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Guys, let us be patient with the parents cus they have their daughters best intentions at heart; although, they are sometimes wrong.

To be or not to be, that is the question,
To openly embrace her bosom with the knowledge of past betrayal and the possibilities of future unfaithfulness,
To kiss the lips that was once tainted with poison and now drink her milk with calmness of mind,
To show affection to a pig hoping that she will later become human,
With a the taste of blood, would a lion see her master as bacon,
Stand on dog's tail and tell the tale later on,
But if you happens to beg the difference, count the cost and look well to the path,
For you will soon be on a journey of no return cus you will find her to 'be' or not to 'be',
whatever be is to you!

Written by The real Taken (copyrighted 09)

@ ichommy

Are you a virgin female?

For some reasons, I love me a woman that keeps it real - NATURAL.

CUs after all that masquerading, her true physical beauty is revealed early in the morning when she wakes up.
Just like men should put on self confidence, most women should emulate the same principle.
Woman, If you are not naturally beautiful and attractive please write me for tips about what u can do to create natural beauty of your own.

Dr. Taken have spoken.

MS:
A Single male with available dip stick for the fine attractive sexy babes in the real wald!

@ post

I would say anywhere to get our freak on (freaky sex, family planning, getting to know each other well, and freaky sex).
It must be a place such that will enforce intense passion and fusion.

Dude, confirms it if she is a real mamipickin, and be a man enough to stop the relationships through courage.
Besides, someone can be influenced by wicked powers through torments and others are influenced to destroy.
But if she is a real mamipickin, then know that she is either influenced by dark powers to be tormented or to destroy lives.

Lastly, you know that this is the kind of trouble we run into when we are freakydicky b4 one actually settles down.

What Is The Way To A Woman's Heart?


You all know say a tree has many branches with a deep root seated under the dirt so is a woman heart,
More subtle is her heart with lots of puzzles and crossroads,
She could give willingly without reservations, and she could withdraw without giving any notice,
Deeper than a well you would say, but further than the stars in the sky,
If you keep gazing, what you see is just the imagination of your heart,
Yes you satisfy me she said to one, and yet to another she milked him dry,
When I think of a way to a woman's heart, I remember the chameleon,
and I said to myself, even a woman never knows the way to her own heart.

Written by the Real Taken with little modifications

@ brein

Common now dude, how did you know she is mummywater spirit. Ok, she told you that she is and u let agro and fear catch you.
Please quench your fear!

@ jovlar1979

This is hilarious! If women truly desire these traits in men, why do we have uncountable broken relationships and marriages with a lot of used up females all around us.

Please, those things you mentioned are just in the head of most women but their actions show that they want the baddest guy in town. I mean the baddest guy in town with fat wallet or with nothing at all.
True qualities that women responds to:
a. Banger
b. Bigger and longer dip stick
c. You loved going downtown
d. Player (interesting fellas), who wants a geek - dull
e. You can last longer that 3 minutes - viagra may help.
f. Freaky
g. all the other women wants you
h. & such traits that creates adventure and suspense!

But if you are not these things already, please don't try to be cus there are still few good women that sought for real good qualities!

@ edogram

When you say big girl, do you mean that she is FAT? Well, since you have accepted her person there is no reason to worry but to face the fact and deal with it.

@ Igwe

1. Do whatever it takes to join your partner.
2. If you can not join your partner as quickly as possible, connect with him over the phone and be creative while at it such as phone intimacy and stuff.
3. Find things to do.
4. If all fails, may God helps you then!

@ Poster

You are completely and entirely wrong about your opinion.
Who no sabi good thing like harley berry as compared to lady obesity - please.

Forward and backward racks rocks (with petite body) - you dig!

@ Sam Milla

Hey man, what are you waiting for? Burn the bridge behind you and move on.
Let time and space come between you and this gal; if you still have tingo within your heart for this gal, acknowledge and deal with it;
Anyway, there are enough comments that you can safely evaluate and act upon.

@ didique

Instead of feeling quilty or whatever, you should somewhat settle issues with the old bf in a amicably manner, then you can sweetly move on with the new guy - Fini.

@ the last two msgs

I quite understand what yall have said, intentions also play a major role in this matter.
Moreover, what is needed in most situations is wisdom coupled with understanding. A man with real wisdom and understanding does not need to lie for any thing but such will know what to do, say, or how to act in any situations. I too have been somewhat dishonest b4, and I knew it in my heart that I was not telling the truth even when I intended not to do so.

Perhaps now, we can re-evaluate this topic with reference to Wisdom and Understanding!

