It's their state and it's their rule, it's nobodies business. I am not sure of these: That it's a crime to brake spaghetti before cooking it in Italy and It's also a crime to put Pineapple on a Pizza; thus you will be forced to sign an agreement that you won't put Pineapple on a Pizza before buying it.
Lifestone: Not because Government deployed Army personnel and equipment to the region, not because the callout from citizens forced leadership to do what they ought to have done, but because of body language from the US. You are still mentally colonized
By the way, bandits have killed more Muslims in Kwara than Christians
So bandits kill by religion identity right? They will assemble everybody, call their name and ask for their religion affiliation; perhaps test their faith too before killing them.
MistyDense: I don't know if anyone of you can relate to this. But to be truthful, I can't continue taking up these multiple responsibilities anymore.
I'm the oldest of four younger siblings, and we just have one Male among us, who is the Last born. I'm training him in sch, a tertiary institution. The other two girls are already done with their school and are presently learning some skills. None is contributing anything. I work from Mondays to Sundays without Rest. From house rent to feeding, to medics, transport, sch fees, light bills and others, I do all of them. I make sure I work to earn every penny I make. It is so bad that I don't have any savings. My clothes are worn out cos I can't afford new ones. Also, I can't afford my soap and cream any longer because there are more pressing issues to fix. The burden has become so much, coupled with stress from work. Sometimes I overthink things and breakdown. My mum isn't working due to her sight. She's completely Without sight. I had to hire someone to be taking care of her as we all go out for our daily activities. I'm thinking of asking my younger brother to drop out for now so that the burden can reduce for now, but I don't know how to tell him because I don't know how he would feel. He's already in 200L.. It will break him I know, but I'm trying to cut cost at least for a year first, before he can return back to sch. If this happens, I fear he may take his life, due to the passion he has for sch. He's a very bright student. The most academically sound person in my family.
A lot of pressure is on me. I don't want to do what other girls are doing. I don't want to start sleeping with men for money because I need to protect my dignity as a woman until I'm married. I've turned down a lot of suitors already because I don't want to drag them into my family's struggles and later they start insulting me for being a burden to them. I refused to marry for now because of this. Life isn't easy and hasn't being easy since the loss of our dad 10years ago.
Sometimes, I stay in my room and cry all through the night. I can't share my struggles with anyone for fear of being mocked and insulted behind my back. Sometimes I feel like running far away that nobody will be able to see me or even call my lines. I'm really messed up. At times, I feel like I should just vanish from the surface of the earth.
I'm just confused.
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What are your sisters contribution to training themselves? I guess you have Warrior syndrome, where you feel like being responsible for others around you, and always finding it hard asking for help from other people.
panafrican: Even the so-called conservative republicans are in the pockets of the oil rich Muslim monarchies in the middle east. Mosques are built everywhere in America , Europe, and Africa on daily basis meanwhile, there no opening to any African secularism . Anytime Qatar , Saudi Arabia and Kuwait do anything in Africa it is to further Islam. What happen with the so-called "Christian" political figures in Africa or Western Europe ? Nothing. No-one ever came out with a Christain proposal . Even Israel which pretends fighting "radical terrorists", what does Israel leadership do ? Nothing, except
mikeapollo: How many Israeli top military officers was Iran able to strike and kill? And then how many Iranian top military officers was Israel able to strike and kill?
The answer would tell you which side is superior in intelligence and military capabilities!
Do you think Isreal want this to be reported? So you expect Isreal to release such information, when they dedicated a unit to fabricate lies all in the name of misinformation to the public when there censorship is exposed. Abeg dey reason
Baxilexi: @OP, watch the documentary fallujah of Iraq, and others like it. It’s a recount of the experiences faced by US soldiers in Iraq. Fighting extremism/terrorism is a daunting task because new people are indoctrinated daily, plus you’ve got overt and covert operatives. No civilians.
What you should understand is that’s these guys are not an army, they’re anywhere and everywhere. They can use women and children, similar to boko haram. So Israel’s only play was to eliminate top officials and sponsors. But Hamas is an ideology that one day Israel would be wiped off the face of the earth. And that’s why the war theatre just moved from ground to intelligence.
Till date Iran is still shocked about how porous their defense was, the humiliation of a supreme leader hiding meters under earth will forever put a dent in his image.
So when Benjamin Netanyahu or America President was taken to the Bunker is humiliation too? Just wondering how y'all reason 😂
Heffalump: The cease fire doesn't ensure that Israel should sit docile and compromise safety and security on their side. So, why should the Palestinians cross the demarcation line? A violation of this order is actually an avoidable invitation to death.
Talk like these are why Aliens refuses to talk to us. I am curious, Do you think like this online only or offline too?
We are ramping things up. Here are some things we have done recently:
1. We gave Nairaland's theme a little facelift, fixing buttons, pagination, separators, and other little things.
2. We implemented a dark mode for Nairaland with the most intuitive UX: a sun toggle on your upper right.
3. We further relaxed the minimum character rule because many people were still struggling with it.
We are also trying to make our moderation bot (aka antispam bot) more accurate. Bear with us on that.
