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FERNANDEZISBACK:
If you were intelligent you wouldn't be making this statement..those who practice same sex is it with their consent (each other) or not?

If you act upon homosexuality what happens? What happens is an act of sexual intercourse where by both parties consent to the sex and enjoy it...You may start a loving relationship with a another homosexual...Since both people consent and aren't hurting each other.. it is totally okay and they could spend a life time together...

Now do the same for paedophilia...Acting on paedophilia makes it that an adult has sex with a child...Children as I'm sure you're aware are unable to consent..that area of their brain isn't developed well enough for them to make informed decisions by themselves. .You also can't have a long relationship with a child because they aren't a child forever; there eventually comes a point where the child is an adult and the paedophile looses their interest... Since one part doesn't consent and is being hurt it is totally unokay and they couldn't spend a lifetime together even if they did somehow get into a consensual relationship...

Point is, paedophilia is a psychological disorder because it involves a sexual attraction to something that can't be done in a healthy way; there is no such thing as a sexual relationship between an adult and a child which is healthy or non-harmful.

Homosexuality is just another sexuality on the other hand because it involves two adults who consent and engage in a healthy and non-harmful relationship; it's the same as a heterosexual relationship, it's just two people of the same sex. Hopefully this helps you see it a bit better...

lol u are just trying to rationalize what u feel not what u know. Let me give u proper education. In africa same sex is forbidden but paedophilla is allowed by muslims. In america it is vice versa. U also said that the children brain are not developed . Do u know that if a man sleeps whth a 17 yrs old girl he is seen as a paedophile even if the girl gave consent. Do u want to tell me that a 17 yrs old girls brain is not developed. Same sex is a mental disorder by nature a man and woman are attracted to each other bcoz thats how civilization and reproduction continues. But due to societal,psycholigal and enviromental influence that brought about same sex.

plaindealer:
I really have nothing against her sexuality, it doesn't bother me a bit, but her cruelty, inhumanity, barbaric and vile utterances are disgusting and should never be tolerated in any society.


This is always the result when you nurse, fed and raise your children with hate, bitterness, bigotry, paranoia, delusions and societal hopelessness.

Now, their dirty and disgusting ways are now playing out on the world stage

What a sad human tragedy.

she insulted the queen 4 what she did to afrika while she speaks their language and also got educated by d same system and adopted the white people culture of same sex. What an hypocrite. She also waited for the queen to fall sick b4 typing what a coward masquerading as a strong woman in another countrx that belongs to the same peeople that enslaved ur ancestors. She never blamed the blacks that collaborated with the whites.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Pedophilia is considered a psychological disorder...It differs from a sexual orientation in that its objects are not capable of giving informed consent to sexual activity, ever...
Sexual acts with minors are deemed harmful..something that distinguishes them from homo- or heterosexuality..

Pedophiles are predators of the defenseless and innocent...In order to attempt to protect our children predators have to be removed from society...Same gender sexual activity between consenting adults hurts no one...
You sound like a kid after Makin that mindless statement..you tried so hard to be logical but ended up fooling yourself..

paedophila is a psychological disorder same as same sex. U always insult people when u are trying to make a point doesent that make u less inteligient than them.

invinzible1:
We are not as corrupt as them

we are worse

mattmogan88:
teebagy and sunnychibs , make una come see the tribalism una Dy talk about.

hahahaha

Igbodicool:
Only FOOLS are quick to call other people fool.
She did what no man or woman in your tiny tribe both dead and alive can do.

Of course you should know the only people Britain is afraid of, is the Igbo.
If e dey pain you, go and do what people who are tired of this world dey do.
Igbo no send anybody!

she didnt do anything. She waited for the queen to die or fall sick b4 posting not saying the queen is a saint but we blacks have done more damage to ourselves than the queen. We are the most tribalistic race on earth. Was the queen responsible for the october killing 2yrs ago. Africa will still b shit bcoz we mostly have internet couch activist not real life.

Faber:
This Lady is a hero a swear. Giving it to them woto woto highest Jeff did is to delete her post and ban her. Who twitter help. Me sef no dey for Twitter.


May she rot I'm Lucifer's pot in hell.

what makes u think ur ancestors are in heaven. Ur socalled uju couldnt mess with her when she was alive but when she is dead what a coward.

Amb1045:
UK should return all our stolen artifacts.

yahoo boys should return all d money they defrauded them.

