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vybzkartel:
You have dated a woman for three months
Then in a conversation you ask her: "what is your biggest weakness?"

And she says:

"Fighting against sexual lust'"

1. How will you interpret it?
2. Will her answer make you reconsider marrying her?
3. How serious is that fact that a woman's weakness is in fighting sexual lust?

you're still asking funny questions. 😂😂😂

Dem go hear word? Dem go still chuuk head because of supposed "free pussy" dem go learn Sha.

Keepamsafe:
Hello my Nairaland Folks and Pals. Im writing this with so much hurt and pain in my heart. Another girl I just met says she prefers we just be friends because she has a guy in her life but she wouldn’t mind coming around still.

Even the ones that says they don’t have a man, still rejects my advances of a relationship, rather still come to give me the cookie jar.

If I was younger, would be fun. But, at this age, I want real connection. Im not rich, but Im trying. I have some good days and bad. But, I believe I can take care of a serious partner. Its sad always getting tossed aside when you feel you have what it takes to be the main boyfriend.

Is there anyone else going through this? Is there anyway to change my status? I need help and advice pls
Pansophist


help for wider opinion please

is that your only problem in life?

Dpsychologist:
That aspect where you said u start not the gain anything from it is really touching.

as much as some would like to disagree. It's the plain truth. She won't be there for you emotionally, neither is she gonna be there for you financially. If it's the sex, you're both enjoying it. So what's their to gain? Worse thing is their manipulative nature. They would gaslight you to stupor.

Some single moms on NL won't like this, but they know it's the truth. You stand to gain nothing. Only misery, waste of your time and resources on an ungrateful fellow.

Yes oh. If anyone told me I'd despise single moms like this last two years, I would have disagreed

Dpsychologist:
Lol experience they say is the best teacher.

Stephen0mozzy:
So because you wan be hard man, you no go take care of the woman wey born your children? You no go equip the woman wey go fit carry the responsibility of making sure your children have the best of life if anything happens to you?

Na una get problem with woman and wives, me no get. E no get who me love reach all the women in my life.
If bad behaviour naim be the learning, i nor wan learn.

Okay na. Open yourself up to your wife. You think say the women of today are the same with our mother's? No sha say dem no warn you. Prioritize yourself and your kid. No prioritize any woman. If you like call me hard man. It's the bitter truth. Only your mum deserves that kind of priority. Your wife no go prioritize you like that.

Sonnobax15:
. Single mothers are a red flags,tho not all of them..

Reminds me of one single mother I nearly loved some years ago......as we were vibing,it was then she opened up that she was a single mom....Right there,my mood changed and it was very obvious before her very eyes....After that day,I never for once called her again not texted her.....Tho she wanted us to confirm but I'm not used to wasting anyone's time......when I say I'm done,I mean it.....

that's just it. Stay away from them. Not even for sexing. They are heartless and extremely selfish. They are not good for anything even for friendship. And I don't mean this in a bad way. Cause you stand to lose everything while gaining nothing from such a relationship.

Antichristian2:
Jesus Christ lived on earth for approximately 33 years, with about three years dedicated to his public ministry. The religion founded on his teachings was later called Christianity, named after Christ. However, Jesus did not explicitly settle many creedal matters before his death. Even Paul, who was allegedly commissioned by Jesus despite not meeting him during his earthly life, did not resolve these doctrinal issues. As a result, early church councils were convened to address and clarify these important creedal questions.

Definition of a Council
A council is a formal assembly of church leaders and theologians convened to discuss, debate, and decide on important doctrinal, theological, or disciplinary issues within Christianity.

Why Was It Needed?
Councils were needed to address emerging heresies, clarify Christian doctrine, and maintain unity in belief and practice as Christianity spread and diversified.

Why Not Just Follow Jesus’s Teachings Directly?
-Jesus did not provide detailed systematic theology or resolve all interpretive disputes.
-As the church grew, differing interpretations arose, requiring authoritative decisions.
-Councils provided a collective, guided consensus to preserve orthodox faith and resolve controversies, especially on core creedal matters.

1. Council of Nicaea (325 AD)
Defined the divinity of Jesus Christ, affirming He is "of the same substance" (homoousios) with the Father.
Produced the original Nicene Creed.

2. Council of Constantinople (381 AD)
Expanded the Nicene Creed, affirming the divinity of the Holy Spirit.
Reaffirmed the Trinity doctrine.

3. Council of Ephesus (431 AD)
Affirmed Mary as Theotokos ("God-bearer" or Mother of God).
Condemned Nestorianism (which separated Christ’s divine and human persons).

4. Council of Chalcedon (451 AD)
Defined the doctrine of the Hypostatic Union: Jesus Christ is one person in two natures, fully divine and fully human, without confusion or separation.

