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pocohantas:
How are are they mad, Oga Gaby?

If Nigeria opens her borders to the point you start seeing Togolese and Ghanians every square meter, would you be happy?

I understand both parties here. The country and the (intending) immigrants. We know the party wasn’t going to go on for too long. It just can’t!

I'll be very happy to see and mingle with my Togolese and Ghanian brothers, as a matter of fact, I wish other Africans will come to Nigeria so I can have friends from other tribe in Africa.

In UK you'll find Europeans all around, a UK person can have a German neighbor to the left and a Romanian neighbor to the right, a UK person could have an Italian grandparents.

But here in Africa, black people like to divide themselves and leave in small pockets and discriminate against one another.

Just imagine your rubbish question, are you better than Togolese and Ghanians?

I understand where white people do not want to see black people flooding their country, whites are discriminative against other race but the see themselves as one, but for a black person to discriminate against his own race is just plane stupidity.

Jennyclay:
Uber kwa? Biko, don't put someone's daughter in poverty. I will also leave you in the relationship if I found out that you're Uber driver. How much are you even making a day that you're bragging .

You cannot deceive us with all these audio millions you're quoting up there, you better go and work hard. Is it Love she will eat in the relationship ? Haba!

God Abeg o!

So what will the OP eat in the relationship? What will he benefit from the girl ?
The only thing you women have to give is your fake love but you want to receive money/love/attention/emotional support and more.

Thieves

The course you studied, but more important is what you can do, your skills, how you can make money for your Company. There are thousands of graduates out there with the same course and grade you have, what can you offer?

ChatterHouse:
kill them with kindness
As a pro Obi supporter we will not condone that
We should condemn it without attributing ones tribe

Tooth for tat, that's how the world works, it's better to be feared than liked, the earlier you understand this fact about life the better.

Corona15:
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Nawttiboi007:
Nigerian youths we have a critical situation at hand which is reviving our country regardless our tribes, we’re one Nigeria. Let’s make our impact right, the time is now, let’s make them know we’re not lazy, they made it known to our faces that we’re clueless and useless, they didn’t say Igbo or Yoruba or Hausa youths are lazy but Nigerian youths. They’ve succeeded in distabilizing and dividing us, they’ve made our our goals limited. They shit in our faces cos they believe we have no future without them. Let’s kill our sentiments and focus on only one course that we the youth have a major key roles in the development and reviving of our great Nation Nigeria!!! Together we can, together will and together we can stand strong. There’s dignity in labor and if there’s no changes we can still vote them out once we believe the power is in our hands and not some selected evil people that’s been taking us for granted. Vote Labor party, it’s a new dawn!

You need to see the other thread where they talked about Indians deporting Nigerians, no names were mentioned oh if you see the way Yorubas flooded the comment section calling them Igbo drug dealers eh, I was shocked, the the news headline sai Nigerians but Yorubas started accusing Igbos in the comment section just like that, Yorubas are the most discriminating ethnic group in Nigeria.

See the thread below, Yoruba and tribalism nor be here

https://www.nairaland.com/7513367/india-conducts-mass-deportation-nigerians

ChatterHouse:
Don't bring tribalism here pls

You need to see the other thread where they talked about Indians deporting Nigerians, no names were mentioned oh if you see the way Yorubas flooded the comment section calling them Igbo drug dealers eh, I was shocked, the the news headline sai Nigerians but Yorubas started accusing Igbos in the comment section just like that, Yorubas are the most discriminating ethnic group in Nigeria.

See the thread below, Yoruba and tribalism nor be here

https://www.nairaland.com/7513367/india-conducts-mass-deportation-nigerians

pocohantas:
Lol. I don’t subscribe to keeping, but there is just something about a man that gives. Especially without you asking. Honestly, I forget men that don’t give (easily) in seconds. I guess that makes me a bad person, but I can’t think of what to remember them for.

And what can the man remember you for? Your numerous requests? Or for the fact that the only time you call is to ask " hello baby have you sent it? "
Awon leaches, always looking for who to beg.

Goodlady:
Marry your mom. Out of those that are bad eggs, there are millions of good ones like me. You wey be descendant of leach must be a bad husband sef

Which kind good woman, you are obviously one of the self-centred leach for you to support the OP's girlfriend. I know you begged the data you're using to browse now.

Your daily status for WhatsApp no go pass "someone should please sub for me" or "all of you calling me baby you baby data have finished oh" or "you'll post a shoe or bag and beg a guy to buy it for you"

I know you've posted at least one of these this year, swear say you never beg man money this year una nor de shame, begging gender, without begging men for money most of una no go fit even do 1g subscription

Goodlady:
Descendant of leach, you are sighted.
I can feed you.

Naa, you morden day women are nothing like our mothers. NOTHING. Our mothers didn't leach on men, but morden day women are all leaches, I know you know the truth, you just won't admit it.

