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Inspired4life:
Don't give up Dear, try that local IUI Blendy77 mentioned with the HCG trigger, you may be lucky. A lot of us got results through that recipe. Its DIY so saves you money. No IUI is less than N500-700k in a fertility hospital as at today so its best you try it yourself at home and if no luck, save and go for IVF straight. Don't waste your little savings. Baby dusts to you

Can you point me to the post on the IUI?

Selfkontrol:
Good day Nairalanders, last year I made a thread about my confusion relocating abroad or staying back in Nigeria to invest and got different opinions.. https://www.nairaland.com/7724820/relocate-stay-nigeria-serious-dilemma

Some people advised I stay and some insisted I travel (i wished I started making plans to travel then).The country wasn’t that bad as naira was around 700-800/$ and inflation wasn’t this bad.. And also, I was in a better financial standing with properties worth atleast 70m as of then,

Walk with me.


I have been a crypto trader for 7 years and literally made 90% of my money from crypto which set me up. I bought properties worth millions , my car, one for my mom and settled a few persons and finally got married to my longtime GF. I felt untouchable and didn’t for once think things would take a different turn in my life. However, my life took a drastic turn when I lost my daughter shortly after birth. This devastating event sent me into a downward spiral, affecting my mental health and trading decisions that cost me thousands of dollars including my trading capital.
After I lost my trading capital, I was broke with a grieving wife and put my first property for sale.

Sold the property for 16m by then dollar was already 850 and rapidly growing, I removed some money for house upkeep for months and converted the rest to dollar to continue on my crypto trading since that was my only source of income and my area of specialty.
I was grieving and trading (don’t know if it was my coping mechanism). Traded recklessly at the same time having issues in my family cos my mom made serious issues after we lost our baby, all this while I never knew she hated my wife and her family.. she initially told me not to get married to the girl and her family siting so many spiritual reasons but all fell on a deaf ear because I couldn’t imagine my mom making decisions for me or telling me who I should marry or not.. tension grew in the family and at the same time I was fighting for my finances together with dealing with a wife that just lost a child.. terrible period for me.. I was in between the devil and the deep blue Sea.. things didn’t go as planned with my trading and I ended up blowing up that money., and it downed on me that things are getting really serious and I need to face these challenges squarely.

I got broke again and since I’m a family man, I must always provide for my family so I always have to do something.. I contemplated selling my second property worth 30m for weeks before I finally concluded on selling it since I need money for investment or something to plan the money with. That was when I created that thread debating on traveling or staying back in Nigeria.. investing that money in Nigeria was not feasible and making sense to me considering the inflation as naira was almost hitting 900-100/$.
I didn’t know what business to do that won’t make me throw away my money or waste my time. Crypto was still the only business I was good in so I decided to diverse another means so I won’t loose money. I realized over trading was the problem because I was basically looking for a new project to invest in which most of them turned out to be scam.. so I made research on good projects to invest that money on

I found good projects I was confident on. I had everything already figured out. The plan was to invest that money and not trade till the end of 2024/2025 since I sold the property July 2023. I also remember vividly how my wife told me to use part of that money to buy other landed properties but I was adamant and felt I got things figured out already.. so I did exactly as I planed and also moved from that house we were living in to a different place and also started to learn tech. Along the line I got discouraged learning tech and felt I was wasting my time instead of looking for ways to make money. I realized it’s quite difficult for some people that have seen millions of naira to start learning a new skill or going to school.. it’s actually one of the hardest things to do. it takes a different kind of motivation and drive to push urself.

I don’t know how it happened but I found myself going back to trading again, I keep dipping my hands in my long term cryoto investments each time I needed capital to trade since it was taking forever for the coin to grow.. (if I had left what i invested, it would’ve been worth $300k by now with the 25m from my property I sold )

It was really a humbling situation for me. I went from having my life figured out to fighting again for my life… All these period my wife was already pregnant again after she got a miscarriage after loosing our first child. So now I’m not just fighting for myself and wife but a child is in the picture now.. things got worse in the new house we moved to as I kept loosing money on money.. I never had any profitable month in the new house.. I usually have eye for good projects to invest in but I began loosing my confidence and ended my selling so many good projects I invested in before they breakthrough.. I’ve had a case of missing out on a project that would’ve giving me $600k just because I sold it too early. Several other projects too. It was a repetition of circles. It seems I was going round in an unending circles.

