Chinese staff? What happened to local content? Imagine what Nigerians were pushing for

Modified: I'm not jealous. Freedom of expression isn't always about hate. I am indifferent to both the Jews and the gentiles.

alfa0:



I don't come here to dish out blames neither am I here for men vs woman behaviours in marriage/relationship.
These are not my business.

I am only here to see how i can render a little help if I have any.
To resolve this problem and give hope to the woman in question if it's possible.

I am not interested in relationship/marriage games.

What does it have to do with church marriages or not?

Sterope:
Did she invent the flying car?

What logic.

AntiWailer:


So after the mistake, she should face firing squad ?

Hypocrisy is pretending as if you can not stand what u do in the closet in the public.

it is very simple.

No. Hypocrisy is releasing a sextape then telling your daughter she can't.

But that you did it doesn't make it right.

And what does hypocrisy have to do with what is right or wrong? Is it right to have sex in a public space? Is it? Or it is now called hypocrisy to call what is wrong, wrong?

Sterope:
Discipline?

Very predictable. What else is new? I am sure they have disciplined her plenty before this episode. There is time for discipline and this is not it.

So what is this the time for? Pampering?

drey076:
i am not against her, some people do worst of this in their closet. she should find her way out of Nigeria to further her studies.

Can you see the difference? It's very different. And even outside Nigeria, if she did that, she would receive the same backlash. Who told you "abroad" is a place where anything goes? People still have sense there. Stop depending on Hollywood and the Kardashians for your education on what goes on.

AntiWailer:
Nothing.

My baby will remain my baby forever.

I will tell her how I recorded sex tapes in the past. That her own got to the wrong hand does not make me a Saint and her a sinner.

I am going to show my baby more love. Send her to another school preferably abroad and be there for her till she gets over it.

Fck every hypocrites

Explain how it is hypocrisy?

It's only hypocrisy if you know you were her age doing it in gutters, on the road, in classrooms, hospitals etc. That people lived a dirty life doesn't make it right for their children to, too.

Foolishness is to have a child repeat its parents mistakes like it's an achievement.

Fountainofyouth:
Some people like to be seen as woke, Op has watched too much Hollywood high school movies, this is Nigeria ma'am, come back to reality, I would so much whoop her ass ehn she would never do doggy anymore talk more of sex, and that her mouth that swallowed cum, she would wash her teeth and tongue every hour of everyday for one week till she has sores all over her mouth,

Do you know the trauma I as a mother would feel watching something like that? My own daughter? That's if i don't have high BP sef.

Don't mind the OP. She thinks she's modern. Too much Hollywood fakeness has crept into empty heads.

Mutemenot:
A friend is planing doing what your husband just did, he reasons 're "the wife nags alot, she's never contented any passing day without one or two troubles" so Op, I hope your behave isn't chasing your husband away from home... I think you alone can knows d reason behind your husband's action.

And nagging is a reason? I'm sure if the wife exposes what he does to her in turn you will never support that friend of yours again.

alfa0:



Hmmmmm.
I will advice you not to run into fast conclusion yet.i will I am on the road now.
I will digest your reply and we see the way forward.
Quick questions.
1. After the introduction, was any formal wedding conducted.be it traditional or church wedding.

2.you mean his people came for the introduction in his absence and younand your people accepted.

Honestly,I can see the hand writing on the wall, like I said ,once am free ,we will address it and know the way forward.

What does the type of marriage have to do with anything? You people can invent reasons for deadbeat behaviors in men.

Some people aren't even married, just living together, and they do not do what this man has done. Just admit that the man has issues. He lies, beats her, cheats on her, abandons the children; and all you can come up with is if she was married in a church or not?

