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I dont think it was necessary to deactivate ur account marc9.
@mumZ, u re correct

Has mac9 deactivated his account?

credibleGod:
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I'm delightful for your great assistance ,especially
the callers,contributors and your prayers ,may
God reward you in countless folds in your daily
live .you shall continue to reap the fruit of your
labour.
for those that sees nothing good about my
plea,may my predicament be your portion, may u
be put to shame and ridicule before man and God
sight too Amen.may your plague be trippled of mine.
@, jayandy God will bless you for your assistance
too numerous to mention here .my regrets is I
sold myself out to some persons that never see
no good in their life and others.
pls act on what I ask of you.God bless you.

credibleGod:
you will never succeed in all your handiworks in life,idiot

Wow, even if I wanted to tk d risk and help i sure wldnt bc of all these cursing. Y wld u resort to cursing pple.It doesnt spk well of u at all. U wld hv just posted receipt of payments as was requested. I pray God has mercy on ur soul.

Marc9:
Clarify a 3rd party allegation? Common, I'm more civil and matured than that. I understand how some ladies, particularly the ones in the rural areas, behave, that's why I don't have any clarification to make.

In as much as I have more stake to protect, I won't give any explanation.

I believe her supposed friend still has a functional phone.

oh, i just saw d lady's post. I really think u shld come and clear d air here.

Marc9:
Clarify a 3rd party allegation? Common, I'm more civil and matured than that. I understand how some ladies, particularly the ones in the rural areas, behave, that's why I don't have any clarification to make.

In as much as I have more stake to protect, I won't give any explanation.

I believe her supposed friend still has a functional phone.

ok, i get u. mumtobe, can u tell ur friend to come online to verify wot u just said? Since she s a nairalander, she shld b able to come and tell wot a fellow nairalander did.In dat way ur allegations wont appear baseless. I hope u undstd

chaz007:
I've known marc for quite awhile, and I know him in and out. I took the liberty to ask him what really happened. From what he explained, I can categorically say your friend is so inconsiderate, and cruel. Ask your friend if he owes him for the service he rendered or not. Nxt tym, don't come here posting things u knw nutin abt. Any1 can also come here to warn ppl that u're a prostitute, or an adulterer. So don't say or do things u won't want ppl to say or do to u. There are 3 sides to a story. For u to come slander him based on one side of the story, that tells u're a grown up kid.

Same thing u re accusing mumtobe of doing. If marc9 took his tym to explain dis story to u privately, shldnt he hv just come out here to clear d air? I think dats d right thing to do.

LuckyG1:
If you may allow me to ask this.What if another person is using the persona of Marc9 to perpetrate this crime? Why haven't your friend seen any reason to post her complaint,why you?

if someone else was impersonating him, then he shld just say it wasnt him bt sm1 else. Dont u think dats d right thing to do?

Marc9:
I'm tempted to call you a "nitwit", but I won't do that.

Is your friend a handicap that you had to come make a slander on her behalf?

Well, it's one of those things though. "To every action, there's an equal and opposite reaction".

Bt i really dont think this s soo much of an issue, if sm1 made a 'false' allegation against u, i think u shld just clarify issues instead of calling names. This is nairaland.I think wot u wld hv done s to clarify things cos ur integrity s at stake here.

@goosebump and keji3, adhere to ur dr's instruction(as long as u hv confidence in him). Goosebump dat bp is high(nt to scare u o).Tk d drugs prescribed, try to rest as much as possible reduce ur salt intake. Always check for protein in urine at each ANC visit. If there s protein(up to 2pluses) plus legswelling, den ur dr might want to deliver u at d earliest possible tym.Wotever complaint u hv, pls say it out, dont try to excuse it or form strong woman. Dont worry, u ll b fine. This ll surely end in praise.

cutekonkolo:
Goodd morning Mamas in the ouse, Happy sunday to us all. I went for a scan yesterday at 33weeks 3days, and the estimated weight of my baby was shown to be 2.7kg, this is d same weight my friend's LO weighed at birth and knowing fully well babies continue adding fat till wen they reach term. Please mamas, is this weight not on the high side at d stage? Then if yes, what can I do to slow down d weight before full term. I am worried cos I don't think I can handle biggy baby during delivery.

did ur mum hv big babies? are u and ur husband on d big side? wots ur feeding like. u may nt really expect ur baby's birth wt to b same as dat of ur friend's cos several factors come into play. In all, eat healthy(nt for 2)

4llake:
Not at all,the money I've been spending b/f nairaland came is not included, if I'm to calculate those ones u can't belief me .all away from OAUTH ife, to LUTH idiaraba b/f eko (longest story) about 196k is left but I can't calculate d balance b/CD d treatment is still on' I will have to spend more now b/c I'm wearying away I have to go with drop every time unlike b/f, I didn't even post expense that didn't have receipts

i think kingolaola shld really help u wt this. u dont need to b stressing urslf out at all.
@kingolaola, has it bn up to 5wks funds started coming in frm nairaland?

salsera:
@ALL

I understand that everyone WANTS INFO on how the money has been sent however please remember that we have a PATIENT here.