Goodlady:
Make I hear word. No sane woman ll be financially buoyant n leach on a man.

Story, begging is in your gender's nature, leaching is a culture to y'all, rich or poor.

Goodlady:
Lol.
Women of these days are very hardworking too. But the hardship of this generation is more. Like I said, you v been meeting those in dire need or those that are now accustomed to asking.

99.999999% of you are accustomed to begging even even when you have, a few are hard working but they will still beg men for money.

I have this friend who is seriously asking me for a relationship, she loves me like mad but I told her I'm already with someone else, this girl has a very big and classy business, I'm sure she has money more than me but as rich as she is, she still ask me for money, I don't understand your gender, I don't know if the money you get from men has a different way of sweetness. It's madness, this is why I've been with my current girlfriend since 2019, she hardly borthers me even though she is broke.

Goodlady:
You are dating people that's in need. Also, did your mom not ask your dad for money when she was dating him?

No, my mum is 70, she was born in the generation when women had real value in Nigeria, our mothers didn't beg men for money, they didn't dress naked, they don't twerk on Instagram, they married as virgins, infact most of them do their own business, my mum did garri market business and was feeding about 14 people all by herself for years, including children and her husband's relations.

But morden day women are not like that, they pride in begging for money, they are not beneficial to their husband or boyfriend yet they want want to detect what the husband should and should not do in his own house, they want to tell their husband how to spend his money

Morden day women be like, Hot, don't send your family money but send my parents and siblings money because you love me. Of course they won't say this directly but that what's in their mind.

Who your love help, love that only favours you all the time.

Tinubu supporters are mostly illiterates, agberhos and Yoruba Muslims(tribal bigots).

The love for poverty is what they all have in common.

Goodlady:
We also v condemned men. They are the most in Nigeria. Especially those that are deadbeat dads.
Anyways, we v lots of good women in Nigeria so I dunno where you are meeting those you know.

Good women ?
I can bet you that out of all the millions of women in Nigeria, if I randomly select one and chyke her today, within a week she will beg me for money. That's how bad it is, so where is the good woman?

Ilamina:

What we know for sure is that your family and friends will be devastated, some of your family members will never recover and it'll affect their life forever. As for the after life, no one truly know.

Goodlady:
This isn't toxicity. When you marry, your first priority is your wife just as your wife's priority is you the husband. Visitations and other family engagements must be limited to accommodate more of your wife's comfort. Except you are the super rich. Take for example, a man accommodating his kins in a room self contain apartment or room n parlour. There ll be clashes. But if the man built a mansion or at least 3 bedroom flat, everyone ll be in his/her room or quarters.
I m a realist and I avoid future issues as I sight them from infant.

In an ideal case, a man's priority should be his wife and a woman's priority should be her husband, but that is not the case in today's world.
In reality, Men put there wife as priority but women do not put their husband as priority.

Women are slefish creatures, they think of only what they can benefit from their husband, it's all about me me me for them, a woman would expect her husband to help her do house chores out of love but will never help the man pay the bills out of love, it's all one sided love for your gender, if you love me do this for me if you love me do that for me.

Why would I put a woman as my priority when I know that she is just there for personal interest, it's always men giving and women receiving, as soon as the giving stops she will run away, my family and kids are my priority, not my wife cus I know I'm not her priority.

Goodlady:
Family man calm down. No one is saying you should send your kins away. But you ll likely lack a strong woman by your side.

"Send your family away" That's exactly what the OP's girlfriend is saying.
Strong woman or bad woman?

I don't need a toxic, self-centred, do for me all the time kind of women please.
And I definitely don't need a feminist as well, these are not strong women, these are toxic women.

undisputedKOC:
Just say it is a taboo in South Africa to date Igbo men because everyone across the world knows they are drug traffickers and heartless irredeemable criminals

Na hate go kill you, you are just here in that your small village in Kwara abi na Akara state think people know or care to know about Yoruba, Hausa or Igbo, Oga nobody out there even in Ghana sees you as a Yoruba or Igbo man, they just know you are a Nigerian.

Talking of drugs, your pampas wearing balablu bolabai saviour was a know and confirm drug dealer in the United States. Abi you wan say Tinubu na Igbo man?

Senseless tribal bigot, you and your kind are the reason why Africa is still backward.

Goodlady:
Ymis the girl responsible for his sister's predicament? You no even talk of the irresponsible man that's maltreating the sister. Men like you are toys controlled by families.

I rather be a toy controlled by my family who genuinely love and would stand by me during difficult times, than to be a simp to one self-centred woman who will run away at the slightest sign of distresse, I'll quickly do away with any woman wife/girlfriend before I do away with any member of my family.

