₦airaland Forum

elantraceey:
Arrange am fast o , you and everything with you

loomer:
Guy, how far. Make u take style enter Mr NL campaign thread na

delishpot:
Ok sir. Read the comments on this page and ask yourself that question again.

BTW, do you have any political rally you want me to trek for?

elantraceey:
Not to worry , I'll spice it up with full fried chicken , you're just gonna love it

elantraceey:
I'm excellent


You?

IamLEGEND1:
i guess we cant ever do anything right

ginawest:
I Dont find 'paying for everything, walking me om and offering me a seat' creepy at all...in fact,I tink its nice

AgapeCharis:
Really??

delishpot:
A man tries to enlarge his peepee or improve his sexual life and its considered normal and good, a woman tries to tighten her vajayjay it becomes funny and strange and may even call for insults on women who dare to want a thight vagina.

pamodulus:
I hope this bill will be revisited

elantraceey:
I dey your back

Cutehector:
lol if misssclassy can be directin more of her energy in makin constructiv comments like this in nairaland and drop the attitude, she will gain a lot of respect.

elantraceey:
You're not serious .

martijez:
Good morning,I brought this here cos I blieve that y'all would be able to help me one way or the other even if I aint married yet...

please I have an issue at hand, I have being having sleepless nights.. my relationship is gradually going down the drain. I and our bf have bin having issues over a certain gal which he claimed @ first was just his frnd

This is wah happened, every single day, this gal calls our bf, and he reciprocates the calls, he talks to her as tho he is talking to me, calls her all the sweet names he calls me and even sex chats with her, asking her to come and spend the night in his house that he is having wet dreams cos of her (saw it in his wahsapp chat). B4 I knew about the chats, tho they have bin talking. Our bf came to see my family early april and cos it was late, he couldn't travel back and so he told me he would stay in his frnd's house buh I didn't know it was her, it was later on he told me he slept in her frnd's room and not in her room which I doubt greatly.

Last weekend, when I was in his house, this gal marched in as tho it was her bf's house, our bf didn't intoduce me, I later asked him to call her on fone that I wantu talk to her which he did, I asked her why she barged into our bf's house like that and she sed I don't have the right to ask her such question that its not my house. I told him and he sed that she was bin defensive that I shouldn't have asked her the question like that, he also told me that the calls ,chats etc were all a game to see if I would get jealous, that I should ignore her, after much pressure he confessed that he only slept with her once(b4 his nysc) which I doubt, I bliv he spent the nite and many other nites in her house, he tells her he has deep feelings 4 her and she is his bestfrnd etc buh when I ask him why he sed that, he will say it was sed on a frndly note.

The thing right now is that tho he confessed that he slept with her once, I doubt it and bliv there's more to it also I made him call her and tell her that she shldnt call him anymore and their frndship has ended, buh the thing is I am not @ peace, cos I bliv he would go bhind my back to call her and apologise for ending their "frndship". I also bliv that he likes her cos he defends her, I don't want to end up with a man that is in love with another woman and again I can't seem to trust him or anything he says, he also sed while we were arguring that his mom doesn't like that. So I tot if his mom actually liked her, he woulda bin dating her meaning he likes or love her, I want to talk to him again buh I fear he would be angry that I brought up an issue which we had finalised already, please wah do I do because I love this man so much and our relationship is not upto 6mnths. Was thinking of calling the gal myself cos am really hurting and confused thanks

DickDastardly:
Which female Nairalanders will you wish to live close to, if this has to happen?

oyin17:
missing rib s ?

misssclassy:
[color=#000050]Op from everything you just stated it seems you don't really love this girl. At least not like you used to.
What she did to you took a toll on you and you find it hard to see her the way you formerly saw her.

One thing I always advise is that people should never marry out of a need to satisfy the need of just one of the partners.
Marriage should always be based on mutual consent and true, unbreakable love between the two partners.

I won't advise you to marry this lady. She is desperate to get married because of her ailment and she wants to use you.
She doesn't even care if the two of you are well grounded and have reached the point where you both are ready.

I just read your comment below me and it just became all glaring that this lady doesn't really love you but because she was jilted by the guy she loved, she considered you as a back up of some sort. She felt that since she is in a delicate condition as this, you are her only lifeline, hence her coming back and desperately urging you to marry her.

Marriage is a very crucial aspect of ones life and one has to think really carefully before dabbling into it.
I have a question for you op.
When you think of you future do you see this lady in it? Do you imagine her the mother of your kids? Is she someone you would want to spend the rest of your life with?
You should answer this questions and be true to yourself.

If you believe you are not ready for marriage, please do not go ahead with it.
Do not let this lady force you into something that you are not ready for.

You should also bring this case before your God. Seek His face and pray for direction.

Thanks.[/color]

VictoriaBee:
That's not the name.
It's derogatory for human anatomy.

VictoriaBee:
Kpomo?

VictoriaBee:
No

Blizzyblinkzy:
Its irritating...
Well am not a village girl, So d question ain't 4 me

waitn 4 d village girls 2 comment..
I knw they would deny it

VictoriaBee:

Aitee1:
Sex in politics section I give up!

And you're calling lala

Lala if you move this pooo to fp I'll deactivate