₦airaland Forum

ybalogs:
I have met her mum prior arranging to go see the dad and her other siblings. So on a faithful Saturday afternoon,I called two of my friends joined by my younger brother to just show once and for all. That wasn't the formal introduction though. Her dad just wanted to meet the man that has taken most of her daughter's time now.
Anyways,we went there and her dad was some Chris Tucker. Made me feel so at home but not asking me unnecessary questions. All in all,we tied the knot November 19 last year. It's been worth it. I can only keep thanking God for giving me my wife and her family.

I guess they helping you financially?

Abfinest007:
i alway advise guys not engage in a match that u are one zero down .na u need a penalty continue there is no var so there is no penalty for u

handicap 0:1

MRcocaFanta:
As a woman, what can give you happiness in This life if not for having your own beautiful kids.

Please stop this crap about marriage isn't for everybody.

Yet all the world powerful female celebs are successfully married.

Even Beyonce is married, chimamanda is married.

Was is not feminist Beyonce that sang a song titled "All the single ladies"

Yet part of the lyrics of the song is "if you love it, you have to put the Ring on it"

Can't you see she is talking about marriage?

Yet these dumb NIGERIA feminist will be talking about how marriage isn't for everybody.

Why not a single woman contest for the office of a governor or president In any part of the world and see if her party will even allow her contest.

It's even too far, let a single woman contest for any political post and see if she will be given.

Delusion of grandeur.

people with your kind of mentality get depressed easily...can you please leave Rita dominic alone and try to fix yourself mentally

Psalme91:
thank you very much for the words of encouragement, I also have 4 daughters and pregnant with the fifth. this baby supposed to be our last ,cause of financial problems, that's why my husband is not happy

oh 5 kids for dis kind country! Una get mind.

Lawdis:
Please my dear...the man in me needs the woman in you, I humbly asked

or pls what can I do in order to have sexual intercourse with you

ibuyairtime11:
To me, she is the sexiest nollywood actress.

mi gbo ru e ri

Jahkye:
chaiii

if you have never experienced what it means to be betrayed by someone you loved and cared about so much then you'll be blaming the man

depression is poisonous and not everyone has the strong will to overcome it so before you start bashing the man just know that depression is very very deadly

The guy was not depressed he was only disappointed

Threedoorsdown:
Hello Everyone

i just feel the need to share this, i may be wrong on my thoughts or submission but i'm open to corrections and suggestions if any

My GF( of almost a year) and I are working and comfortable . i have a white collar job while she is her own employer . I support her by giving monthly allowance and also helping out on any other needs she may have as a normal guy does to the woman he loves. In situations where i cannot offset the full bill, i give her a significant amount while she adds the rest . Few times she has fueled my car( about 2 to 3 times), other than this she hardly supports me whenever i'm down financially except lending money to me a few times and i pay back at the appointed time . One time we had issues and she threatened to call soldiers on me if i do not refund the money she lent me, i had to pay up before time.

Apart from the fact that she seems proud and ungrateful for the things i do( she once told me i gave her a meagre 20K monthly , money that cannot buy material while her then ex gave her over 50k bla bla bla. ), our major issues started when i became worried that she hardly supports me financially whenever i'm in need ( support here means lending me money o). whenever i ask to borrow money from her, she then gives excuses of bank application network and stuffs like that. i complained and confronted her on her lack of empathy and supporting a man who she claims to love and plan to get married to in the nearest future.

when we argue about this, she tells me that she has discussed this with people and they said i'm entitled to her money. This was after she once told me that she had sworn never to assist any BF financially except her husband because two of her exes who she did things for ended up marrying other women. she says she sees how her friend's BFs do EVERYTHING for them and wish her own also did EVERYTHING for her. she also said she envied her brother's fiancee because he does everything for her( the girl is from a very humble background and does not work, still a student)

i explained to her that i'm in no way interested in her money but i need to know and be rest assured that the lady i'm about to get married to , is willing to support me in our home and not just watch me to suffer when i need help at times and also to show that she can be a pillar. i told her if she could not commit financially while we date, how would she do so in the marriage. This is still someone not ready and willing to accept a modest and less expensive wedding as she feels otherwise since wedding is a once in a lifetime thing she should have a she was not ready to commit rather said we should end things. i agreed and we ended it

i brought this here to know if i was wrong to have complained about her lack of commitment or i did not reason well on the matter . i believe love comes with sacrifices for our partners

Another puss man spotted.Bros Don't let the love you have for a woman overruled your brain.

