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VeraAg:
What prompted me to ask this questions is from my observations. Dark skin girls get called names from childhood while lighter girls are given compliments and if some decided to be messing around with a guy or two, they were rarely called out. I totally understand what is being said here about not comparing my life to others, I was heated at the moment of posting this.

lol. Vera, you're funny. Really funny. Do you know that dark skinned girls are a treasure?
.I for one, I have never been attracted to light skinned let alone Biracial girls. I don't even look at them twice. Don't be like that. Your dark skin/ebony skin is the best thing you could ever ask for. I promise you. Lol don't be thinking that dark skinned girls arent in demand. That's a flawed way of thinking.

I'm also dark skinned, and Lord knows I'm loving it like mad. One lady calls me ororo because my face is always shining lol.

VeraAg:
thats why i asked what you guys thought first

just do you. The kind regret wey go knack her later ehn. She won't even share with you. Karma has a way of leveling the playing field. Continue being the good lass that you are (that's if youre telling us the truth o). You'll attract good men.

Thundafireseun:
Case 1 was never my friend..My brother you are correct… I actually haven’t met the guy before I allowed him into my house….
Very funny story…. My second girlfriend Ann begged me to please allow her childhood friend who works with peak milk stay a few days in my house because he has exhausted all his money in hotel because of house hunting…

I lerra found out that the guy is also lashing Ann.

my guy you don really suffer Sha. And na good guy you be o. How come you Neva begin your villain arc like me?

Rutherinspace:
I'm not refuting the experience of your friend. Men and women disappoint in relationships. Most of the men that complain about women are not better than the women they complain about. You can imagine his friend having sex with a women the first day and in his house. How can he attract responsible women? I have men and female friends but I seldom hear of infidelity because I control my circle of friends. Most of my friends are married or in healthy relationships. If I should count 10, about 1 goes south.

well, you have a point. But the truth is majority of females in this generation are uselesxxxx. It's the bitter truth. And they are prone to making terrible decisions over and over again because most of them lack spirit of discernment.

Then later blame it on another innocent man. Omo make everybody do wetin favour am. I sha know say searching for love is a fool's paradise. There's no love anywhere.

Maybe it used to be so in the past. But now, people are way too selfish to actually practice love. When you show true love to the opposite gender they automatically see you as a fool and would start plotting how they'd take advantage of you.

otipoju:
This post describes them perfectly and what they are capable of. They like to destroy what they no longer need as if it will soothe their conscience some how.


You will be like " is this the momster I have been living with for ten years "

Most women have no morals and can be very ruthless. If you think your own is different, it will shock you because na only God go fit deliver you if you fall in their trap.

for her mind, she don write my friend off. Say e no go ever pass this level wey e dey or wey she dey expect of am. She don pass her judgement na why she do like that. Couple wey be say I dey expect say dem fit born anytime. Do small traditional rite. Tomorrow she sef go dey say na village people.

I just dey laugh. The muntula wey she dey follow now na insecure fool. Him even corner my friend dey ask am say when last dem knack. My friend tell am say e Neva pass two months. The guy shock. Maybe she don feed am lies say dem don break up for over a year now.

Lmao. Men go learn Sha. See as she don already dey use dawan dey count scores.

otipoju:
This post describes them perfectly and what they are capable of. They like to destroy what they no longer need as if it will soothe their conscience some how.


You will be like " is this the momster I have been living with for ten years "

Most women have no morals and can be very ruthless. If you think your own is different, it will shock you because na only God go fit deliver you if you fall in their trap.

hahaha. I bet you a lot of Odogwus dey still beat their chest say their own is different upon seeing this post. But dem go learn Sha.

Sonnobax15:
Na my target this year be that bro

Women na scallywags bro

🤣🤣🤣🤣 na learning curve for everybody. Sooner men realise this, the better for them. Dem go start to help themselves more because they stand to gain a whole lot.

Rutherinspace:
He's correct. You attract your like. Women are different just as men are different. Your mother, sisters and other female relatives are different from others. Imagine the kind of friends that you have. He wants to sleep with a women he's meeting for the first time, is he a prostitute? That's very absurd.
That's the reason why you also attract such kind of women, because you have irresponsible friends.
[When you move with the right people, possess self control, and be focused. You will meet the right kind of women.

indeed. My BF sing pass this tune na. For him own case e Sabi women matter die. Babe of seven years wey e date. Wey do a lot for am as well, spend on am broke up with him. I told him that she's already seeing another guy, Baba no believe say another guy dey the picture. They were squatting together and na thr babe get the place. He left her and returned later to take some of his stuff.


Only to meet another guy there wey no even fine or tall reach am. The dude just get money and connections sort of. This girl lashed out at him for showing up without consent. She later reported him to the police. Had him tortured and arrested and lied that he was blackmailing her with nudes.

