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Its so very difficult to accept this news, even though I posted RIP 2 days ago. Deep down I dint want to accept it was for real. I said prayers and wished for a miracle that he would wake up and I would have to come modify my post and celebrate.

I read pickabeau1 post that his been buried and I wept. Sand to sand and dust to dust we shall all return to our creator.

Continue to rest on bro Dj.

Tehn crew,weldone guys. I know this must have hit you guys badly but trust the struggles was not in vain for we know God has taken Dj to better place where there is no more pain and sorrow.

God bless nairalanders, God bless Nigeria.

Chai !!! This life. After so much struggles. It is well.

Rest in peace DJ. You fought and God saw your struggles and did the best thing by calling you to his side. Now you can look back where you are and smile.

REST ON bro for we love you but GOD LOVES YOU MORE.

Stillfire:
You think so? What about a man who finds out his woman cheated or she lies her child is his and later finds out the child isn't? I mean for the past few days we've been barraged by NL boys who swear tooth and nail to kill their spouses for 'disrespecting' them. That kain wrath pass a jealous woman wrath o.

My sister/brother no soul can be as wicked as a woman. No bitterness can be compared to the bitterness of a woman. A woman can keep malice/hatered/secrets/vengeance/ e.t.c till eternity.

Do you know how deep a woman mind can get There is a saying in yoruba that goes as ** a woman mind is deeper than eternity ** sorry can't type in yoruba. But you understand yoruba well,you understand better.

The only difference in women is that some are God fearing and very emotional while some are Devils.

Happy my foot. Na small time e remain before they start hating each other and regretting their actions.

Nothing can be compared to the wrath of a JEALOUS woman.

My first son was for 10 months,just a week after he started walking on his own. My second son was exactly on his first birthday.

Na borrow them papa borrow them,I don return am back to the rightful owner. ** winks **

myselfonly:
Oops, my bad.
I'm in Kano.
Thanks

Sure sis, no problem at all. Thanks

myselfonly:
where are you based at?

Hello. We are based in both lagos and Ogun state. Thanks

Offer still opened.

Offer still opened.

Busybody2:
Sorry sincere apologies to you, I didn't know it would read like that, what I meant was Themaingate was on my case and you were on Emmysexxy's case. That what all of us including Emmysexxy was saying was "the hospital is wasting valuable time/taking DJ for a ride", but we was labelled Tehn haters...whereas the two statement are miles apart and does not even click at all at all. Our concern was for the patient because terminally ill people have weeks/months left to live...but this was too heavy for us to blurt out Even before DJ left Eruwa, I remember telling Naijadeyhia off for e-diagnosing 10 illnesses, that Luth already diagnosed terminal ascites aka the big C.


Now seeing Jaybee's statement that the hospital already had all the information they needed that November...if only we can turn back the hands of time...but God knows best This life

Nothing at all sis. It is well with us all. Hmmmm the only thing Dj needs now is God intervention.

God will heal Dj completely and save his soul IJN.

Busybody2:
Doc Babyosisi, I wasn't banned, just received a polite plea from the-powers-that-be-on-NL to go easy on Tehn...a funny request considering the fact that I hadn't even started with these tehn people...If I get banned for all I was saying "which was this hospital is wasting time/money", the law will come down hard on the Hospital with Tehn and Nairaland as co-defendants in Court for medical malpractice, negligence, over-testing, etc..." See post from Jaybee below (in bold) confirming the hospital knew from the Cytology done November 29th, yet when you and I came out December 15th to ask why the dangerous delay, they encouraged peeps like Themaingate and taryour to be insulting me and Emmysexxy and our family, and jumped on your neck too mocking your profession Anyway God told me to forgive them...So they are lucky I am now a baby Christian sha...And when I saw a random post from emmysexxy about forgiveness, I became convinced that was from God too...


God bless you Babymama1 for this thread for DJ.




