₦airaland Forum

makydebbie:
How old are you?

Gina2019:
You are the one who's getting it all wrong. What if he is just loving me and promising me heaven and earth to get the cookie?

Jodha:
True love is not deceptive ...

Jodha:
That's lust oga... not love...

Jodha:
Lool no one loves and unloved just like that...

If that's the case it's not really love ...

Jodha:
Stick with the guy that loves yhu more ...not the guy yhu love because the guy that loves yhu will go the end of the earth for yhu but the guy yhu love will love yhu on his terms...

A woman can grow to love someone but a man either loves yhu or doesn't...

A word is enough for the wise...
2 paragraphs is more than enough.

adeleks:
I actually meant you should search for noc code that relates to your role in the bank as an engineer. Not all bankers count money. Same way an electrical engineer can work in the maintenance unit of a hospital. Just let your work reference reflect the noc role

adeleks:
Don't search for bank related experience, rather check for electrical maintenance and installation category. I'm sure you'll get something

7thLemonLOVER:
nice

Nat404:
$100 or 36,200.

Nat404:
Anyone who is particularly interested in IELTS training would have to pay. It's not free please.

After this training, you will get flying colours.

alasaigwe:
My side chic visited me today. So while we were watching tv I saw her unlock her phone and I memorized the pattern. While she was having her bath after we were done having sex, I don’t know what moved me, I unlocked her phone and went through her whatsapp messages. I saw a message with some prophet and she wants the prophet to help her break the relationship between me and my girlfriend. The prophet told her he’ll help her. There wasn’t a lot of details on the chat but going through the whatsapp call logs, there seem to be a lot of calls between the both of them via whatsapp call.

I don’t know what to do. I don’t know if I should confront her. Please I need your help. What should I do?

Merrymen1:
Dear All,

I have been a member of NL for sometime now, though I have to create this new account for this purpose.

Am happily married with 3 kids (2boys ,1 girl) for 9 years now, equally work as an Engineer in one of the Oil and Gas companies.

I met this Young lady, 2 months ago (Oct 2019), she is 19 yrs (except she tells you, you will doubt it with the last drop of your blood that she is 19 because she looks bigger than her age), though she works with one of our contractors as a causal staff in same company. We started getting along .I was Frank to open up to her that I am married because I don't want issues on the long run in my marriage, she said no issues. Actually ,reason for knowing her, was not for anything trust me, I just wanted someone I would always chat with it or something. I love my wife / kids so dearly that I wouldn't wish anything to cause issues in my home. I have been faithful to my wife ever since we got married.

To fast forward. So at a point, the girl stated telling me that she is having issues with her BF, she sent me screenshot of argument she had with him , how the guy insulted her, calling her names, that she always cheat on him. So I called her and she explained , of a truth, she cheated on him because he wasn't taking care of her. She said the guy stays in other State, while she is in other state. Feeling remorse, she did everything to see the guy each time he comes to town, but he wouldn't want to see her.So I advised her to pls make up with him, it could be he doesn't have the money or something. For the fact he doesn't take care of you, does not mean you should sleep around. I told her the implication of premarital sex, that God frowns at it, and that if she needs anything , she should talk to me than sleeping around, she accepted, and promised not to do it again, and ever since then, I have been there for her financially, but haven't slept with her. I told her she's more of a sister to me than a friend, I do want I do not because of sex but to see her grow as responsible girl with Bright future because she just got admission into higher institution. We've had the opportunity of being all alone in a room, I didn't sleep with her, even though we had a slight romance, I was so conscious. I always tell her I wish to see her grow as a responsible girl with Bright future.

My pains, recently , something happened, I was questioning her, her told me she slept with a guy just last month, I was pissed off, I told her is this how you wish to appreciate what I've been doing for you? you promised me provided I will be there for you financially, you won't sleep around again. Am not pained that I didn't sleep with her, never, afterall, it's not my intention to have it with her , mind you , I love my wife,;rather am pained that she seems not to listen to all I have been telling her about living a good life, sticking to her Bf if at all and quitting such life style.
Though she appolized for her actions, but then I am yet to respond to her. Though she is getting on with her Bf.

Please I need your candid advice on what to do. No abusive language pls.

Kirinwa:
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Sure. It has a way of rebounding cos it makes you look desperate which is a turn off.
Besides that dude may just want to score and move on, ask yourself if you are ready to be the fall back guy.

Even if she later marries you, the smallest issue, she will remind you how she left him to be with you and how you begged her.

Brunosamel:
Hello guys, I have been worried about this issue, I just graduated recently and am at the peak of my career trying to shape up my life for the better future, my girlfriend, someone that I have been dating for the for the past 6 months... we have so much in common and built our relationships with love and trust... the journey wasn't easy but we were able to settle our differences and understand each other....

Recently she met a childhood friend whom she had a crush on when growing up, but the guy never asked her asked to be his girlfriend never said anything to her cuz he saw her as a small girl then..
The guys is into business and has quite established himself... last 2 months the guy asked her out and she told me about it cuz she needed my permission whether she should go or not and I said okay she can but it will only be first and last time she will go out with him...