Ready100:
Honestly, Americans are ahead of us in everything

End

we are ahead of them in iliteracy. Corruption. Tribalism. Nepotism. Embezzlement of funds been over rigethous.

immortalcrown:
No Yoruba has ever killed a Yoruba and no Hausa has ever killed an Hausa. This is why Igbo is the only tribe you consider disunited.

You are just a noisemaker that says what you cannot prove. Provide any fact to show other tribes are more united than Igbo. Provide any fact to show Igbo is more disunited than other tribes. Until you provide the facts, continue with your noise.

igbos helps each other more than the other but u see yoruba ehnn lol

Patriotsleague:
This is different, the Queen is the head of England, I can never stay in a house owned by a person I hate.

not only the head of england but the head of uk

Persephone1:
To be honest, when i saw your first comment earlier today, i wanted to take it up with befitting counter response but i decided against it. I thought " its Pan let him have his moment" . I'm glad estrange did the honours of showing you how illogical, sexist and mentally disturbing your submission was. Like seriously in this century one can still posses such archaic notion and spew it proudly . Are we back to the era where men go to school while girls are married off at the completion of their first menstrual cycle? . Yes Nigerian education system may not be top notch but i don't think we run a system where boys are taught to read and write but girls to paint face and smile for camera. So where does your notion that men are trained as intellect and women as superficial camera freaks come from.

I'm an ardent user of the forums you listed and even more, and i put it to you that your claims are totally exaggerated and purely made on assumptions. These forums have subsections, have you gone through all? What if i tell you that on real writers forum Women are more appreciated because they translate the invisible better, they are more connected to emotions because they are the deeper beings. Female Authors are always different.

Nairaland Isn't even a writing Forum. Well it used to be but not anymore. Even the males that comment are far from being called writers. A person with an IQ less than two digits can use Nairaland and he will be celebrated as a genius all he needs is hate against women ask Zon.efree how he rose to NL stardom if you doubt me. Far back in days where intelligent folks existed on NL people like my example don't comment. They read and learn while the elders deliberate. Both Guys and Ladies debate on topics, argue where need be, brawls and still learn from each other. I have witnessed debates gone for two days between monickers with opposing point of view. Each party argued with facts and references until they reach a conclusion. I've seen brawl that makes you get a pen and paper, I've seen conversations that opens your eyes, challenges that inspires you to widen your horizon. Back then you don't just wake up and post lies,someone would call you out with fact. Not only were users of that era Intellectually intelligent , they were emotionally intelligent too.

But look at what we have now, dead brain teenagers with hyperactive hormones littering the forum with their mediocrity. Women are tagged names, bullied,shamed here and you expect them to stay? Even in their absence folks like you are still throwing stones at them by undermining their intelligence.

female are praised for having a deeper thought does that make sense to u. Emotions are feelings not thought. Men dont sexualise women. Women sexualise themselves

FearlessOG:
Do not be deceived by anyone claiming that females rarely comment on threads because of misogyny or sexism. I’ve seen this erroneous claim times without number. That is a blatant lie!!! In fact, it is quite ironic that females on Nairaland comment far more on threads where misogyny/sexism is prevalent than on other threads where misogyny/sexism is virtually non-existent. Any person who has been on Nairaland long enough (either as a guest or as an active user) and has a modicum of sincerity can easily confirm this.

I wholeheartedly welcome anyone to call my bluff. Go and verify the following:
What’s the degree of misogyny/sexism on football threads? What is the extent of participation of females on such threads?
What’s the degree of misogyny/sexism on political threads? What is the extent of participation of females on such threads?
What’s the degree of misogyny/sexism on investment threads? What is the extent of participation of females on such threads?
What’s the degree of misogyny/sexism on automobile threads? What is the extent of participation of females on such threads?
There are many more examples but the above should suffice.

After answering those questions, kindly proceed to verify the following:
What’s the degree of misogyny/sexism on romance threads? What is the extent of participation of females on such threads?
What’s the degree of misogyny/sexism on celebrity threads? What is the extent of participation of females on such threads?
What’s the degree of misogyny/sexism on family threads? What is the extent of participation of females on such threads?

By the time you are done getting answers to the above questions, it will become crystal clear that females on Nairaland are overwhelmingly present on threads that have to do with sex and relationships (Romance, Family, Celebrities, etc). Those are the same threads where the misogyny and sexism are also present, so it’s a no-brainer. Perhaps the only section where females dominate on Nairaland with little/no misogyny/sexism is the Food section. Conversely, there are numerous sections where males dominate on Nairaland with little/no misogyny/sexism, but females are rarely ever interested in such threads.

