₦airaland Forum

umm

hmm

ohh

ohk

Mr guobe, I'll really appreciate it this offer gets to me.

80 68 12 20 90
M.A.A.
Opay.

thank you!

Intoboy:
I started dating this lady that's a hairstylist that has her shop next to mine,i am a barber too...i started liking her because we were together and she's nice and pretty... along the line she said she doesn't like the fact that i still stay with my parents that i need my own privacy especially now that i am in a relationship with her,i wanted my own privacy too so i started working on getting my own place of which God made it possible for me last year December...i moved in and since she was staying at her brother's place that she doesn't really like she decided to move in with me...mehn this shit is crazy.
I figured it was gonna be easy because we were both working but it's different now,i feed the both of us from the money i work...i buy our cream,i do virtually everything for US...she makes her own money too but she saves it,the only time she spends her own money is when i have been drained to the last Kobo,i initially used to give my mom money but mehn I don't remember the last time i gave that woman money,if i were to be staying alone my stuffs will last longer for me and i will know how to manage my money but since i stay with my girlfriend i spend all my money to the last Kobo i don't even have fuel in the shop to work, she's a good girl but the only problem i have is that i am always broke while she keeps her money and makes plan for it and do business with it... while i struggle to sustain the little business i am doing, before we started dating she was fine and doing well taking care of herself but now everything is just so tiring that sometimes i sit and think think think...i know i am a man and am supposed to take responsibility but i see myself on the loosing side already,if anything happens in this relationship i stand to loose a whole lot because i have sacrificed a lot...i left my parents home because i needed privacy,i don't even get that,she nags and complain about everything,if ant bites her she'll cry to me and tell me ant bite her that i should say sorry,if i don't say sorry she will tell me i don't love her,i hide my pains,i cry inside i don't disturb her with my pains.

I intended getting married to her but things don't seem to be working right, should i tell her to go back to her brother's House?
She's the reason i rented this house,will she not think i am trying to send her away or i don't love her anymore, everybody thinks we are married and people keep telling me to do fast and impregnate her so that dey will come and eat rice but deep down,i am slowly getting tired and dying...i miss being single,i Miss being alone, I miss everything...i don't even make much money sometimes to buy my weed because we have to eat,weed helps me forget my problem a little.

Her family knows me already,dey are just waiting for me to come and do introduction or she should get pregnant,i am 26 and i want to know if it's my responsibility or i foolishly brought this upon myself...i thought i was the luckiest to be with a girl that's independent but little did i know that no girl is really independent when they see someone to depend on...i am not saying she's not trying but that's only when i voice out and complain that's when she'll tell me she has one money somewhere that we should buy something with it,but i can't be complaining everytime and if i sit her down and tell her all this she will feel like it's because i know that she has money that's why i am thinking that way...mehn the whole relationship and married thing just tire me and i really do feel like just being alone,i want to plan my life myself because this plan is not working at all, she's honest with me and I'm honest with her too,i am so honest and very nice i think she's taking advantage of me,i am taking care of her and slowly dying while she's judiciously making her plans work out and making progress...i have not even talked about my school, tomorrow is Saturday and i should be going to school,no transport or kobo with me,will i go to my mom to borrow money,woman i don't remember the last time i gave her money,or should i borrow from my girlfriend,that will always remind me i am owing her money...or should i go to my saloon and work then take the money to school tomorrow? What about feeding... who's gonna bring money for food today and the most annoying part of the whole thing is the way this girl disturbs me if she's hungry,even when my customers are there, she'll be telling me incessantly that she's hungry,i know for sure she has some money she has saved, and she knows for sure that i don't have any money with me,is she waiting for this customer to pay me so i give her the money to go and eat when i know she has some money she has saved,i don't have any money saved and even if i do have money that i have saved anytime anything comes up i go to that money, Maybe we need to eat or something but nobody touches her own money she has plan for it,i feel like i am being dragged back... someone should talk to me

Almost all barbers I've encountered are just like you, OP.
They're damn superficial, philandering, reasons with their pre*k.

Nothing in skirt passes without them losing their damn senses.

Damn, you need to listen to their gossips with their fellow idiots, you'll cringe!
they're either chronic alcoholics or damned smokers.

OP, nah 26 be your age. Perhaps it's the reason you're still naive and dim witted.
You don't need any further test to decode the narcissism, parasitism and manipulation tendencies of the lady. They're written in bold capital letters!

When you're much more older with sense, and you look back at who you're right now, you'll then decipher how senseless and foolish you currently are.

Things never needed to reach this stage before you take charge and purge her out.

how pathetic!

Brainlight:
THERE IS NO FAMILY ....WITHOUT A FAMILY PROBLEM ... YOU DONT NEED TO BROADCAST YOURS... BECAUSE THE NEXT FAMILY MAY BE SUFFERING WORST

there's no family please. Even it's glaring to foreigners!

Familial problems don't transmogrify to toxic insults, wishing evil and death on members of the family.
Some even call for the total annihilation and wipe-out of some tribes in Nigeria, and you downplay this as an ordinary problem within family?!

Family wey don turn non-existent tey tey.

Most Nigerians shouldn't even be among those shouting xenophobia and racism cos they're themselves that which they clamour against.

Brainlight:
YOU ARE NOT A NIGERIAN .... YOU A ZULU MAN FROM SOUTH AFRICA.... NIGERIANS DONT SETTLE FAMILY MATTER IN PUBLIC.

and the proof that I'm non-nigerian buhh a zulu man is where?!

I'm Nigerian to the core!

Which family?!
you people make it a daily task to insult, wish evil, death and mock tears of people from other tribes, and you dare type "family"?!

