Romance › Re: Bride Immediately Cancels Her Wedding Shares What Fiancé Did by TheGift: 1:56pm On Dec 06, 2025 |
QuinQ: It is not oloshoic. It is human nature. Every bridesmaid wants to seduce the groom - even if he were someone they normally won't even talk to "Every bridesmaid"  where do you come from ? Where did you get this kind of reasoning from, abeg? May God help us. |
Politics › Re: Why Is Matawalle Still A Defense Minister? By Farooq A. Kperogi by TheGift: 1:44pm On Dec 06, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: Why Is Matawalle Still A Defense Minister? By Farooq A. Kperogi by TheGift: 1:41pm On Dec 06, 2025 |
No Biafman: Taquiya question. A foooooolani asking why another fooooolani is still defense minister of his country. Continue fooling the fools. Don't let tribalism blind your objectivism |
Food › Re: Zone With The Highest Alcohol Consumers In Nigeria 2024 - STATISENSE by TheGift: 1:39pm On Dec 06, 2025 |
SpencerForbes: Women are actually drinking more alcohol than their men in the South-South and South-west😂
I think population size is the only thing preventing them from officially leading the whole country in consumption. If not for that, the South-South and South-East would have bagged the medal already.
States like Delta, Akwa Ibom, Cross River, and Bayelsa especially... trust me, they absolutely do not play with their liquor down there 🙌The consumption levels are serious business. They already told you that it is the number of male and female in every 1000, so population size does not matter. I still wonder about the stats though. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Can Unconfessed Evil Secret Make a ﹰPerson Miss Heaven by TheGift: 9:28pm On Nov 30, 2025 |
ebubeson: When someone accepts Jesus and repent of their sins, God forgives them totally and writes their names in the book of life, and they will make heaven.
Now, if as time goes on, the HolySpirit begins to prick, convict and tell the person to uncover a dirty secret: such secret may be: secret murder of a family member or neighbour or friend, paternity fraud, very valuable items stolen, false accusation against an innocent person that led to the person jailed, adultery done against a very innocent spouse, rituals done against former girlfriend, a very precious destiny tied with diabolism e.t.c, the person has to go and make confession to the offended if alive or a close person to the offended.
Any form of disobedience against the HolySpirit on this matter will lead to the person's name removed from the book of life.
Before a sensitive confession is carried out, please seek mature believers, pastors, church leaders to guide you with counsel and prayers, and God will see you through in Jesus name. Amen. You wrote an entire article on Jesus and God without one single scriptural reference. How do we know you are preaching based on biblical principles and not doctrines of Men? What exact scripture says the salvation of a believer can be lost for such? Note this believer is already being tormented by the guilt of their sins. |
Celebrities › Re: Rev Fr Kelvin Ugwu Writes On Burna Boy's Arrogance by TheGift: 12:20pm On Nov 29, 2025 |
TheGift: It's sad when we use one person to make hasty generalizations about an entire nation of people.
And because the author went to one small, likely curated. section of just one out of 50+ states in America, he has generalized that they are all courteous.
The Nigerians that criticize Burna's arrogance, are they all arrogant? The Nigerian author who says all Nigerians are anyhow, is He anyhow?
We can teach truths without having to resort to generalizations absolutes.
P.S. I agree, Burnaby Boy is arrogant, and to a large extent, ignorant. |
Celebrities › Re: Rev Fr Kelvin Ugwu Writes On Burna Boy's Arrogance by TheGift: 12:18pm On Nov 29, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: IPoB Killing Our Service Men, Herdsmen Only Kidnapping For Money - Gumi by TheGift: 9:53am On Nov 24, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: No Jihad, No Ethnic, Tribal Or Religious Genocide In Benue - Governor Alia by TheGift: 9:22am On Nov 20, 2025 |
SmartPolician: If Benue people have no problem with this man, why should anyone else? Good question. |
Family › Re: My Life Is Messed Up Completely by TheGift: 11:44pm On Nov 19, 2025 |
Mrdealer4all: Due to my childhood traumatic life . I have lost sense of belonging in the society. All my mates are all married wuth kids. I stay indoors everyday. I only go out in the night. I don't know if I have mental problem. Nothing impress me in this life. I feel irritated being in the midst of people. I always want to be alone. My life is mess up Stop.saying your life is messed up. Start saying that your life is how you want it to be. You will not be OK on the outside, until you are OK inside. Forget about comparing your life with others, it is foolishness and a sure way to steal your own peace. |
Programming › Re: Miracle Nwankwo: From Teen Startup Founder To African Fintech Leader by TheGift: 1:04pm On Nov 19, 2025 |
Elzazzi: Yes. Ofcourse his background greatly influenced his story. Some poor boy hawking on the streets might have achieved same or even more if exposed to same opportunities. Anyway it’s life sha. Many poor people have achieved greatness, so.. Even Osimhen recently said that Olososun, a popular rubbish dump for scavengers in Lagos, made Him who He is today. |
Politics › Re: "PDP": Wike-faction To Hold "BoT & NEC" meetings Tomorrow by TheGift: 10:55am On Nov 17, 2025 |
NgeneUkwenu: This is the main PDP not the illegal one that held early Christmas carol in Ibadan the other day. "Main PDP"? whose main leader is working for the APC government, fighting PDP governors and obstructing PDPs progress. Continue deceiving yourself and others. I hope you are getting paid for it though. At least you can pretend you gained something. |
Education › Re: I Made A Third Class Now I Have An Msc About To Apply For My Phd by TheGift: 7:43pm On Nov 14, 2025 |
Really? Then there's obviously another reason apart from intelligence why they had a third class. Just like OP, he's intelligent but yet made a third class. Why? Some people were victimized or ignorant about somethings |
Politics › Re: Naval Officer In Face-Off With Wike Should Be Court-martialled – Asari Dokubo by TheGift: 8:58am On Nov 13, 2025 |
Cherrybae: Why not counter what he said according to the law.
