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RomanceRe: Ladies, How Do You Feel When Your Man Kneels Down To Apologize To You??! by TheGift: 9:18am On Oct 23, 2025
pussyphilia:
You had serious misunderstanding with your husband or boyfriend and later he finds out he was at fault. And you're very angry and pissed off with him. Then having realised his mistake, he comes to you and kneels to apologize profusely to you. Is this something you'll love and readily forgive him or is it a turn off that would piss you off the more?
Guys, can you kneel to apologize to your woman or do you consider it "unAfrican" and makes you less a man?
Remember it is a very serious misunderstanding! Perhaps she caught you cheating or something like that.
If what you have done is so offensive that you feel the need to kneel and ask forgiveness , do it on just one knee and hold her hand in yours.

Her head shouldn't be.much higher than yours, (she should be sitting or lying down when you do). Look confidently.in her eyes when you apologise and kiss her hands when you are done.

Most of all, be sincere with your apology. Do this once and be done with it. No need to keep begging or apologising repeatedly.
RomanceRe: Ladies, How Do You Feel When Your Man Kneels Down To Apologize To You??! by TheGift: 9:11am On Oct 23, 2025
Namaster:
Kneel to apologise to a woman and her attraction will DIE immediately!

There is NO resuscitating such relationships.

A man who kneels to apologise to a woman will soon be licking off another man's EJACULATES from his woman's vagina during cunilingus.

There is NO 2 ways about it.

Kneeling is for 1 person in a relationship—the WOMAN.

A man who KNEELS to his woman is NO man.
We want to hear from the Ladies not from you..
CrimeRe: Nigerian Mother Arrested For Murder After 9-Year-Old Daughter Dies In Hot Car by TheGift: 10:12pm On Oct 21, 2025
maasoap:
Very simple if you are smart, look at how she was charged. That means they believed that she did it on purpose.


Actually, this is one of the safest ways to do it most especially in advanced countries like USA. There is less other ways to do it and get away with it. She did her homework
Both your answers are contradictory. First you say it is obvious to the cops. Then you say she did it because she knows it will not be obvious to the cops.

What makes it an obviously dumb strategy is because she can be directly linked to the death, wether intentional or not.

Also police doesn't have to "believe" to charge you. They work based on prima facies (preliminary) evidence to charge, knowing they may not have the full picture yet.

And a charge is just that, a charge especially from the police end. The attorney general can still amend the charge with additional evidence.

That they believe doesn't make then right. Do you know how many people have spent decades in prison based on false accusations in America? Hundreds.

There is a reason the Law says "Innocent until proven guilty" , even the prosecution knows that. But you seem OK with "guilty until proven Innocent" Are you?
CrimeRe: Nigerian Mother Arrested For Murder After 9-Year-Old Daughter Dies In Hot Car by TheGift: 10:02pm On Oct 21, 2025
maasoap:
It is not about whether they're right or wrong, it is about what they discovered and convinced of during their investigation and interrogation. Her lawyer's work is to prove them wrong
Yes, and all of that is yet to happen. She has Judy been arrested and charged...

All I am saying is, "Innocent until proven guilty "
CrimeRe: Nigerian Mother Arrested For Murder After 9-Year-Old Daughter Dies In Hot Car by TheGift: 12:21pm On Oct 21, 2025
maasoap:
The difference in charges is all about the intentions. With this charge, they are convinced she did it intentionally
Where did you read that they are convinced? Sometimes they charge with the highest degree (murder) knowing there is room to go for a lower charge (Manslaughter) it does not mean they are convinced. And even if they are convinced, it does not mean they are right.
CrimeRe: Nigerian Mother Arrested For Murder After 9-Year-Old Daughter Dies In Hot Car by TheGift: 12:18pm On Oct 21, 2025
maasoap:
Careless of her? No. It was intentional. Not the first parent in USA to murder their babies through that method and definitely not going to be the last parent.



