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And it is reuters in Maiduguri that is reporting this?

People dey shaa.
Nice one, all for fun

Amotekun777:
Typical Okoro mentality... It's all abt the money spent.

even if you want to go tribal, do it sensibly. Is there any money involved in the advice the guy u are attacking gave?
Meanwhile, forget your yoruba women. I have a long list of your married adulterous sisters that have donated to me since when i was single till date and have an appointment with one 2moro as we speak.

malvisguy212:
am not igala, but am suprise , you hardly here this type of complain about igala women.

forget. They do codedly. Even hausa women with hijab do as well, no tribe is immune. Im speaking from pure experience

NaMeAboki:
Kindly refer to what the OP wrote (see copy below) then come back and tell me whether Aboki no go school and subsequently provide evidence to back up your own version of the story; which in any case you should to take it up with the OP - not me.

"The 50 metre Federal Govt Urasi Bridge connecting Nnewi in Anambra and Orlu in Imo has been completed and commissioned today, after reconstruction to make it standard . The bridge was constructed by federal authorities after Independence in 1960".[i][/i]

forget the op.
See the proof in the 1st pix.
2nd pix is distance btw nnewi and orlu and the dotted lines are the boundaries btw anambra and imo.
Judge for yourself

Seyzcham91:

yes o. We have strict marriage laws.
Any child out of wedlock belongs to the woman's family. Even if the man then marries the woman, the one born out of wedlock will still remain with the woman's family.
If you chase ur wife and dont go and collect the bride price back, any child she gives birth to while away belongs to u.
Any child ur wife bears when legally married, wheather with other men or not belongs to you.
We dont use DNA to determine anything in my place.

sherifato:
Am not supporting a married woman who cheats because it's only shameless and irresponsible women that does that. But I came to think about it, a lot of useless and stupid men sleeping around anything in skirt are now plenty,but then their wives keeps forgiving them in the name of not leaving their home for another woman. Why is it like that? I think every body should be responsible.

it's a man's world

Seyzcham91:
Be Glad The Hoe left the house peacefully without Stress. You need to go do thanksgiving at church tomorrow sef. Good Riddance to bad rubbish!

As for the one you call your son. before you wanna take decision of Taking up his responsibility monthly from Afar as some baby daddy do. first go try do DNA test to confirm if he's truly your child

As far as i'm concern you have no business with the Hoe anymore, Bleep the Bride price and wedding expenses. Count your losses man and Move on. Afterall nasame same be all dem naija women! very useless Gender that nothing you can do to please or satisfy them, They always cheat.

well, in my place, there's no issue of DNA. So far u are his legally married husband, any child she bears is urs, no further story.

GodWrites:
An adulterous wife will send you to your grave earlier than a bullet from an SKS.

In some traditions, her people will be mandated to pay back every dime you spent marrying her.

Adultery is not something you take lightly, not in Igbo land or Igala.

Get in touch with your people, so they will accompany you to see her people so they can do the necessary things.

Never accept her back, no matter the magnitude of tears and begging. If you give her a chance, she will poison you or probably kill you in your sleep.

Traditionally, the boy is yours. If she's to seek a legal divorce, you'll win custody on the ground that your wife is a hoe, irresponsible, and a bad influence on your son.

My advice to young folks: If you want peace of mind, never marry, get a baby mama instead. There are some good women, they are few and not worth the gamble.

Shalom!

pay back what? The inlaws will just return a token to him, which is the bride price, maybe N100 or N200 and dissolve the marriage. That's all. The son remains his but can be at the custody of the woman till he grows. That's all.

NaMeAboki:
Painment and more heartache for the chest beaters - they will still insult him.

for one, the bridge was built by an individiual, a philantropist from anambra and not govt. And 2ndly, distance btw nnewi and orlu is 36 km. When i tell u that aboki no dey go school, aboki no dey reason, u thought i was joking.

MuttleyLaff:
What exactly is he going scot free from?

what is he apologising for?

Kzinne:
See how Ngozi Nwosu was accepted gladly in their midst despite the fact that she's from the other tribe. Yet they can't accept Lola Okoye who has had beautiful kids for their brother.

we no want. Na by force?

alonzoiv:
Rest in peace. A big loss to tbe Saraki family

how's it a loss to saraki's family?

kikake:
More people still suffer from non connected Awka-Owerri highway because of a bridge not completed on Orashi river in Ideato between Ekwulobia and Orlu since 1984.

ekwulobia to orlu. Cant u go tru uga-akokwa-orlu? Or is it longer?