Please dont think this case is the same as other Tehn cases where you can demand reciepts , weekly updates like they were being paid.

Folake is undergoing CHEMO here!!!!!!!!!!!
All this plus and minus excel sheet computing being demanded here is not in the interest of the patient
Someone that is physically reeling daily from chemo effects and we are discussing lack of updates like its supposed to be a twitterfeed

We have given, we have verified CAN WE LET HER GET ON WITH HER TREATMENT AND COMPLETE IT AT LEAST.

If anyone seriously wants the detailed accounts then they should volunteer to do it for and take that load off Folake's family.
Cancer stops everything in the life of a patient and their family - they are already juggling their personal lives and assisting Folake day in day out whilst we are here online posting posts. They are living it!! Emotionally and physically.


@4llake
I passed the place you get your immunotherapy drugs from in Magodo today.
I'll see what I can do

Nobody has lost sight dat folake s receiving chemo. She doesnt need to gv d update herslf. i think kingolaola shld, or delegate sm1 to do dat. How ll pple kno if d money they hv so far s enuf. sm1 has even asked, still no response. U see wen d public s involved in things as this, they want to b carried along and its nt bad at all.

lovinam:
Yea I get u, she said tying it the wrong way making the uterus drop down. The person I know that had it has 2kids o! The other had 5 tho. I googled it a lot of factors sha. It is well with us women! Pls how do we explain our dear sis own. I think she said she has 3kid.

There re a lot of things we probably dont kno abt her history. I think she shld just go see a specialist for proper evaluation

esteria:
Tnx @tchiwinnie, I did d blood test, white blood cell nd urinalysis, widal nd dey all came out good. It was jst d malaria reason d doc asked me to tk a malaria drug.
I started taking blood tonic 2days after d malaria drug. D 1st day I took d blood tonic I felt d dizziness but not severe. I felt it jst slightly 2day but beta dan d previous day.
I want to observe myself b4 goin bak to d hosp.
Tnx y'all I apr8

nt white blood cell dear, hb. dats wot ll show ur bld level white bld cell count ll indicate whether or nt u hv an infection bt nt ur bld level.

fried rice, coleslaw and chicken

esteria:
Gudeven adorable mothers, I'm a ftm. Pls I nid ur advise. I've a 4month 1wk old daughter, I had her tru CS. I started feeling dizzy some wks bak nd went to d hosp last sat. I was made to do series of test nd they came out fine except for malaria which d doc said I shud get any malaria drug dat is well tolerated by my system so I took amatem. I jst finished taking d complete dose 2days ago but I started feeling d dizziness again.
Pls is there any1 wit dis experience nd how was it tackled?
Tnx I sincerely apr8

U can go to a nearby lab, and check ur bld level(pcv/hb). Was it checked b4, u were discharged after d cs? Meanwhile, eat well. include, garden egg, ugu and oda fruits and veggies to ur diet. let us kno d result of d test

lovinam:
My dear, My matron for ANC told us that tying wrapper especially the wrong way is one of the reasons prolapse happens. I just jejely respect myself o. I no de tie wrapper o, I try to work out to firm my belly. It happened to my relative, she had surgery to correct it.

My dear, prolapse actually isnt related to wrapper tying. If nt every wonan for get am na. Its usu happens to pple who hv had many kids, or surg in dat area. U can check it up

jboixxx:
Hello, my NL family. My 16mths old boy won't let you be until he drinks water first thing in d morning! Is it OK for him? He drinks ~750ml per day!