She was charged with murder, not manslaughter or whatever. That means authority knew that she locked that girl in the car for that purpose. We will know her motive with time.
How can you just sit behind your screen, thousands of miles away, and conclude that she did it on purpose. If she wanted to kill Her child, aren't there less dumb ways to do it, than some way which will get her in trouble, any way?
CrimeRe: Nigerian Mother Arrested For Murder After 9-Year-Old Daughter Dies In Hot Car by TheGift: 12:15pm On Oct 21, 2025
maasoap:
Careless of her? No. It was intentional. Not the first parent in USA to murder their babies through that method and definitely not going to be the last parent.



She was charged with murder, not manslaughter or whatever. That means authority knew that she locked that girl in the car for that purpose. We will know her motive with time.
Manslaughter is also Murder i.e Second Degree Murder.
CrimeRe: Nigerian Mother Arrested For Murder After 9-Year-Old Daughter Dies In Hot Car by TheGift: 12:12pm On Oct 21, 2025
TouchNfollow:
https://x.com/instablog9ja/status/1980512740083904561?t=PSLso-9oF4NMCBCwkEgrZg&s=08[/quote]Some people say they are relocating because of their kids, only to take their kids to a place where they can't afford to spend time with them, where there are no extened family connections or existing social bonds to make up for thier absence. Only for their kids to be socially isolated and dealing with stress kids should not even be dealing with.

I dont know what to say. I feel so sad for the Young girl and Her Mother. A double tragedy. #RIP
PoliticsRe: 4 Months After Tinubu Launched N50 BN Tractor Initiative, Tractors Remain Unused by TheGift: 9:47am On Oct 21, 2025
yorosstores:
So after launching, Tinubu is expected to go and hand over to farmers all by himself, okay welldone
Stop being a joker. Did anyone say Tinubu should hand over Himself? Tinubu that may be chilling.in France- His new home?

There should be someone responsible for doing that. And that person ultimately.reports to Tinubu. Thus Tinubu is ultimately responsible.
PoliticsRe: 4 Months After Tinubu Launched N50 BN Tractor Initiative, Tractors Remain Unused by TheGift: 9:42am On Oct 21, 2025
ubimagos:
At least, we saw the tractors which will definitely be put in use sooner or later, meanwhile, we are still looking for the N5 billion clean cookstoves Goodluck procured for rural women in 2014!
You people.are always reaching into the distant past to distract from.the current issue at hand.

Why? How does this help? How does it change the fact that a loan was taken to buy trucks that are not being used , and will cost.more.money to service or repair due to lack of use for so long.

Meanwhile we still need to.pay back the loan with interest. Only.a foolish or corrupt business man will not start putting their loan to work as soon as they receive it, because the money has a time.frame..

Stop.with this lame.argument of "our bad is not as bad as that other person's bad." What's bad is bad.
PoliticsRe: 4 Months After Tinubu Launched N50 BN Tractor Initiative, Tractors Remain Unused by TheGift: 9:38am On Oct 21, 2025
Tareq1105:
PrinceOfLagos, you have started this morning. Why giving it free?

How do we now pay back the loan to Belarus? Do you think it's free?

The arrangement is for farmers, through their Govs, to pay 50% while Fed Govt subsidize the 50% in the interest of the populace.
So how do they pay back the loan when the trucks are lying fallow? Isn't it better to give it out free (and possibly earn from the produce) than stay stuck in limbo? Do you know how much it is going to cost to service or repair those trucks that have been lying fallow?
PoliticsRe: 4 Months After Tinubu Launched N50 BN Tractor Initiative, Tractors Remain Unused by TheGift: 9:35am On Oct 21, 2025
DiamondsAreFore:
https://guardian.ng/news/farmers-in-limbo-as-bureaucracy-stalls-n50b-tractor-rollout/
Because it was more about making money from the supply contract for a few, than actually boosting.the agricultural.economy for all
FamilyRe: Nigerian Lady Cries Out As Her Brothers Wife Makes Him Fence Their Compound(vid) by TheGift: 6:29pm On Oct 20, 2025
press9jatv:
“Brothers that once ate from the same pot, play together & build home not just a house (a) home of love is now divided because of one bad wife, I cry for my father. his beautiful compound is now divided” -Nigerian lady cries out as her brothers wife makes him fence their compound.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8IyBUjooPko
Let's hear from Her brother and Sister-in-law first. Until then, we cant objectively comment on the situation.
EducationRe: I Gave My SS2 Student A Physics Assignment, She Answered “masturbate” by TheGift: 4:12pm On Oct 20, 2025
TechToyin:
Hello house,
I just need some advice abeg.