She lied that my guy beat her up. True they had a scuffle around 2013. When he hit her with anger. Do you know this girl had that picture saved in her gallery all this time? She showed to the police. Dem beat and torture my guy. He has to bail himself with 150k.

This one na real life story. Na my person e happen to. If you know as him and this girl tighr you no go ever believe say she go fit do such. Me I'm still shocked till now.

You can never be relaxed around women of these days. They are only loyal to their feelings. If you like no hear. Go dey put hope for one girl.

SpencerForbes:
I still don’t understand why heartbreak stories always make me happy😂😂😂

me too. I don learn. Love na for fools. 😂😂I go continue to preach. If dem like make dem hear. "My woman is different" hand go touch you.

Sonnobax15:
I no trust am again bro

remember I warn you that time. 🤣🤣 women no be am. Just bleep them and forge ahead. Give one wey beta small belle. Pay am off.

Thundafireseun:
I pity you….

If you think women are different from others

lmao. I be won type this thing. But you beat me to it. For him mind e dey follow classy women ,🤣🤣🤣😂 body go tell am las las

Sonnobax15:

Men will never learn..

Since I placed my banny in my shop,I've been noticing how she has been glowing . Omoh,na once I use style tell her say make she go find another work do

Since then,na me come dey glow

Nigerian bannies wey be Merlin when it comes to relationship scam

People wey God create for fun,na those kind people you expect me to take serious . No way

oh small small your mouth don dey change. So that your babe you no come trust am again.

Mistersolar:
read my topic

thanks bros

plsdisvirginme:
She don finally block me everywhere because I refused to give am 30k.
No problem.
She think she will run away with money.
The girl that was living in a public house with toilet.
She had infection.
Spent close to 100k plus to get her treated.
Because of this
I rented self contain for her , bought gen , tv and furnish her house.
Open fashion shop for her.
All these under one year.
The same She that cripple my own charging shop.
She think she can go free.

upload her pics make other men stay away.

nnamdi640:
You said it all

abinna. Them get advantage wey dem dey use their own hand turn into disadvantages. Then later dem go say men are scum.

Hismercy234:
Sincerely people who marry single parent - whether Mom or dad, her mind. They deserve award. Imagine the courage to see problem and face it still.

na love. but trust experience to clear the yeye love from their mind.

GanagiBitrus:
Most likely Carbon Monoxide from generator fumes.

BTW, it will surprise you that some persons around their cycle wil be inwardly happy about this tragedy. Such is the wickedness of man's heart.

for real. The family looks well to do to some extent. They seemed to be doing fine financially

VeraAg:
Lol. I am asking a question from what I observed. My friend is the half caste one and she is not following the rules that the rest of us follow. I am not necessarily attacking anyone, just asking questions is all.

You didn’t even answer the question sef.

oh sorry. I didn't even read. I just breezed through. 😂 I see your posts are mostly about men preferences concerning light skinned and dark skinned. First off ,, are you dark skinned or light skinned and what ever prompted the topic?


To answer your question, to compare yourself with another would be the sabotaging yourself on the long run. The fact that you feel based on the perception she's fed you that she's at an advantage is very wrong. Good girl dey pay. If you toll that path, there's no guarantee that you'll receive a similar reward. For now it may look like she's winning, over 30 today counts? Lol. Trust me, she'll get the repercussions sooner rather than later.


Live your life in a way that you're at peace with your soul and your inner man. If you want to do copy copy, you might regret it. Find yourself a man who values you, and believes in you. Trust me it's not hard to find.


The problem with you females is your olojukokoro, you always feel like you deserve way better even when you know you're lacking seriously. There are a lot of men who don't cheat, and would wife you only if you calm down and observe. I'm sure there are more than enough flooding your DMS now. But you guys always go for comfort first, or your feelings even when the guy doesn't seem to be that into you.

Ladies need to do better.

VeraAg:
When I hear about this stupid body count rule it’s usually saying that “we need women to have a body count of 0-3, everyone else is considered to be an olosho.” Oh really? Oh really??


Well during the Christmas holiday in Abuja, I reconnected with some of my friends growing up and on of them was a biracial girl. I have heard girls whisper about a different one being very promiscuous back in school and not held to the same standard as everyone else. All the Nigerian guys in school wanted to try her and she wanted to. It was judged at first, but the guys started to take their turns with her and it was only the fully black girls that were left judging her.

Now for my biracial friend, this is when I learnt that good girl truly no dey pay. She is 22 years old but told me her body count is 30! She isn’t a runz girl or into the hookup business. She is simply sleeping with as many men as she likes, and she has a huge entitlement attitude to accompany that.