5. Second Council of Constantinople (553 AD)
Reaffirmed Chalcedon and condemned certain writings seen as Nestorian.

6. Third Council of Constantinople (680-681 AD)
Condemned Monothelitism, affirming Christ has two wills (divine and human).

7. Second Council of Nicaea (787 AD)
Restored the veneration of icons, condemning iconoclasm.

Why debate on all these if Jesus and Paul did clarify them in the Bible?

my guy go and check out the thread I created for our Muslim brothers and sisters

Axis313:
How can you recite Qur'an 700 a day?
Continue lying to your soul.

are you trying to say I'm not a true Muslim?

Stephen0mozzy:
Be like you no get family wey you love o. Who women help. My hustle na to make Mumsee and my siblings enjoy the best of life.

Then priority goes to wifey and kids once them come

you Neva still learn

Just like my single mother ex. She no fit ever love anybody other than herself and child. Very heartless being. I hope she gets what she deserves some day. I also appreciate her for opening my eyes. That I'm very grateful for. Amina. Shout out you.

Lalami3232:
And you beat her? Anyways, I no really get much to say than to encourage una to marry all these girls wey una don damage emotionally, financially, physically and sexually. I refuse to inherit another man's leftover. Some of una wey go like this comment married non-virgins, others dey date non-virgins and una dey like the comment. Isn't that hypocrisy? If majority of una know the number of preeq wey don enter una partners because una inherit am, una for decide to buy LUX soap and do the needful. Anyways, I no get much to say than to advise men wey marry non-virgins aka leftovers to go for DNA test.

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA test

lol you no dey miss. Abeg I fit get audience with u

PlasmaTV:
This man just became a president to tour the nations of the world.

A you;seless man through and through.

Omo seeing him alone, slouched, looking like a wizard, makes me want to puke. I mean, this man prolly has mouth and body odour. He looks so out of place. Like a greedy mooooorooon, he doesn't even know when he's had his fill. He looks like he doesn't even know what he's doing there. In his senile mind, he's on excursion. Tufiakwa. Mandate Thief.


And before you come for me, I'm not supporter of Peter Obi either or any other polithiefcian. They are all selfish and wicked beings.

SpencerForbes:
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It’s hilarious watching a guy think he can play a grown woman. He’s definitely not the first person to promise her a ring and disappear, yet he thinks he can use the same old tactics and just walk away. He doesn’t realize she might get truly desperate or diabolical just to keep him.

they want to enjoy the pussy and then go Scott free. These single moms are ready to go diabolical if need be

SpencerForbes:
You’re one madt sex skill from marrying her😂😂😂 you think you can keep a single mom for only sex😂

I always laugh when I read that part. Seems many men don’t know how manipulative women are.

Anyway happy married life 🍻

it's the case for these so called redpillers. They think they are wise. You want to be fucking a single mom lol. That's why I always say run away. Flee from single mom. Don't have anything to do with them. Treat them like plague else you go regret your life.

Gotocourt:
The Nigeria Police Force which is part of Nigeria Armed Forces is taking back it's glory. The NPF has different sizes of machine used strictly for major operations kept in state headquarters. Late President Shehu Shagari empowered the NPF mopols. I've been seeing police convoys with different grades of MGs in Jos, Plateau State heading to hot volatile areas.

It's obvious, TINUBU is out for business 👌.

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You dey mind these idiots. If na poor man this thing happened to, these animals wouldn't give a hoot. Make all of them get out. We will all enjoy this wonderful corn tree Tinubu has made

SmartPolician:
Insanity is okay in Nigeria until a popular person becomes a victim. We aren't building a country; this is a jungle!

Rest in peace to the child.

Carndidlaydid:
kana bukatar ka koyi

menene alakar Shugaban kasa da wannan

ku duka rai ne mai ɗak

Are you for real? Was your former soubriquet "candidlady"?

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who's micro1? Na spirit?

Demetrix:
if you are supporting this government and it's damage, I honestly pity you bro.

a lot of senseless people in Nigeria in the first place is why we're here. Why we'll continue to change bad government for even far worse. Just make money and get out of this rubbish we call country. That's the goal. Nigerian is gone.

SixSeven:
A woman who gave birth to you cannot be trusted

they aren't referring to women of yesteryears. Today's woman 1992 down is whom they refer to. Calm down.

LIVINGICONREBOR:
E be like truth dey dis thing. If you see my woman heavy breasts, the thing big pass my head more than four times. As man don guard now, the thing dey tire me sef. Breast and yansh jus full everywhere.😡

if she don tire you, Gbe wa.

Kobojunkie:
If your vows do not include a prenuptial or postnuptial contract with an infidelity clause and a financial clause, it remains outdated. 🥱🥱🥱

You don dey get sense small small? Interesting.