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Ok, you are not selfish.  But understand that anything could have kept him from replying; and he might just reply someday.
Due to that fact, don't give up on him yet.  And if he does not, time and chance will lead you on.
Truly,  logic does not apply to love but love is an active/action word.  See, true love is deep and it is complete when it existed between two people.
It is better to find that love first than to be in a relationship where one truly loves and the other meander. 

And when it comes to choosing love, follow your subconscious mind and not what you see.

Moreover, the best antidotes in most cases are patience+wisdom that operate in an understanding heart.

Seriously speaking, marriage is a lot of baggage - the challenge there is marrying the right one.
But to settle down with a serious minded trouble maker, i will rather vote for singularity.
However, what about the sex ?

Bala = bang bang her. Please my friend, your feelings should not be to bala. Have some respect.
Well another thing you can do is to wait for her till she graduated from college - if you truly believes she is God's choice for you.
But to bala only, I beg you o to kick such thought and impulses out. Do you want some dude to bala you sisters and cousins for sport?

Look what I meant is don't fret over her but fret over building a solid life.
2. Most Young pple are unstable cus they have less/no experience about life
3. Definately, she will meet richer, better, more attractive, and more influential guys; You cant do nothing about that.
And she alone can determine that none of these would influenced her heart
4. Broken relationship is better than broken marriage
5. Let nature takes his toll.

This story depict an example of a wise woman that keepeth her house.

You women should be careful in marrying a man that would want to breakup his years of marriage cus of you.
After marrying you, be rest assured you are the next to go after another one like you comes around.

Common my man, you should have better plans for your life beside worrying over a small girl that is yet to know about life.
Build your life, plan for your future, and let time and chance leads you to your final destination.
For the fact that you are worrying over this girl, you have already lost her.

Stop worrying.

<Take it or leav it Viginity is not diginity it's simply lack of oppurtunity.>

Please if you are a True virgin, please don't get side tracked by some of this comments and don't loose your virginity anyhow.

Some of these pple are jealous cus they lost theirs while they weren't looking.

Forget this, you are not telling the whole story. Better yet, you are not telling the truth about you and your sister's boyboy.
Common, when do sex becomes love - how old are you? When was the last time you had sex? 
Please be sincere, the guy must be so cute that you can not resist him 

Also, do you respect your sister at all? 

Hoped you had jewo to your sister about your deeds, and had saved her from a stupendous relationship.

Finally, check your own heart -  .

This action is truly wrong. But you cant jump to conclusion without knowing what their relationship was truly about.
This run-away guy could claim that the new pregnancy are not his. What if the guy was influenced by dark power?
The ball is in that woman's court now. What that woman need now is not why but how to keep her new house.

A wise woman keepeth her house. Keep the children, keep the pregnancy, live her now-life, and she should be strong.

Well the deed is done. I would suggest that you sincerely send a message of apology to her and explain to her your crime just as you did to us here online. Don't forget to mentioned that you were a bad boy at that time. And don't excuse your actions when you write to her or talk to her.

Confessing to her sincerely will do some kind of healing - Trust me.

Finally, damn u were a true ruda boy.

Well, my assumption is that anything could have kept the Ex from responding.

Secondly like someone said, just move on. For you to be expecting some kind of reply from the Ex after the bombshell is selfish.
Have you considered whether your Ex is fighting some kinds of feelings/guilt or what have you too.

Just move on and forget it all together - you don't necessarily need any reply from your Ex - you said it already.

Friend, move on and don't try to know how to make anyone jealous cus if you do, you are still carrying the pain/something around.
Best thing to do like some good pple here had mentioned, just move on and enjoy life. When your yam is big, cover it up before you eat it else you opened up yourself to unnecessary attacks from envious pple.

Which means, move on, find someone else, and live quietly without broadcasting info to your past allies.

Wow, you need to stop giving such guy your body - cut it off.
By the way, how old are you to be banging often in the night without marriage with this guy?

Ok, stop the night banging, pull back, access the situation, take inventory of your life, find the right guy - still close that legs of yours, and after finding the right guy or so, settle down, and finally set the banging into motion.

I frankly disagree - some cute guys don't cheat nor distributes seeds from town to town.

You can be cute and not sexually charged with sensual aura.