I ended up selling another property in my new house worth 20m and also my car worth 11m, it happened like magic and.. I can’t really explained how these things happened but it happened too fast like some kind of evil manipulation or some gambling addiction on crypto.. I wasn’t a careless person, I don’t smoke and don’t drink, don’t womanise either.. so many thoughts ran through my mind even about my mom telling me not to marry my wife because she have had so many bad dreams about the girl and her family, she believes my problems started since I married the girl and she warned me.. God also blessed me with a child as my wife put to birth successfully

I asked my self could it be spiritual or physical? I also come from a relatively poor family that im the only grandchild doing well in the whole family from A-z.. my father died years ago.. my wife’s family is a progressive family that her cousins and direct siblings are in America and Canada so how could what my mom is saying be true. Well I never believed in any of those things right from the beginning but seeing the trajectory of my life in a space of 2 years make me begin to wonder

I already believe it to be my recklessness and probably gambling on crypto hoping to hit it big but on the other hand I’m not a newbie in this biz,, I have been grinding in this for atleast 7 years and got experience in this biz, its seems my years of hard work got wiped in a space of a year +

Now I’ve a property left valued at 18m that’s like a lifeline and already decided I won’t invest in crypto but use that money to travel out,, I’m back to learning the tech skill I have been avoiding for years and pushing myself hard everyday. The aim is to use the rest of the year to improve my skill to a significant level and be good at it by next year

This feels like a learning process and at same time a humbling experience for me, I have been without a vehicle for the past 4 months now.. I’ve made so much in life and almost lost everything even at a young age.. life can be very funny, when I had all the money I lost my child, when God finally blessed me with a child, I’m now fighting for my finances with my rent almost due and waiting for my property to be sold before I balance my rent.

I know i probably would’ve started a physical business in the past but looking at the current situation of Nigeria and inflation hitting ath I doubt my business could’ve survived but still this is a lesson of me putting all my eggs in one basket and still thinking Nigeria has any future. If I probably had travelled years ago when things weren’t this bad in Nigeria and I still had lots of resources, I doubt I would be in this situation..

Selling that land feels right now like I’d be starting life afresh with no property to my name… it hurts me so bad I’m even ashamed to explain this to anyone. Only my wife understands the level of damage that has happened in our lives the past 2 years. I can’t even tell my mom details of all of these.

I’m writing this out there so people can learn one or two from it,, I’d be 32 in few months time and I’m picking up myself by learning a tech skill and relocate from the country. I also plan relocating to Abuja first so I can be close to the embassy as regards to visa interviews runs etc I want to dedicate the next 1 year in traveling runs and perfecting a tech skill I can bank on when I travel. My story is quite deeper than this but I’m not a long writer so I just touched the most important part.

I will probably come back here in a year time or 2 years to write my progress in life . Thanks for reading

Hello Bro,

I emphasize with you on this your sojourn so far.

But it just unfortunate, in all of your writings, you didnt include God in any of it.

You know in this life, we can only try, it is God that gives the increase. One thing that caught my attention in your writing is the fact that you are the only one doing well in your family from A - Z.

You dont need a prophet to tell you that what you are going thru is spiritual. Is it that everyone in the family is lazy and no one is trying to make it, that all of them failed, and that life suddenly smiled at you. If you drill down, you would realize there is something special about you and until you discover yourself, you might just be going in circles.

I would advise you not to sell any property again till you have a clear road on what happening to you. i can tell you foe free that selling that house might not give you the results that you need. You need to clear your head and go back to your maker for direction. You are 32 which means you still a very young man with a whole life ahead of him.

When you mum said you should not marry your wife, did you ask questions about what she saw, or did you engage her to find out the reason why. What have you observed about your wife also? What dreams have you been having?

I wish you all the best

frank1001:
Links to success stories so far in the tread. Think I got most of them... Hope it helps...We will get through this

https://www.nairaland.com/1461715/male-infertility-share-experience-success#18560435
https://www.nairaland.com/1461715/male-infertility-share-experience-success/3#19751064
https://www.nairaland.com/1461715/male-infertility-share-experience-success/4#19755411
https://www.nairaland.com/1461715/male-infertility-share-experience-success/6#19772693
https://www.nairaland.com/1461715/male-infertility-share-experience-success/6#19780511
https://www.nairaland.com/1461715/male-infertility-share-experience-success/8#29721463
https://www.nairaland.com/1461715/male-infertility-share-experience-success/10#33963925
https://www.nairaland.com/1461715/male-infertility-share-experience-success/11#36110369
https://www.nairaland.com/1461715/male-infertility-share-experience-success/12#39740874
https://www.nairaland.com/1461715/male-infertility-share-experience-success/13#46018677
https://www.nairaland.com/1461715/male-infertility-share-experience-success/24#54251008
https://www.nairaland.com/1461715/male-infertility-share-experience-success/31#70857172
https://www.nairaland.com/1461715/male-infertility-share-experience-success/33#77942532
https://www.nairaland.com/1461715/male-infertility-share-experience-success/41#93691019
https://www.nairaland.com/1461715/male-infertility-share-experience-success/41#93717482
https://www.nairaland.com/1461715/male-infertility-share-experience-success/45#94998177
https://www.nairaland.com/1461715/male-infertility-share-experience-success/46#95530134

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freeman500:
You forgot to mention the car and model. But if it's the type that use high tension wire, I'll suggest you change them.

oh i forgot to mention Honda City 2007..

