She sounds and even looks shameless.

These are not police men but armed robbers in uniform.

Draslo:
This is not for me. My sister na church worker

My guy's sister is nothing you write home about. Their father has money, like 3 Rolls-Royce parked in the compound type of rich but the girl is very promiscuous. Many big boys on the island have had a fling because she must attend every raving bash. Her SM pages are full of filth in different countries. You'd easily call her online olosho sponsored by politicians. Her friends are worse cos they don't come from that kind of money. This girl is just 23 and already a red flag amongst guys. Even guys that have never seen her unclothedness will claim to have slept with her and people will believe as long as the guy has class.

My guy is getting married in January and doesn't want his only sister there. Can she still be saved?

How does one handle a promiscuous sister? You don’t handle her, that’s how. It’s her own life. Unfortunately, or fortunately, she is his sister and there is nothing he can do about that. As long as she is not coming to corrupt his wife or his children. Her life is her business.

He should treat her with love, that’s what brothers do. One day she will get tired, maybe then she will wake up.

Truths9ja:
she said Ghana jollof rice 🍛 have no flavour

Wether its Taste or Flavour, I am still waiting for the part where she said it.

Or Did you hear her actually say it in that video clip

BuyMeBanger:


On a Nigerian forum space called 'Nairaland' I would hope he/she is Nigerian . Are you not?

I was being sarcastic. That was another way of saying He was biased in His opinion.

Jewessgratitud3:
Really? Well I don't think I've tasted Ghanaian jollof. Only Togolese jollof and it's very good. The only Ghanaian rice I've eaten is waakeh..
However, Nigerian jollof still remains the best.

How can you say Nigerian is the best , when you haven’t tasted the best Jollof from all countries?

Let me guess, you are a Nigerian.

Truths9ja:
Ghana Jollof rice has no flavour- Nigeria Chef Hilda Baci


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0qyLxJOW7AY?si=BxQjjJtSOe4RjIV2

I am still waiting for the part where she said Ghana Jollof has no taste.

Editorialtimes:


Source: https://thebureau.com.ng/historic-ocheja-hostel-at-kogi-state-university-anyigba-now-a-toilet-ground-pictures/

And the Governor is supposed to be a university graduate. Yet, He can’t maintain the primary university of His own state. What a crying Shame.

immortalcrown:
Virginity is for a healthy relationship with God, not to guarantee anything in marriage. But people think it is just for pride in marriage.

Now, let me say the bitter truth. Any person who chooses to marry someone that is so committed to the hip-hop industry is not decent in thoughts and actions. So, I am not surprised by this guy's wife. Argue with your keyboard.

But virginity should not be underrated. It is not easy for an adult to keep virginity. A virgin with a bad character is better than a person who equally has a bad character and was deflowered before marriage. A well-mannered virgin is better than a well-mannered person that has been deflowered outside marriage. Please, I am not talking about those who lost their virginities through rape.

Oh please, I will take a well mannered deflowered Woman over a mannerless virgin any day. The present is more important than the past. And we all have a past.

LagosG:
Mine is actually healthy cos we dey always do checks and balances and also do interventions for the most ridiculous issues lol. We're so close we've all watched the same tv series and there must be more than 100 different ones not counting movies regardless of whether we're together or not. Not like we don't have our bad moments o but they never last past a couple of days

There's just three of us. I'm the first. I may have bad habits but with the way they look up to me, I just can't afford any bad blood, you feel me?

Mostly healthy.

Infact, me and all of my five siblings belong to a WhatsApp group where we discuss and collaborate on family related issues.

There is also a larger family WhatsApp group with my dad , all of his own five siblings (my three uncles and two aunties) and all of their children ( my siblings and cousins - plus our children who are old enough) We often banter and share stuff there and there is very little formality in the way we relate. My Grand-Father instilled some family values that are being passed down to generations.

udemzyudex:


End ke, Israel will continue immediately the 4 days time elapse, all soldiers are on high alert.

If all hostages are released, they MAY be convinced to extend the cease fire.

However, Israel has not and will never pause the hunt down and elimination of all known Hamas terrorists leaders.

general111:
Hello good people of Nairaland.
My fiancée to me today that her ex is requesting to meet her,and she was asking for my permission to go.
Should I grant her this request or should I be worried?

Don’t grant her the request. Also don’t deny her the request. Tell her to do what she believes is wise and best. After that you will know how best, the matter will be addressed.

P.S. in case you haven’t realized , she is putting you to a test.

Souzin:
Honestly don't know what to title this thread.

Well, I never thought I'd japa any time soon from this country until recently.