I recently got a teaching job this term — I’m in my early 20s and I teach Physics to SS2 students. I gave them an assignment on Gas Laws last week, and while marking, one of the girls wrote “masturbate” as her answer.

I was honestly speechless. I didn’t even know how to react. The school doesn’t allow flogging or any form of physical punishment, so I can’t just “discipline” her the old way.

I’m trying to maintain professionalism, but that answer really shocked me. I don’t know if she was joking, testing me, or if there’s something else behind it.

Should I call her aside to talk? Or report it to the principal or class teacher?
I don’t want to embarrass her, but I also don’t want to ignore it.

Teachers and educationists in the house, please, how would you handle this kind of situation?
My initial instinct will be to bring it to the attention of the entire class that someone gave such an answer.

Then I would ask the class to give a logical explanation for why someone would give such an answer

Then I would call out the student who gave the answer to come and explain why She did it, in the presence of everybody, so that we can all learn.

Depending on how she answers the question, I may handle it within the class or escalate to the next superior staff, that I report to.

If she was being mischievous she already knows, she knows that you know and some of her colleagues probably already know. Thus tip toeing around the issue rather than nip it in the bud, means you should expect some more deviation from Her or her colleagues.
PoliticsRe: Gov Otti's 'write-your-will-before-you-rig' comment Not A Threat - Abia Govt by TheGift: 3:58pm On Oct 20, 2025
fergie001:
Source: Abia State Government

Previous Thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/8541568/otti-replies-benjamin-kalu-those
The wicked runs when no one is pursuing. Only election riggers and their criminal supporters should have a problem with His statement.
CareerRe: If Your Monthly Salary Is Between ₦300k–₦500k, Be Sincere To Yourself by TheGift: 6:57pm On Oct 19, 2025
seunmsg:
lol. Tinubu that became president barely two years ago is why you’re poor and he’s also responsible for the inability of 95% of Nigerians to earn more than 500k? As in, do you guys think at all before posting craps like this?
Of course, things became three times costlier overnight, after BAT entered Aso-Rock and the masses have had no economic respite ever since.
FamilyRe: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by TheGift: 6:51pm On Oct 19, 2025
maasoap:
Not just the cost as the stand alone reason, listen to me clearly.
The period is very short my guy. You can't spend 37 million naira on wedding and walk away from it after just two weeks even if you married devil himself/herself. If the woman was the one who spent that amount, she wouldn't walk away just after two weeks. She would want to exercise patience and see if both could walk through their issues.
OK. Makes sense.
FamilyRe: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by TheGift: 6:00pm On Oct 19, 2025
maasoap:
Why the long sermon? The point of Op is simple: who walks out of 37 million naira wedding just after two weeks? We know what you are saying but we equally understand what Op meant.
It is easier to walk away just after two weeks when you were not the one who spent 37 million naira undecided undecided
So you think the cost of the wedding is a reason to stay in the marriage even if you realize you have made a mistake?
FamilyRe: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by TheGift: 5:57pm On Oct 19, 2025
michoim:
What are you talking! You are talking without coordination...
Read it again, patiently. It may be long but it is clear.
FamilyRe: My Friend's Wife Walks Out Of Their Marriage Just 2 Weeks After A ₦37m Wedding by TheGift: 5:55pm On Oct 19, 2025
Chilipepper:
After spending 37million on his wedding, my friend's wife quit the marriage of 2weeks
Find Herself? Where? When did She lose herself? Before the marriage or within 2 weeks of marrying?
FamilyRe: My Brother's Wife Has Refused To Mourn Him Because He Died With His Sidechick by TheGift:
Dogalmighty17:
Showing up all made up the way she did and leaving as soon as he was committed to the ground will indicate that her character is a possible reason why the husband looked outside in the first place.
I am not excusing the late husband's cheating. But whatever it is, he remains the father of her children and if she has nothing else to mourn for, that her kids will grow up without their father is reason enough.
Secondly, her actions indicate she is outrightly cutting ties with her husband's people. Possibly, that will be the last time they'll see her or the kids.
The way the husband died is shameful. The wife drawing attention to it by her actions, embarrasses her in-laws and her children. Of course there will be mourners at the burial who are not family and they will be wondering why the wife left. They will get to know the reason why and whatever positive memory they may have about the late husband, will vaporise.