Can you say what you wrote in Asari presence.
Na hatred for wike go consume una And it is love for wikes crass-ness and thugishness that will eat you alive? |
Politics › Re: Naval Officer In Face-Off With Wike Should Be Court-martialled – Asari Dokubo by TheGift: 8:57am On Nov 13, 2025 |
mascot87: I agree with Asari 100%. I would be disappointed if action isn't taken against that nonsense boy.
*** I can see the tears running through my comment 🤣🤣🤣. Make una cry well Court martialed ? By the military whose orders He was obeying? You guys are jokers. |
Politics › Re: Lt Yerima has done well: Defence Minister, Badaru backs Naval Officer by TheGift: 6:28pm On Nov 12, 2025 |
sweerychick: I hope all these kids on nairaland would stop defending rubbish I really hope so, especially the tribalists who are so quick to say it is tribalism. |
Politics › Re: Lt Yerima has done well: Defence Minister, Badaru backs Naval Officer by TheGift: 6:26pm On Nov 12, 2025 |
Hedonisco: This is simply a tribal matter. Imagine for one second that it was a Southern Christian soldier that stood up like that to a Fulani Muslim Minister of FCT. Just objectively imagine such a scenario. It would never even happen because such a Southern soldier would dare not. Even if he does, the reaction or outcome would be very different from what we are seeing now. I bet you are a tribalist, so that is all you think everyone.imagines like you. But you don't know that for sure. So why not just stick to the facts. Did the soldier behave professionally or not? Did Wike behave unprofessionally or not? Everything else is conjecture, stop distracting us. |
Politics › Re: Lt Yerima has done well: Defence Minister, Badaru backs Naval Officer by TheGift: 6:23pm On Nov 12, 2025 |
Racoon: You expect Hausa-Fulani to throw their own under the bus? Nyesom Wike ego has been bruised. This incident would forever remind him of such. LOL . Will you shaarraaap dia. Mr So quick to tribalise the matter. |
Politics › Re: Trump Says US Will Skip G20 In South Africa because of Genocide Against Whites by TheGift: 9:24pm On Nov 08, 2025 |
Iamzik: Your submissions are logical and sound and I understand your line of thought. Yes, America clearly have it's own interest....everybody does including chinese russians and french who are using bokoharam as shield to mine our natural resources in the north as I type this. But you see everything you wrote up there is under the assumption that we have a sensible President who will prioritize the lives of citizens above politics.
But you know that reverse is the case. We all know that Tinubu will gladly allow the killing to continue if that will guarantee northern votes for his second term agenda.
If I have to choose between being enslaved again by Americans or being enslaved by Fulani herdsmen and Jihadists in my own country I will gladly take the American slavery.
The killings must stop now! This is our opportunity as the world attention is currently focused on Nigeria. If Nigeria loses the war against these terrorists do you know the scale of humanitarian crisis that it will trigger? Where will you and I run to? Even if you run abroad can you take your parent and entire family with you? Noted. Your argument is not unreasonable, and since you understood me,I feel no need to say any more. May God guide and guard us through these interesting times. 🙏🏾 |
Politics › Re: Shia Movement Drags American Flag On The Floor, Set It On Fire (Photo) by TheGift: 9:20pm On Nov 08, 2025 |
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Politics › Re: Tejere Thomas Jolomi Commends NSA Ribadu’s Security Reforms by TheGift: 5:03pm On Nov 08, 2025 |
DMerciful: Was it not under Ribadu's ONSA the alleged coup was planned?