PS: Don’t even get me started on the misandry and androphobia exhibited by females on this forum that rarely ever gets called out. All these are exceptionally easy to verify on the same misogynistic and sexist threads that females “supposedly rarely ever comment on.”

Much ado about nothing.

guy u dön tey. U suppose collect medal

Tranquility2345:
When people realize say this thread is very useless and full of wankers, porn addicts, chronic masturbators, beggars, jobless fools, thieves and depressed fools wey women don show pepper, they move on.

I really wonder why some idiots go come think say they are not okay because they have decided not to hang around here wasting their precious times with idiots

tranquility why dont u give them jobs then they will stay of the thread and u will stop ur trolling on people that u cant do that to in real life.

siofra:
I'm proud to say that while I was inactive on nairaland, I was hard at work on Twitter, reporting Shola's posts for hate speech against women.

I told you guys he would get it, you thought I was kidding.

Thegidredpiller, your own is coming, don't worry.

My hard work paid off.

Let me go and check if he has accounts on other sane social media platforms and report them too.

it is to late. Cut of one head, two grows back u are d type that hate the so called alpha male bcoz u women dont like it when men dont fall for ur manipulations. U are okay when females see men has succes object then ur hypocrtical ass get worried when men see women as sex object and u guys want feminism.

Duchessree:
SHOLA tweets are annoying most times.
I blocked him a long time ago, i can't come to twitter to have fun and keep seeing tweets that are giving me negative energy.
Nobody is saying don't be an alpha male but its becomes totally different when you're just being a misogynist.
I think 70% of SHOLA tweets are plain misogynist.
That why i like solomon buchi post on Facebook. You won't see him posting misogynous post.


Alpha male online, but this are them offline ( no offense )

how is shola a misogynist

Newyorkitis:
I think it's 50-50 going by the number of males and females that have committed suiiicide.

But are you referring to pulling out and becoming enemies?
That one should be put into consideration too.

men have higher suicide rate than women do ya research

detectivejones:
May he meant 400 and priced down to 60. Nairalanders and akuko.

60 k is too much. I cant even pay g girl for sex maybe buy her drink

franchasofficia:
To be honest, the world is unfair to women generally




Men cheat everyday and get away with it, but when a woman cheats it becomes the talk of the century.



Honestly its not easy to be born a female in this world.



Some guys will call unmarried ladies above 30yrs "evening newspaper", even when the lady might not be the cause of her being single, the pressure on ladies is just so much, so guys mocking single ladies, just imagine if you were a lady, how many guys must have fvcked you with different fake promises, it is well. Dear ladies, God will strengthen you all, and when you fall please don't think its the end of the world, just pick up yourself and continue pushing, it will definitely end in praise for you

lady, men and women bodies are not d same . Women value comes from their body men value comes from what they can provide. A man can sleep with hundred women and still love and die for his wive. A woman can sleep with hundred men and lose the ability to bond forever. Men who are 3
are in their prime and a man can bd fertile till he dies why a woman has a bioglogical clock.

SeaTrade:
One weyrey billed me 400k for knacks for VI a few days back,I price am down to 60k and was willing to pay,
However when I got close to her,found out she bleached terribly and is just a local hustler in ballers space opportuned by conji to even speak to a nigga like me.
I told her that let me go and withdraw the funds,that I don't transfer.
She say make she follow me before another girl carry me,I declined.
I boned her,went up to sleep.
She call tire ,I no pick.
She sent a text that "if I'm broke,I should just say so".
I just smiled and didn't respond.
I'm not in the habit of giving champagne to maltina girls, make she try gee boys jarey
I pay according to cleanliness,I'm hardly carried away!

400 k ''. Shai nah bride price

Islandlady:
Oga, Continue turning this boys into a misogynist!

You need to relax in the bossom of a woman and be loved, stop the hate!

how is he a misogynist?.

Vinnie2000:
OP, You fit senior the boy in age.

But him Senior you for money!

D Money, Car, Babes, and maybe other small properties he has, you get am!

So really, you be small boy for where him dey!

So just take heart, Pele.

what makes u a man or a big man is ur abillty to sufer b4 enjoyment. Children these days make million on tik tok does dat make them matured no. It is also like saying a rich prostitute is better than an hardworking lady who went thru d process to become who she is

virginprincess:
Good for men that still patronise prostitues, he should be arrested,is it by force to have sex? if she says she is not doing he should have collected his money or just let her go if she insists on not returning your money(disadvantage of patronizing a prostitue) but instead he decided to show his manpower on a woman because of 5000k ,shebi now he going to spend more than that 5000k in the police station,Foolish man.

y cant u say ur point without insulting . Or does that come from been the fact that you are a woman

siofra:
Don't worry, I'll go and report that your Twitter account as hate speech against women.