Whats High tension wire

Good morning sirs

I noticed that when i use my car with AC for a very long time and it get very hot, the car begins to jack, vibrates inshort it would look the car is having a nervous breakdown.

During this time, if its on idle, the car sounds very fine. However, i engage it the gear on drive, it begins to vibrate and struggles to move.

What could be the wrong please?

CaptainZubi:
Yes. It's hacked. You know how hacked consoles work. It's cheaper than buying CDs at crazy amounts.

The one i have is not hacked.

It requires CD's to work. What do i do about that?

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Does this games play without the CDs?

123readygo:
Hmmmmmmm. The poster above me should stop spreading his ignorance. I married my wife a virgin and after 12 months of marriage without conception we went to the hospital and boom she had PCOS.

Luckily for us we commenced treatment immediately and after 3 years she became pregnant.

OP, it’s a tough journey but if you truly love her like you said do other tests and if you have the money do lap and dye to ascertain if her tubes are patent. More importantly, let her avoid taking of clomide and other related drugs for a long period because such drugs predisposes women to ovarian cancer.

Before I sign out, since you said she’s a virgin and you have not devoured her please let her get proper medical care before you start dividing in to avoid low sperm count. Ignore this at your own peril

This means that PCOS can cause Low Sperm Count in the male if he continues having sex with her.
From your last paragraph.

Is that what you mean?

Thank you for your submission

Soffy3310c:
NEWAGE WIRELESS 10,000 CAPACITY( BRAND NEW) 27,000

ORAIMO CLIPPER 29,000

ITEL CLIPPER 17,000

10k each or all of them is 10k

Good morning Sirs and Ma,

Is there an App, I can use to buy and sell stocks with ease.

Thank you

kelvinmnet:
Check the fan and ensure its working especially when the AC is turned ON.
Also, change your radiator to double cell and then observe again.
If you are not able to change the radiator now due to financial constraints, then go to the car wash and let them use their pressure hose to wash the radiator.
It can probably be clogged with dirts.

Ok thanks I would try that too..

Good afternoon

Please I just changed my Engine and the car has been working very well.

I got into traffic and 30 mins into the traffic, it was a day when the sun was so Hot, and I was on AC prior to entering the traffic.

I noticed my car started showing high temperature and I put of the AC and I didn't have no issues. I have always used the car with the AC since I changed the Engine and never had any issues although I have never encountered that kind of traffic before.

Talked to my mechanic said I should change the radiator to a double cell.

What could be wrong and the permanent solution?

I had same issue with my last engine too that one once I enter traffic for 10 mins or more the temperature rises very high.

Please help me

DenreleDave:
Boss.. Your account na 2010 account ooo

Do you want to tarnish your image because of 16k?

I doubt if you wana do that, rethink am again.. Rethink am

Immediately I saw this advert,

I just knew something was off..

Sorry for your loss

crownprince2017:
Mercy thank you oooo, from sending me different types of mail just to guide me to prescribe what I should focus on, thanks a lot. I must buy you amala and abula..
The following are my holdings since last year and earlier this year.

Jaiz
Wema
Access
Presco
Flourmill
Cwg
Fidson
VFD
Transcorp

Am sitting on a massive gain..

Thank you very much..

Hello Sir,

Can i also partake of the good works?

unite4real:
A company with price to earning ratio of over 120 is risky

Coming from a 9 months Jan to September 2022 profit of N1.78Billiom to Jan to September 2023 loss of over N90 Million.
Holders will be looking for who to dump it on after pushing it high. I will advise rookies or newbies to stay clear while the nsempa "book makers" are busy promoting a product where pigs can get slaughtered.
They know how they do their thing and profit from it. As soon as they settle inside the stock, they promote it to the moon. When they are out, you get to find out days after.
Even when u see it going up, do not regret not joining the trip because when the journey begins down hill, you may be left trapped up hill.
A word is enough.......
You all know the stock I am talking about

Always do ur DD

sorry, Whats NSEMPA?

FP55:
Hello, I'm new to the Nigerian stock market and looking to get started. Could someone guide me on how to set up an online trading account? Additionally, I would appreciate recommendations for both online and offline resources, such as books, that can help deepen my understanding of stock trading. Are there any movies that you would suggest for gaining a better insight into this field? I'm seeking advice from those experienced in this area. Thank you for your help!

