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OmaniPadmeHum:
Yeah. Men here think they are doing women favours by marrying them. From removing the so called "shame" of being single. Men are also raised to think and act this way.

The women themselves don't make it better. They kill themselves and do everything wrong just to get married. They also practically rely on the man for their existence and survival.

The society then rubs it in by tagging and stereotyping single ladies. Practically naming and shaming them. The family adds more insult with parents forcing their kids to marry with the usual "See Chineyen and Zainab are married, when are you bringing a man home"?

The men end up feeling like little gods and then treat them anyhow they feel like, save a few reasons sponsible ones.

Marriage and relationships are not by force. Live your life. That is why you are here.To live. Chase your dreams, get busy, have goals, IF LOVE COMES YOUR WAY AND MARRIAGE COMES, BY ALL MEANS MARRY IF YOU FIND THE PERSON SUITABLE. IF NOT CONTINUE WITH YOUR LIFE.


The Lady has her taste and her choice. If she doesn't want Nigerian men, she has her reasons. Her opinions should be respected. She has her bad experiences and her reasons. Do you know what Nigerians have done to her? How are you sure Davido or Dbanj did not "eat and clean mouth" in the past? We don't know from what angle she is forming her opinions from.

I don't like east Africans and there stupid face. They have this funny face I don't like at all. I personally CANT marry a Kenyan, Rwandan, Ugandan etc.. All those countries in East and South Africa. They have this stitty pudding face. My apologies and no insults intended.

The cutest girls are still found in Nigeria from over 200 tribes. They match me wit for wit, smarts for smarts, hustle for hustle. They survive like I do.

True.
All of it

Truth be told, MANY Nigerian men have behavioral problems. They'll be looking for wife material when they aren't husband material

Me sef get my issues

obojememe:
when you clock 40 ,u might have a change of opinion

Not every woman is freaked about marriage. Let that sink in bro

It's stupidity when humans try to live their lives based on what an imaginery being supposedly said in a story book!. Religion is stupidity, the op's post is just an example of such stupidity.

Nigerians: bunch of judgemental nitwits!

nobleblood:
This should be a lesson to all you women. Don't even bother to get defensive. This is the real face of the world. Humans are calous and barbaric. They have never lost that trait. Yet most portray enough boldness to hop into a car without a relative stranger. Don't look away. Look very well and learn. Cus this is the nature of the world. You want it to be peotic. Well its not!

That was how I saw this big ass girl by the highway waiting for a lift. She knew she was going to get one cus she was well endoured.

She did get one eventually. How much was she suppose to spent to get to her destination? Probably a hundred naira. Rather she prefer a cheap lift. Just be carefully women especially your site are your biggest weakness.

She could have been kidnapped don't be "codedly" jumping into conclusions

deflover:
They will keep dying till our girls stop being greedy
Shabi una wan use latest phone
Pepper dem gang
Keep following guys you dont know the source of thier wealth

I was in delta my state last Christmas
Heard the lastest is Ghana boys
They travel and come back buying cars and building houses

Any girl wey no hear word make e die throw way

Rubbish

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If you are a woman in Nigeria please carry pepper spray and tasers. So many males in Nigeria we're actually not trained right, they don't have proper upbringing. Ladies learn to defend yourselves.

Like I've always said; many Nigerian men are cowards, if the passenger was a man and then provoked him will he beat him?!.

Na mouth Dem get. Many on nairaland. Sissy boys

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You think Nigerians are big scammers?! You should know tools for this job are even bought from white boys o!

Give me unlimited socks5 and I'm good

I can't believe most guys here actually feel the girl was wrong! WTF is wrong with Nigerian men??
Imagine the rubbish o!
Because she has a vagina simply means shes an automatic cook??. Many cavemen on nairaland o.

Truth be told, most Nigerian men are archaic, very senseless and cowardly (yet they feel macho)

I'll never advice my sister to end up with one. Very few Nigerian men actually have sense, I blame bad upbringing. Nigerian families don't train up male kids properly.

Dottore:
I didn't see anywhere in the post where the guy started the physical abuse. I read that argument ensued and she went to the kitchen and emerged with a knife...

Oh okay, I don't know where you read yours from but I read he started beating her first.

Dottore:
How is the guys wicked? She first started the knife act but the guy finished it. It's self defense

Smh. He started beating her before she picked up a knife! She was defending herself

It's a potto

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Samsu and KLG

Still available?

One of the most expensive coffee is gotten from the poop of the civet cat but unfortunately this op prefers it's flesh to actually making some money, too bad.

Modified: Oh, sorry...it's from the Asian civet.

Origin:
After reading comments , I learnt that:

1. If a girl lies , it means she is a cheat ( I thought it meant she was a liar)

2. A man can mistakenly impregnate a girl but a girl intentionally gets pregnant.

3. A girl in a club is a prostitute but a man in the club is just having fun.

4. Decades as a chaste lady does not count for much. A single lie means the lady has always been a prostitute in disguise.