BMaretraitors:
It is no secret. Anyone that knows me know i'm totally against the idea of dating or mating with any man of African descent. I'm not attracted to them in anyway. I try to avoid any space that has a lot of black men because the sight of them repulses me especially the Nigerian ones. They are mentally lazy, weak and shortsighted. Whenever the look at me, i cringe because even though they would never have me the nurture the idea that they can. I see how their eyes burn in desire for me, ughh. How can they ever think that i would consider them a choice when they are just ugly copies of the real men in this world. They are no match. I know it. They know it. The whole world knows!


Today, i was shocked when my elder folks insisted i must marry my tribesman, which according to some means i should stop befriending non black men since that might spoil the whole plan of marrying within. I have not been my usual self since i heard this because i know my folks. They are tribal to a core and I would have been too but i lost my loyalty not just to my kinfolks but to my skin folks as well, after i learnt that we are all a lost cause because of the indiscipline and lack of loyalty of black men as a whole.

Dear Nairalanders and romancelanders, how do i convince my folks that i cannot end up with their choice for me. I can't tell them that i have self respect and a high taste in men because these seem selfish. What concrete reason can i give?

you want an advice from the people you hate? God punish you and your western thinking

DrTee1:
Something is really wrong somewhere.

Aside that this story is from one perspective, another huge concern is the grammar: Lexis, structure, tenses, construction.

Mum is the best teacher you know. She is a primary school teacher. That suggests she teaches at the elementary level where one of the core subjects is English language.

I'm afraid you may just have 'fallen hand' very badly - in the Nigerian lingua - and you have not covered so much in glory, at least to buttress your best teacher assertion.

As to the matter at hand, there are established ways in the civil service to resolve disputes: Teaching Service Commission, Civil Service Commission, and at the extreme, the National Industrial Court.

However, excuses like distance of assignment from residence shouldn't arise, really. It isn't an excuse to be officially considered at all in that line of responsibility. If anything at all, it should be lobbied for, under the table, and not presented as a major issue.

Best wishes.

Oga e no write this story to pass jamb

Offpoint:
Met one like that in a public transit (God is Good) first class, he becomes center of attention. ladies, guys taking selfies like their lives depended on it.

All this while I had my Dr. Dre headset on and blasting Eminem "Superman" and "3 A.M" on repeat... I didn't give a single, not even a tiny fûck about him till we got to our destination.
Funniest thing was: he was sitted next to me, didn't say a single word, nor acted like I knew him.

Inwardly he was pained, I could tell.

The only celebrity I'll ever give a fûck about in this life is Eminem and Enya..... The rest can go FT, IDGAF.

"met one like that" lol...bad guy!

Victoronah1:
I don't really know the right place to put this so I decided to do it here.
I am the first in my family,in my early 20s, I came from a rich family, well let me say 80% wealth rich over 100 if we are to do the maths. My dad is a politician and also a Reverend. I don't want to give away to much on this forum. My dad has about 57 properties alone in Enugu both shops and duplex. And in Port, Lagos and Abuja. I can't say more, I gave you this hint to see where I am heading to. Now I went to a very expensive primary school, paid over 250k per term also went to a very expensive private university paid close to 800k per year. When I was in uni my allowance was 100k per month excluding clubbing money and going out with girls. Infact my dad told me to ask him for money even if I want to take my girlfriend out and I should not have below 30k in my account at all in any day. This made me very lazy, and I don't even work cause he gave me 5 of his properties when I was in my final, I was very rich that I was wasting money like a fool, my pride became 10000million times more to the extent I even slapped my school registrar one day. Although I paid money oo and later graduated. Infact school was useless for me, I don't care what I graduated with, I felt I was okay and won't go poor, everyone kept telling me about how much pride I have. But it's now affecting me badly, my pride has made me loose opportunities even I had the chance to be my ward chairman but my pride bleeped me. My dad was very angry that he was setting me up to succeed him in politics and do better and I am using my pride to mess things up now I am so lazy, I live in my father duplex alone. 7 bedroom duplex just me alone. I don't even want to work, I do films on Vimeo to make money (the only work I can do) cause I said I can't even work in a private sector. My mum talked to me and told me I need to work for someone and answer yes sir or madam, come to work very early etc, that it will help me reduce my pride, but my pride still can't let me to do this. Please I need matured advice I want to work under someone in as much I know I may be richer than the person, there is something I want to change in my life which is that pride. Cause if I go into politics with this, my enemies may shoot me one day.