January 26th





Nov 29th




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Off to go and screenshot for the 100th time incase they wanna start modifying and hiding evidence

Busybody sorry I had to quote this cause it really got me. I don remember insulting you in any of my post on that thread. The only ones I insulted I quoted their post which was emmysexy,originalsy and olulife. One other person I quoted was aisha2.

But I had done that unknowingly,please I take back my words as I do not intend it. It must have been in my bad moments. Shalom.

Madam greatgod2012, been seeing you all the while viewing the thread but you haven't posted. Hmmm it is well, I can only but imagine your thoughts and how you feel about all this.

Please share your opinion/ideas, it will be appreciated. Ese ma.

Idowuogbo:
Sis mi,e mabinu jare...

Nothing do you omo iya mi. We all want the best and may God help us all

jaybee3:
I volunteer (Not in TeHN capacity) to accompany him on one of the scheduled sessions so long as it falls between end of feb/early march

Wow, nice one bro. Ese gan.just knowing you are in gives an assurance that all will be well. Aunty chaircover smile coming back to my face now o.

chaircover:
@Femmy thank you for your words. God bless you. We appreciate you.

@to the people threatening that they wont donate to TEHN or wont allow TEHN to take up future cases; this is one of the fundamental problems we have with peoples wrong perception with what exactly chartity and volunteering is.
Who suffers? TEHN or some helpless person somewhere in the future who needs help?

Somehow some of you think that this is some kind of glamorous organisation where we sip wine and eat bokoto
If only you knew half the truth.
If only you read between the lines
Mynd mentioned something about Emails answered at 2am or I take off his head. He is right.
R231 himself get an earful from time to time. On sunday we spent over an hour on the phone while he was getting his ear chewed by me.

What about the risk of life on our dangerous roads . . .
The time, The energy, the sleepless nights . . .
DJ was diagnosed with TB, yet Mynd sat with him for months not minding that he too could get infected
If that is not love for a fellow brother what is?

People were shouting that they didnt get updates . . .
Should I update the house that we sent 48 Emails in one day
Should I update the house that last week I spent my lunch break calling LCC doctors from the UK for 30 minutes with my own money asking questions
Should I update the house that I spent all of Friday calling and contacting oncologists here in the UK begging for a private consultation just for them to look at all the results and give a second opinion?
Its not a reality show. Its not an entertainement channel. There is a young man figting for his life.

Even my family members are unofficial TEHN members. My own husband met Folake about 3 times. It was his friends shop we bought Folakes freezer and gen at highly discounted prices. We spent one whole day out of a 7 day holiday at ogunpa market and still went the next day to her house to do get photographs so that we can update the house.
My own mother knows DJ
When Folake died, Jaybee and my husband met up to go and see her family. I wasnt even in Nigeria at the time.
Many of you dont know anything . . . its easy to type. Someone here even had the boldness to say we handled folakes case wrong. E beru Olorun o!

Truly we have run out of steam and we need people to take over he baton for admin and being there physically. Mentally and Emotionally, we are not leaving DJ . . Never.
We will always be there for him and he knows that.

Egbon ONLY FEW on this forum know you guys (tehn) and we know what you have sacrificed. I will keep repeating it that I PERSONALY can't do it, its not that I don't love humanity or have emotion, the TRUTH is that I for one am way to emotional and can't stand it for long.

We appreciate you guys ( tehn ) a lot God bless you. Even those here typing and making mouth and claiming know it all CANOT DO WHAT tehn has done.

Mynd44:
Anger has nothing to do with this but when someone comes out of the blues to accuse me of taking funds for my own use I think I have a right not to allow such BS stand.

I bet you would have done same too. I have been on this case since November 11. I even had to drag a friend along because I did not know the way to Eruwa. I remember going to 5 hospitals on the 14th in Lagos and being with Hameed everyday for more than a month straight.

If after all that someone can come out and imply I have been taking funds for personal gains and you don't find anything wrong with that statement you need to think about it again. If you think stepping off is about wanting to be right, you might consider that I was with Hameed today at LUTH for an appointment I begged a friend to arrange so we can have options. I could have just told him I won't be and no one will actually hold me.