5. The worst thing in the world is to malign a person's chastity, integrity or honour. Yet you can go ahead and do this without proof.?


Apparently the lie is the significant factor here, so if you have never lied in a relationship it means you've never cheated before. Or vice versa.

Lol I'm a man and the truth is this op is just tired of the lady and wants to get rid of her but he can't cos she might be pregnant with his kid. He's just making stupid excuses so we nairalanders will perceive the lady to be wayward.

StreetKingEnt:
@ infantlion Well.. I Hope you read this. Speaking as A Married Man with Kids and Also Run A NightClub.. So Trust Me When I Say I Have Seen All Sort of Girls At The Club. From The Good, The Bad and The Ugly...ALL
And I can tell you this, Seeing a Girl @ the club with Male Companions, Doesn't Mean anything happened after clubbing. "Some Girls Go Out Just To Have Fun (Dance-Wise)" Why She Lied Well.. Maybe She wanted to have a clubbing experience or just have plain fun and she knows that you may object if she tells you and most def she would want to know pick your calls in the club and you end up shouting and all. Though I Am Not In Support Of Being Deceitful.

2. There is a High Chance You are The Father of the Child. So Man Up.. Support Her, See Her Thru The Pregnancy Period. Even If Its Because of The Love You Onces Shared. Support Her, Till The Baby Is Born. If then you have any doubt the baby isnt yours, you can do a DNA Test. I say if you have any doubt, because some babies as den dey comot, you no need waste money for DNA Test, You know its yours

3. As Per The "Catholic" Pastor.. That I cant say

Man Up BRO... Men are MADE to make Calculated Decision and not Emotional Decisions

You're the only guy making sense here bro

Some Nigerian men are useless and cowardly! Most of them grew up watching their dads hit their moms. To them domestic violence is part of them. The fools are here ranting on nairaland claiming an abused woman must have been the cause of the battering!
If a male motorist insults you during traffic get down from your car and beat him na or if a male colleague offends you with his mouth beat him too.

Some Nigerian men are mostly weak, insecure and heavily mouthed!

If you claim a lady got a beating cos she was running her mouth that means you can also say she was running her mouth cos of something you did cos a woman won't just run her mouth for no particular reason, right?. The cycle continues.

babestella:
I've not used Uber for once, I drive myself all the time.

How Uber works is not the issue here, it is about the morals behind the text message sent to Naya, in what context is it right or wrong?, that is the debate.

It's wrong cos she never gave the guy her number, it was her first time on a trip with him(how Uber works: random drivers are always selected, you can rarely use the same driver twice), the guy stole her number from the Uber app cos before you can register on Uber you have to submit your number. Now you see why it's not professional?

babestella:
Don't compare Pizza or Jumia delivery men to a "driver", however, this might not even be a one-off Uber driver, she must have been using the guy for a long time now, that has not been stated, but the fact that the guy went this far means that she didn't just start using his services. Don't tell me what the guy did is wrong, is it because he is a driver? If Dangote sent her that text even after meeting her for the first time, would you say it is in appropriate?

Please let's drop this mentality of "some people are not supposed to have some people's number or talk to them just because we feel they are low" it is wrong. The guy has a right to express himself even if he just met her for the first time.

The question we should be asking are: how did the guy get her number?, was that the first time she is using the guys car? What can of comnverstion do they normally have whilst she is his car? Is it a friendly kind of conversation or does she act like a boss while in the car? There are many factors to be considered, not just condemning what the guy did.

My opinion, the guy has done nothing wrong.

Madam you probably don't understand how Uber works.

ephi123:
I know, totally agree with you. But people should stop making life more complex than it already is. If he was stalking her and persistently sending her messages, that's a different case. It's just a text for goodness sake, she could have ignored it and moved on.

Yeah, true

ephi123:
No one is supporting what the guy did. The reason people are calling her out is she posting it on snapchat, for what purpose exactly? If she felt her personal info and space was violated, then she should have taken it up formally with Uber and let it end there.

Yes it was very wrong for her to post it on social media but the guy was unprofessional. He would have complimented her when she was in his car or he could even have requested for her number DURING the trip. Sending her a text AFTER the trip when she clearly didn't give him her number is so wrong.

Why are Nigerians Shallow?? Must everything be about being rich or poor??. I find it inappropriate for an Uber driver to stylishly take a customers number and contact them after a trip! It is wrong! It's like Domino's pizza calling you after delivering your pizza or jumia delivery man calling you after a delivery. I bet that Uber driver does that to many female customers.
Y'all don't just get it, why didn't he appreciate her DURING the trip or even ask for her number DURING the trip?! After all she was physically present! Did he have to "steal" her number to appreciate her AFTER the trip?!