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tpia1: Most men arent desperate unless they have certain material benefits they stand to gain from the marriage.

Eiregirl: No matter how selfish SHE is? What he did is SICK & I hope he gets what he deserves!!!!

BBM: First of all , a man should never ask a woman if he can kiss her, as she will only say, a man should never "ask" for a kiss.

Asking her for a kiss will only make a man look like a boy, which is what a woman is not interested in, and even if she says "yes", it could mean she is just being polite, while on the inside her attraction meter will read a firm, "No".

Secondly , a man should never ask a woman if he can take her out on a date sometime, as she would like to be with a man who is a leader and in control, not someone who asks her permission to hit on her.

A man should confidently ask a woman out, by simply saying, "We should hang out... what's your number?" or tell her about a specific place he wants to take her to.

Thirdly , a man should never brag about the car he has or the kind of house he lives in, as it would seem like he is trying hard to impress her.

Women would be far more impressed by a man's material possessions if he does not mention them in conversation.

The fourth thing a man should never ask a woman is what she wants to do for the night, as she likes a "man with a plan".

The man needs to have a game plan before he calls her, so as to ensure that she will not be burdened with having to think about what to do.

Fifthly, a man should never ask a woman if she likes him, as this is one phrase that turns off a woman completely.

He should just assume that she likes him, and never ask the question, as it would look like he has no confidence.

The sixth tip is that a man should never ask a woman why she never answered his message, as one, it would show that he cared she did not reply back, and two, it would give her a guilt trip, which is seen as insecurity by women.

The seventh tip is that a man should never ask a woman how men she has slept with, as this shows that he is suffering from insecurity.

The eighth tip is that a man should never hint at a future date with a woman he has just met, as she not only wants but needs a guy who is somewhat of a "challenge", and will lose interest if she senses she has won.

The ninth tip is that a man should never end a phone conversation with a woman with a "next step", as firstly it would kill any spontaneity by being predictable, and secondly he would kill any chances of her calling him.

The tenth tip is that a man should never talk bad about a woman's guy friends especially if he hasn't met them and doesn't know her very well, as this is the fastest way for her to mark him as "insecure".

http://articles.timesofindia.indiatimes.com/2012-10-03/man-woman/29829800_1_woman-tip-insecurity

Men please ROGER THAT..

Feel free to share your thoughts.

Agiliti: dude...did i tell you i was blind?

anyways, OP if you're in a 6 month old long distance relationship, i'm almost certain you are being taken for a ride, but i might be wrong.
how did you guys meet? how far do you live from him? how frequently do you talk?

aweleokolo: I am a PA and I enjoy my job.

First, you should be prepared to work longer hours than other employees especially when your boss requires it.

Discretion in paramont in this role. You will be privileged to classified information by virtue of your position.

During your interview be calm, polite and straight to the point. In my experience, MD's like people who can communicate clearly and quickly. Make your point, give relevant examples and stop.
Emphasise that your ethicaland moral standards and integrity when you are asked about your strengths and weaknesses.

Be sure you are competent with Microsoft Office tools and outlook. (Excel and Word are about to be your new best friends)

Make it clear that you are willing to work flexible hours and travel when required.

To show that you are interested in the job and your career, ask them what your typical day as an assistant will be like? Ask your scope of work and find out about your career progression withing the organisation. (Unless you want to be a PA forever)

Don't bring up salary talk until they do. When they do? Ask them what the previous person in that role was earning. They will play on your lack of experience so highlight your strengths and negotiate careful. But act like it isn't all about the money. Act like you are more interested in the oppourtunity to support and contribute to the success of the management team.

Finally, remember to pray for Guidance and Favour. That His Will be done.
Goodluck.

Billyonaire: This is a dream life. Has anyone here fvcked in a private jet at high altitude. All I can say, is, find money. Money is badly good.

Kslib: You see, the problem with most of them is follow follow.. They know they dont feel comfortable in these weapons called "high heels" abi na "mount zion",but still they wear it just to feel among.. I have seen a lady who almost went naked cos her high heel wanted to fall her..
If a girl can prefer a bad guy to a gentle one,why wont she prefer "high heel" to "normal shoe" .. The funny thing is that after the bad guy breaks her heart,she will come back running to the gentle guy..
When high heel don break their leg finish,them go begin run find rubber slippers..
To all the high heel ladies in the house,"THOU SHOULD NOT JOKE WITH THY ANKLE,COS AN ANKLE INJURY CAN CHANGE "YOUR CATWALKING" TO "ELEPHANT WALKING,IF CARE IS NOT TAKEN,IT MIGHT DIVERT TO K-LEG AND GIVE YOU PERMANENT V-SHAPED NYASH"..Be warned...

Sagamite: 37 is actually old.

Women giving birth at that age have significantly increased risk of giving birth to a child with health issues (e.g. Down's syndrome) and a women at 37 would most likely be far less attractive (older looking) than at 22.

There is nothing wrong in delaying marriage or not wanting to get married, but lets not argue against biology.

skyone: Well i can categorically tell you the issue of spiritual husband is on the board and can not be erased. Many likes of yours knows this problem is the epitome of late marriages in women desiring one.





Obviously number 1 applies to your belief above. And where you failed woefully is your foul belief of career over family life. Yes you can strife for better future but hey your silly move is not the way to go about it . Ask many women  that has left wearing your shoes how regrettable their life is today.




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Skyone I would like to cut in here.
The lady above is enjoying a fulfilled life and you're moaning otherwise!!

It's a matter of opinion.....ways of assessing quality of life.
It's not in your remit to decide how people should live their lives and at what age to settle down.

That's Superiority/ Inferiority bullsh.....it.

I have a 38yr old female single unattached friend who enjoys herself, traveling the world n learning about new cultures, art, music and chateaux... You have no "right" to think she has a poorer quality of life.

I constantly meet as clients, women in their 40's and 50's who have been single for relative long periods with no children...... guess what

They are having a ball!!!!!!!!!!

******Loneliness gets easier to deal with as you grow older.
BTW, many wives are lonely in their marriages
So its relative!!!********


They look years younger than their contemporaries with children, have a satisfying career or hobby, encourage a good circle of friends and a holistic approach to life.

For the woman seeking a partner or husband, more "vaseline" to your elbows.

To those not quite there yet, take your time, freeze ur eggs if you're maternal once arriving at 30!! Or consider egg donation IVF or potentially cloning!! (Technologies are fast developing).

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Just my OPINION!!!

tonigreen: I have this friend of mine that we've dated for like 3yrs now, we both love each other and we're even currently on a plan to settled down 2geda. about 2mnths ago, her uncle paid in about 14million naira into her account on the note that he wants to make use of it during December period when he returns. I work with SPDC through a contractor company, but i hav an xtra supply business that i'm also engaged with, so i asked her to lend us 500,000 to add to my running capital for the business so as to make as much turn up as i could and return the money back to her account b4 her uncle returns back, but to my greatest dismay, she declined. this is someone that knows me in & out that i've shared my true feelings with, someone that knows my worth, someone that i've always given with all cheers whatever she demands 4rm me and my shoulder to lean on.... House please this is a true story, Is she still worth building my future with? what should i do because i'm a kind totally confused if she truly has my success & our future @ heart?