Any woman who can openly disrespect and disregard her in-laws like that is a woman who never had much regard or respect for her husband in the first place..


Kobojunkie avoid me. You go show here now now.
Guy, would you say the same if it was your sister, whose husband died with a side chick?

At least, commend her for showing up at the funeral. Is it until she wears sack cloth and ashes that you will be satisfied?

Please leave her be. People mourn differently.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: FG Launches National Job Centres Nationwide by TheGift: 4:11pm On Oct 17, 2025
iwaeda:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2025/10/fg-moves-to-end-joblessness-launches-national-job-centres-nationwide/
You don't create jobs by creating job centers. You create employment by creating and supporting employers.
PoliticsRe: Presidential Pardon Still Under Review — FG by TheGift: 10:14pm On Oct 16, 2025
Maxymilliano:
https://punchng.com/presidential-pardon-still-under-review-fg/?fbclid=Iwb21leANeCqdleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABHjGhvC8_OhjpicNDlUhIeI0wfixWrAtJqt7XYQRgzamMRzPQPBzoMyjQ8eRJ_aem_N5fd-veHs7m83ciGvTaLow
As a Strategist, I would say this looks like a strategy to douse the tension , and distract the citizenry, without denying or changing anything.

Clemency is Clemency , regardless of the crime. And they have granted clemency to drug dealers and murderers, along with activists, falsely accused and freedom fighters.

Administrative procedure is a secondary amd small matter.
PoliticsRe: Wale Edun Makes Public Appearance At London Art Fair by TheGift:
NewHe:
That's hypocrisy!Don't even pray that you will make it in Nigeria under their government!
Where is the hypocrisy? Since when did not supporting a government translate to wishing ill on its Minister? Which is worse? Hypocrisy or Hatred?
PoliticsRe: Wale Edun Makes Public Appearance At London Art Fair by TheGift: 11:12pm On Oct 15, 2025
DaddyJapan:
Source: https://www.ripplesnigeria.com/wale-edun-makes-public-appearance-at-london-art-fair-amid-rumoured-health-challenge-video
Why are they trying so hard to convince us? Is He resting or is He working? Is He now the Minister of Arts and Culture? Art exhibition indeed. Oga go and rest ooo.
HealthRe: My Wife Has Pcos And Haven't Gotten Pregnant . Kindly Provide Solutions Pls. by TheGift: 11:09pm On Oct 15, 2025
CharlesNavy:
Since your wife decided to kill a child , not able to get pregnant now, is the repercussions for her evil act. Dance to the music
Well done, hammer of God's judgement. You know every.
HealthRe: My Wife Has Pcos And Haven't Gotten Pregnant . Kindly Provide Solutions Pls. by TheGift: 11:05pm On Oct 15, 2025
Rega99:
Despite her having pcos during our dating year, she got pregnant and she decided to abort it which i was strongly against.

Now we are married and she still hasn't gotten pregnant, it's over a year now. We did series of test and I did too and we are both okay, except for the fact that she has pcos. She hasn't seen her period for the past months. Very soon people will start asking questions.