Yet the serious boyfriends she gets back to back ehn? She is the one that doesn’t want to settle until she is in her late twenties. All the guys want to try her, and she wants to equally fun and isn’t stopping anytime soon.

I’m very sure she is getting herself a good husband, probably one that knows her past because the way men simp for her even when she says it with her full chest how much experience she has had, it will shock any black girl. She has a queue of men who want to take her seriously yet I’m seeing normal black girls of darker skin get called the worst names nonstop for even loosing their virginity before marriage.

They can’t have an entitlement mindset and will most likely do the emotional labor and everything else when and if they get married.

I’m glad that some black women are realizing before marriage that what Nigerian men say is bogus. And I bet you this biracial woman isn’t going to end up single and alone. Black men what do you have to say about this

😂😂😂 did you have to add "this Biracial" to prove your point? Sorry to burst your bubbles, a lot of men do not give a bleep about you and your ilk. I for one couldn't give a hoot if you're half caste or light skinned.

Anyway, there are also foolish men who would still end up with women with skewed logic such as yours.

Jakumo:
Wole "Kongi" Soyinka, an African Lion in the Winter, whose storied life straddles the nebulous demarcation between mythology and history.

Over 90 yet still in robust health thanks to a lifetime hiking rainforests and savannas alongside fellow hunters and barefoot philosophers.

Wole Soyinka, a prolific literary icon for the generations in Africa, and far beyond her tumultuous shores where the sea meets the sand.

I was privileged to have crossed paths with this physical and intellectual giant once, many moons ago, when he pulled up at the wheel of an olive-drab Jeep and poured fourth traditional libation to mark the denouement of a chronicle not unlike his own.

how do you write like this?

Satazaa:
I am somehow dumbfounded about the latest object of bashing nowadays aka single mom's, they get ridiculed, abused and blanket condemned without people knowing thier unique stories on they fell into being single moms, some became so by falling for men who are terrible and phisically abusive, alcohol addicts, betting addicts, armed robbers, outright bone lazy men who dont work while thier wives farm etc are so called husbands too to this women that we are foolishly heaping abuses on, so if you don't thier stories yall should shut the Bleep up and go get a job

see this one. don't worry. Go and date one, nobody go tell you.

Johnkay01:
Boss don post
I doff my hat

If I had practically follow your advice then I will not be in this dungeon.

I read most of your posts in reality every guy must know thread but i did not allow it to sink in to my head now I'm in shit that I can't undo for life.

My own is I be Captain save the hoe

chai. We've all been there. Sorry about the ordeal. Abeg share your experience for other youngings to learn from it. We need to help other men make better decisions.

Kelvin247Gold:
There are some single mothers that are not common, if you meet them once, your life has changed for better for ever. They're not after your money or anything. All they want is to have someone to protect them, be their companion and be there for them whenever she needs his attention. Some of them became single mothers cos of the demise of their husbands. Some fell victim of being a single mother while some are real single mothers (I won't say much about this one). The one I met has money. I mean money. She has her house, she has her business, we're childhood friend. So, if you jam a person like this, your life has changed forever. And when they love you like this, you don enter am. They will love you will there whole heart. This is not a mere say, I've witnessed it

😂

PUNANI01:
It will come like a gbim sound for their heart! I fear single mum; or anything that had given birth and ain't with her husband.

Some guys no won gree get sense. They want to still shuuk head there because of free pussy. Forgetting that awuuf dey purge belle

happney65:
Wetin concern me with single mother except to give her epon..

ehn. Wise man.

GloriousGbola:
most of this long rambling epistle applies to wives as well. once your wife has your children, they will take priority over you. just as your mother gave you priority over your father.

Oya go marry or date single mom then come back and testify please.

sweerychick:
If not for copy and paste, I would have bet my last breath you are talking outta experience, maybe I'm right.

[b]There's nothing wrong dating a single mom, the bottom factor here is love, single moms ain't looking for fun, they are looking for real love, they're mature not ready for stories or waste their time with Fuuckboys. [/b]When she loves you all those things you wrote up there would be secondary, and yes they want you to love their child they way you claim to love them. It's a choice of responsibility when you date and marry a single mom.

This is the first good joke I'll be hearing this year. ROTFL. And who are the five people liking this post? 🤣🤣 Bag of hogwash. Single moms looking for love? If I haven't been there, I would have believed this sheeet.

brain54:
Honestly I never knew blacks used to have freckles...

Until I saw oliseh's. I don't think I have ever seen it on any other black person!

Lmao. A lot of them have it too. My cousin has it. A female for that matter. Her own plenty die.

Authoreety:
Dat Chelle pix be like who dey draw the last blunt for weed

you be heeediiyiot olohun 😂😂🤣