AlexBells: I do give my neighbours money but not like that, for me I prefer if I enter bus, once the drive drop me, if I give him money before he reach down to give me change, I'm gone leaving the change for him, there is the problem of being too nice to people you know, they going to question your source and even question whether you carry your eyes do am, but I help out people when I can but if I want to just make someone smile for no reason I'm going to go for someone I may never meet again or someone, or just anyone, note that many people think I'm weird atimes
[quote author= post=94302430]......and this one get sisters and mother for him house o! Calling girls with little boobs devils and wicked?? Is it a crime to have lime or agbalumo as boobs? You guys just come online to type rubbish and jargons online 24/7 sha.
Lifeofgabbyz: Some people have that misconception that it is very difficult for a Nigerian lady to get a man abroad, be it a white or black man. It actually isn’t difficult it just depends on the lady, her attitude, appearance and the situation.
Before you say I am speaking plenty English let me explain what I mean based on my experiences in Ireland where I currently reside.
1. Before you start complaining that no one is walking up to you, ask yourself this “do I look approachable”. The truth is a guy would walk up to you if you look approachable, because you cannot be frowning or doing resting bitch face and expect someone to walk up to you. Some people are not okay with rejection o and don’t get me wrong some people also fancy frowning o but to each their own. My advice is access yourself and the situation before complaining
2. If you are more of an introvert I can understand how this might be difficult for you but the truth is the best place to meet people is outside your bedroom because you get to see them physically and connect on a different level, you can also meet people online but c’mon some of us are skeptical right but if meeting people online will work or works for you, then kudos.
3. Another thing is you have to be true to yourself in the sense that you need to ask yourself “what do I want” because you cannot be looking for entanglement and then expect someone’s son or daughter that is looking for marriage to be entangling with you. Often times when looking for something you need to ask yourself if that is what you want. And if someone walks up to you looking for more than you are looking for, then just tell them.
4. Lastly, try not to be biased towards dating apps because in as much as they might look useless and everyone just wants sex, there are people who don’t just want sex, so try it out and if it doesn’t work for you then you know it’s not for you but if it works for you then it does.
To round off my points I would just say be approachable or look approachable, dress nicely and try not to be rude to people… Also some people who are complaining that they cannot find men are chasing the men away with the way they talk or the way they relate with people. And on that note I would like to also say that Nigerian ladies or women abroad do get approached. BTW, Nigerian girls are balling over here in Ireland.
Watch an indepth video where my friend and I discussed about this, please click on the link and don’t forget to subscribe to my channel.
ledamaster: What are all these nigerian young ladies doing in Lebanon of all place. I knw one who would call out of the blue, but will never say what she is up to in Lebanon. The lebanese are rushing out of their countries, nigerian girls are travelin their. Nigerians will just travel to anywher without proper research of the said country. Lebanon that you can be shot by locals and nothing will happen?
don't judge anyone with the choice they make cos you never walk in their shoes!
360degreess: Show respect to the dead you Oldman. We know it is because pmb refused to make you minister of justice that's why you are always attacking his government.
you are a fool and a dumb and you will remain like this forever..too bad!
paulolee: same obagoal of Newcastle dt i know back then still 35?? martins that i saw in newcastle around 2006 is the same age with cr7?? i swear if cr7 and messi are Africans, both for still be under 20..
me don know am since 2003 when he scored against my belove team (Arsenal) 4 champions League at highbury. .Nha Agbalagba osere!
FreeSpirited: Nobody plans to be broke, sometimes life and circumstances unplanned just happen. . But for married men, the experience is not an easy one to manage as regard to being the breadwinner of the family and gaining the trust and respect of your wife. . Women generally respond better to a financially bouyant and responsible husband. When you struggle to meet up with family expenses, it's a matter of time before your wife reacts and start giving attitude. Some women are understanding and will help out, but a financially tight men easily stress an hardworking woman which can be overwhelming for her. . When the money is not coming from the main source, she may develop distrust, anger and depression, which in turn affects sex life and energy level at home. Little issue quickly leads to quarell and malice to the point that the wife might feel underappreciated or unloved.