The plan to japa was presented to me by my cousin, who will sponsor the entire thing but it has to be an affordable university < €10,000 for fees

Now, I have been trying to get Information on where one can go study for cheaps in Europe with less stringent visa application process.

Most the information/thread on Nairaland are either old or abandoned.

Please, I'd appreciate any information, especially from those who recently travelled or are in the process of travelling.

PS: UK is totally out of it.
I have a Bsc. Statistics - Second Class Lower
And looking to do a Master's in Data Science/Analytics

So essentially , you are following someone else’s plan for your life.

victorclean:



What I get from your statements above is a mere justifications for Muslims terrorism.

So because of terror perpetrated more than 1000years ago, is your justifications for the current Islamic terror.

So other religions should start terrorizing Muslim because of terrorism by Othman empire, Uthman danfodio, prophet Mohamed etc, many years ago?.

Please answer my questions because I did not ask you for justifications for Islam terrorism or old list of ancient organizations.

What you got from the post was wrong. It wasn’t meant to justify terrorism by any groups or religion. It was just meant to counter the assertion that “all terrorists are Muslims” which is not a statement of fact.

atiku4President:

He empowered the young generation.

The same Governor that ElRufai knelt down to beg that he should be re-elected? How please?

atiku4President:
He has tried for the state. Only ethnic bigots will doubt this.

Are you from the state?

How has he tried for the state ?

Cos I am hearing different directly from people indigenous to the state.

Testiebobo:
I feel discouraged to look at myself in the mirror, anytime i noticed that i dont have a single hair under my chin. Even someone that is sixteen years old is already having one. I dont feel ok. What could be the deficiency problem?

File Photo

The problem is that you see it as a problem!

JASONjnr:
Omo, I pray I receive this type of transfer.


I will disguised totally.


I will bribe my way to NIMc and create a new account with new name. Open a new BVN and change account details by force. Change phone number and use POS to withdraw the money and pay it into my new untraceable account.


Then travel out to Ghana or another African country with my new name and then from there to Europe. The spending go too make sense.


Like this, God go don do am for me.

And you will spend half the money trying to hide your identity and cover your tracks.

verybadmouth:
They will get another job since they are in working countries. If it were Naija, their own is finished

Why always negative? The ones that are working in Nigeria , is their own finished?

Newton2024:
Israel is too lenient and too nice with Hamas terrorist, left with me, I would have nuked the entire Gaza strip within the first 24 hours of war. Hamas can never try 1% of this nonsense with Russia. There can never be peace when a Muslim terrorist is alive.

Though not all muslims are terrorists but all terrorists are muslims and all muslims who are not terrorists are potential islamic terrorists.

Yemen, Somalia, Iraq, Pakistan, Palestine, Afghanistan, etc. are hundred percent muslims yet they are the most war ravaged countries in the world. Religion of terrorism must be put into extinction for peace to reign.

"All terrorists are Muslims"??

The Gunpowder Plot of 1605 was a failed attempt by a group of English Catholics to assassinate the Protestant King James I, and to blow up the Palace of Westminster.

The Lord's Resistance Army is a Christian extremist organization that operates in northern Uganda, South Sudan, the Central African Republic, and the Democratic Republic of the Congo. And was responsible for committing so many atrocious crimes against humanity.

the 1915 Ku Klux Klan espoused an explicitly Protestant Christian terrorist ideology, partially basing its beliefs on a "religious foundation" in Protestant Christianity and targeting Jews, Catholics, and other social, ethnic, and religious minorities. They believed that "Jesus was the first Klansman"

I could go on, but I hope you get the point.

pol23:
What does Hamas represent to the Palestinians?
You’ve demilitarized the country…
Hamas is a resistance group.
If many of us are born in Palestine, we won’t only cheer Hamas.. but joined them.
How long will Palestinian looks on the face of suffering….
Everyone saying Isreal have the right to defend themselves…. Agreed.
But does Palestinian also have the same right ?
Even if they do what do they have to fight with?
I don’t like Palestinian either, but call a spade a spade.
This is the highest form of genocide and it’s dehumaning that most so called liberal state support this nonsense.

why don't you like Palestinians though?

Adesina18111:
So only yahoo boys create lot of gmails?... ignorance...proudly a freelancer

A Simple yes or no is ok. Meanwhile, Freelancer with 50+ gmail addresses still sounds yahoo-ish to me.

Adesina18111:
Only God knows how many gmails are being created daily in Nigeria only not to talk of the whole world...I personally have more than 50 gmails on my phones and Lappy and I can't remember when last I opened some of them...I guess Google found out that unused/inactive gmails are getting too much...they should rather make it a Gmail per phone number...that will reduce the way people sign up on it...you can hardly sign up on yahoo mail these days

Are you a yahoo boy?