nick50:
The bridge was constructed by Chief Godwin agbasimelo (Oga ndi Oga) a renowned philanthropist and it's not a link road between Nnewi and IMO state as purported by Bmc zombies but a bridge linking Ezinifite the hometown of late chief Oliver Akanite (Oliver de coque) the king of high life music in Africa and ihitenansa in IMO state.. I don't know why Buharists are full of lies n peddling of fake news

tnx. How can someone say bridge linking nnewi and orlu? Such senselessness. Nnewi to orlu is about 36km

People and lies. How can a bridge link nnewi and orlu? Are they neighbouring towns? Are they even border towns? Nonsense

Raydos:
Wagbayi Omo iya mi, I'm a Christian too, but trying to separate us with Religion Is so so not possible in Yorubaland

He can try it somewhere else!!

but in osun, the muslims are seperate from the christains naa. Or is osun not yorubaland?

FarahAideed:
And who is going to fund them ?it takes averagely 1.5 billion naira to fund one supreme court judge in a year

where did u get that statistics from?

Judolisco:
Pls will buhari still address NASS 2day? Or his virtual recording is not yet ready

he wount

emmy512:
Take a look at an official document.
Starts counting from two and count's thank you also
Chai

i think they took the first paragraph as count 1

RealAlubarika:
I'm not an Afonja, I'm Esan Central LGA of Edo state, I won't ask cause my fiance is not from the east Okay. I still stand on my previous assertion that the marriage list is part of the bride price.

Cry me a river

We rise by lifting others

if unfortunately the marriage ends in divorce and the man goes back to collect the bride price he paid, he would be given only N200, which is the bride price. Do u understand?

RealityShot:
my female friend says her boyfriend can't marry her because they gave him a list of 200k

Am not saying it's too much, but a guy of 29 yrs wanting to marry his girlfriend of 25yrs,,
Who (the guy) just left NYSC 3yrs ago,
has he reached to save up that sum to spend at once?

Now add that, he will also do traditional party, plus white wedding party, plus new apartment.

Well, all that expenses just to have another mouth to feed ain't worth it man!

The guy relocate go north leave my friend... Lolzzzz

Any thing beyond 50k is not worth it or reasonable. (even that self plenty)

Guys just prefer to pay per do or maintain girlfriend till goal occur!

Cc: thatigboman

the guy didnt know. It's negotiable. The list would have been watered for him when they see that he didnt have much at the moment.

Angelfrost:
Your words carry sound reasoning and weight... I am impressed.

However, such customs need to be modified in the best interest of everyone involved.

chairman, everyone, no matter his financial status, can marry an igbo girl.
When i got married in anambra, i was given a list of N120k, but on the day of the marriage, the village uncles jacked it up by over 100k when they saw me and my crowd.
My wife's sister who is a petty trader married a mechanic in the same house the following year and the mechanic didnt spend up to 100k. His list was watered down to 30-40k.
It's all psychology. When village uncles weigh u and see they can tax u, they will, else they will just ask u to carry their daughter and go and take care of her

Kennyswag:
Igbos can go to hell and burn to ashes .. I don't care

after u

InvertedHammer:
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I don’t think people are complaining about the bride price. The problem is the infamous list in which all the kindreds get together, write all their problems in life and hand it over to a suitor to purchase.

I feel sorry for ladies from Mbaise. Some people are too scared to get close enough to know the truth. If she tries, the man will think he is being reeled in for the kill.
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extremely funny

1x2x3:
After settling the long list which will likely be within the range of 500k to 1M are you still going to buy drinks, buy cow, canopies, cook food for the main function or once you settle the list then the brides family take charge?

u will still buy drinks and cook food

Acekidc4:
209,000.....Shey I will Sha Hear the Heavenly Host Singing Praises in Heaven on it??

where the heaven dey? Have u not travelled by plane before and see it all empty space up there?

Zzor:
I want to get married, I'm a fan of early marriage but irresponsible men all over the place, it's easier to pass through the eye of a needle than to get a responsible man. God I'm still waiting for your miracle

if u want to get married, go and get married.

RedboneSmith:
The bottomline remains that the marriage cost is obscenely expensive, whether you count the materials as part of the bride price or not. The marriage cost is obscenely expensive, is unconscionable and needs to stop!

You ask me to drop cash of 30 naira, but the yams and cloths and other miscellaneous I'll still present is worth over a million naira. Who is fooling who?

not same for everyone. The cost of the materials are only increased in april for easter and December xmas period. When the marriage occurs normal times, they are usually like give away

laiperi:
My love, every godde tin kiss money. If you love me pay for what I ass you.

This was an Haitian girl talking o, not Igbo.

tnx plenty

fredoooooo:
To the game of football

so aiyegbeni that missed to score at an empty net in a similar circumstance ahould have been shot to death? At least this one scored.