Hi all
Its been a while. Are we still cooking?

Wow wow finally i read all the pages
Great thread.

Do u have more pics?

@ Carol posh

i am not really used to cooking fulani meals but if you can ask him what particular meal he likes, and let me know and i`ll work out something.

amieyk

i think any bitter leaf can go just make sure you wash it well to remove all the bitterness.

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Please I am unable to download using my phone. What do I do?

You guys are just kiling me with these hymns. Please post links where I can download. I lost all my cds of good hymns

So sweet Jeff hope she'll read this. I am copying the last paragraph to use for hubby's birthday message. You know love oh

The girl in question is definately not in love. Love just makes you do things without even knowing you are doing them. So the guy should start thinking twice.

Ujujoan: It beats me how women do ALL the work in a marriage. Honestly women that go out of their way to please selfish men must be Angels. May God bless them!

@ Poster
Were you not jobless BEFORE he married you?
Are you just sitting at home eating and doing nothing to get a job?
Did he marry a model with a certified figure 8 for life?
Is he weighing the exact weight as as time of marriage?

My dear stop killing yourself for NOTHING. Your man will keep behaving that way as long as he sees how much it bothers you. Biko try and ignore him o jare, he is not God!

My sister women have suffered. An adult has decided to ignore his pecious wife and has also refused to let her know why, it now has become the wife,s fault, she has to do this and do that to make the man change. All that would only make the man look down more at the wife. Make yourself happy don't depend on someone your happiness. If you have tried more than once to solve this issue by asking him what the matter is, then be yourself and ignore all his poor attitudes.you can't force him to LOVE you back. Na wettin

tessybaby:
Why on earth should she beg her husband. Please let's be realistic when giving advice, we are all human.
OP I would advice you follow CC's advise and if your hubby finally says u did something wrong to make him behave that way, then apologise if you are truely sorry.

Sorry ma, it's not in my nature to attack people, talkless of those I don't know.

greatgod2012: @op, every marriage has its ups and downs, so calm down, its a phase, it will soon pass.
However, i assume you are only assuming, you cant really say what exactly is making him behave the way hes doing until you ask him, what is happening in your marriage is simply known as "communication break-down" ...........so, ny dear sister..........initiate communication, if hes not communicating with you, you communicate with him, initiate it, you dont have to wait for him to start talking with you like b4, you start the way you were doing when you were still dating, prepare delicious food and serve your meals together, while eating, open up a topic with him , but dont let it be about money or care of the child, save part of the money he gives you and buy movie ticket for two pple and invite him along, read books and narrate it to him, watch movie and tell him, just make sure you find something to discuss with him,......as you start all these, you will find avenues to ask what you did wrong all along, and dont be too big to beg him, after telling you what is wrong, from there, discuss with how you will like to start doing something to avoid idleness.
Note of warning...........if he has not started complaing about your weight, do not shed it until you ask him, he might like you the way you are, size 12 isnt much weight, so, do not work on assumption, work on certainty.
I wish you well, your marriage is still young, enjoy it, embrace him, invite him for hot sex, prepare the bed in such a way that he cant just resist you, dress smartly and dont forget to show love to his folks, it goes a long way for men to appreciate.
Above all, involve God in your marriage, always pray for him, d devil might want to deal with him and hes distracting him from what can make him happy, so, pray for his happiness, pray for everything that has to do with him, i will recommend the book....."the power of a praying wife" to you, it will help you to know the areas you will pray for about him.
May God help us all.

Why on earth should she beg her husband. Please let's be realistic when giving advice, we are all human.
OP I would advice you follow CC's advise and if your hubby finally says u did something wrong to make him behave that way, then apologise if you are truely sorry.

Pataki:

Are you talking about me tessy?

Are you that big

kolajoo: ur v g is now large then

NO boss even after 2 vg birth I still enjoy my thing with hubby

Backdoor for me is a NO go area. I can only imagin the pain. If hubby tries to ask me to do backdoor I will immediately call a family meeting. That one na to kill person.

Lol
Smiles very broadly

An advise for you from a woman: since she thinks you are disturbing her with your calls just stay for atleast one week without calling her. When she calls talk normally with her and don't sound like you are angry with her. Girls don, t like easy going relationships, u are certainly boring her with the numerous calls, when you stop she'll start missing those same calls she is hating now. Come back and share the result.

A friend of mine was getting married so I was the bridal pilot; in charge of the bridal train. There was handsome guy who was the best man to the groom. I noticed he couldnot stop staring at me to the extent that he missed most of his roles. He kept on calling on me to assist on certain issues during the church service. I remember he abandoned the groom during photo shots just to take pictures with me. We exchanged numbers and the rest is history.

I remember I dated a guy who had the biggest d.ick I have ever accomodated and the first time we had sex I was in serious pains(am talking about that kind of pain that makes it impossible to walk properly or even urinate but damn I loved this guy so I decided to continue dating him hoping my v g would get used to after some time. It actually got better as time went on but unfortunately we broke uo due other reasons.

Hot pepper sauce recipe
What u need:
5 large pepper, 2 large onions, ginger and garlic, white pepper, a branch of celery.

Mix all ingredients and grind, then put in a pot and boil for some time, then add oil when the water is reduced, add salt and maggi cube and stir fry for about 5 mins.
Your pepper sauce is ready.

djwackfriz: Tessybaby, do you have good recipe for cameroon "pepe"? The hot sauce?

It depends what you want to use the pepper sauce for. Is it to be eaten with roasted fish pork chicken?


Thanks!

Momobaby: Can you please post the recipe for the achu soup and plantain porridge? Loving your posts!!

I think I have posted achu recipe already, will post "turning plantain" as it is mostly called later.

@jidegirl
Am sad u did not mention my name
****** rushes out crying****

I usually decide taking into consideration what hubby likes and what my first dota can eat

The lady in question has actually tried several times to discuss this with her hubby but he dismisses the subject all the time. What aches her is the fact that he has to turn on this movie before making love to her.

you have a point there but I always feel that men who watch these movies constantly always do so to be aroused and that's an insult to his wife. Can u imagine?

Sorry oh
After reading Dayo's post above I have a comment:
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Hmmmmmmm no comment

What do you of your guy/hubby watching porn movies? A female colleague of mine asked me this question and said her hubby watches it all the time to learn new styles lol. These men would not kill us oh, very soon they would start expecting us to do exactly like those girls do.

I rarely back my babies, can't stand the weight on my back. I have very big babies.

Lol these kids