Make una dey shame o Oga this your argument is very funny. Is it about wether a coup was planned or about wether a planned couple was foiled. You did not praise him for foiling the couple, you want to blame him for the planning of a coup which he has Control over. I am not a Ribadu fan but look for a more reasonable point,.please. |
Politics › Re: Tejere Thomas Jolomi Commends NSA Ribadu’s Security Reforms by TheGift: 3:40pm On Nov 08, 2025 |
DMerciful: Was it not under Ribadu's ONSA the alleged coup was planned?
Make una dey shame o Oga this your argument is very funny. Is it about wether a coup was planned or about wether a planned coup was foiled. You did not praise him for foiling the couple, you want to blame him for the planning of a coup which he has Control over. I am not a Ribadu fan but look for a more reasonable point,.please. |
Politics › Re: Trump Says US Will Skip G20 In South Africa because of Genocide Against Whites by TheGift: 1:06pm On Nov 08, 2025*. Modified: 1:28pm On Nov 08, 2025 |
Iamzik: Ok so let's assume that you are correct and America sponsored Fulani herdsman from Mali and Niger to come into Nigeria and kill Nigerians....so what is the response of our own government and military?
The military is very quick to declare python dance crocodile smile against IPOB but Fulani terrorist killers are above the law. If the government will not listen to we the citizens that are asking the government to do it's job then I whole heartedly support trump to come and wipe them out.
UAE sent list of northerners sponsoring bokoharam but APC government swept it under the carpet. Not one of them had been arrested or prosecuted till today. The killers of Deborah who burnt her alive on social media are roaming freely. If you support this government action in the name of stupid sovereignty then you are also complicit.
We are not sovereign and we have never been. Fulani herdmen, Chinese, Russians, french have invaded the north east in the same country where you are shouting sovereignty.
The first duty of any responsible government is protection of live
Is it until the killing gets to your door step before you see the script playing out? How can you have millions of your own citizens in IDP camps for over 10years now while foreigners kill and takeover their land and villages There is nobody arguing that there aren't issues in Nigeria. But still it will be the height of foolishness to think America is doing this because they care about Nigerian Christians. They do not give a hoot about you. All.of that is just a pretext as we can.now see from the attacks on South Africa. Or do you believe there is white Genocide in South Africa too  ? What we should be doing is not asking America to come into Nigeria on their own terms. We should use this opportunity to.pressure government to unmask terrorists sponsors and make them face the law, even international law. And even if by your Owm definition, we are not a sovereign nation, we will never attaint sovereignty by openly capitulation to the illegal threats of a Man whose own country is in a worse state than it has been in 40 years. A man, who has no respect for international.law and is hell bent on fermenting trouble.all.around the world. Why did He not go to China that is clearly and.openly persecuting Urgyur Christians, since.he cares so.much about Christians. Let us not be like the mosquitoes who went to ask for the help of insecticide, to kill the cockroaches living in with them.in the same house. And that is how they all died. Along with the innocent fly, who was not even involved |
Politics › Re: Trump Says US Will Skip G20 In South Africa because of Genocide Against Whites by TheGift: 12:59pm On Nov 08, 2025 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: U.S. Democracy At Risk Under Trump – New York Times Warns, Lists 12 Reasons by TheGift: 5:52pm On Nov 07, 2025 |
Orlandoo: Stale propaganda from terrorist sympathizers. Trump is God sent to liberate the world. I know you won't even bother to read, because it doesn't sound like who you want to hear. I'm sure.many also said Hitler was God sent, until he ran away and killed himself , like the coward that he was. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Democrats Sweep Major U.S. Races As Trump’s Republicans Face Defeats by TheGift: 11:21am On Nov 05, 2025 |
Afriifa: imagine a Christian winning election as Dubai mayor.. I have not said anything, just imagine. Even in London, the Mayor is a Muslim. To my Muslims brothers, that's what we call religious tolerance. Something that is never in you.. Yet you enjoy it in Christian nations. If GOD in heaven is fair He shall reward us according to our faith one day. We all know you will rather burn Dubai, Teran, Tripoli, Bengazi, to the grown than to allow a Christian be a mayor. In fact, you don't even allow Christian aspirants to contests in these cities. America is a secular country, unlike UAE. Anyone, Christian, Muslim, atheist, even satanists are allowed to run for election as long as they are qualified, forget how trump is trying to paint. |
Business › Re: Is ₦5M Enough For Someone To Start A Business And Get Married? by TheGift: 2:15pm On Nov 04, 2025 |
Ibtxxo: Today makes me 41 years old. I have been jobless since I finish school. I have never work in my life. The only work I did was teaching in private school for years with peanut. I decided to resign and sold some property I got from family.
