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Stop fretting Sapphic, se bi we just dey chat and no hard feeling intended.

Abi you don forget you call some guy a fool the other time. He took it with calmness.

Anyway, as the guy talk, despite the negative connotations we cant live without you ladies.

Common guys, many African parents knew how men are treated in the US when it comes to marriage. More emphasis are placed on the women, and many uncultured women get away with so much uncommon and unacceptable behaviors. This issue among others constitutes fear in some Africans' parents mind - nija included.

Examples:
Have you not heard of the story of a brother that loses his job, and the African American wife kicked him out of the house for that? When you go online, do you not see how so loose the white or colored females (any color besides the brown skin) portrayed themselves?

In short, the story about American women needs to change. However, the story we too in the states are hearing about nija women are almost at equilibrium with other women in the western world if not much worse. Just an opinion.

missshea - you should know that what happened to you does not happen to whites only but to fellow Nija too over here and there.  Parents often contributes to marriage decisions, and unlike American culture it is a wonderful thing to have your parents consent when it comes to marriages.  That consent comes with some kind of blessings. 

By the way, I too have experienced same thing in the hand of a Nigeria parents even though am a nija and am older than the girl.  The point is, if you truly love this guy, you will not encourage him to set himself up against his parents.    Set your love aside and reason - the person that laugh last laughs best.

Some times you cant blame some of these guys for balalaing some of these teens cus many of them these days are on an extreme heat period without leash.
I have seen a ten years old pregnant girl.

Even when it is not right to do so, you cant stop these full packaged teen girls not to tempt a brother.  Only that a brother needs to control himself sometimes.

Yes you know what the summary is about and stop trying to laugh it over.

Yall know the story described many of yall ladies - stop pretending.

Well said princekevo. She better be telling the truth, cus no guy will take that as a small lie.

Common sissy, make I see what you look like-  se you fine gan?

Actually, it is my puppy that does sapphic. Yeah, sissy must be single. She is yet to experience lots of pork me harder or perhaps she is just pretending to save face.