The case has gotten to a point where others are needed to play their part.

To those who say anyone gave up, I guess giving up also includes putting down the plans and way forward. I also called the hospital in VI today to make sure the bill was okay and corrected some things just so when whoever will take this up will find it easy. I don't have time for anger but I take exception to being accused of diverting funds.

Anyone who draws sub from this is on his/her own

my dear if I could see you now,I would go on my knees and beg you. To be very sincere what you have done I Can not do. All I will just say is please have a rethink.
r231, pickabeau1, jaybee3, oam4j,chaircover, idowuogbo, etc. Please.

Even Dj has come out here to plead.

Tgirl4real:
Hello sis, how are you and family? I believe everyone is well.

@ your Post, I believe TeHN has gone as far as it should go. I am a field officer but I haven't been available as I ought. The bulk of the work had to be shouldered alone by only one of us. He has left all his personal engagement and commitments to attend to this case. It has taken a lot from him. Like it has been explain, we do not have the resources to pursue it further. You just have to bear with us.

Hey on I ya mi,am fine o and family doing great thanks and your?
My love as per this case I go just sit down begin look. Mynd44 really really tried o God bless him and the rest of TeHN crew.
On I ya mi we need to talk/see o. How far? Let's arrange

ENOUGH OF THESE ALREADY NA, hian. Abi do you have something else to achieve from this

Some people sef...

olu4life:
I think I have to backdown abit since some of u have comprehension problem.
But in summary lemme rephrase all i've said today
1. If u go through my post in d previous page,I clearly stated that the brother's option is out of the question
2. I questioned why TEHN is backing down and not in support of it. Re-read my posts in case u doubt this point
3. I suggested the India option but seems suggestion is now a bad thing to do.

I hope this points are now clear for those having comprehension issues. Have a nice day

*Deep sigh* finally, thanks and goodbye.

OAM4J:
Thank you for your good words. As much as we will like to continue with the case fact remains we we simply don’t have the resource to continue. In the absence of a new competent team from NL to continue with the case, we will consider our 1st option of handing over to DJ's brother/family. We believe they can handle the case going forward.

Thank you.

Awwwwww NO NO NO PLEASE. There is no new competent team anywhere oo. TEHN has more experience than a new team. Where will the new team start from Even Dj brother that you want to hand over to can't work alone on this.

Please have a rethink abeg.

OAM4J. Jaybee3. r231. Pickabeau1,Tehn crew please don't ball out of this. I doubt if any crew/team can do as much or more than what you have done and continually bless you.

You started this project and with God grace and favour you have come this far. Not many of us here can be as committed to this case as you all have. We all have our different lives/schedule/issues to attend to BUT YOU all in tehn group have left yours aside to face this cause with all dedication. All we can do is appreciate and continue to pray for God favour over you all.

Once again thumbs up tehn.

Originalsly:
Now the picture is becoming clearer.You should be privy to all information if you are representing DJ...it is the duty of a professional doctor to update you. You always talk about the four doctors on team TeHN and how can you guys not ask about what NY said bout the source? Now I am wondering if the 40 page report was ever sent or LCC simply spoke with someone in NY on the phone. There are more questions than answers. You TeHN guys are talking the talk but I'm not at all impressed that you can walk the walk.

@ Originalsly and olu4life,biko you guys should leave tehn alone abeg. What is it with you guys sef Leave them alone and let them do their job. If we entrusted them to take over in the first place is because we trust their judgment.

Free them abeg,its not an easy task they have at hand. If you think its so easy as you type then please by all means ask to join the crew and see how it goes.

You aint the only ones that want good news from all these,but if we all decide to act as you are doing then things would have gone far worse than this.

Enough is enough jare, na wetin!!!

Thumbs up tehn

God bless you Dj.

Richy4:
He asked for your advise madam if you cannot give it, just shut up. some of you need some growing up to do.

