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PhonesRe: Fix Your Phone Without Leaving Your Comfort by tartarus(m): 11:17am On Jan 29, 2017
Can anyone testify?. Has anyone actually given out their phones for repairs and the phone was delivered safely to their home? huh

Anyone?
Technology MarketRe: [SOLD] Unlocked Samsung Galaxy S7 Edge by tartarus(m): 10:43am On Jan 07, 2017
To fix the screen costs 90-100k and I don't know how much unlocking costs, depends on the network. So will you do 90k?

What network is it locked to??
FamilyRe: Is This Not A Red Flag??? by tartarus(m): 5:36pm On Jan 04, 2017
Just like my ex, she once smashed my s7 edge and then proceeded to almost strangle me. My neck was sore for days undecided
Any form of domestic violence is wrong. Either male or female. I couldn't forgive her after that incident cos it wasn't even the first time.
FamilyRe: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by tartarus(m): 10:58am On Jan 01, 2017
onedayatime:
you see...you've said it all...you are not well trained at home just like you claim in your first quoted comment. Aside that, lemme tell you this...you are HYPOCRITE..and you are just like your father the devil who is a liar and no truth is found in him. Your dad never did what? Ask your father...as for not beating your sister once..maybe your senior sister, buh if na your junior? Na lie go send you go hellfire
Oh shut up please. You can't read to comprehend. Product of a violent home! undecided

If you can't correct someone without violence then you and the males in your family are possessed and not every Nigerian man is like you.
FamilyRe: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by tartarus(m): 10:39am On Jan 01, 2017
onedayatime:
sharap and keep shut. You talk as if you no know woman. Maybe you still be kids. You think say marriage na courtship wey be bed of roses? ask your popman if he touch your mama, ask your grandpa if he never beat your grandma before, ask your uncles if them never beat their wives before. Ask your leaders(Imams, pastors, alfas, govenors, ministers, senators etc) if them never beat their wives before. Na who him wife report na him you know and you wey dey here dey talk rubbish go beat una wife pass this. Abeg, park your useless comment and go. Shior, I pity the lady but you can never underestimate a woman when it comes to trouble, dem go provoke you do wetin you no believe say you fit do. Dat is woman
Don't quote me again. Retar.ded child.

I can't make sense of your gibberish huh
My dad never hit my mom, I never hit my sisters. If you come from a family of women beaters you should keep it in mind that not everyone is as violent as your family. Wild dog!
FamilyRe: See How A Wife Was Battered By Her Husband On Christmas Day by tartarus(m): 9:39am On Jan 01, 2017
As usual nairaland boys will still find a way to blame a female and justify the males actions. Most Nigerian male youths were not brought up well, at all! Parents need to train up their male kids in the same way they train female kids. We just have ego inflated males walking about with the notion that a female must do everything to please them and not provoke them. sad
EducationRe: Some Of The Horrible Realities Of Being A Woman Throughout History. by tartarus(m): 8:35am On Dec 20, 2016
LaEvilIMiss:
**NOTE** this may be a global phenomena but it is distinctively thriving in Africa

There are several fora and public initiatives that encourage women to come out of this age-old shell of gender stereotypes established by Religion, Traditional Social Societal Structures and primarily an Intellectual Eco-system that teaches biological and physiologic differences as evidence of Male Superiority. It is a deeply entrenched disease that ignores the fact that without these unfounded barriers mentioned above.. there is no telling who would be a better human male/female.

But it seems even if you find powerful, successful women at various levels in society.. there is very little drive from other women to embolden initiative, passion and courage to be better persons and thriving in circumstances where we are previously thought to be lacking in conviction.

Let us take caring for female children.. here is what typically obtains... while females with brothers break apart in their teen and pre-puberty years, the formative (early) years distinctly shows a higher level of maturity intellectually and socially on the part of females who are same age as their male siblings.. when they get past teenagers.. there are several stereotypical parental behaviors that start damaging the psyche and reasoning of females as they grow into adult-hood

1: Beauty over Intelligence: At a young age.. boys can be rough but girls have to preen and prune and look pretty. they get rewarded and complimented for simply being cute and they recognise that there is a quick reward to looking beautiful rather than intelligent.
2: Marriage as an ultimate goal over Independence and Career: When a boy grows into a man, his ambition and goals in life seem limitless.. for a woman you can only go as far as Marriage.. you can go further but the male society now sees it as usurping a God-mandated Male role. So women stave ambition and passion just to remain under the roof of her husband's house as he is the bread-winner. should he fail and she becomes the bread-winner, she is seen as proud and unsupportive
3: Submission rather than Cooperation and Collaboration: The Man is the head and the woman has to keep her gaze low and her head bowed. but they are proud to claim that behind every successful man lies a woman. All lip-service

We could go several pages on this issue but this is what women ought to do to change this unfortunate trend that has bedeviled AFRICA for centuries now

1: Parents should recognize that it only hurts the survival of future generations if stereotypes are nurtured and sustained. give equal importance to female and male children - Enlighten them in equal boundless measure.. success is not labelled by gender but by courage.