Over time, the persistence of such situation will make her more vulnerable to advances from guys out there who are doing well and promising her some fun and passion she's lacking at home. This is reality. And even virtuous women do fall at this point just to find happiness away from home stress. . I've seen this countless time even as a bachelor and it makes me get scared of my future marriage. Talking from experience I've dated married women who happen to be in this situation, many of them feel bad, but they need that spark and passion from their man, which they eventually get outside. I'm keeping an open mind, even when I'll marry, I believe such thing can happen. Men should make money to cater for the family, otherwise have in mind your faithful wife may start fucking around when money is not there. It even get easier with social media where they get tonnes of attention from Hot men everyday. Even wives of rich husband do fall, let alone the one of broke men. . As I write, a very homely, beautiful, gentle and innocent looking housewife is having same issue that I'm now her emotional support. It's only time before we start fvcking cos we are already building sexual tension and preparing to meet. That's just life, there's nothing can be done about reality. Though it's sad.
so you are fucking married women up and down? Be expecting your karma later in life
unibenakpos: there was a time I threw away all my arsenal jersey, the club they give unnecessary pressure. but now when Arsenal lose or win I will still put on my jersey... for watford to still get fans. we are good
I remember in 2002 when we lost the fa cup final to Liverpool, It was one of the saddest day of being an Arsenal fan....so many bad and sweet memories. ...
I have been a die hard fan since 2000.Kanu and Arsene Wenger made me fell in love with this great team...I'm a proud arsenal fan and my love and affection will keep growing for this team until I'm not breathing anymore..
eNIGERIANG: It’s exactly 6 years today that late Aare Musulumi of Yorubaland, Edo and Delta States, Alhaji AbdulAzeez Arisekola Alao died. On July 8, 2016, two years after his demise, Professor Afis Oladosu, who is now dean of the faculty of arts at the University of Ibadan, wrote the tribute below.
In the Name of the Almighty, the Beneficent, the Merciful
“A generous person is close to God, close to Paradise, close to people, and far from Hell. However, a miserly person is far from God, far from Paradise, far from people, but close to Hell. God loves more an ignorant man, who is generous than a worshiper who is miserly.” -Prophet Muhammad.
Brethren, it was on Monday. I had gone to the city centre in pursuit of life and living; I left the ‘sanity’ in the academy for the city centre to deliver the message of the Almighty. Each time I ventured into the city, I am always prepared for the known and the unknown; I usually guide my loins in expectation of good, the bad and the ugly. But I had not gone far enough when I found myself in a traffic hold-up. I looked at my wrist-watch. Time was some minutes after 4 p.m.
There was no escape route. Then I remember that the city is in the festival mood; the Id al-Fitr was a couple of hours away. The roads had become occupied. I mean occupied.
Traffic was simply heavy. It felt as if the whole city was migrating either away from itself or into itself. It felt the whole city had congregated at that particular moment and on that particular road whose cry for reconstruction would probably be heard when the village headmaster gets a third-term in office! Wait a minute. Granting second-term in office to their Excellencies is like giving a man the opportunity to eat the ‘forbidden fruit’ twice.
Excepting for one or two former governors, whenever they find themselves in office for the ‘second time’, these “Excellencies” become authoritative; they become authoritarian. They punish the masses with under-performance and for making the mistake of casting their ballots for them for the second time!
After close to thirty minutes, luck smiled on me. The road suddenly became open to traffic. But it was only for a moment. Soon there was a grid-lock again. But where I now found myself was close to a spot where I could make a detour and escape from what was proving to be a ‘hell’ on the road. Quickly, I sought an escape. The small road that I took led me to that section of the city where the rich constantly cry. It is the suburban; the city within the city. There the rich constantly cry.
There the rich live in barbed-wired encampments; in walled dwellings which remind you of the wall Donald Trump dreams of building between the US and Mexico. In that part of the city, the rich live in mansions whose entrances are reminiscent of gated quarters of the prison yards. There the rich live as if in an asylum; they live completely quartered away from having close contact with the ordinary masses. Soon, I found myself on the road that led directly to the house of the former popular Muslim philanthropist, the former ‘king’ behind the ‘kings’, the former power behind the powerful- late Alhaj Abdul Azeez Arisekola Alao (d. 2013).
Brethren, when Alhaji Arisekola Alao was alive, there were two types of security walls around his then sprawling mansion in the city: the physical and the human. The physical comprised iron and steel. It was made up of concrete and sheet. It consisted of guns and bullets. The human, on the other hand, could be divided into two: the security detail and the ‘insecure’ detail- the pauperized legion of hangers-on featuring professional and unprofessional beggars, loafers, lazy denizens and occupiers of the periphery of life. When he was alive, the visitor would get to know of the presence of Alhaji Arisekola Alao in the mansion not so much by the presence of the security details, but by the convergence of the poor and the needy at the gate to the mansion.
Thus when I passed by the mansion a couple of days ago, it was like a passage through history. Neither the security details nor the insecure ‘details’ were there anymore. The gates were firmly under lock. But I noticed the presence of new occupiers at the entrance to the mansion. From a distance, I noticed gradual take-over of the mansion by its real owner-Time. Weeds had begun to grow on the terraces which used to shine and shone like the lights in the Haram in Makkah.
