shed his blood as a sacrifice.Christianity started after christ died on the cross and this is the way to God.When you accept him , God gives you a new spirit and you become a new creature,the holy spirit now works in you to please God.It just come naturally to please and serve God, anything aside this is not christianity.Doing good works can not take you to heaven, even praying to God without accepting Jesus would not take you anywhere.No matter how good any human being is, he cannot even please God, even if you try to love your neighbours. it is just human effort and not up to what God wants from you, some people who claim to be christians are ignorant of what true christianity is.True christianity is not going to church but surrendering to God and accepting JESUS as your lord and personal saviour,totally forsaking your sins.

hahn:
See what Jehovah also told the Christians

hey entered into a covenant to seek the Lord, the God of their fathers, with all their heart and soul; and everyone who would not seek the Lord, the God of Israel, was to be put to death, whether small or great, whether man or woman. (2 Chronicles 15:12-13 NAB)

Kill the Entire Town if One Person Worships Another God
Suppose you hear in one of the towns the LORD your God is giving you that some worthless rabble among you have led their fellow citizens astray by encouraging them to worship foreign gods. In such cases, you must examine the facts carefully. If you find it is true and can prove that such a detestable act has occurred among you, you must attack that town and completely destroy all its inhabitants, as well as all the livestock. Then you must pile all the plunder in the middle of the street and burn it. Put the entire town to the torch as a burnt offering to the LORD your God. That town must remain a ruin forever; it may never be rebuilt. Keep none of the plunder that has been set apart for destruction. Then the LORD will turn from his fierce anger and be merciful to you. He will have compassion on you and make you a great nation, just as he solemnly promised your ancestors. "The LORD your God will be merciful only if you obey him and keep all the commands I am giving you today, doing what is pleasing to him." (Deuteronomy 13:13-19 NLT)

Kill Followers of Other Religions.
1) If your own full brother, or your son or daughter, or your beloved wife, or you intimate friend, entices you secretly to serve other gods, whom you and your fathers have not known, gods of any other nations, near at hand or far away, from one end of the earth to the other: do not yield to him or listen to him, nor look with pity upon him, to spare or shield him, but kill him. Your hand shall be the first raised to slay him; the rest of the people shall join in with you. You shall stone him to death, because he sought to lead you astray from the Lord, your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, that place of slavery. And all Israel, hearing of this, shall fear and never do such evil as this in your midst. (Deuteronomy 13:7-12 NAB)

2) Suppose a man or woman among you, in one of your towns that the LORD your God is giving you, has done evil in the sight of the LORD your God and has violated the covenant by serving other gods or by worshiping the sun, the moon, or any of the forces of heaven, which I have strictly forbidden. When you hear about it, investigate the matter thoroughly. If it is true that this detestable thing has been done in Israel, then that man or woman must be taken to the gates of the town and stoned to death. (Deuteronomy 17:2-5 NLT)

Death for Blasphemy
One day a man who had an Israelite mother and an Egyptian father got into a fight with one of the Israelite men. During the fight, this son of an Israelite woman blasphemed the LORD's name. So the man was brought to Moses for judgment. His mother's name was Shelomith. She was the daughter of Dibri of the tribe of Dan. They put the man in custody until the LORD's will in the matter should become clear. Then the LORD said to Moses, "Take the blasphemer outside the camp, and tell all those who heard him to lay their hands on his head. Then let the entire community stone him to death. Say to the people of Israel: Those who blaspheme God will suffer the consequences of their guilt and be punished. Anyone who blasphemes the LORD's name must be stoned to death by the whole community of Israel. Any Israelite or foreigner among you who blasphemes the LORD's name will surely die. (Leviticus 24:10-16 NLT)

Kill People for Working on the Sabbath
The LORD then gave these further instructions to Moses: 'Tell the people of Israel to keep my Sabbath day, for the Sabbath is a sign of the covenant between me and you forever. It helps you to remember that I am the LORD, who makes you holy. Yes, keep the Sabbath day, for it is holy. Anyone who desecrates it must die; anyone who works on that day will be cut off from the community. Work six days only, but the seventh day must be a day of total rest. I repeat: Because the LORD considers it a holy day, anyone who works on the Sabbath must be put to death.' (Exodus 31:12-15 NLT)

i would like to explain something here, there are somethings you dont explain to people who are not matured including children, even jesus spoke in parables.even if the mother went to hell,you dont tell a child his mum is in Hell, its God to decide that.But i disagree with the daddy freeze view on christianity.it is totally wrong and i must say that he is ignorant of the christian faith.if one thinks that you can make heaven by doing good work , you are making a big mistake.if it is by your loving your neighbours or doing good things, then no need for Christ to die on the cross.The whole plan of God was for Christ to come and die for the whole world on the cross, this is the what christianity is centered on.the cross and the sheding of the blood.This is the sacrifice for the whole world and for our sins, i must say that no matter how good you are, its not enough for Gods standard of righteousness,even if you do good from morning to nite daily.when a man accept jesus christ, u forsake your old ways and surrender totally to him, you accept him as your lord and saviour.One of the gift that God gives you when you accept Jesus is the Holy spirit.The Holy spirit now begins the work of transformation, that is why if you see a genuinely born again person, you notice some very unusual changes , He is a new creation,as you surrender more to the holyspirit, you are transformed to the righteousness of God and then you start displaying the kind of LOVE that God wants,you just see that it comes naturally to do good, you dont struggle to love your neighbours.You dont struggle to be righteous with your own power.Anything other than this is Human effort as displayed by some religion and some half baked christians.Some people accept Jesus christ and back slide, they depart from the way but i must say that only those who follow him to the very end would be saved on the last day.