I am just tired and i need direction to manage this money before I waste everything.
Please make una advice me. Even 1m if you cut your coat according to your size. |
Family › Re: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The UK. She Is An Alcoholic & Violent! by TheGift: 6:55pm On Nov 03, 2025 |
Bigdickmoney: I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The Uk , She Frustrating Me. She Is An Alcoholic
I have been dating this lady for two years now here in the Uk I’m Nigerian and she is from Kenya. Have only been in the uk for 3 years, and she been here 20 years. She is an alcoholic and alcoholic is affecting her day to day life as she can’t even work or get things done. She lives on benefits.
Each time she drinks she becomes violent and fights me. we live together. Most times I have to run out of the house. I’m the one paying the rent.
2days ago she got violent and hit me several times. The neighbours call the police and I was taken to custody. Now I am out and afraid to go back to the house cos I don’t want to go to police again cos I don’t want anything to affect my dbs.
I’m squatting with a friend. Though her name is also in the contract of the house but I’m the one paying. I can’t even go home now as I’m afraid don’t know what to do. I’m no longer interested in the relationship. But I’m afraid to go to the house even though police didn’t restrict me from the house. If you are so afraid do going.to the house, then don't go. Move on with your life, go.and pay for rent elsewhere, since you are the one paying. Or have you not told us the full story? |
Politics › Re: 'Country Of Particular Concern': Kwankwaso Urges Nigerians To Stay United by TheGift: 8:12pm On Nov 02, 2025 |
fergie001: https://www.facebook.com/share/p/16obTUicFD/ This is what u have been saying. Nigeria needs to present a united front. Why? Because Nigeria is a sovereign Nation. It doesn't not make sense to capitulate to another Nation, especially one that doesn't really care about us, dictating what we should do, or else. The moment we allow that, we are finished. Those groups who feel genuinely aggrieved should use this as a basis to make demands and pressure government, not to throw us under the bus driven by a deranged and tyrannical driver, that does not care about His own citizens talkless of us. |
Business › Re: Omo Igbo: Bokku Mart Faces Backlash Over ‘tribal’ Ad by TheGift: 2:59pm On Nov 02, 2025 |
ibedun: I don’t give a damn sir Yes, you obviously don't give a damn about facts. |
Romance › Re: My Woman Looks Older Than Her Age by TheGift: 1:41pm On Nov 02, 2025 |
Vikto17: Hello dear Nairalanders ,,, l am 32yrs and my fiancee is 30yrs... very loving ,, sweet and excellent soul... she tick everything l need in a woman and l will be getting married to her next year by God grace...
My major concern is that she looks older than her actual age,,, and this is her face alone... l have seen girls her senior who looks younger... we are not poor .. she eats well and have all the necessary things a woman will want... please what recommendation should one take to look their age and younger too,,, thanks Guy, calm dowm. we are not our body. If indeed you like/love Her, Stop making a big deal out of Her looks and focus on Her heart. Then you will see her true beauty. |
Family › Re: My Uncle Is Asking My Fiance To Pay Over 100k Just To See The Marriage List by TheGift: 1:18pm On Nov 02, 2025 |
JoyLong123423: My dad is late and my fiance proposed early this year. We did Introduction a few months ago and my very difficult uncle who is the last of his siblings was asked to handle the sending of Marriage List. He is now asking my fiance to pay over 100k for him to transport himself to the village to collect the list. He says it is tradition.
I have reached out to another uncle to try to reason with him but no one is doing anything about it.
I'm Ukwani from Ndokwa west and I don't believe this is how it is done. I have gone back to read about my culture and asked other people and someone said that the list can be gotten from any cyber cafe in the town. Please is this true?
I need advice as I do not want my uncle to take advantage of my fiance. All this is just to see the Marriage List before he now starts to pay for what is on the list.
I'm scared that he will inflate what is on the list too and no one will do anything about it. Why are there people like these? Someone wh0 did not send.her pocket money all the while she was.in school..Now because her Dad is not.alive, am you have some authority you want to reap.where you have not.sown I thought SE governors had agreed.on bride.price standards? You.need to be circumspect and.calm at this.point. Do you have an elder brother? Either Him or your fiancee should.appeal.to whatever sense.of reason that your uncle has.left. Do not.be combative.or disagreeable as He can cause.more trouble Your fiance ideally should have done.an Introduction, going.with elders who.who will engage with Him , before they send the list. He could still try getting an elder from His side to engage with your Uncle. |