Wooow, I see you have now grown up from the small boy that you were. Oya SCRAM if you have no advice to give.

haraad01:
English

Ok weldone.

haraad01:
there is a man living very close to my house @ ibeju lekki, he always fight with his wife all the time, he used to complain that his wife is not satisfied him on bed when it comes to sex time, but his wife will cook, wash cloth, wash plate and make all house neat but she did not satisfy the husband because he did not allowed the man to sex her properly, she used to say that she don't like sex, this man now ask me one question that how can he belief that the woman did not like sex truly or is the wife cheating him or not, and during the time they start thier relationship he said this woman used to satisfy her with whatever he needs but now the woman give birth she has change to the extend that this man used to beg her sometimes before the woman can allow the man to sex him. what is the next step for this man in order to know what to do please advice ......

Are you typing in ENGLISH or SPANISH

Timbuktou:
Alright, then.

Assuming this guest was wifey's friend's boyfriend like you earlier posited. I'd give iyawo a piece of my mind, wait for them to get back and tell wifey to shoo them off stylishly and that'd be her last time in my house unless she apologises in a special way. If I'm that cool with wifey's friend, she go hear am too.
I'm a gentle but, passionate person in real life, I like making friends and give strangers a long rope in real life, strangers o.

NOW THIS IS BEING REAL!!! Thank you jare oga. Unlike some posters here claiming holy holy,spira gym gym claiming its no big deal. If I hear, na their own reaction go worse.

raumdeuter:
You go fear some analogy sha.

SO when she used the kitchen it stopped you from using it at the same time? Compared to when one takes my car out it stopped me from using it

But if I am not at home and my guest need to use my car. They can absolutely pick the keys and use it

Yea right,its so damn easy for you to type na. I wonder what's so difficult for some people to be REAL. Someone you saw for the very FIRST time the previous day in your house,picks up your car key the next morning and drives out,you will smile abi? Be REAL abeg and quit the pretense.


Well as for me I wunt enter my host kitchen without her permission. When I see her get in the kitchen cooking I will join her. What I can do is clean up the kitchen if I see dirty dishes there and sweep but to cook HELL NO.

Its so easy for some men here to type and say its no big deal about it,now here is for the men.


Now assume its vice versa, your wifey invites and old male friend whom you know very well cause he arrived very late at the airport and to late to get an hotel to spend the night. With your consent you agreed for him to spend the night in your house.

Next morning you wake,have your bath and breakfast,ready to go out only to find your car key missing,you ask wifey and she says " oh honey Jide took it out,will be back soon. Dint want to disturb your sleep "

WHAT WILL YOU DO

Hug your wife and give her a pat on the back and say " no problem honey "

emmysexxy:
When I was trying to say something that will help hammed you all insulted me and my family you also went ahead and banned me from speaking.I have a lot of things to say but I can't cause am scared of bashing from you guys when you know that what everyone of us want is for dj to get better.@babyosisi,busybody,chaircover,olu4life,idowu,caracter,gboliwe I think you guys started this case from the begining pls mail me I have something to tell you guys so that we can look for a way fforward.I know I might be banned again but who cares?a bread winner life is at stake.as yourself what if dj is my brother and he is the one training me in school or if he is not around I will have to survive by myself.I still pray healing upon your soul dj.nothing is impossible for God to do.note you are free to mail me and ask sensible questions buT dnt exspect me tto tell u what tehn can't update at least I owe them that respect.thanks

And you show up again!!! The fact that you had some traces of lies in your earlier post like when you registered and your reasons for registering and saying it was your first ever post on this thread,whereas you had been posting for so long, and your lack of emotions as the way you were putting DJ state like you have no blood in your vains.

This reasons excatly extacly will not make ME/some people on this thread belive you!!!

Now you know a life is at stake and remember God.

Biko quit with all this private mails you want sent to you, what is your problem? If you can't put what the so called info you got here them by all means unfollow this thread and stop feeling like one very important informant jare.


@Tehn well done guys.

@DJ please don't give up brother,God remains on the throne.