now on the issue of the moslems, i have this to say.there are good moslems and also bad ones just as you have good and bad christians.A good moslem is any one who follows the teaching of the quran without removing one bit from it.If moslems would be very sincere to themselves, it is clearly written in the Quran about executing the unbelievers and christians.Any moslem who denies that it is not written is just a liar and a mere hyprocrite.The fanatics are the real good moslems and they are only practising to the core what is written in their scriptures.That is why you see some northern moslem even disregard the southern moslems as moslem.I would say the truth without mincing words, those moslems that people think are the good ones are those who have decided not to follow the teaching of the quran on executing non muslims.they have taken the good part and left the ones they think its wrong.If you take one and reject one, then there is something wrong with the entire thing.
the major aim of the moslem is to islamize everybody or by jeehad.that is why you see them spreading round the world.Yes some would say that there was a crusade by christians some years ago.Those were carried out by europeans who had little knowledege of christianity, you cant serve God by force, you cant even save anybody by your own effort, you cant force anybody to be a christian.It has to be by ones decision, God is a Spirit and wants those who worship him to worship Him in spirit and truth.
sorry for the long explanation but this is my view.i know i would get a lot of critics from people and even moslems, i dont care and i am entitled to my view. I know, the fanatics one would even want me dead for saying my view, if saying your mind means death, you need check what you believe in .Shalom

kevoh:
how insensitive! Who tells a kid who just lost his mother that his mum will roast in fire for eternity?

both countries are different and the way of politics is different,looking at the average youth of nigeria at the age of 30.What has he really achieved in Life.You see that most people in Nigeria are still struggling at that age except the few lucky ones and the children of the rich in the society.For you to be a leader and even lead a big country you must have showed such capability in leading smaller organizations.Not just a youth coming out of the university at age of 30 to lead a country.You discovered that in developed countries, most youth are through from school even as early as age of 22-23 and gainfully employed and have had successful carrier.Politics in Nigeria involve Huge amount of money for campaigns and other things.Can the average youth get such money without being corrupt or a political godfather ? Religious belief is another problem in africa and elders are given the leadership role in every family lol

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
Just see the way we are using France's victory to insult our country as if we are not partly guilty for the rot in Nigeria. If a vibrant 39 year old comes out to contest for the seat of the President of Nigeria how many of us will vote for him? When it is election time the only thing we hear from our youth is 'he is Igbo, I will not vote him, she is Hausa I will not vote her'. If a 39 year old that is vibrant comes out to contest, we the youth will be the first to dismiss him/her as juvenile and we are here hailing the victory of France (as if it is ours), whilst criticising our country (as if we have not contributed to the rot). OK name me one 39 year old politician that the youths of Nigeria can rally round. Baba buhari please get well soon and come and continue ruling us til Nigerian youths acquire some sense.

yeah, i commend her hard work.But i think she needs to be encouraged and told about laws guiding patents.She is doing a great work and she is definitely going to be great, however she has to come up with her own brand and be proud of it.Using other companys logo on her work could be a very serious offence in some country and in a way label her as a producer of fake, thus rubishing her hard work.The government should educate potential entrepreneurs on this

Acidosis:
This is ridiculous.. She can make money without using those Versace and Gucci image.

A lot of Nigerians are irredeemably dum.b as seen on this thread.
Very predictable set of unreasonable zombies.

This is plainly ridiculous. Nigeria can never grow if these clueless mgbeke Gucci fakers continue to destroy the image of the country.

Using another luxury brand's image to sell your fake product is jailable. Imagine selling Zobo drink with Coca cola bottles, logo and brand? This is exactly what she has done. Her hardwork is paying off in the wrong way, through a wrong approach. If you must make fake, at least don't rub it on our faces.

exactly, what most people dont know is that most nigerians and foreigners are just living an average life abroad and earning minimum wage abroad and some fews live above avearge.People are decieved they are reached because when they change the little money they earn abroad, its big in Nigeria.Like somebody said, poverty is not measured by changing money.assuming the exchange rate was ok and we have infrastrucures and security in Nigeria. i tell you.NO NIGERIAN who spend a day abroad.

cosade:
Direct conversion of currencies could be very misleading, without looking at the relativity. That money is a poor salary for a foreigner with family, working and living in South Africa.