Then I asked myself: where are the friends of the former strong-man of Yorubaland? Where are those who, unless they came to him, life had neither pleasure nor treasure? Where are those who thought that without him, life was simply impossible? Alhaji’s mansion has now become a haunting space: a space lacking in mistress and master; a mansion with doors that none now open nor closes but the wind. The only dinner that seems to be taking place in the mansion now, from the point of contemplation outside the walls, would probably be that of ants and termites.
Brethren, I thought the best mansion we could and should build after-all, is that which time would not and cannot destroy. It is the mansion of piety and righteousness. Somebody asked: “What’s the use of a fine house if you haven’t got a tolerable planet to put it on?” I ask: of what use is the dwelling that would not guarantee eternal life and eternity? If indeed Alhaji Arisekola had fans and friends while on earth, it should grieve them to discover that his estate is fast becoming a ‘mansion’ for termites and rodents. https://www.e-nigeriang.com/termites-devour-arisekola-alao-s-multi-million-mansion/
u just wan use us write big and many many English....Nha lie u dey lie..Nothing do Alhaji house. .I live opposite Alhaji house so mind what you write next time.Oniro oshi!
Righteousness89: Leave Religion bro but embrace a relationship with JESUS CHRIST! That's what matters!
JESUS CHRIST is all you need in this life and in eternity!
he doesn't need your imaginary Jesus christ he needs common sense to rule his word and to impact his community.....To be morally upright is just by common sense...Anyway religion will become extinct soon.The white men fooled our forefathers with religion, Our forefather lacked common sense and it is affecting us till today.
LabDNA: One of my tenants thinks he can manipulate me my sending her to me food whenever I enter the city.
I have my own apartment in my building in another city while I travel frequently to other states to check up my businesses.
Whenever I come around, she'll send her daughter who always wear skimpy dress to come bring me food. I just give them bread but decline their own food.
The husband lives in Dubai but the woman sleeps around and even pimps her daughter sometimes.
Enter any relationship with that one, your name na sorry, she go turn landlady overnight.
Denique: 1. Every youth can't go about creating a vaccine for "one virus". There are other fields their expertise are required.
2. It's rude to involve one's parents in an argument, more so, his grandparents which I'm sure are well older than you... Besides, the guy didn't have the conversation with you but Otedola... Speaks a lot about your upbringing. One thing is certain, you just refused training
3. You don't know him, so don't conclude he is jobless. If he had done what you suggested, you'd be the first to call him an online beggar
4. I know you want attention, so here you go: a. By "Nigerian men" , I hope you know that includes all the men in your family except you don't understand English?
b. Sex starved? Girl, you should change your circle. It's obvious you've been hanging with " chewing-gum boys" and these set of guys are known to want sex all the time.
You need an upgrade!
I hope you are ready for what is to come on this thread?
Don't play the "women supporting women card" here cos you alone called them out and they have a right to defend themselves.
You really don't have to comment on every thread as you seem troubled
PowerOfLove: So I was thinking about my family extensively and how we are not united at all. I can remember one person in the family that used to call for family meeting and get together every year. The man died almost 20yrs ago when I was still growing up and since then, there's no time again members of the family have all gathered to meet, greet and chart the way forward concerning the family extensively. May be he was able to achieve that because he was rich and respected.
Now, the only time we meet is if there's a burial, a ceremony or any gathering that would force people to attend and in most cases, the married ones don't come with their kids. I mean this is a very bad pace set for the new generation we are breeding today.
My two kids (3rd is 3 months old), outside my sister and her kids whom we are staying in the same city, my kids have not been able to meet other kids from my nephew and nieces and relatives generally and familiarize with them. This is giving me reasons to worry about as my kids may see their cousins on the road tomorrow and pass without knowing they are cousins. In worst case, what if in the future they meet and happen to be in a relationship without knowing they are related? Nollywood movie. Lol.
However, I'm thinking on how I can reunite the family such that once in a while, members of the family will come with their kids and we all gather, meet ourselves, greet and familiarize with each other but how to go about is what I lack exact knowledge on.
Any suggestions will be appreciated. Meanwhile, is this kind of disunity also happening in your family? How oft en do you guys meet yourselves in your extended family? Share your experiences.
first create a family what sap group and start from there.
Celebrities › Re: If Not For Music, These Nigerian Artistes Would Be Fashion Stars by Tayor23(m): 1:11am On Nov 24, 2020
