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saintkel:
u guys haven't even answered d main question.....is it normal for one partner to demand for sex everyday in a relationship/marriage?

No it's absurd. Is she a secx toy?

theredaddy:
lolzz, its possible to love sex that much, But to have sex everyday, aunty speaking for Men thats a NO,. even God Rested

if you see he is not making ideal commitment simply make your stand known .... creat that impression he is losing you already

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see as I dey look her. She just dey baffle me more and more as I dey read her comments. No matter how guy like sex reach, everyday? Haba. Him no get work?

Harddiskng:
Don’t marry him! Even if you love him.

You can see that you both have different sexual energy and not sexually compatible.

With all you stated i don’t even know why you are in the relationship, but i know women; there is definitely something keeping you there

at the bolded, fosho. There's something keeping her in the lopsided relationship

Successsearch90:
the guy's game is tight. He don deceive am far
No be today.
May God forgive all of us

my own be say make she no come dey say all men are the same. Cause dem go open their ojukokoro eyes dey fall for the wrong guys, then later dey use am punish innocent Niggas.

Goodlyhrt:
thank you at bolded.

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More like a deformity in my right leg. An injection shrunked my right leg when I was a toddler caused me to not walk properly so I aid my rightleg with my righthand when I walk.. I bend to one side when I make a stride.

For real bro..you no get wahala. I suffer from haemorrhoid as well. It's a challenge but we bless God. You're doing well bro I assure you.

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twenty five years nko....is that too young for your client

Sonnobax15:
. Spec indeed......I no fit laugh abeg

Its very obvious no amount of advice will make you think well.....

I hope she go dey strong enough to come give us update. I feel sorry for her gan.

ZaraArewa:
Reasons why i came out to seek for help

all right.

ZaraArewa:
Trust me i am his spec

What's his spec? What did he tell you?

Sonnobax15:

You're dating a guy who hasn't shown you off to any of his family members and friends.....he isn't even committed just like you said....

Truth is that once a guy choose you to be the partner whom he intend to spend the rest of his life with, he'll constantly be showing you off, steadily...


Ask any good tailor around you and he/she will tell you those materials are big enough to sew a big red flag

My dear,run for your dear life cuz it's very obvious he's only using you to quench his se*ual urge...

I weak for her bro. Later they'll be saying all men are scum. The red flag is big enough to see

ZaraArewa:
Thank you for the advise. I will give it a thought

you would give it a thought? Seriously....are you kidding me right now? A man wouldn't waste so much time before introducing you to his mom if he adores you. No say dem no warn you. I take it you're in your early 20s? Are you a northerner?

ZaraArewa:
There is something that has been bothering me.
I have been dating this guy for a year and he's not really committed to the relationship, he has not introduced me to any of his family members nor his friends, each time i ask he will brush it off with his sweet talking skills and kissing.
One of the main problems i have is his high demands for sex. He's always in the mood to have sex.
Pls house do you thing it's normal for someone to love sex that much?

Feel free to criticise or throw insults at me.

smh. What are you still doing in there? He no even rate you. Why do you girls keep making wrong choices!

DarkLover:
In summary, I just cheated on my girl with a new friend who wouldn't let go.

She's aware of my relationship, but carries on regardless. She's a sweet one, but I feel bad for cheating.

Life goes on.

guy...no lemme vex for you abeg. You have everything people like us dey find even one wey dey loyal. We no see. Na so so agbako Bruhhhh. Where you mount sef

ediko5:
She didn't write anything here. It's all AI generated

the guy just dey waste e time

Goodlyhrt:
Not when you are dealing with a master.. like in chess, patterns are the bread and butter true of masters.

Our guts is not bad after all. To me it's like one of the factors of my reaction or action not the sole factor (if you understand)

perfectly understood 😁 no lies

Lvgirl:
But you are broke too looking for rich guy
Os in disguise

lmao. Dey mind these females? Very deluded daughters of Eve

Goodlyhrt:
Trusting only your gut in this world na how manipulators go cook you. They specialize in feeding your instincts until you swallow their trap.

You are correct. But e get certain bad experiences wey suppose don cook you beforehand. Na there your guts go kick in, identifying patterns which you stated above.

