₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
When the supposed wife is done playing slave to a grown-arsed man—foregoing her autonomy for a life of slavery— who does not pay her enough for all of her labor, no one will tell her to get out of those self-imposed shackles to find herself happiness and peace of mind elsewhere.

sabbiboi:
What happened to Nairaland literature section of 2014-2019. Nairaland got great writers in those years.

Labelle:
Hello beautiful people of Nairaland. Looking for a female to share a room (to split the cost) with me, early next year on a new cruise ship, departing from a port in the US.

I can provide more details if you are interested. I am female too

Bendeco02:
Not all women will marry, take note of that. Expecially southern/christian women.

Women are more than men in number. Even if all men marries three women each, women will still remain.

This is the reality some of you failed to know. Instead you are busy imagining the kind of man you need while you're are more in market.

You need rich and handsome man of your spec. Dey play

Even if the man is their spec and not rich, they will still reject him. How many men are rich and handsome? That's Less than 20% of Nigeria men population. When women are more in number than the total number of men both ugly/poor and rich men combined

dollytino4real:
If u don't have to spend mind ur prick and keep it in ur trousers,

Caaz:
You failed to get the point.
The point is who's going to take and provide extra care for the mother?most men dump their mum on their wives to care for,not minding the wives are also caring for the Kids,herself,husband and the home.


The best person to care for the mum are the daughters,so its best the mum goes to the house of her daughter.

Caaz:
You failed to get the point.
The point is who's going to take and provide extra care for the mother?most men dump their mum on their wives to care for,not minding the wives are also caring for the Kids,herself,husband and the home.


The best person to care for the mum are the daughters,so its best the mum goes to the house of her daughter.

Chilipepper:
What happened to the husband's sisters? If the man is not married, who will take care of the mum?

And to your comment, a reasonable man know that in situations like this, he needs 100% permission from his wife because who will be taking care of the mum? Is not the same wife? abeg try dey reason somethings well before you talk am out.

Maleandfemale:
I noticed single and unmarried ladies above a certain age are verbally abused and bullied on nairaland most of the time, I hear names like old layers, evening newspapers, expired ovaries etc.

Not every woman is lucky enough to get a husband in her early age of life, some are due to personal mistakes, even men makes mistakes, but mistakes in men can be corrected almost anytime but for women as day passes it becomes more difficult.

I have really sat down putting myself in the shoes of a woman and really those shoes does not fit very comfortable as you think. Imagine a 20 years old girl as an emotional creature meeting her first liar boyfriend that lied about loving her all to get in between her legs for several years, many guys reading this are guilty of this, most of our girls whole heartedly showed true and genue love to their first time love, broke guys most times, but as time goes on if they don't find truthful man they swipe to transactional relationships, I won't tell you that they are not born prostitutes, No! but majority of the girls we call bad we spoilt them,truth is bitter may God forgive all our sins and give us the grace to become better People.

Nd Chris.

justeric23:
i need one presently too...my back is literally gone. I heard this is actually the best out there.. but the over 200k price tag is a bit steep

Maleandfemale:
I noticed single and unmarried ladies above a certain age are verbally abused and bullied on nairaland most of the time, I hear names like old layers, evening newspapers, expired ovaries etc.

Not every woman is lucky enough to get a husband in her early age of life, some are due to personal mistakes, even men makes mistakes, but mistakes in men can be corrected almost anytime but for women as day passes it becomes more difficult.

I have really sat down putting myself in the shoes of a woman and really those shoes does not fit very comfortable as you think. Imagine a 20 years old girl as an emotional creature meeting her first liar boyfriend that lied about loving her all to get in between her legs for several years, many guys reading this are guilty of this, most of our girls whole heartedly showed true and genue love to their first time love, broke guys most times, but as time goes on if they don't find truthful man they swipe to transactional relationships, I won't tell you that they are not born prostitutes, No! but majority of the girls we call bad we spoilt them,truth is bitter may God forgive all our sins and give us the grace to become better People.

Nd Chris.

Bukola94:
Can't countries build their own WhatsApp type with their own countries code

DoctorStanley:
You really think the purpose of education is just money?

Kobojunkie:
He is supposed to provide for her yet reports have it that in Nigeria alone, almost 50% of women in marriages are the breadwinners? I guess the lack of education has not really impacted the ability of women to provide for even educated men, huh??

If, you think education is only necessary for male providers then you really need your brain thoroughly vacuumed there.

Kobojunkie:
Yet, the majority of Nigeria would continue to chase down and marry such girls instead of those equally as educated as themselves.

Exceed15:
There are sone secret you carry to your grave else it will destroy everything you have built. Just stop it NOW!

missionmex:
This logic of when he was single doesn't holds water at all. Preferably whatever works for the family should suffice. Let's say she was feeding herself when she was single or her father was providing for her so she or the father should still continue to do that after marriage?

Kobojunkie:
Your willingness and submission rhetorics against women are products of brainwashing.