2: The institution of marriage is not a license for gender un-equality rather a message of hope for humanity .. Man+Woman inmarital harmony produces generations of successful children.. better 100% than 50% or less

My 2 cents
This still doesn't answer his question.
CrimeRe: Decomposed Corpse Found Along Goodluck Jonathan Bypass In Calabar.Graphic Photos by tartarus(m): 10:29pm On Dec 19, 2016
His clothes were also taken off. He was probably murdered elsewhere and then dumped in this current location
RomanceRe: How To Be Independent In A Relationship by tartarus(m): 7:44am On Dec 17, 2016
mastermaestro:
The way some guys talk contemptuously about women shocks me. It forces me to believe that their mothers are dead. Not just dead but died wastefully with zero impact on their upbringing. Also it forces me to believe that they have no sisters, or if they did, they are irrecoverably lost somewhere in the dark tunnel of prostitution. In addition, I am inclined to believe that they have rid themselves of all female-producing sperm.

Only dumb men have no respect for women! sad
You should know most "males" on nairaland are kids. smiley
CelebritiesRe: Anita Solomon, The Other Woman Toke Makinwa Talked About In Her Book by tartarus(m): 6:27pm On Nov 28, 2016
hustla:
You've said it all
I as a guy will pick her over a million Tokes judging by just this look
Smh! Then why did he marry toke and not Anita in the first place ?? Nothing justifies cheating abeg undecided
RomanceRe: Nigerian Ladies Share Their Public Harassment Stories by tartarus(m): 5:34pm On Nov 25, 2016
fellis:
Eshayy oo. Una weldone. I just knew the thread will not go far before comments blaming the women start coming up.
Don't mind most Nigerian men biko, it's always a woman's fault for their ill mannered behaviours. undecided
FamilyRe: What I Noticed Among Pre-teens And Teens In My Area by tartarus(m): 12:27am On Nov 25, 2016
As long as the thread was created by a female, nairaland "boys" will find a way to bash. Donkeys! undecided
RomanceRe: I Stiched My Anus Thrice, Wore Pampers For Years – Repentant Nigerian Gay by tartarus(m): 8:35am On Nov 23, 2016
Fake story.
Christianity EtcRe: Should Pastors Have Bouncers/Bodyguards? by tartarus(m): 8:14am On Nov 23, 2016
Lol why do they need bodyguards? I thought jesus protects? huh
PoliticsRe: Atiku: "My Secondary School Students Better Than Public Universities Students" by tartarus(m): 12:33pm On Nov 19, 2016
Repping my secondary school cool
RomanceRe: Must Women Think All Men Want Sex From Them After Helping Them? by tartarus(m): 12:11pm On Nov 12, 2016
dasparrow:
Gbam! Well said.

I wondered too why he was angry when someone mentioned his mother. Since he generalized ALL women, then I wonder why he forgot that his mother too is a woman. or perhaps he was brought into this world by two men. Who knows?
Don't mind the kids on this forum. Always looking for an avenue to bash women without even thinking. undecided
RomanceRe: Must Women Think All Men Want Sex From Them After Helping Them? by tartarus(m): 12:10pm On Nov 12, 2016
Maxvasia:
Hahaha....chai. this babe is pained.....soooo pained. Pele oo. This is how u will challenge ur husband when he makes a statement that pains u bah? Continue. Lol. At this rate, u will just be speaking plenty grammar while a good, respectful babe is sucking ur hubby's goodie bag grin
Ode! I'm male angry
RomanceRe: Must Women Think All Men Want Sex From Them After Helping Them? by tartarus(m): 10:49am On Nov 12, 2016
firstking01:
See, i dnt want to bash you, the next time you qoute me and mention my mum you won't forget what i will tell you in a haste, be warnedundecided…say whatever you want to say to me here and steer clear my mumundecided
You are very stupid actually! You and all the "boys" that supported your stupid post. Yes your mom had nothing else to offer than sex, your sisters too and if you have daughters in future same goes to them. You are a slowpoke! You claim all girls can offer is sex but you don't want your mom to be included in your retarded assumptions??
You just insulted the whole women race. You insulted my mom and sisters by making that daft comment. So I'll say it again, YOUR MOM is included in your deluded assumptions! undecided
Christianity EtcRe: TB Joshua Deletes His Post About US Election On Facebook by tartarus(m): 12:07pm On Nov 09, 2016
krissconnect:
Please, to all those who wished Hillary won. If she had won,who would have been the first lady of america?
I'm sorry but your question is stupid actually. No offence meant smiley
CelebritiesRe: Maria Ude Nwachi To Linda Ikeji: "Humble Yourself If Yo Want A Man To Marry You" by tartarus(m): 7:56am On Nov 08, 2016
PeridotBelle:
Meaning no matter how high a woman flies, she remains a woman who is to to answer to a man (her husband) even if the man is low!