*** BESIDES, - Gay guys do ask me out!, PLease , this is a serious MATTER!. ***

I think this is a mental problem as to asking you out. Change your mind set about the possibility of you looking like a female (Else you might start acting like a female yourself and that wont be funny at all).
Also forget about your look and just have fun with life.

Good for you Fs.

@ Missy B

I think you do understand what I meant by foundation.  Have you seen many houses that went down in Lagos killing many pple, what is the cause of it - bad foundations.
Look at the ozone layer that is depleting, what shall be the faith of the world in many years to come if it continues like that - many life cycles will be altered (plants, animals, humans).
Lastly, if children disrespects their parents like they do in western worlds, what will be the fate of those children - bastard sons and daughters.
What am I saying?  All of these has nothing to do with the grace of God.  God has laid down the laws and principles already, and those laws do not alter in anyway.
Parents should teach their children in the way they should go so that the parents would have peace at their old age, and the children will not depart from it - by GOD. 
Because of man, the ordinance of nature has changed - by GOD.  Thou shall not kill - by GOD.
Children obey your parents so that it may be well with you - by GOD.

See, these are laws that operates with cause and effect.  Anyone can choose to disregard it or obey it. 
Therefore, many parents have not technically brought up their children with these laws embedded in the children subconscious minds + who are in charge of mass media = you and I (maybe aliens from outer space!).

*** @Taken
Assuming someone(maybe one of ur siblings) who is been pursued by some armed robbers or some bad gangs happens to run to your house for safety and refuge and unfortunately for the guy he was been followed, assuming the robbers knock at your door and ask you if you saw so so person, what would be your reply? Would u tell them that ur brother is hiding under ur bed. I guess the right thing to do is to even tell them that u saw someone run down d street & maybe if they leave you may now scamper for safety.
Assumin ur father doesnt want to see a particular person(maybe he doesn't get along well with the person due to his character), infact he gave specific instructions "tell him i am not around" if d person comes what would u answer? ***

God Forbid that I should experience such events. Moreover, I seem to have noticed that I will stand up for human rights back in those days while in high school.
And will still do that today. In most cases, if someone is in danger and I am in the position to stand up and defend such, I will readily do so - even if it involves close contact battle.
But to answer you question above, I may choose not to answer their question or I might even appear foolish in their sight, and there are other wise ways to answer their question beside falsifying any information. The truth still stands tall!

@ eva_luv

In that case, whatever you kept away from your husband's knowledge, you better be sure it is not something that will kill the relationship when he finally finds out.

Now that is a different issue.  If God say make them marry and they are sure about that, God go transform them into healthy pple b4 them born picins - I think.

But it is now up to them to verify that - that is why I mentioned Moses, the man no wan go back to Egypt, but God assured him with undeniable signs and wonders.

+ honesty -dishonesty = dishonesty;

@ Deus_Noir

man mi or woman mi, I no understand wetin you talk.
But generally, God can create anything He desires and give power to lift it.

@ topic - make we laugh small.

What will you do if your older woman is like Halle Berry with real kudi for life? I beg you go forget age.

But yall know that if most parents will lay down the right foundations while bringing up their kids, those children would not accept nor entertain alternate life style.

So let it be known that the root of this madness is you and I (the past-present-future parents). Cus already, many of us here will definitely not do any thing to prohibit the children from thinking otherwise. To this children, it is ok to bang-bang anyone and anything. Sooner or later some 9j pple will be banging their children and give excuses to cover up their dispictable terrible act.

*** Nah im not talking in terms of wealth, Im talking in terms of social status, in terms of education, etc, ***

What is social status, is it not what we allowed in our lives that bothers us most?
What about education? There are those who have no college education but are truly educated, and there are those we are educated only in paper and not in the head.

Nature has taught us lots of things, such as "Inu ikoko dudu ni eko funfun ti n jade wa.
As a very educated man with high place social status, would you pass up a woman that is priceless cus you want to keep your social status?
As a woman, would you say cus this guy (unknowingly this guy will become a wealthy king shortly after marriage) is not educated enough, he is not fit to be my hubby?

*** zaragoza, always remember that in trying to be honesty, you are not mandated to answer every question dat comes ur way.
in such a situation, regarding a best friends expected answer from his friend's wife, you may decide to blatantly refuse answering the question. ***

Rightfully said. Just say No, or be bold about refusing to answer any questions that may cause trouble but do not lie.
The root of lies is FEAR of the unknown.

@ zaragoza
Please give an instance where dishonesty might save a life.

And please tell me how long should a guy chase a gal b4 she start responding?
isn't 7 months enough to establish a relationship?

@ Hesperus

I think it does not matter if your babe knows how much you are making, we should be manly enough to handle our own homes or relationships.
Even married couples have to deal with issue of money.