Goodlyhrt:
Guy, no dey shut down advice like that. Anybody fit drop something and another person go pick sense from am. Me, I dey collect from everywhere: good, bad, raw, polished, all join. My head dey like database. Everything dey enter, but I don build one strong query algorithm wey dey help me filter noise and pull out the real gems. That’s why I no fear information overload.

So allow people flex their knowledge or even their ignorance na from there we dey soak, sieve, and apply what really works. You fit do the same.

Lol. I no dey give advice to people. I don't know jack about their lives. I'm not in their shoes. Everything you need is inside you..consult your gut. That's all.

Goodlyhrt:
Normally

But this too na strategy too hahahah

Chuckles.

Goodlyhrt:
Life hack keh 😎

Smiling bro I fit look soft, even harmless, but na disguise. Later dem go realize say I be werey and then fear go set in, because omo how one wicked boy like me go dey smile steady? Smiling na pure masterkey. E dey open doors like werey, and if you come get small fine face join, omo na cheat code wey no dey fail

Another one wey dey work for me na visibility. Be active, be present, work the crowd. Many blessings no dey come because you sabi too much, but because person sabi you. (Take am play first) Sometimes just your presence alone dey unlock rooms wey talent no fit enter.

Awareness na another killer code. No leave anything to chance. Watch, observe, dey three steps ahead. Life na chess, but many dey play am like Ludo. Look for patterns. When you sabi patterns, nothing fit shock you.

Information na weapon too. Be like walking Google even if you can't know everything but know much about many things especially in your field. Talk with certainty, drop words with weight, and even if you no talk much, when you finally open mouth, everybody dey pause.

And emotions? Baba, the quickest way to lose na to overreact. Control yourself, no let anger or impulse dey use you dance. Be calm, be ice. Werey no dey shout, werey dey watch.

Last last, always update your software. Learn, unlearn, relearn. Browse like werey Be culturally flexible, adjust, adapt. This earth na jungle and if you no upgrade, you go expire.

That’s my creed: smile to disarm, show face to connect, stay ahead to survive, speak with certainty to command, master emotions to control, and keep evolving to reign.
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Though I never make am but e sure for me because I dey see evidence

Lol. You just dey blow your horn since. Where your own stop na there another own begin. Calm down bros.

EmperorIsaac:
Flee from ungrateful women (if you don't consider "ungrateful women" a tautology!)

This is so apt. In most cases Ungrateful is synonymous with women. So I understand you very well. 😭 They set expectations that even they themselves cannot meet for men. Nowadays I don't even bother with their nonsense. I'm learning to focus my energy on me...be more than happy to enjoy my own company and learn to appreciate the ones who really matter in my life even if they are very very few in number.

It's easy to dish advice when one isn't confronted with the vicissitudes of life. I feel utterly sorry for the one who lives their lives solely based off the advice of people. The best thing you can do is trust your gut. Never ignore that soft voice deep within you. Your spirit alone could ever help you navigate through this shallow world. Pay attention to your inner man, for it is always right, even when it feels wrong.

bigpriik:
Your mind influences your reality ,your thoughts determines the outcome of your life
Positive thoughts yield positive life.

Right, positive thoughts indeed. Are you saying the people that met a terrible end did not have positive thoughts enough? Did positive thinking and affirmation cute people of terrible diseases?

QuinModah:
People Wear Masks. Never assume anyone is showing you their true face.

Money Rules the World. Respect its power, because people already worship it.

Be Selfish. Be Ruthless. Be Firm. Kindness without boundaries is weakness.

ALL Men is Measured by What He Provides. Give only when the exchange is truly worth it.

So cringe coming from a woman. Especially knowing Majority of y'all are like this by default.

2cribz:
Be quiet.
Skama


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the guy too funny. I pity who believes this shit. Na OYO

NOETHNICITY:
Bro I understand, but me I dey dread olosho sha

I swear. Funny thing be say our average Nigerian girls dey do transactional relationship. So na coded oloshoism be that

NOETHNICITY:
Open a bad place for person.

Good lord

na advice e ask abeg

xtianchris:
lol Criminal somebody 🤣😂🤣🤣 Bad man.

I'm sorry sir, I was inspired.

cricifixo:
Omo my own open am for me last night as I dash her a loaf of bokku bread I came back with.
The girl opueh too sweet abeg

enjoy comrade.