I'll rather have no family than belong to this toxic family. Family don't spit vile and hateful words to each other on a daily basis. Family don't wish death on each other. Family isn't unjustifiably vengeful!

IronGalaxy:
Animals its you people..Everyday without fail someone is caught with a severed head or limbs for ritual purposes in your country. If you're looking for animals look right on your doorstep. Savagery is sport in that zoo

And please don't dare lecture us about Xenophobia when your country is a hotbed of tribal hate.

I'm Nigerian, buhh I agree with you!

Here is an humongous reservoir of toxic tribalism, yet they Nigerians are hypocritical enough to quickly point out another country's xenophobic tendency as if they're any better.

How irksome!

pretydiva:
Why will I commit suicide over a failed relationship? No man is worth it.

yes, no man is worth it.

Infact, no woman born of woman is worth it as well!

wao..

Perpetual liar,
ehh....iro kporr!

guess he sighted this story somewhere buhh copied and pasted it here to make it seem as if he's the one.

You're a misandrist to the core, young woman!
Even your dp reeks of misandry, so you lack the justification to "shout" misogyny.

It's as if some men broke you relationship-wise, and you see NL as an avenue to pour out venom on men who doesn't even know how you look like, talk less of having anything to do with you.

You spit out venom on men on a perpetual basis, and expect them to swallow your venom and be okay with it.
No young lady! Things don't happen that way. For every venom you eject, there's bound to be adverse reaction to it.
The adverse reaction to the venom you habitually eject boomeranged, and even you, the source of the venom, had to be chased off a medium you see as an avenue!

Your misandristic posts contributed immensely to the intensified misogyny here apparently.
Your misandristic actions birthed vehement misogyny and you're here crying foul, abeg!

with these poco, jewe, coco & the likes wey I dey see so, hmm..


Hope Mr Seun doesn't end up hiring covert misandrists masquerading as level headed prospective moderators, who has scores to settle.

I swr with ur comment,e show say u dor see tins inside relationship. Infact u sharp.

it has nothing to do with seeing things inside relationships.

what he pointed out reeks of basic human mindset, a normal human psychology!

even if it were to be you, spontaneously, those thoughts would cross your mind too.

Obnoxious2001:
Without much epistle, So I sent a wrong account no.,a correct Bank name and account name to a friend who I was expecting some funds from.

No he copied the acct no. And sent the money (to another person, the wrong acct. No. I provided)....

Now we had a discussion which lead to analysing the situation and I told him we both have blames on this transaction, but he doesn't want to acknowledge his fault.

Now the main question is
If you sent money to a wrong bank acct, who is to blame

when the source of a problem is made non-existent, there won't be any problem anymore.

So, the fault fully lies with the OP for forwarding inaccurate details at the first instance. If the right details were to be forwarded initially, the accompanying error wouldn't have happened at all.

The money sender shares the fault too, buhh the main fault lies with the OP, because he's the source of the mistake.

aite

The moral decadence boils down to bad, inappropriate and improper upbringing.

If a girl is brought up rightly, she can't be easily influenced.

Not ruling out the factors you pointed out though.

Also, Whether or not a girl is well brought up morally, and it's connection to moral decency, boils down to choice. Well brought'up girls has been seen turned wayward due to choice and influence. Some remained being morally upright not because of lack of influence, buhh they chose to remain so.

waoh

Racoon:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W0inscGlH-c?si=DhgmB36BLO4H63eT
Tinubu Attended CSU But Forged Certificate Submitted to INEC, Kperogi Claims


https://x.com/ARISEtv/status/1709621530391412994?t=BHiixbEHf78jsamm-sTjxw&s=08


https://www.facebook.com/47904265/posts/pfbid0ene8SL2CbrDgsVreTZRcSfiocKCBVZc2beQsVAGoLG5qLAe5eGAdvFKrr8gtip46l/?mibextid=2JQ9oc

na nah.

It's valid, according to CSU.

see below..

https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2023/10/csu-says-diploma-tinubu-submitted-to-inec-is-valid-2.html?_e_pi_=7%2CPAGE_ID10%2C1598156224

marriage wey go dey toxic like hell.
girl wey no go fit submit truly.
sheyy'bi she talk sey she get boyfriend outside the house? wetin happen? she don ditch the fictitious boyfriend run follow soma?!
yeye lasan!

sorry oga, buhh you placed her on a pedestal right from the very start.

I mean, you perhaps unknowingly, sown the seed of entitlement right from the very first time you met her, which you reaped in form of her stupid and annoying entitled behavior she meted out to you through chats.

I don't mean to challenge you oga, neither do I seek to condemn you. Buhh however, I can't help buhh wonder what warranted the purchase of food not only for her buhh for her friends as well at the very first time of meeting?!
Oga, why would you even suggest lodging her somewhere even though you're just meeting her for the very first time?! wasn't that too much??!

you may not know it, buhh the above birthed the irritating entitlement she subsequently meted out to you through chats. I don't believe you owe her that level of excess generosity at first, especially a generosity you're not certain to perpetuate.

It appears your initial generosity fuelled her selfish and narcissistic tendencies, which at last boomeranged right back at you. If you never did those things you did for her when you just met her oga, she won't have the annoying gut to make such irritating demand from you, especially in a stupid and rude way!

It is heralded that most ladies are rudely entitled?!
well, research proves MEN to be the ENABLERS of this annoying habit.
And, only MEN can rid them of it.

TheMaterialist:
No it doesn't.

yes, it does, for real.

It significantly weakens the mental strength.


That apart, isn't "masturbation" disgusting on it's own??!

umeh

wow