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@DN

U made alot of sense..

Maya2pretty: @Temiflash do u know my own story? guy plss, no matter how bad our experiences have been, wisdom says we should never generalize or judge people u dont know, everyone has a story.

yes dst true.. but its just natural for one to guard against repetitions

Maya2pretty: Some people just talk out of point, so a lady in her early twenties bein single has a problem right, ave u sat down to think dat we cant all b in relationships d same time or that there r more a$$ chasin jerks in town than money chasin girls? pls wen sayin somethin, try to get ur facts rights, try not 2 get people upset with baseless facts.

in as much ad i accept ur fact.. i will say a lot of dis guys u talkin abt r d way d dai today cos of one gal dai had luved n played on dere intelligence.. and u no one once a guy is heart broken alot of gals pay for it weda d gal nice or not na she sabi while if a gal his heartbroken d next guy suffers but if he knw is onions well he still get d gal...

i knw alot of guys dat av loved a gal treated her like an egg, sex was not even on d agenda n wat do dai get in return INSULTS.. 2 of ma guys uf dai tell u dere stoey ehn u self go tire..

I rest ma case....

Maya2pretty: Very very true, but he's nice sometimes, Mummy's boy remain blessed and preserved

mum boy ke

madam he wuld only go worse after ma wedin

Maya2pretty: plsss, a wise person dat ever wants to b a success should know her strenghts and weaknesses, I know my strenght and my weaknesses too so y should I try 2 defend myself unjustly? would it win me a million dollars? I dont need anyone to judge me, I know myself better than anyone ever can

yea dat great.. a million dollar ke definitrly not from m..
but m sure dere is one persin in ur life dat knws u as much as u knw urself.
Enjoy ur dai..n b happy..

double post

Maya2pretty: @temi4fash didn't u read up 2 temperate blends, am a choleric-flegmatic and am a very sweet, lovable person so pls dont judge

dis sounds lik self defence...
I read dat part too but if ur primary temp is choleric hmmm..
i rest ma case..
swit lovable persin u cant judge ur self.. let anoda speak for u..

Weda a guy is rich or poor if he is not b gud he wont.. although dere is a higher possibility of a broke guy who becomes rich 2mao to mes up dan one who u meant comfortable cos as ma mum wuld always say u neva knw d attitude of a man until he gat money in his pkt...

was readin a book on temperament by tim lahaye recently..one thing dat rrally got ma attention was a choleric woman.. how do a man cope wit dat kind of a woman..

i will introduce her to john.... but i will make she get messed up real gud...

olutai: UNIVERSITY OF ILORIN PRIMARY SCHOOL ILORIN.
UNILORIN SECONDARY SCHOOL ILORIN.
UNIVERSITY OF ILORIN.

where u born ay unilorin health Center to

Dr Dee: Nice one. I would also be glad if nairalanders interested in charcoal export could partner with me while we share the profit in the required proportion

how much is involvrd

Rolam Preparatory School Agege
Airforce Secondary School Ikeja
Educational Advancement Center Bodija
Federal University of Technology, Akure

enigmagu1: yess boss under age girls may develop vvf. (vesico vaginal fistula) as a result of premature birth.....

its same doctors that said its advisable for a woman to give early lik in her early twenties cos d body adjust faster

op i disagree wit d one abt health.,

carmelion: My dear,the bolded statement is murderous you know.It took me time to comment on this topic,partly because I'didn't know what exactly to say and partly becaus,am still trying to imagine how the woman would feel.I am very emotional,mere words can get to me especially coming from my supposed life partner.I mean whoelse would she run to in such situation?

I am not here to apportion blames,but just to point it out, that if she did not pay 'her bride price ',the man would not say this thing.

To the single ladies out there,I want us to take this issue seriously.


Do you know one of the reasons(not the main) why some men don't bother getting married again after divorce or the death of their loved ones?It is because of the whole procedure and financial involvent.If somebody had done it for them,they won't know how stressful it is.

I included procedure because,I noticed that these days some ladies would say they want to monetize everything especially the traditional part.*SMH*My dear,if you thinking abou this ,I want you to go back and tell your fiancee that you have changed your mind.

No matter how werstern we bahave,we can't change the blood in our veins.WE ARE AFRICANS!.Some things are symbolic.Sweet hearts, bride price is one them.Assist your guy in everyother thing concerning your wedding but mmy dear,not your bride price.

Rent the venue,cater for the refreshment,pay the musicians but let that money called brideprice come out from his pocket even if it is N1m.You might decide to do it out of love or because of pressure now but mind you,one day ,in years to come,innocently,as a contribution in a topic ,unconsciously he would discuss his bride's price with somebody(friend,brother,sister,).

I don't want to say you will loose your respect, but you never can tell how they would start seeing you.it might be nagative/positive.
Let him pay it,it makes me more of a man.Let us not even talk about,how useful such infomation would be to any of your inlaws who, does not like you in the first place.Your own has finished!

Humbledbygrace my answer is ,help him out with other things but,as for your bride price and those items on the list.DO NOT!,on repeat,DO NOT contribute even 1%
Quote me.

D fact dat one man treated his wife lik trash cos she paid her bride price does not mean anoda man will nau...
Help him out cos he too wuld not want to finish his savings on the weddin nau.. abi wetin una go spend wen marriage begin nau.....

nbright: dude....

Yes boss.. wats gud nauu.. ma connection just dull me last night jawe...
Enjoy ur dai..

chikeorji123: ladies should not allow the society decide for them when it's come to issues of marriage..ur age don de go,ur mate are getting married,accept him or someone might,what are u wait for.. bla bla la la bla..Every lady have her own man! what they need to do is just compose ur self properly..as Carmelion said at her initial post.. Birds of the same feathers fly together indeed.

its not dat easy ooo.. D pressure is more on the ladies dan the Men...

chikeorji123: Hi Temi4fash thanks for the points u make,honestly life partner is not something one to toy with..ls better for a man to colapse on his business which he will soon rise up again than ended up with a wroung partner... as carmelion stated..

Na so ooo.. Dat is y u one needs to get close to God dis marriage issue na wa.. u hear some stories n it sends cold shivers down ur spine..
as ma G.O wuld say d next worst thing dfta can happen to one apart from going to hellfire is a Bad marriage,, it gat a lot of this to say if u gonna b prosperous or not...

i believe loving some1 is a decision u can meet someone n not be swept off ur feet.. but d person d major thing u want in ur partner wuld u nau leave d person cos dere is no chemistry... abeg joor... me i believe u find d chemistry by choosing to luv d perfect
N.B it takes two to tangle....

luluosas: On phone or modem?

on phone. its showing edge on modem, it wil authenticate but not connect..

@ivy sowi ooo... u will b fine. hop u av taken drugs.. enjoy ur dai...[size=8pt][/size]

luluosas: Thank you for confirming via iOS platform. This should further encourage those having issues not to give up.

its not even showin gprs ooo.....
but i can make calls, n ma bb plan is readin oo pls

nbright: so true... With the near "perfectness" they exhibit on this thread, I wonder if that's how they live their lives outside this make belief place


True... But then most men se, before they proceed... But majority of them don't have their pix and then their is the problem of.....


I will comment my reserve on this.... It should have been towards "MOST OF" our ladies..

In all fairness to carm..... she sounds lik sum1 who has seen it all, i wil b so disapppinted in her... but i domt knw her but i tink i can vouch her..,.

I tink she has gud heart but i pray God gives her d patience to cope wit flaws of her man.
Cos every MAN has got it.,

carmelion: Still trying to make up my mind.you re not the first you know,others would feel cheated

extremely cheated...