Very very ok. He s a correct guy!

teemercy:
Hello mums in the house,plS ow do I clean my Lil one mouth,he's 9 mth with a tooth?Thks

u can use a soft facetowel, soak in warm salty water and clean his tooth, gum and tongue

Firstimer:
My baby's diaper has been having orange like stains on it at the areas where his urine is supposed to be. What can this be pls. He's 6mths+

His urine s probably concentrated. Give him more fluids

cutienik:
Gudday mothers,I nid help frm Fina,tchiwinne and jam..my boy wil clock 9mnths on monday,he slides wt his chest so fast I try to kip up wt him and pulls himsef up on any available stool his hands touches and eats evrytin bt my worry is since he started crawlin,he falls alotttttt,hits his head,no bumps bt i feel as if am nt up to bein a mother,feel so useless,I hate mysef weneva he hits his head even though he luks ok,I av bcum his maiguard now....I hop all dese falls won't av adverse effect on him,am so sad ryt now,pple tells me I boda too much,sum said I shuld put him on my back 24/7.thank U.

My dear, dont torture urslf. U re a gd mum. Try as much as possible to prevent such falls, bt if they occur, no p.As odas hv said, remive harmfl objects, clean wet floors etc. God really has a way of taking care of these kids. U dont hv to back him 24/7

jessyjes:
Hello all,am having an after birth issue likely uterine prolapse,i have 3 kids,after d last baby born in 2013 I started experiencing heaviness in my anus and a potruding flesh at d close to d tip of my vagina.can anyone help!

Pls go to ur gynae so it ll b repaired

4llake:
can u please send some of your people to come n check on me in d hospital? D receipts are very many,and more over for confirmation n prove,I will b glad if u can kindly do that for me

Dear, its nt abt sending someone, kingolaola or smone else shld collate dese things and post for evry1 to see. Pple want to kno how much has bn spent on wot so far. Chemo? drugs? trans? feeding? logistics? post it here. I think we deserve to kno

stone07:
Hello mothers in the house. Pls my six months old child has not been able to hold and stand his neck.But he can turn it to right or left side only. The neck is not yet stable so we don't understand what is happening to him. Although he was born pre term but as at this age, we think he should be able to hold and stand the neck.
Pls has any mother experienced this problem before? and what can we do to stabilise the neck.

Wot was ur baby's birth history like? Did he cry immediately after birth, did he hv jaundice? If yes, how was it treated? Does he smile wen u play wt him? At how many weeks was he given birth too. U can find out some of d answers frm ur wife.

mydreams25:
Good morning al,hope our los are doing great. pls i gave birth 5weeks ago through cs and am breastfeeding my baby, this morning i started my menstration back. pls is this normal because i think it shouldnt start this early since am breastfeeding. Pls help a ftm. Thanks

Its normal o. U just hv to b carefl and start some form of contraceptive to gv u tym to heal well, to avoid stories dat touch.

mumsgirl27:
Lovely and funny birth story. May God guide and protect them.

Mamas in the house, abeg I fit eat Afang soup and white soup. am craving for them badly

Yess o, u fit. Send some to me too o esp d afang.

mytestimony:
Is it fair that my dh and parents banned me from taking mango? Am so sad

Haaa, y na? Wot did they say it ll do to ur lo?

Mzora:
join me and thank God for blessing me and my family with a princess early dis morning.birth story later.

Congrats dear.
March mamas arent smiling at all o.

kingolaola:
Hello People.
I am so sorry for making you worried on this thread. Things will improve from this moment. I also dont want to give excuses in defense of myself for not reporting here promptly.

However, I have updated the donor list few days ago up till the last moments except very last donation of N1,000.
You can check the list on I think page 26.

As per the amount spent so far, I will want to say here that I will have to look into that so that I can give the house feedback. I have transferred the sum of N610,000 naira to Folakes account on February 20. Right now, I have close to N200,000 to be transferred. This I wanted to do few days ago but unfortunately, there was bad network. I will do that hopefully tomorrow Friday.
I will also ask Folake details of the expenditures so far so that the house can be aware or may be Folake can also handle that aspect since she is here.
Thank you very much for your understanding

I think u shld copy and paste d update frm page 26 to dis page. Pple may nt hv d patience to go search for pg 36. Pls as much as possible, try to post an update at least once every 2-3days.

4llake:
I've not been feeling fine, my body system are very bad ,that is y I'm away my good people, let me just thank u for ur love, I'll b back

Be strong. Fill urself wt positive thoughts, make positive declarations. I imagine urslf conpletely healed already. I pray God grants u divine healing. I hv an aunt diagnosed of liver cancer, her faith is something else. I kno God ll honor her faith and she ll soon b told she s cancer free. I pray u too ll hv such faith

No b small combination o, lol. How does dis green beans taste wen u eat it like dat

Lunch today. White rice wt fried veggies and chicken. I used cabbage, carrot, green pepper, green peas, onions, red pepper and chopped chicken