Am a new bie also.. Can share the links too?

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Please who has standing fans for sale?

Conner44:
No you can not use the regular scanners for a cvt gearbox. You need a high end scan tool. Find someone who is an auto electrician that has links to someone who owns such a tool so that you can read fault codes from your cvt gearbox.

Ok boss..

Thank you

Conner44:
Is your own the type with the regular automatic or the cvt gearbox? When last did you change your transmission fluid? What exactly fluid did you use? Now that the weather is hot if you have substandard fluid in your sump it will affect your gearbox due to it's temperature not being within the right operational parameters especially after a short drive.

See, try to get a scan whenever that lncident happens next so that you can pinpoint where exactly the issue is coming from so as not to compound the issue with your mechanic.

From experience, it could either be caused by dirty/worn out fluid, wrong type of fluid (solution outright change of fluid) , an electrical issue eg. one of your solenoids malfunctioning (solution change of bad solenoid or tracing loose wiring) or worse a valve body issue (solution change of gearbox)

So apart from the fluid change the other solutions will depend on a comprehensive scan of your vehicle's gearbox system. Especially the portions I bolded in the write-up above. For the issue to rectify itself after you drove into a pothole it is possible it might be loose wiring.

I changed the oil about 9 months ago or there about.

I used Addinol CVT oil.. it's a CVT transmission.

How can I scan the gear box.. is it the regular scanners.

Thank you for your input

went on a long trip and I notice my car (Honda City 2007) would disengage itself from the gear. It would stop selecting gears but it would move.

But as soon as I park and allow it to cool for a while it moves and selects gears normally. After a like maybe 5 mins drive its disengages from the gear again but once i wait and it cools it moves normally.

Whike it was moving once it disengaged itself, I entered a pot hole it connected back and moved a bit before it disengaged again.

There is oil in the gear...

What could be wrong?

I went on a long trip and I notice my car (Honda City 2007) would disengage itself from the gear. It would stop selecting gears but it would move.

But as soon as I park and allow it to cool for a while it moves and selects gears normally. After a like maybe 5 mins drive its disengages from the gear again but once i wait and it cools it moves normally.

Whike it was moving once it disengaged itself, I entered a pot hole it connected back and moved a bit before it disengaged again.

There is oil in the gear...

What could be wrong?

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Hello House,

I noticed a vibration on my car anytime when i want to move, the vibration is from the Passenger side at the front.

Shaft and all the joints have been checked still same.

What could be wrong?

SOmeone was saying maybe it is the gear

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Temi1:
Hello Guys, please help me review this quotation I got to set up 5kva solar power in a 4 bedroom house. The vendor claims he works directly with Felicity and most Alaba boys sell inferior versions of the battery. Experts in the house, please what do you guys think?

Go to the solar thread you would get professional advise from alot of person and it would help guide your decision.

But this is on the high side though

obitobe:
Tubular batteries does what they call voltage sagging. It goes to fully charged at 27.1~ 27.5v floatation. After the sun goes out it start dropping to 25.3v (still fully charged) stays there for a while and when you put load on it, it further drops to 24.8v. it can say on 24.8v for hours depending on the load before it continues its voltage drop. So for a firm response what is your voltage at 75 or 85%?

Is this applicable to GEL Batteries too?

jceesquare:
If it smokes then it's time to rebuild or replace engine.
@ bolded. If you've been using the factory recommended oil weight, you might want to gradually switch to a thicker/higher rating. Doing so will give you some milage out of that engine, reduce the oil burn problem and top ups intervals before you rebuild or replace the engine.
I won't recommend an immediate switch to 20W-50. You might want to try 5W-40, 10W-30 etc before going the 20W-50 route. If it smokes even with 20W-50 oil, then I'm afraid you'll have to save up for rebuild (which I prefer if properly done) or outright replacement.

I have been using the recommended Oil weight of 5W - 30, Tried the 5W-40 same thing.

He then recommended the thicker oil pending when i have enough to replace the engine entirely.

kingreign:
Ah, you didn't specify earlier on na.

Anyways, check for leaks around the engine, or in-between the engine and transmission, if none is found, ask someone to drive hard while you follow behind your car.

There are no leaks around the engine. AM i observing if its smoking?

but I notice alot of carbon at the exhaust area after a long trip.

jceesquare:
Run a compression test (wet and dry) to know if it's the rings of valve stem seals.
Or in the absence of a compression tester, hold a steady RPM at 2,500 to see if it smokes or not.

OK.. What if smokes?

My mechanic is saying we should change the oil to thicker one. 20W-50

kingreign:
It's normal with MAN Diesel truck.

Man Diesel Truck

Its an Honda City 2007

Dozieson:
which car?

Honda City