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NoFucksToGive:
The men look half dead like zombies while the ladies are enjoying themselves

superCleanworks:
Hacker wey hunger wan kill. Please hack this my Nairaland account. But you can't. Hahahahaha.

chatinent:
Let the jailing begin.

Roll call...


1. Obasanjo
2. Jonathan
3. Osibanjo
4. Amechi
5. Okorocha
6. Hell Rufia
7. Buba Galadima
8 Okezie Ikpeazu
9. Sanwo Olu
10. In fact, invite all the ministers, comptrollers, governors, senators, house of rep members.
....


Anybody wondering why Buhari isn't on the list?

When you mention sinners, do you mention the devil?

bestman09:
VALUE ADDING WIFE (VAW)

Many think that Jacob loved Rachael because she was beautiful....Noooooooo! Beauty only attracts a man to a woman but what determines his true love for a woman goes beyond beauty. *Rachael was not just beautiful, she was also industrious per excellence!*

Why do we have a lot of beautiful ladies today yet no husband? Because beauty without value and virtue is like a smoke. What impressed and attracted Jacob to Rachael was her industriousness.

While her brothers and elder sister Leah were at home, Rachael singlehandedly brought her father's flock to the well to give them drink. That was where Jacob met her for the first time. "No sensible man can resist a woman who is beautiful and industrious".
What would have made a man worked for seven years for the woman he loved and yet felt like he just worked for seven days? ........ Value!

My man doesn't respect me, it's because you are not a Value-Adding-Woman (VAW).

Do you realize that Jacob did not pay Leah's bride price? They gave him Leah as bonus. Because she has no value. This was why Jacob had no respect for her and her children, hence he set them as first entourage when he was going to meet his angry brother.

If you force yourself on a man, he may never respect you. If he got you cheaply, he will never respect you. If you are not adding value to his life, he will never respect you.

Even after marriage, Leah had to be begging and buying the attention of her own husband while on the other hand, Rachael was practically *in control of Jacob, no be jazz oooo, it's Value!

Rachael was a shepherd in the midst of her siblings, a profession meant for men. She was in control of her father's business. This was what glued Jacob to her.

Gen 29:9_Jacob was still talking with them when Rachel arrived with her father’s flock, for she was a shepherd.

How can boys be in the house and a girl (last daughter of the house for that matter) be the one to tend her father's flock and family business? Industriousness!

After Jacob slept with Leah, he still went for Rachael. Sex don't keep a man, value does.

Leah had 5 children, Rachael had none, yet Jacob still loved Rachael more than Leah. Having children is good but adding value is better.

Don't ever think you can pin a man down with children. If you like give him a nation, if you are not adding value to his life, he will walk away someday.

I'm passionately pleading with our parents not to raise their daughters in a way they will become a liability to a man.

Make your daughter a shepherd before her Jacob arrives. Give her a source of livelihood before marriage. If you want her husband to respect her, inculcate in her, great morals and values, give her quality education and hopeful future. Don't train her merely because of the bride price you want to collect on her head.

Laban wasted the bride price he took for his daughter. But he lived on the flock kept by his daughter even after she was married out.

This is why many men fall for their ugly hardworking housemaids than their beautiful but lazy house wife.

We indirectly train our housemaids to be industrious while we train our daughters to be lazy and dependent. Whatever you invest in your daughter today, the future will tell.....!

Be a Value-Adding-Woman and your man will respect you for life.

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YinkaOlusesi16:
It`s adorable, when our girls of nowadays are looking for yahoo yahoo boys to lavish money on them. Average man no fit toast fine girl again, first thing they will look at is ur dressing & the type of iphone u are using.

Loewe:
If he wants to know how bad tribalism has eaten into the country, he should come to Nairaland. Na who sabi ignore dey remain member for Nairaland.

If you talk one thing, IPOB members go attack, Oduduwa indigenes go respond, Arewa members go challenge you.

SLOVFO:
No dry fish and other small small animals?

Miracood2:
This addict trying to sound repentant

Anyways good luck boss!

Stephenmoka4:
Cheers man. Reality is often disappointing...

Teaser4:
my ex once asked me say, shey na like this your dick always stand if you see other girls nude?

I paused and think before I say anything,cos the question na trap....

for my mind, why e no go stand, I dey complete na...

na so I turn am to biology lecture ooo

Greystone:
"High-value woman"...

Yet your preek is suffering

DrFunmisticGlow:
I'm no parent but, it seems you have a good boy in your hands.

You are doing your best to teach him well. There's nothing wrong with your approach. He just has long throat for other kids' flashy things which is normal at his age.

Children can be very manipulative. The reason why that boy brought another lunchbox is most likely because he lost his own.

He doesn't realize the importance of keeping his personal belongings safe because he knows you will buy him a new one which is his end goal until he becomes bored of it and 'misplaces' it again.

You don't need to shout on him, no need to beat him either. His punishment is simple. Tell him that he will carry his food in plastic plate to school for the rest of the term and if he misplaced his plastic plate, you will give him his food in nylon. You tell him with a serious, calm expression, and most importantly, YOU WILL CARRY OUT THE THREAT if he doesn't get his old lunchbox back. Whether he gets it back or not will be revealed.

This is both a punishment and a lesson that he can't misplace things willy billy. He will know that actions have consequences.

Karleb:
Are you minding some confused people here.

I'm all for loving and caring for kids but I'm also a firm believer of proper value and respect.

Even oyinbo kids from proper homes dare not say that to their parents, especially the father.
They know them go chop beating!

If I'm angry at my kids, do you expect me to whisper?

Dem scold 7 year pikin, he dey form mood. Con tell the mama say she dey shout for am. E fit follow the papa abi teacher for school yarn that nonsense?

Lexusgs430:
I have all, but awaiting export........

Lexusgs430:
Still selling.......

Vinnie2000:
No smart husband or Wife should allow his/her partner to register in a Gym outfits.

Human hormones should NEVER be underated!

Before you know it, the husband eyes will start looking at Big Yanch and boobs of a female trainee!

While the Wife might start eyeing a Guy with big muscles and curved, well packaged gbola.

Before u know, Kporkriyon will take place!

Zonefree:
The trainer might be professional, can that be said about his penis?

There's no professionalism when it comes to Tot0 and Gbola matter.

tillaman:
So what
Make men go cheat with fellow men?? hell no
If she’s cheating on me with other women my prayer is to catch them in the act I go just pull cloth smash goodness and Merci out of their coochie, we might end up adopting polyamorous type of relationship!
It’s a win win for me
2 coochies on my face, what’s not to like

Aviero:
Negative mindsets shouldn't deter us from showing good affection to the people in our lives. Abi?

I've learnt the hard way. These days, it's all about reciprocality. If I show bae adequate affection, and she doesn't reciprocate well, I begin to have second thoughts. I slow down on whatever it is I am doing.

You can't tell me to keep doing good to bae, when I know that bae is taking the good for granted and giving the goods to someone else.

I can't risk it all for any bae that's not going to risk it all for me.

So, OP, being careful matters alot.

I can't just be doing mumu all the time, and in the end, get heartbroken. I need to be careful this time around.

DoggoneDogg:
When you are done masturbating with her memory, you will still hide your ugly face and swallow saliva whenever you spot your crush in your street as a car drops her off at home.

For now, dream on...