Anyone with any experience about this and how to tackle it?
You lost me at "Very soon people will start asking questions"

What is your business with people? And what is their business with you.

You guys better face yourselves and deal with the situation amongst yourself.

Stop making her out to be the bad one, cos you impregnated Her in the first place. Take joint responsibility for your past and how you will take on the future. You still have hope.
PoliticsRe: The Truth About Reno Omokri Is Sad- Mike Arnold by TheGift: 10:48pm On Oct 15, 2025
Orlandoo:
Reno, is this the best defense you can come up with?
Don't mind that clown. He should go and read Renos comments on Twitter, when it looked like Obi might win the elections, and how different they were from before the elections and after the results were announced. Maybe he will finally admit that Reno lacks any moral compass, but is led by mainly by His stomach.
PoliticsRe: The Truth About Reno Omokri Is Sad- Mike Arnold by TheGift: 10:45pm On Oct 15, 2025
Saturnalia:
I know Reno Omokri is not a saint. Nobody is perfect and we all have our flaws, but sane and sensible Nigerians can see through these coordinated attacks launched against Reno (Just like they did to Segalink) by the Obidient Mob, simply because he has been ruffling their feathers for a long time.

We all know that these attacks on Reno stem from exposing the smelly Yansh of Peter Obi. Even if Reno Omokri is a lair, he can never compete with Peter Obi.

The Obidients that have been telling us that Peter Obi is an Archangel Michael who just dropped from Heaven last year, and has no character flaws, and is the only person that can save Nigeria - are who you want me to believe & take seriously ?

The same Peter Obi that is part of the rotten establishment, and who has benefited massively from the rot? Is who you are painting to me as an Archangel? grin

He who comes to equity must come with clean hands. You’re accusing Reno Omokri of what you have been caught doing red-handed so many times ? Is that not funny? grin

This is why I don’t take any one of them seriously.

You all must be joking if you think Peter Obi will ever be elected as the Nigerian President even in a Billion Years from now.

In conclusion, I will choose Reno Omokri over Peter Obi or Mike Arnold or any Obidient member & fictitious character that was dug up to smear his reputation any day any time.

Look who is accusing Reno Omokri of being a Joseph Goebbels? grin

The Obidients that have been caught several times employing lies & propaganda to sway & manipulate gullible Nigerians on Twitter and on other Social Media Platforms want us to believe Reno Omokri is Joseph Goebbels?

All of you are not serious. Go and sleep!
The reason your post is so long is because even you are trying so hard to convince yourself of the lie that Reno is not a pathological two-faced liar that is only guided by his stomach.

Guy, rest.
PoliticsRe: The Truth About Reno Omokri Is Sad- Mike Arnold by TheGift: 10:41pm On Oct 15, 2025
Commentor:
Mr. Arnold, who is sponsoring your trip to Nigeria?

You've been flying into Nigeria for 6 years on whose budget?
How does this change the fact that Reno is a flip flopping liar that speaks from both sides of His mouth?
EducationRe: Smartest Countries In The World By Their Average IQ In 2025! by TheGift: 8:08am On Oct 14, 2025
franchasng:
If America is not number one, that statistics is a scam.


You cannot tell me that you are smarter than Americans yet the world's innovations and groundbreaking technologies and scientific inventions always emerge from the same America. Even China in their smartness mostly copy American technologies discovered by Americans.


In my own personal experience about the world, the statistics should start from:


1.) USA
2.) UK
3.) Japan
4.) China
5.) others can follow
Your brain has been colonised. Even the top scientists in American companies are not American but Asian especially Indian. And India is not on your list.

The fact that you even have UK in the top 5 and before Japan, shows your.mind has really been colonised.
TravelRe: If U Save Up To 500k Every Month In Nigeria, Will U Consider Travelling Abroad? by TheGift: 7:40am On Oct 14, 2025
maternal:
What's the life expectancy in naija compared to America ?
My.Father.is 84, His brother is 82 His sister is 80

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