You see what happened to Andrew Tate? It will soon happen to you and that idiot Shola.

how come u didnt report cardi b or megan the stalion 4 teaching young girls how to finesse men

Preciousgirl:
Jesus wasn't the first creation, Jesus is the Creator!

The dead deliberately exegete Colossians 1 :15 as Christ being God's first creation; that's blasphemy. The Christ is the Creator Himself (Colossians 1:16).

What then is the true meaning of 'firstborn' in Colossians 1:15?

Colossians 1:18
And He is the head of the body, the church, who is the beginning, THE FIRSTBORN FROM THE DEAD �, that in all things He may have the PREEMINENCE �.

See: Acts 26:23
...that the Christ would suffer, THAT HE WOULD BE THE FIRST � TO RISE FROM THE DEAD �, and would proclaim light to the Jewish people and to the Gentiles.”

....THAT IN ALL THINGS CHRIST JESUS MAY HAVE THE PREEMINENCE ���

water has 3 forms liquid . Solid. Or hot water did any water create any of the water. They are in different forms but are still water

Preciousgirl:
I have been having an emotional affair (online) with an old man
I have realized it is not good and regret everything so far
We were sexting a lot and I shared my pics with him
I have backed out
But must I confess it to my husband?

I am asking for a colleague

dont confess, allow him to find out. Whats d fun in confessing.

TheGidRedpiller:
Repost

BIITTCHES ARE ALWAYS IN DISGUISE!!!

Kudus to the women though, they really do a good job in deceiving the whole of humanity for centuries, leaving us in the dark from what's actually going on in the real picture!

The world makes you believe two things by default;
1.That Churches Are The Best Places To Get Good Wife Materials.
2.Women Are Saints And Are More Drawn To God And Spirituality In General!
PURE COMEDY!

These two lies are what women take advantage of to EAT THEIR CAKE AND HAVE IT BACK!
Understand something today; No woman would ever do something or venture into anything without a mapped out plan, it pisses me off to say but, biittches are a lot more intelligent than you think!

Since they have made you think that churches are the best place to get a wife, everything easy becomes easy from there. All they have to do is enjoy themselves over the years, wh0re around, do drugs, and when they are done having fun, they wear long scarfs and head FOR THE CHURCH where you are waiting!!

Still Typing...

broh u complain about women to much most of what u said are true but complaning about them is like complaing that a dog is barking or a snake is hissing

Ebubu9:
I just bumped into this thread https://www.nairaland.com/7284714/wifes-ex-boyfriend-ruin-marriage

And several others that have plagued nairaland romance section for the past 2 years.

It didn’t use to be this bad.

Is feminism finding foot in Nigeria with their campaigns responsible for this?

What could be attributed to this?

How did it get this bad because 10 or 15 years ago, women cheating inside marriage was unheard of or very rare; the trend has become upsetting.

How can a woman be having sex with 5 months pregnancy ? Jesus christ.

feminism is like a child demanding equal right in their parent house that they didnt contribute money to build but when the children are giving responsibilities like paying for light. Food stuffs or the house is threatned they turn back into been children.

siofra:
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-state-our-unions/202208/the-rise-lonely-single-men%3Famp&ved=2ahUKEwiXqZLG2s35AhWdQ_EDHbyUAzkQFnoECB0QAQ&usg=AOvVaw1i4M69r9A6PgriS2RzKM8S


I wonder if this applies to romantic relationships in Nigeria too because as for me, I'm not settling for any ashy, emotionally immature guy like these redpillers.

if thats true siofra why do most women go to church and pray for a man or why do most older women complain of not getting the men they want. Women are d ones complaing men not marrying them any more or wants to be in a relationship . The only standard women have for men are delusional standard that was created from their emotions or brainwashed to them by their female celeb model. Lastly if all men where to marry women including the damaged goods women will still be more single than men due to female population

Enitanmii:
Most Nairaland men are just bunch of simps who claim to be Alpha male to boost their dashed and shattered egos. It's been just a few hours I registered and they're already flocking my PM. If y'all on here claims to be Alphas, who then are the ones simping in our (Ladies) PM?

Spits!

u are correct. Lions or alpha dont tell u they are alpha. Their actions talk more