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This is a miracle! Thank you Lord for bringing them back.

In reality you are joined to whoever you've had Sex with. That's why Sex should not be toyed with.

The questions thrown at my post are answered in same post. Perharps if you read and re-read you might catch the light there-in.

Is Sex not Marriage?

If the word 'Marriage' is understood in its real sense, then sex before marriage will literally mean: marry before you marry?

What is marriage and what is sex? I guess the problem we have is that we see both to be different while in actuality they are the same.
The two simply mean the ‘joining of man and woman’. If two people who genuinely love each other (two hearts joining) embrace each other in copulation (2 bodies joining), are they not in order?
The abuse of sex, which needs no definition, is not what I’m talking about here!

Why do people choose to believe that lovers are not married until them have performed some ceremonies?
If they are joined at heart (in true love) why regard them as sinners because of the absence of mere formalities?
What keeps a union? Is it the love between couples or the funfair of formalisation?
Why do we respect shadow above reality?
Why are true feelings of people disregarded in other to uplift man-made norms?

We have succeeded in putting our beliefs above the reality of this matter, which is why this issue I regard as trivial keeps arising. It has become significant because we have been brainwashed into believing it is.
It is a lie that has been accepted as truth because it has not been substantially challenged!

I am not in opposition to the formalization of Unions, my point is, lets not allow it overrule the reality/foundation of Marriage.

God is the name I call an invisible that manifests through forms.
To others this ‘invisible’ is a force, spirit etc.

Truth, Love, Justice e.t.c. are examples of this invisible, but we know them when they are made manifest. The manifestations are in diverse forms.

A particular event could make TRUTH become so real like you could handle it.
You could know LOVE through a loyal friend.
You could experience JUSTICE through a situation.

What differentiates the Holy Spirit from other spirits is that it is “Holy”.

That feeling that envelopes you when Love, Truth, Justice etc become almost tangible is what I call Holy.

You can distinguish that ‘holy feeling’ from the unholy ones you get when you experience rejection, denial, prejudice, cant you?

When i get to that bribge, i'll cross it. If i ever get there!

I guess the question to ask is: What is Sin?

When we understand what SIN is, (not what we are taught to believe it is) then, we will realize that people are simply held in bondage by their incorrect perception of sin.

It is the inability to uphold erroneous beliefs that incites an attempt to justify it.

Posted by: 9jafreak
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Maybe WEDDING

Yea, I hope Wedding becomes OLD-FASHIONED
Maybe WEDDING

Yea, I hope Wedding becomes OLD-FASHIONED

But Certainly not Marriage.

But hey, Marrying for happiness is simply an illusion.


It takes a lot of work
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As people are beginning to see that its not worth it wasting money on what you are not sure of, wedding would definetly become old-fashioned with time.

Marriage is about two hearts twined in TRUE LOVE, it will remain till the end of time!

What GOD has Joined together, let no man put asunder. GOD is LOVE!
This is not an admonition but a statement of TRUTH.

Marriage like Love is not old fashioned, it is only RARE, INESTIMABLE & DIVINE.

Marriage is a game for mature adults.

The level of success you achieve at marriage corresponds to your level of maturity.
We record different levels of success because we are of different levels of maturity.

I have come to find out that marriage is in itself a ‘factor for maturity’
The longer you stay in it, the more mature you become. It is a rewarding process. The ‘not too sweet experiences’ we have, are the hurdles we cross to attain to maturity.
When we get there, marriage becomes bliss.

Begin to see incidences in marriage as challenges, other than ‘problem, crises, battles etc’, and then you will begin to record success.

Can he possibly fire with both arms engaged?

Mutual - Understanding

e ku gbogbo e

chikafumoshiku

That gives me another name of Igbo origin - CHIKA.

sing, singing

Aileyipada Ogo ye o, nitori aileyipada re Iyin, Ogo ye o!
The Unchangable, "FAITHFUL" indeed is your name. Accept my Praise.

A virgin for a wife?

Virginity means PURITY to me, and Purity is of the heart.
I suggest you look for a woman with a Pure Heart and not what i think you mean.

Sia Fuller, Id rather talk to you one on one. If you don't mind, please contact me on: eddymyluv@googlemail.com

Lacrissa,

You may or may not be able to get the right counsel here.
I am already sick of what some people are posting. If you are really sincere about doing God's will, I know he would grant you your heart's desire some-how.

People give advice based on their belief. It is left to you to examine opinions before you begin to accept and apply them.

A simple advice is capable of setting you free forever or putting you in eternal Bondage.

Beware!

GOD is ONE. It is we beings that name him names.
He is to you who you 'KNOW' him to be. There arises therefore no basis for comparism.

I know MY GOD!

TRUTH is indeed catching up with FALSEHOOD.

To all of you who resisted "THE DEVIL" on this thread, i say: it will forever be well with you.

What has Height got to do with it?  What exactly do you want in a relationship? Are you sure you want the real thing?

LOVE is PAIN!
I still believe in it, though.

If you feel good doing all of this, fine. If you don't, please don't force it on yourself.

All of this makes you a better woman, agree. But, does is make the man appreciate his woman more?

You could do all of that and more and still not be appreciated by a man. The man that appreciates a woman doesn't need so much pain to keep.

If you show a man too much of attention, it scares him! To be candid. I guess they pay more attention when you care less.

Please , just find a balance that works for your man.

People differ. What matters to one, matters not to another.
A single rule cannot apply to all. Study your partner and do what's good for your marriage.

AIRDIG, there definetly no BIBLE verse like 'nice!'.

Just wondering what you mean,

Isaiah 54:4-6

So much as i believe in sampling other peoples opinion, i still believe that this is a personal issue.
I guess you might not be sure of your reaction to issues until it happens to you. Usually i validate opinions that result from experience. Let me share mine:

I was neck deep in a relationship before the chance of checking my partner's genotype status came up. I was sure of my Genotype (AS) and my Partner's frequent malaria attacks made us assume he is AA. 
We therefore never bothered to check his genotype status until a certain need made him to. By then i was already 6 months pregnant.
We got the shock of our lives when the result revealed his genotype as AS!

Our baby came and her Genotype was later confirmed to be AS!


                                                   PART 2

My first Union hit the rocks so i had to get into another. By then i knew to check for Genotype status in advance. All of my smartness did not help much because i ended up with another AS Genotype Partner. Don't ask me how because i cant just explain it.
Now,what do we do? Do we adopt kids? That was out of it! Do we stay without making Kids? NO way! 
We finally agreed to do foetal genotype screening when I'm pregnant.

Let me go straight to the point. For reasons beyond our control we were unable to do any test until the baby came. His Genotype?  AA!


                                              CONCLUSION

As Humans, our best can end-up in FUTILITY. God has his way of doing things!