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alutacontinua: Haha! Aunty na, free lemonade, abeg of u! Besides, lemonade, where've ya been Pls, tell me preparation is in full gear nd dt d honeymoon has started

dai don chose date ni

Idowuogbo: Ur head dey house mehn... Ur ori is foka in d scene. Dat gal na Domitila! She go swipe guy 1 use am browse guy 2. See runz! Kai!

u c dat some gals r actually heartless.... D second guy just dai catch him fun dai go.. Omo lomo if na me nko me self no go dull nau..

2sexy: Exactly! I was warned. Infact na my mama 1st spot am, den my younger sister, my elder broda, his girl friend, my friend(also a broda)

but u need 2go and c dis girl now.

She came back begging and claimed 2have always loved me.

The truth is that(speaking from experience) girls of dis nature can NEVER love u.

She claimed 2have onld dated, 1 guy, which was d guy she left me 4.
And dat she is now on her own alone... That is single

But just a week and half ago, she wrote on facebook dat her boyfriend broke up with her. She probably forgot am her frend on facebook.

I laugh...

Most times dere is always a red flag been ignored... Na so d first guy go dai ignore m too.. So wen him eye go open... Anoda gorilla wuld av released to d street cos d recovery process na b beans... N is luv life can neva remain d same

@ kiity.. No matter how much u try to paint dis own thing.. Dis gal na oscrabo.. Pple change i knw but once a soldier always a soldier... D gal collect money frm d first guys n gives d spends it wit d second so wat d hell r we talkin abt...

SINn: @kittykatty, you're so intelligent when it concerns matters of the heart and poosie

she wuld pass for a very gud counsellor....

Op.. Kitty has said it all

OP let me just borrow u an advise from ma mum..

She says wat u cant cope wit during marriage is better to start rejectin it during courtship cos most times attitude n behaviour degenerates after d weddin( u get to c ur real spouse) and dat u can never change anybody cos u no b God.. Marriage is meant to b enjoyed n not endured... But most times we tend to endure it cos we ignore d red flags we c during courtship believin we can change our spouse....

D decision is urs to make

Mynd_44: Definately not cos she will do it again

yea... Most definitely.... But Some guys culd be very funny ooo....

Roseey0: She has to understand that what the 2nd guy is offerring her is only sexual satisfactiön not love. So she must come out of it,and decide never to go bck to such act.

2ndly,she should be willing to let go of the 2,knwing fully well that she has hurt and disrespected the first guy and will not find geniue love with the second( he already stated it b4 dating her)

thirdly,she shud come out clean with the first guy,who knows? the guy may still want to keep her.

keep wetin abeg... Wat give u d impression she is not goin to cheat again... Abeg cheating on a guy for up to 11 mnths. If he takes her back mehn i give d guy head but definitely she cant b trusted

2sexy: my brother, i av been dere and I dont wish my enemies to experience such... Nothing hurts so bad like finding out dat d person u loved neva loved u, just exploiting u and stuck to u cos of d money she is getting from you. And I being sum1 that so MUCH hate to b treated like a fool, chei! Honestly, na God save my ex....

Yes... It can b very frustrating especially if ur friends warned u n u ignored d red flags... Its better imagined dan said.... I pray for strength for d first guy cos if he finds out d guy go tire...

freecocoa: Good one mynd .

Well OP as for me o, I think you should stick to the 2nd guy cos its obvious you love him.

I guess you see the 1st guy as a friend and feel indebted to him hence not being able to let him go but you'll be doing him a lot of good, like my padi has said, karma is a bi@tch ya know.

d second guy ke... D se.x she is gettin s n mayb cos d 2nd guy is wat is confusin her... Wen she transfers fully 2 d second guy u can b rest assured u gettin anoda thread on NL... Basically ur friend does not deserve d first guy.. Let her break up wit him.. It wuld b painful but i can guarantee u he will pull thru...

Mynd_44: Now you are the confused one. So every virgin has good behaviour abi?

Wake up and smell the damn coffee. Someone might have lived a wayward life and changed and has left all those behind her. Does that make her evil?

its different strokes for dif folks bro... Everybody is subject to dere own opinion..

Pls How do i get to c recently uploaded topics ...

sunny t: Dat has neva worked in marriage, it might work in a bf/gf relationship
Wat makes u think u can change anyone? Wat makes u tink u can change anyone by sitting dem down and talkin sense into them?
One major tin we shd knw abt marriage is u cant change a man/woman, especially wen its positively.
When u see something u cant live/cope wit in ur partner, its beta 2 luk elsewhere than think dey will change or that u can change them.
When it comes 2 tins lik dis, people dnt change.
Pls take a case study of different families or ask married people, u will have a concise understanding of wat im sayin
Marriage is meant 2 be enjoyed nt endured.

bros u too gbasski.. Dat wat ma parent av always told me.... Dont manage if u dont lik it just walk away

masterpiecer: like cow abi?

yeah... Mayb

Wetin u no fit chop... Ma guy no smell m oo

O guy... Pls love wit ur heart and think wit ur head..... Love is not supose to b stupid...

God,:
Dude what are u feeling like? Why dont u face ur education and chart for ur self a well labelled future? Im far far older than you and never had sex. At 24 i had already graduated with my first degree and then i started having experience of life. What stops u from keeping ur self till marriage? What achievement have u made? 300L and so what? How many cars/houses do u have? Whats wrong with kids of now a days with misplaced priorities? What good will u get from the 5-10mins experience. Young man u better face ur studies and start thing of better things than women. If u were my brother, i would have beaten the hell out of u for such thought and idea.

no mind d boy. So wat shld we do abt dat.. Guys face ur book joor...at 24 u still dai skool n u yanin apata.. Guys graduated make money babes go line up u go bleep tire.. Guy first things first