To cut the story short, last night I called her line and she was on another call for more that 30 minutes.... I confronted her about it and she started crying was begging me that she was sorry and that the guy is really disturbing her....... asking her to give him a chance, to the extent that she should leave me for him, he will give her anytime and even train in the university.... she told the guy she can't leave her boyfriend becuz she loves me so much.... I was dumbfounded and I don't even know what to do about it cuz I don't have the resources (money) at this moment

Relationships gurus what do you think about my situation I need your opinion and suggestions cuz I love this girl so much and want to settle down with her cuz she suffered with me and I suffered with her.... say what ever you want to but just be brutal honest with me....

Nat404:
That's okay. All your dreams can come true if you have the courage to purse them. Do not let anyone to deceive you about Nigeria getting good, for the country is already gone.

Nat404:
Tuition, bla bla bla.

Nat404:
The US is the best for you for now, unless you've got money for Canada.

You will get a scholarship or funding in the United States, maybe 50 percent or about 70 percent. Germany also is nice but you will suffer language barrier.

Nat404:
Yes, but did you graduate with First-class or a very strong Second-class Division?

Nat404:
Ok, talk to me on my WhatsApp business line. I'm sensitive about replying some PMs now.

iLegendd:
I glanced through the first two paragraphs.

Let me just tell you the truth no one may tell you.

1. If you're a nice guy, be chosen by a woman
2. If you're a bad boy or a good-bad guy, don't be chosen by a woman, but choose your woman

I could go in details to explain this with examples, but it will end up being too long like a book.

If you're a good-bad guy, don't be chosen, choose, else you'll hurt her at last, if she chooses you.

If you're a nice guy, be chosen, don't choose, else she'll hurt you at last.

Real men don't get chosen, they choose. Nice guys don't choose, they get chosen.

Aplaudez:
I'll be brief as possible, when we started our HND programme so I met this girl, one thing led to another, we got intimate, she got everything I always wanted in a lady, she always treated me like her hubby but she's engaged, her husband to be gave her a ring which she always use but seeing that ring always doesn't make me happy, I want to create space between us but she's getting more closer to me!

fellow nairalanders, what can I do??

Zaneykid23:
Hi all my name is Zane, am 33yrs old , working in Dubai, I am from South South Nigeria.

Pls if u re in a serious relationship, don't pm ok!

pragmatistm:
*MYSTERY OF DNA*

(A MUST READ)

If you have SEX with a man, his DNA lives in you forever.

Workman noted that a research by university of Seattle USA has proven that;
There is now a greater understanding of why God asks us not to have SEX before we get married.

*This research proves that any man, that a woman has SEX with leaves a part of his DNA in the woman*.

The man who has had more SEX with her, leaves more of his DNA in the woman. So when a woman ovulates, the eggs that she produces contain more of other DNAs.

So we need to educate the girl child to remain a virgin till marriage.

*Anytime you have SEX with another man you become one with that man (spiritually too) and carry the man's DNA and according to Workman this is called SEX Web especially when the woman has multiple SEX partners*.

At some point when you have too many of the male DNA in you; you change, because your cells are changing.

That also proves why when married couples live together for a long time they end up looking alike. *The woman's DNA changes when she has sex with men*. This is very serious.

*The world should know this and stop silly SEX promotions*.

It is bad than good.
Unfortunately women are the victims.

This was found out in many other research articles mostly released this year. So it is new and we all have to know.

*The fact is,women retain DNA from every man they have slept with*.

Cells transferred from a man to a woman during intercourse become integrated into the woman's body after SEX, every single time they have SEX.

*This study found the presence of genetically distinct male cells in the brain of women*. This also means these other male cells will be found in a foetus when the woman gets pregnant.

(This is called microchimerism.)

*Every male you absorb sperm from becomes a living part of your life*. Sperm is a living substance. Living cells. It enters your bloodstream and collects in your brain and spine.

*Stop experimenting with SEX*.

When the sperm enters a woman it swims until it hits a wall and then seeps into your flesh.

If it's in your mouth, (abomination) it can get into your nasal areas, behind your eyes and even your inner ear. It then enters your bloodstream and collects in your brain and spine. You can never get rid of it.

It becomes a part of you forever. These are the true consequences of sexual intercourse.

Workman Leadership College says this Original research is from University of Seattle and Fred Hutchinson cancer research center.

They accidentally found this when they were researching to find out why pregnant women carrying boys get men neurological diseases.

This is real and not a joke.!!!

*Stop having SEX if you are not married*.

And stop having SEX with others than your husband, for the married.

*The consequences of doing this is devastating,humiliating and horrible*

*No wonder the world is the way it is,many marriages no longer hold water in peace,truth and love*!

Many children from most homes have behavioral tendencies alien to both parents

Now you know the possible cause

*Say no to SEX when not married*.

*Say no to EXTRA-MARITAL affairs also*.

*KEEP SHARING*

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