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Before I let my sistas in.........
Talk

What about?

35 - 45yrs old chaps n gals
Where you'all at?
Let's get some mature discussion rolling.

No offence to the arty farty ones having a party on my thread.

Talking bout the economy......................

Play it by the ear.
Set the mood,
Friendly atmosphere as usual.
Simply drop it in conversation......
That ...U really care bout someone but don't know how to tell.
Hear her advice bout what to do.......
Once she's into brainstorming.... drop the line.... give her time to take it in


She's quiet.... don't speak if u don't want to be snookered.
She laughs.... switch conversation...... her brain is ticking overtime!!!
She's upset...... tease her, that way you remain friends.
She's forthcoming..... don't delay... close the deal!!!!!!

Looking to hear some good news later.
Good luck.

Need to elaborate a little more.
Give scenarios
What do u say or do?
Give us sth to work with.

Good luck to Dbanj.

Waiting to hear great hits from Don Jazzy n his crew

Don J....
amidst all this wahala, Abeg produce more hits jare, make we dance without fear.
Maybe its also time to consider getting artists along the West n Central African
regions on board creating nice collaborations/ fusion.

Hurry ooo! Don J

Set the ball rolling!!!!

Depends on the characters involved.
And maturity or lack-of exhibited by all parties.

^^^^^^
Seconded.

Let her realise the full impact of her actions.
If not guilty of any previous affairs n she's a wifey material.

Let her be warned seriously before taking her back, after a short while in the dogs house.

^^^^^^ seconded.

No " pretty woman" episodes in real life. It's disheartening giving young girls the
impression that some handsome rich prince wl b round the corner to save you.

Let's tell of the ritual murders, gang rapes, cemetery rapes etc following "runs" outings
which have a higher probability of occurrence.

Just maybe, a few ladies will be protected. Knowledge is power.

This romantized notion or "M + B" thinking has led many to their ruin.

Wonder why hardwork, discipline has never been romantized

It's funny, how the men seem to think this ops cries r out of self preservation not for moral good.

I would put things in a different perspective.

If your much younger brother (feels like a stud) starts an illicit affair, (very physical, no intentions of taking things further) with a previous Ex, you really cared about and may be still do, who is presently in a loveless union: how would you feel??

2ndly, its an unspoken rule, don't mess about in familiar territory. There are daily rants from men here on NL about
girls dating Aristos ( older, maybe richer men, probably married too). This scenario seems to fit the picture.

Later, we moan about Nija being messed up
We can't fairly assess a microcosm all because a fellow chap is getting his j..oystick being ministered
too regularly by a fresh young thing, young enough to be a daughter, who grew up knowing him as an " uncle".

Hey, Hitler or Idi Amin.
Is that a relationship or prison??

Guys like u r all mouth, mushy when the chick comes along.

Take sex out of the equation for a time period, 3-6 months.
Help her understand the reasons for this.
Do other things, explore each others hobbies, cinema, explore nature, attend music events, visit art galleries,
seminars, visit orphanages or less privileged homes.

Determine your compatibility thereafter.......
Still keen,
Go for it, bro

Whatever happened at last?

Right on.

It never ceases to amaze me, the pattern of thinking as described by Daresh.
lacks long-term credibility !!! !!!!


There is always a presumption that the other woman seduced the man.
Heard of a man thinking with his d, ick.
I have always said to female friends, identify and address the issues behind ur man's errant ways.


Chasing some chick(s) across town will only bring health issues to the wife.
How many women are you intending to scare off, both on-line and offline??
What happens if you were to meet a lady who can equally be as bad or worse in your bully tactics??

My advice will be to identify the issues behind his impending return to his 1st love,
( did u snatch him from this 1st love initially and this is payback time ?)

Deal with your husband, he is the one responsible to you, not her.


Seen so many women chasing off husband's several girlfriends or mistresses, without manning the homefront,
only to find an unassuming lady somewhereelse looking after a football team of illegitimate children sired by hubby.


What next

Send a WMD?

Forgive me for this somewhat presumptuous entry,
if it causes any offence.

Seems bro wants to eat his cake and have it.
Got commitment issues but still wants the role of long-term partner,
wt some bedmatics and other fringe benefits if possible.

If u, I must stress "U" are ready to move on, need to set your boundaries
to enable a clean break, heal, appraise, re-set from learnt lessons.

Otherwise, 3 yrs later, u remain stuck in a relationship not going anywhere,
or dating someoneelse as rebound ( not fair to the new chap or yourself) or to repel this malingerer

What do u mean, sir

Need more details

Young as in 50yrs
?? Previously married, children from previous relationship(s).

What is your discipline or industry??
a little info helps.

Great to see the mingling going on.
Pls share any feedback wt the group, particularly the long distance " relationships" that develop.



Mothers day's round the corner:

Bringing out the sentimental part of me out:

what 3 things can u thank ur parents ( mum) for

Good, u could join,
Jethro.
Yeah, hope to get a good conversation going wt no derailers.
How was ur week? What do u think bout changing priorities?



Sup!!! Bin G,
What can I do for you?
Hope ur week ain't bad.

Op wants a young trophy Igbo wife that can be a good political wife, bring in votes and some little kiddies as well.

Apply please if you fit the bill

Busy, otherwise smooth n good.

Still living down the eastside.

@ kunle75,

How did yesterday go?
Feels like as one gets older, things considerably change.

The usual running around to get the significant other gifts, expectation, apprehension and the feeling of full satisfaction upon getting moans of approval or acquiescence.

Now its simply getting some e-card, flowers,little gift, ( just paid for that expensive holiday, remember ! ! !).

Priorities simply change.

What do y'all think.

Anybody interested in a LONDON do ? ? ?

? ? ? ? ?

Any takers?

Of course, associates including GFs are arrested, they may not necessarily be charged or convicted in the absence of incriminating evidence.

But Onila as usual, u have provided potentially sth that can be used against u.

If I were yahoo yahoo, it will do me well to keep away from you.

No offence, you will only be a SIGNPOST to my door.
   

Ooouchh 

Why not.

No be woman??

Disagree wt getting external help. Might make things worse.

Maybe a good friend who is liberal, on a later note if things do not improve.
Simply have to give ur chap sometime to cool off,

You happily waited the last time he sulked, so he's used to that mode of action.
No use, trying a different approach yet.

Give him time to cool off n make sure no reasons come up for him to suspect foulplay.
Whether innocent mistakes or not.

Thanks bro,

Hope u have had a good day so far

Any good stuff n ur mind, u wld like to share,

Good luck Mr Bigdick,

Wifey or GF away in the village, , again!!!.

Pls keep us updated, iyatrustee.