What else do you want us to work on?
Best Regards.
Here are my suggestions 1. Use machine learning to for sentiment analysis to analyse comments, instead of the bots banning unnecessary based on keywords. 2. Have a score card for every users based on the number of users comment likes and shares for that particular users comments to give credibility to each users who commented reasonably over time. This could help users with good scores to avoid the mandated 40 character comments. 3. Their should be a dislike button for a users comment, this is like a vote down which will affect users scores over time. Although this could be abused by users who dislike someone who shares views that doesn't sit well with them. 4. Add a button for bookmarking posts I may want to view later maybe follow post is enough for that. 5. Let users have the options of viewing post from catégories they like or commented most. Or notification of hot topics from that categories is good
Hamachi: 1. On Women Marrying Men They're Not Attracted To Yes, some women do marry men they’re not deeply attracted to — just like some men marry women they’re not fully in love with, for reasons like stability, timing, family pressure, or a desire to settle. It happens on both sides. But assuming this is the rule rather than the exception oversimplifies human relationships.
Women, like men, want emotional connection, passion, and sexual satisfaction. If they "settle" because of time pressure or societal expectations, that’s more a reflection of social conditioning and gender roles, not female nature itself.
2. “Tolerating” Sex with Husbands Some women might go through the motions, especially if there's a mismatch in sexual compatibility. But many don't just tolerate—they value intimacy and want to enjoy it. Sexual compatibility is a two-way street. And truthfully, many men also stay in sexless or emotionally flat marriages because of duty, kids, or fear of divorce. So, saying “she tolerates sex because she needs kids” simplifies a complex emotional and physical reality. It happens, sure — but it’s not a default or an ideal.
3. Body Count and Sexual Compatibility This is a sensitive area. Some men believe marrying a woman with a low body count ensures loyalty, lower expectations, or less “comparison.” But here's a human truth: Experience doesn’t automatically mean someone will compare or cheat.
A virgin isn’t guaranteed to be loyal or satisfied just because she hasn’t been with anyone else.
A woman with more experience isn’t automatically incapable of bonding or loving deeply.
The real issue is compatibility, communication, and emotional maturity. Someone with 0 partners can struggle in marriage just as much as someone with 10, 20, or more — depending on their values and expectations.
4. Men Wanting Good Cooks vs Women Wanting Good Lovers This is a fair point. Everyone has preferences. A man may want a woman who cooks and nurtures — just as a woman may want a man who knows how to make her feel good emotionally and physically. That’s not unreasonable — but it goes both ways.
So yes — sex matters, just like affection, support, ambition, and trust do. But reducing women to “how many DKs she’s had” is as unhelpful as reducing men to “how much money he makes” or “how long he lasts.”
Marriage is already hard. Love, loyalty, and sexual satisfaction all require work, self-awareness, and communication. People aren’t statistics or stereotypes — they’re shaped by values, experiences, and emotional intelligence.
If you want a woman with a low body count because that aligns with your values, you’re free to want that — just don’t assume that guarantees a happy or healthy relationship.
adex4real90: Hello Nairaland people, please i need your advise, my girfriend has a app lock to all our phone application (including phone setting) and she is not always convenient and okay anytime i pick up her phone. She only disclose the password to unlock the phone and every other apps is locked with a different password not known to me. I'm a type of person that cherish transparency in relationship alot. The action is hitting me up and I'm worried and started to distrust her. What should I do?
This is a test of your confidence as a guy, I guess I will respond with that is even better. At least someone will be doing that for you while I am busy.
Do you even ask your so called Babe the number of guys toasting her/asking-her-out ? If she claims no other guy, either she is honest which is not good for her, or she is lying which is still not good for her. If truly no other guys coming for her means you are with a leftover girl that other guys don't want; or her claims is false other guys do come after her but decided to be dishonest I may be the other guy here.
gbegemaster: His company does not exists in space. He has no right to stop workers from joining the Union according to the Law.
That is why he has accused them of sabotage which in itself is a mistake and can be challenged in the industrial court.
If you own Dangote Refinery would you be talking like this? Investing billions of dollars and expecting someone who did not invest anything to dictate to you and hold your business to Ransome. Importantly did you even understand the effect/implications of they blocking his refinery entrance.
Instance: It's not sad to me. As long as you are not a virgin as a man, u should not be worried about Non virgins. I for one can't date or marry a virgin.
What you fail to understand is that Men Virginity is different from womens virginity. Why do you think women reduce their body count and men increases their body count
It's easier for a woman to get laid than for a man to get laid, meaning if a woman has more than 1 body count she is a free distributor. But if a man get more than 1 body count we should hail him.
A key that can open any lock is a good key, a lock that can be open by any key is a bad lock
Family › Re: I Asked Nigerian Men If They Trust Their Wives — Their Answers Will Shock You � by tanigororo: 6:40pm On Oct 23, 2025