Society did not make it that way, the creator of mankind made it so! Society is gradually trying to kill that and it's wrong because, the consequences are grave!
You obviously aren't intelligent. Never bring up your religious beliefs into an intelligent argument or conversation, not everyone believes your god is the creator. undecided
EducationRe: The Most Intelligent People In West Africa Are Ghanaians. -CNN by tartarus(m): 3:33pm On Nov 07, 2016
So y'all are actually arguing about this? huh huh
Like can't y'all see there's no source? CNN never said this. Smh undecided
Christianity EtcRe: Repent !!!!!! Jesus Is Coming Soon! by tartarus(m): 11:31am On Nov 06, 2016
Ah! No perfume?. I guess heaven really stinks sad
What's Jesus's fetishism with body odour?
FoodRe: Lady Shares Free Food To Lagos Residents. Photos by tartarus(m): 4:16pm On Nov 05, 2016
Her name is @soupamarket on instagram and she sells really nice soups. She's a good cook and cooking is her source of income.

She's been giving free food in lagos since this year. smiley
CelebritiesRe: Binta Diamond Diallo: I Am A Not A Babymama, I'm A Mother by tartarus(m): 10:53am On Nov 04, 2016
Benz4pimp:
Wizkid is just a sperm donor......You all civilized illiterates should leave her alone...It's her choice
Bro don't mind them. It's a Nigerian thing to be gullible. smiley
RomanceRe: Why Do Men Patronize Prostitutes? (Video) by tartarus(m): 1:05pm On Nov 02, 2016
Most nairaland men are lousy. The question is "why do most men patronise prostitutes?" But as usual they'll also find a way to blame women for their predicaments. It's always a woman's fault! grin
RomanceRe: Why Do Men Patronize Prostitutes? (Video) by tartarus(m): 1:03pm On Nov 02, 2016
vodutive:
90% of women are prostitutes, it's in their DNA. There are just different levels of prostitution and not all is so overt. You don't have to walk on the streets to be a prostitute. If you have a sugar daddy you are a prostitute, if you are sleeping with a married man in return for range rover and Dubai trip you are a prostitute, Even some wives are prostitutes because they are only in the marriage for the money. The thing with many women is they come with a lot of BS and for many men "pay as you go" simply eliminates the need to listen to BS.
Perhaps your mom is one. wink
FashionRe: Lady's Outfit At The Abuja International Airport Sparks Outrage (Pics, video) by tartarus(m): 1:58pm On Oct 15, 2016
xana101:
If I'm there i'll rape her
Rape isn't a joke, kid!
RomanceRe: Man Begging Law Graduate For Sex For 4 Years Exposed By The Lady - PICS by tartarus(m): 6:13pm On Sep 15, 2016
sirusX:
Sometimes I wonder who to blame...the guy or the lady? undecided

The issue is that ladies sometimes know their dressing or pose could be provocative...yet they post it online anywayz.
I'm guessing it's to attract "something", if not trouble
.....somehow a Nigerian dude will always find a way to blame females for something that's clearly a male problem. I don't see how the girl is dressed provocative. You and your brother in the screenshots should stop being perverted!. tongue
RomanceRe: Man Buys His UNILAG Girlfriend A Car For Accepting His Proposal by tartarus(m): 6:46am On Aug 30, 2016
Broke niggas on NL be hating! Go make money bad belles! grin
CrimeRe: I Knelt And Begged Him, Yet He Slaughtered My Daughter In My Presence – Mother O by tartarus(m): 6:46pm On Aug 20, 2016
As usual many stupid nairaland guys will come here and blame the victim as long as the victim is female.
Most Nigerian men are very stupid! You can find them on nairaland. Can't you fools read?? She rejected the psychos gifts and advances yet she was murdered and then you morons are twisting the story, saying probably the guy spent so much on her. That's so stupid!!

You guys always feel a lady owes you her life cos you spent money on her. I'll never advice my sisters to marry nigerian men. Misogynistic donkeys! undecided

I'm Nigerian. Don't quote me.
CrimeRe: Lady Murdered, Dumped By The Roadside In Cameroon After "Going For Party" by tartarus(m): 5:51pm On Aug 15, 2016
Nairaland is where I log into to find stupid people. So it's now the lady's fault for attending a party? A lady shouldn't attend night parties?
So the victim is to be blamed for her death?. Retarded reasoning of some people. If the victim was a man, stupid comments won't be made. undecided

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