Mrsabuh1:


he is also a nairalander ,if only he can see this post and tell me my offence , im not saying I'm a perfect being but I know for sure that I have not offended him in any ways, as a matter of fact he was the one that had offended , for three years I was in Nigeria ,hubby was cohabiting with another woman untill he they had issues and he beat her up, she lost two tooth and got into a problem.with UAE police , the ugly lady contacted me and she seems to know so much about me , things I shared with my hubby she is aware of everything in my home ,this was part of the reason why we had some crisis in June and also part where I got a job in abj added to it ..I forgave him and moved on .
I couldn't ve seized his passport,he told me he was making plans for us to go on a short vacation to UK to make it up to me for the pain he caused me , when the visa came out he said he needed to return to UAe to finish up so business so he can be free to travel and then boom., he went to UK just like that and right now he isnt communicating wit his family ..
ok let's assume I did something wrong , what about his children , didnt he consider them at all, what offence did the committed against him for him to turn his back on them like this

Clearly a violent one. Too many stories about him always not being where he said he is. After, he apologizes. The next time, he does the same thing. You make up. You're back to hearing new lies. You make up again. You seem to enjoy it.

I have only question for you: why have you stayed in the marriage? And don't give the excuse of children or his money. Why have you been with a violent, cheating liar all this while? Who brainwashed you into thinking it will get better? The person who told you to stay in the marriage is a wicked person with no life experience.

Madam, you're not doing yourself any favors and your children may grow up to resent you for your choices.

safarigirl:
When men say they want a strong, independent woman, what exactly do they mean?

A) I want a woman who makes her own money and is confident in her abilities?

B) I want a woman who won't ask me for money and is only as confident as I want her to be?

C) I want a woman who will feed me with her money AND be submissive


Will modify as it comes to me.

Usually C.

D) I want a strong woman who I will break into submission, she will feed the family and I, give birth, clean everything and I will taste her food to see the quality, and evaluate her worth as a woman. A woman is to do everything for me. My job is insemination. She will help me grow my dreams, I don't have time for hers. I'm the man. I get everything. I cannot be loyal to her, either. She needs to pray for me and satisfy me in every way, otherwise, you know that I am a child and cannot control my wanton desires. Did I forget that she must be subject to my family, you know I don't play with my family. In return, she can have my surname.

abbey621:


Do you pay fees to the organization that hires you? All the sex you've been having behind closed doors, who's criticizing you? In as much as she's an adult, the school has no right to dictate her sex life. Anyways there is a difference between sentimental opinions like yours and what the law actually says, it's up to her family and her to fight the case or not.

They cannot dictate her sex life, but why did she violate their premises and expose said sex life to them? In a sterile environment they've decided to taint it with their sexual activities. I understand sex can happen anywhere for you, that is your right to freedom of sex. But having unprofessional sex is stupidity and deserves no endearment

The only people in support of this are people who are confused about how the real world works versus their opinions and sentiment on sex because they think that sex is an everywhere thing without using their brains.

Same people supporting this have no problem as NYSC having sex with students because they think sex is a thing to do everywhere and with anyone without consideration of ethics and sensibility.

The good news is that the law forbids such brazen ignorance.

Deola2020:
BULLSHIT!!!!!


Everyone taking the moral high ground is the HYPOCRISY that is wrong with our society today....How is this action going to improve the ranking or reputation of the school,this never even happened anywhere near the school for fvcksake

That girl has suffered a lot of humiliation already,might lead her into depression and suicide,the school authorities should be helping her gain sanity by counseling her and going after those who leaked the nudes....

Kim Kardashian who was a victim of leaked sextape,made a fortune and brand out of it and has become a better person in the society but naija with a population of 180million people and most of dem dey knack like Hot DOGS dey victimise a girl cos she had sex and a video was leaked without her consent....

A lot of you on this thread have porns,nudes,sextape on your phone and you are a hacking away from losing your jobs and reputation....

Those who leaked the video have actualised their plan and if not careful this will be the norm from people who you offended or doesn't like you....

Have you just listened to yourself? A Christian university with Christian values that gave them forms to sign on entry has no right to expel them?

Kim Kardashian is now a role model? So because you watch porn and pay for it, it must be accepted just on the grounds of Kim Kardashian? Listen to yourself.

You people reason through your promiscuous ways and use it as a yardstick to tolerate every bit of rubbish. Someone like Bill Clinton had an affair exposed in an organization, guess what happened next?

armadeo:


I tell you.