Your last sentence is a very important message to the present and future parents.

Please don’t take what he said to heart. It might not even be as deep as you think.

Also , be careful not to become like the elder brother of the prodigal Son, who felt he deserved more love. Is Father was just not loving Him as he expected and or wanted .

Your Father most likely appreciates you, even though he may want to add one or two other features to your personality. That is His own problem, don’t take it personal, and don’t force yourself to be what you are not to thine own self be true, God bless

Ecstasy154:


https://punchng.com/meet-five-governors-who-allegedly-govern-from-outside-their-states/

All in the Northern region, which accounts for 80% or more of our negative developments indices, from Education, to poverty , Religous/Cultural InTolerance and Insecurity.

If the North becomes functional and its local issues resolved, over 51% of our National Problem will be solved.

Anthony, wait until your Mum finds a boyfriend or Husband, Na She by herself go chase you comot for that house.

Lukepeter:
Even Jesus still dey him papa house.

But he moved out since he was less than a day old and only returned to His Fathers house when He was 33.

MrColdsweat:

Black fool.

As you talk say thunder fire my papa, God suppose quickly answer you because God your houseboy.

You never reach the level of maturity to know say insults and curses no dey work. Na fools dey do am.
Or You don see where them curse person thunder fire you and thunder fire the person?


Change your mentality you black monkey.

Na wa ooo, this black on black racism is on another level of racist. Abi you sef no be black?

Dayvidoo:
Woman Whose Son Went Viral After She Posted ‘Mummy Calm Down’ Video Reportedly Commits S!ucide



Source: @Sammydo214 (Twitter)

Oh dear. So sad to hear. I wonder what was so bad that she could leave her little ones behind. May Her soul find rest.

OmugwoAunty:
Nairaland, please what should I do?

I gave birth 9 months ago and for some reason, my mom never expressed interest in visiting me and my child. She is a new wife now and I heard from some family members that when she wanted to come, her new husband said ‘your daughter has other people around, why are you worrying yourself’.

I did not take it personally at all. My mother has never been a dependable person. Me and my mom still talk everyday and my child is always on her status. This is her ONLY grandchild.

My mom’s elder sister’s (my aunty) youngest child is moving to my area. My aunty said that she’ll visit me during the move, and come and hold baby. She reached out to my mom and even told my mom that if they plan it, they can visit me together. My mom and my aunty are VERY close. I even consider my aunty my second mom in a way.

Suddenly, my mom starts calling me, saying she wants to plan her visit. I say okay. But with work and everything, my aunty will get here before her. She started telling me not to let my aunty into my house, saying that my aunty is a husband snatcher etc. she said my aunty will destroy my home. I tell her I don’t care about that. She started calling their mutual friends and telling them to tell me that my aunty is a husband snatcher. I did not fall for that.

Frustrated, she called my aunty and said that the truth is that my husband is uncomfortable. She said that MY husband is not from our town and that my husband’s people don’t like visitors. She said that I did not tell her about this out of respect.

My aunty called me and was apologizing, saying that she did not know. I responded and said that this is a lie. I even put my husband on the phone. Here’s my mistake - I sent her a screenshot showing my mom saying that she’s a husband snatcher and that’s why I should not let her into my home.

My aunty and I now agreed that we should let peace reign and that she won’t visit. She said she will still like to see me and we can meet somewhere. MATTER SUPPOSE TO END.

My mom decided to bring my aunty husband into this. She told my auntys husband that his wife is not respecting my husband’s wishes. My auntys husband now sent her my screenshot saying that he knows the real reason and that your child doesn’t even support you.

The screenshot has shattered my mom. She feels betrayed. My siblings who live with my mother are calling me a betrayer. I want to salvage the relationship between my siblings and I, not so much my mother. I have not spoken to any of them since the screenshot.

What do I do? How do I approach this.

How do you approach this let all of those childish and jobless adults find something better to do with their lives.

legitnow1:


How is it affecting you?


Did u not choose to marry her?


If she is naughty, give am back to back what you paid for in the other room.


Remember you are a man, let her misbehave, it means I will be spending, less and less and lesser time with her.

I cant be in bad company.

Spending less and less and lesser time might be good for your immediate peace of mind but not for the long term growth of the relationship.

All I am saying is that you need to confront yourself and your emotions first before confronting the other person.

Sometimes it is just our over inflated ego that is making us take things as disrespect or making us unable to address actual disrespect in a constructive way.

legitnow1:



Lazy man talk, just look at her and remain silent.

In you r mind this bitch is very disrespectful.


No tell am anything, she will know what is wrong later.

Insecure and purposeless-less man talk. The first thing you need to deal with is yourself and how it is affecting you, this applies to all kinds of relationships.