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MizMyColi claireshan.



I envy dia bfs/husbands

okotv: This guy does not just miss it....nice one and i pray your dreams come true.
Its good to know what you want before you take any step at all...great write up

Amen.



Thanks bro

hispinkolo: Your first few sentences ruined the whole write up..you need to learn how to be balanced
You are not married,you are not a married woman so you can't speak for them
Good luck in your quest though

Whats bitting you?

beeevan: I suppose men are the ones that understands marriage perfectly # Yimuest Yimu# .

I expected it.

Vulturous

ggrin: Kill her

You Photocopied my mind.

aisha2: While I know There are radicals to every ideology Feminism started out because women were not regarded, they couldnt vote or be voted for, didnt have equal wage or favorable laws just like it was with the black race.

I hate titles, I once deleted someone for insisting I was a feminist lol.

All I try to tell people is respect and love yourself and treat other people well, thats how I live too.
I can only advice when they ask, I cant impose my veiws on others.

You and baby2 babe2(not sure abt the monicker) kinda reason alike. You guys are not feminists, what you want is love, respect, good life and equal rights. Feminists don't want that. They love to see men suffer.

Noooo, nah your bf

At your friends back? I never knew he was bed, anyways eboma virus doesn't kill. Calm down ok??

coolphilly: Hello, i am coolphilly, i want somebody to helpme conquer sin,i want tobe a good chrtistian but sin is my problem,please help me

It is not something you can do on your own. You need God's Un-merited Favour.

claireshan: we are all virgins

Plus Including My Grandma

aisha2: From what I read here on Nairaland, a "Feminist" is one who has a different veiw to any man lol.

A feminist is self-centered men hating woman. Feminism is a movement that fight for more special rights for women. It was never for equality, it has never held the interests of men. They try to hide under the umbrealla of Equal Right Movement but they can't fool us. Equality is a welcomed Idea and men love it.

aisha2: What works for me is that we are both able to work together for the same goal doesnt matter who does what, that to many is "feminism", because if I dont cook and clean it means I am not a "good" wife.

It doesn't make you a bad wife until you start telling other women to start doing thesame thing. In my family 4instance, I have a younger sis and still do the cooking any time I dey villa. It is sonfin I love doing. I and my elder bro travelled home last xmass, went to the maket and bought what needed for the celebration and did the whole cooking on 25th. My mom is still alive and healthy, my sister was there but we just felt like doing it. There is one particular local food that mom doesn't allow anyone to cook when I'm around simply because I cook it better. Does that mean that I'm being mistreated or in bondage? NO. It works in my family and thats all. It doesn't mean I should go around yelling rubbish and telling others to start doing it. Or that my sister should start telling other girls to force their brothers to cook. Feminists do not seem to understand the saying "what rocks your boat".

aisha2: I believe a couple should love trust and care for each other enough to do what it takes in good times and bad, respect each other and understand each other. Thats marriage.

I wrote something like that recently, methinks you will like to read it. It is tittled the marriage that I want

aisha2: Some want different things: their choice but down here if you dont pound yam, hand wash clothes you are a feminist

You are not a feminist ma, you become a feminist when you start telling other women to adopt your style because it works for you. Your husband and her husband nah thesame person ni?


abeg make we no take arguement start today abeg.

aisha2: This is why some of us say marriage is a partnership but they shout "bloody feminists" in return.

1. You have the menatlity of my word is law, I provide for you hence you must do as I say.

2. She has the mentality of "a man must provide all my needs, as long as he brings money I will tolerate anything"

Hence now that the financial power is no longer there as it used to be you are stripped bare.

You both need reorientation. Instead of giving instructions: Dialogue with her. Tell her what you thinks needs to be done and also hear her veiws on it then meet at the center.

She also needs to learn that a man is not only as good as the money he gives that marriage takes two, when one is down the other lifts that one up. Because Vincent Enyeama is a goal keeper doesnt mean if there is a penalty shoot out he wont take it and score. Life happens, situations change hence its not profitable to get too set in our ways and become unflexible and unable to adopt.

You are more than the money and things you give your wife, you are a friend, partner, brother, father, counselor and lover. You are not just an ATM if you cant provide as you used to then ensure that you do your other roles well.

I wish she was here would have also given her advice

Apparently because feminists claim equality and yet they want men to carry on doing the most disgusting, difficult and dangerous works? Partnership has nothing to do with equality, it is more about understanding your responsibility.


It's been a while I saw you here, how is life with you?

MizMyColi: *spreads mat* I'll just sit here and wait for the experts to come around


Learning never stops.

Tags:pickabeau1 ifyangela

Abeg shift make I sidon, I need time to fully analyze whats happening?

Spicylate: how na? bt its our hardwork na

Eeeeeh? So y unah come dey cover am with meat?

Spicylate: lol. we sha deserve a reward na.

nah stealing be that

Fish brain

firstEVA: Easier said, especially when you are the one that was dumped.

Stupidly said if you ask me. You are his or her ex too, in other words you are also a used toy. Ppl no get brain again.

heatmeup: yimu

You really need to be heated up.

Aayya, I don come late:-x tooh bad

berem: Is there any alternative to Bra?, I don't think so!

#imustwearbratillidie#

hahahahahahaha

Abacha's wife beats 'em all.


Why Stella's cheek come red nah?

willyzmart: ...............

For Sale??

She may offer the monkey her nipps if she likes.

Smh

Nah...........

okotv: i dont date or flirt cause its time consuming but the highest amount i have given any lady is just a thousand naira

For real??

Hate yourself join

You don't have to describe God-fearing ladies in a such a horrible way to make your points.

A God-fearing woman is a virtuous woman who cannot be bought out, she is trustwothy and dependable, A God fearing woman is woman with a heart for God, She Utilizes her talents for the good of her family, Generous, modest and respectful. In other words she is the perfect wife material.

I don't know where you got your own idea of a God-fearing woman but I'm sure it is a wrong one. What you described above is a brain-washed-pastor-fearing-woman.

Ok