Vey horrible sense of judgement concerning official matters. That's why they are termed unemployable.

They do sound stupid with the way they are castigating the University. They probably have sex everywhere so they are sympathetic to the rubbish. Imagine people with such values working in sensitive posts. They feel so entitled to be morally bankrupt. Why couldn't they have sex in private? They are blaming the University for not handling the spread of the sextape in which the girl is looking into the camera and looking foolish. If Bill Clinton was castigated for sex, who are these low lifers to get endearment?

cococandy:


Marijuana has its downsides.

However, COPD (chronic obstructive pulmonary disease) isn’t one of them.

The icing on the vice.

R2bees:
mention me when she replies

I'll try to.
R2bees, follow the thread for it.

noble71:
as for smoking I leave it for chinese. My Oga for office want to use smoke kill me. Funny enough I don't smoke but I get high everyday from his smoke.

That's the danger of second hand smoking. You don't need to be a first hand smoker. Exactly what it does to the person who is smoking is what happens to innocent non-smokers. This is the fundamental reason I despise smokers. How can they impose their bad life choices on everyone else around them?

cococandy:


Dying from cigarette related death is very painful and a sad spectacle for the loved ones to watch.

Sometimes I feel myself choking up and becoming short of breath from just watching them struggle to breathe.
Last last they end up intubated on the ventilator and die within moments of being extubated (lingo).

There are many way to die but don’t let it be COPD. It’s painful

Do weed smokers experience this, or only cigarette smokers?

gewise7:
Yes, I get paid for it.
The buyer in need of service will order the gig he wants, and after I have done it with Maximum satisfaction, Payment will be made from the buyers end.

Payment into where? The dreaded Nigeria account?

FreemanTJ:


She has never had unprotected sex with anyone and she doesn't lie , she has never given me a reason to be suspicious, she was that honest. We both did test and she still insisted on protection. She didnt want a child out of wedlock considering her background. I am a very smart man and trust me there was no way she could have known. We had no pictures of our wedding pictures on social media from any of my family members. This wasn't her first time using my laptop and I saw the message from her office insisting she sends a mail which she had to type in Msword on my laptop. Yes, she had the hunch, but the gmail gave me out.

Really?

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NyenwePHC:



She has been a gold digger right from time, no wonder she was the first to dispel the allegations about that useless scammer called nompha

Which allegations about him? What did she say? Spill the juicy details.

Lol. He sounds like RKelly

desire222:
Wealth ko weather ni. A so called wealthy man that still drive Mercedes Benz that has manual transmission. His bragging is really getting on my nerves men !

Lol. How did you notice that? Gawwwwwd! Just enjoyed the pictures.

ednut1:
well from next year u can stay 2 years after studies to find a job . Apply to neighbouring countries You must be a joker

Not a joke. It's an option.

Kendumazy:
Nice one. If it's Nigeria, his teacher will stylishly steal the idea and claim the glory. The minister of education can even hijack the formula and say it's parts of his or her achievements in office. Naija! I hail oooo!

Okay, so where is this formula? Or is the whole article a lie?

chibu4u2:


These are news you'll hardly hear are archived in Nigeria.
A 12 yr old Nigerian!
Shame on all Nigerian institution of learning.
We just dey waste our time for this country.

Okay.

So what is this new thing he discovered in mathematics that could not be shared in the article?

WowSweetGuy:
That is kind of true because the chinese usually over labour staffs and pay by working hours but as i speak their language, i am seen like one of them, so i dont get that their abuse.

I think this is how they treat workers in their own country. I do not think they go out of their way to punish their Nigerian staff. It's just that their inability to adapt to the Nigerian way is what causes the scuffles. But speaking the language and looking neat are ways to improve interaction with people.

ednut1:
if u studied in the uk. After u spent 5 to 6m they sent u back home. U reach here na 100k job u go see. Wont u regret??

Wow, this sounds bad. Is the UK that harsh? No opportunity for them to apply for jobs in other neighboring countries?