Please I need matured advice.

your father is a politician and also a reverend! You are a son of a thief and if care is not taking, nothing good will come out of you.

placeofallure:
Hmmmn men could be desperately desperate at times.

Way way back, he used to fill our drum with water everyday among other errands, This was an exercise in futility las las.

Another, he renounced his religion. Every member of his family, extended and nuclear, are moslems. Even the mosquito in their house be moslem, yet he was attending church with me and became a Bro.....

Yet another, ran away from home, wife and kids inclusive, to be with me. Admittedly, I love this at first cos the wife is no good. I won't bother you with details about that. But for the kids, I had to send him back. And I think because of me, he became a bad husband too but he won't admit it. I think they're separated now. And me, I'm born again now.

born again and still single right?

tyup:
He'd be Burning in the deepest part of hell as we speak

Ipobs drug lord disgracing Nigeria abroad may y'all end like this. insha Allah

how do you know that ..have you been to hell before?

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Nice one
Yesssssss
We are gradually becoming the real niggarrrs of Africa

Can some one shout it louder to the hearing of our low budget asss noisy neighbors called Ghana and south Africa
This calls for celebration. Yessss. Running down to play house to drink some beer. Which ride should i use now
The black Voltron dey always off anyhow for road
And the venza nor get plate number make police nor go stop me
Okay make i just use the white abi ash colour Voltron



Barman give everybody a bottle of something
Damnnnnn
Nigeria is the boss

you are confused. .just wondering how old you are

BrutalJab:
What's poor man mentality about this picture?


Are you just hearing that word for the first time?


Na so life hard you reach that you can't even understand anything?

oga nah still poor man mentality

Sugarrveiii:
So the other day , I Opened a thread asking about yoruba men based on my encounter with one !! Mehn sadly he was like the others,, did some digging , n realized he actually has a kid, asked him n he couldn’t answer the question , lies! so much lies!! Every instinct I had about him was correct .guess what? Because I kept asking he blocked me ,, n never actually said No I don’t hv a child or a girlfriend,,thank God we never had sex, Mehn it hurt me big time, But why are yoruba men like this? It’s a big shame on the yoruba tribe, that when a woman says she’s involve with a Yoruba man , people look at her as foolish .. I know many will call this tribalistic!! Doesn’t stop it from being the truth . All tribe got their bad egg !! But yoruba men no Dey shame . Yoruba men please leave Igbo women alone!!

ori e ti gbale

CAPSLOCKED:
many Mugus like you will also rush to comment without even reading the entire thing because to read anything more than 2 lines is the most difficult task for the average Nigerian.

if you want to hide anything from a black man put it in the book

vanida6:
the camel toe sef face one side

na because say nah tiny pusee

GamalNasser:
Yeah I saw that episode of legend of Chamberlain heights on CC then ...what's it with these cartoons and and correct predictions ...the Simpson predicted that 49ners will this years Superbowl and we are waiting to see

they are time traveller

Pls give me that job sir and I promise you won't be disappointed

I guess you were Raised in a broken home

Stupid because they decided to remain unmarried? You are the stupid one here..sorry!

In other words. .Tonto ti fa were loyan

Bros! You still do am like that?

Him just wan give us story

Read Wetin you sef write

You are just a pussy driven guy...your friends shouldn't trust you with their Babes

You just spoke to my soul

Bros can you elaborate more on it so I won't be a fool anymore ...

They call it politics of population control introduced by the western and developed nation to control the birth rate of impoverished nation...I think it was first done in China and India.