Now if a guy is handsome or not handsome but electrically charged with sensual aura all around him, I guaranteed you that he will be banging all the time and cheating if chanced.

I think this question should be rephrased as thus:

What do you think of Single (divorced) women?
or
What do you think of Single (terribly used) women?

I said these because true single women (who haven't messed up their lives and body in anyway) should be taken out of this statistics.

A true woman that chooses to remain single, go for it. Some men do the same after dedicating themselves to greater purposes - Some monks, pastors, or true Fathers (excluding fake silent-gayish Father).

Word, you tame your man - lol.  What you had/have is conditional, step beyond your boundaries and see what a man is made up of.  Can you tame a lion?
Talk, Talk, Talk. Let a man be in control of himself and let us see if one of you will tame such or manipulate such.

From the beginning of time, it appears that some women find it pleasurable to bring down a man - lol <Tick Tock, his head is under her pillow>

Nevertheless, I give it to women that through them their men became something in life, through them their men never gave up, and through them great men and women were brought forth into being.

Anyway, any man anywhere is romantic and it all depends on the way you described it.  If not for Hollywood that uses classical conditioning to brainwashed mankind,
yall will not be talking about what is romantic or not.   

I wonder if the next question is, can Nigerian men have sex!

To: osisi (f)

If you are in America, you would know that it is now almost becoming a Godless nation.
Christianity here is nothing to write home about. In many cases, Non religious people are worth relating with than so called religious people.
Who gave the atheist more power to disrespect God - Christians - see the way they treated one another.

To others:
A man true faith is not in words but in deeds.

<Yes man!! Do you know who Halie Selassie I was?? Do you know anything about Rastafarian culture>

re: Halie Selassie is a man, an Ethiopian.

Jesus was never a dark skinned, and it has nothing to do with white stupid means to downgrade other culture through mindless games.

And by the way, what difference does it make if Jesus was brown, red, yellow, or other color?
Did you call upon him?
If he had answered you even though you have not seen his face - that is good enough.
Case closed!

Truth: Yall can't handle the truth.
For example - Truth is absolute, and anything beside it are relative.
Absolutes:
Fire - it burns (it does not matter whether you believe it or not, simply put your finger in the fire)
Marriage - (between male and female, but let me know when u meet a male that can be impregnated via male natural insertion or a female via female natural insertion with the exception of a she male)

Relatives:
Your ideas - (based on facts, feelings, desires, logics, and other issues)

What is the difference between Olorun and God?
If it is the same, the difference between Allah and God is also.
The difference is which God are you referring to - The creator of all things?
If so, we can stop here. The other aspect of God is another level and that is where the complications are.
And God will reveal that to people through his spirit in due time.
Allah, God, Olorun or whatever language - Words.

My opinion:
Yall know that it does not matter whether you mention God in your speech. Mentioning God/Allah/ or whatever God is called is just been religious.
What about your character, things you do, and what you strongly upheld - how do they reflect God's nature?

It is very interesting that height should be a problem.  Don't mind these alako girls, they will fall easily to a real player's hand even if he is a short man devil.
For me sha, height is not the issues with us guys, the real issues are self esteem, smooth talk-words, and thought process.

Have you not seen a short man with cool games in his sleeves plus a tall, hot, fine babe at his side even though he is broke?

Yeah, staying alone before marriage is good.  Eventually, both of you will live together till death do you part (hopefully); so, why "dabble in a puddle" when there is a pool/ocean that you will soon jump into.

Seriously, this is a bad joke. I hope it does not happens to me or anyone I know.
The thought of this is heart shredding. Instead of raping, please visit a LovePeddler house.

So the true question is how many have experienced true love in their lives?
If you have, what happened to it?

Yes, ladies can propose to a man in the form of suggestions but not like a man will do his.

Why should one fight over a girl?
1. Maybe if you are married to one - you can defend her
2. Maybe to protect a defenseless girl in trouble
But to fight over a girl that you and others are interested in, that is due to lack of immaturity.

You dig?

Many of we guys are too emotional about these ladies, we need to pipe down and take things slowly.  Be in control of your emotions.
Always deal with any situation right there and then. If true love really existed between two people, cheating is out of the question.
What we have today is not love but fear and childishness.  

Hey my man, see "True love  = emotion + action" but where it exists, it is between two people.
These relationship things are very simple but why are we making it so difficult?