Goodlady:
Justified. She's 100% justified.👍
You men don't realise that women don't like too much visiting from relatives. It brings unnecessary clashes. Moreso, will you lie that you don't v sex with your girlfriend? When your sister is around, will you be comfortable to sleep with her in her presence or you share different rooms?
Your sister is suffering from bad choice in her relationship life.
Assist your sister in getting apartment and settling down asap.
Your girlfriend is your future wife, you won't marry your sister.

Stop supporting rubbish, if the girl was the op girlfriend's sister wouldn't she offer the same help? Women do not like too much visiting but if it's the woman's family member she can harbour them forever, you women are very very selfish creatures, you only think of how this will benefit you all the time, it's all about me me me, if I'm the OP I'll kick out that self-centred bìtch of a girlfriend out of my life.

If the OP marry that yeye girl him own don finish.

Slime7:
Hi guys,
I need your advice on this. It is causing issues in my 2 years relationship.
I came to Lagos in 2018 after my NYSC. Prior to that, I had plans for my older sister to come stay with me, considering how difficult things were.
Note that my married eldest brother was in Lagos before then. I understand that maybe he needs his privacy, but he didn't help in any way (he didn't have to).
 
When I got the apartment, I met my girlfriend while she was serving in Lagos. My older sister has yet to move in with me, but I have mentioned to her not once but twice that she will soon come and live with me.
 
I will also like to mention that my elder sister was living with her boyfriend before I came to Lagos. This doesn't seem right to me or to her.
 
She moved in, and we were living together peacefully. Along the way, she broke up with her boyfriend. About 6 months later, she got into another relationship. The man seems interested in marrying her. And they were making plans for settling down. Unfortunately, she got pregnant out of wedlock for the man. She had to move in with the man.
 
Now this is where the issues begin. After a few months (after her childbirth), they always have issues. They go on and off. Two times they had issues; she carried her bag and came to my place. Two times it happened, and she stayed with me for not more than two months put together. This didn't go well with my girlfriend. She complained that my sister is always in the picture, and she doesn't like that.
 
The third time, the man abused my sister, and he beat her up. I went to the man's house with my "married eldest brother." We fought with the man and threatened to arrest him. He pleaded, plus the neighbors and the landlord too. That night, we took my sister away from him. My sister chose to stay at my place until she gets an apartment for herself and her kid.

This really annoyed my girlfriend. She always says things like, "My family does not respect me." That's why my sister can move in to my house knowing that I am in a relationship.
"Why does she like to stay with me and not my brother?" "Why do I have to always be the one to bear the burden?" Note that my sister works, and she can take care of herself and her kid. She just needed a place to stay until she got her own apartment.

She feared that my sister could just move in with her bags when we get married, which I have assured her is not possible.
She claims she likes her space and all. She claims she doesn't like the "on and off" as sometimes she may want to spend a "lone" time with me. Spend weekends... and this won't be possible when my sister is around.
She claims that she has never seen a scenario where an older sister with a kid is leaving with younger brother.
She always give instances where she has never seen guys in relationships allow their older sister to come stay with them.
She claimed that sometimes I should "man up" and say NO to her. 
 
Is she overreacting? What did I do wrong in all of this? Am I being manipulated? Is her anger justified?
 
N.B My sister has gotten a place for herself and has moved out.

That your girlfriend is a very bad woman, I nor know where una de see all these kind women sef, I'll advise you not to marry her, you never marry her she don de set boundaries within you and your family, who is your sister suppose to stay with before? Your married brother ?

What your sister would do for you that your yeye entitled girlfriend can never do it for you, if something happens tomorrow your sister will stand by you because she is your family, that your selfish girlfriend will run away even if she is your wife, she will still run away because I can see that she is a selfish person who thinks about only herself.

walefresh3:
olodo.. continue to dream about the impossibility of a scammer call obi...

Peter obi will only meet the 25% in Lagos but loose woefully in other western States...

Peter obi will lose BAYELSA and head Abit above others in other south south states...

Peter obi will get the required 25 % votes in 12 state of the southern regions... And 5 states in the northern regions most especially North Central...

If u add all these together dey are not upto the the required votes demanded by electoral law...

The law Said u must have 25% in 24 states of the federation... And what I counted up there are not more than 17 states so pls obidient explain how obi is going to win the coming election....

On ATIKU...

ATIKU will get the 25% required votes from 15 northern states...

4 in South South states...

2 in Southwest states and if u add dis together it is not upto the required law VOTES....total 21 states

TINUBU

Tinubu will get the required 25% votes in all 19 northern states base on the APC structures..

3 in South South states

And 6 in South West states ..if u add it to gether u will realize he has already got 28 states that's above the required law votes demanded by electoral law...

ELections are not won by popular votes alone... if u like score 15 million popular votes.. and the other candidate score 12 millions and meetup with the 25% in 24 states of the federation.... The candidate with 12 millions votes will be declare winner...

Obidients ... Dis was what soludo saw and said obi won't WIN... .

TINUBU AND SHETTIMA IS THE NEXT PRESIDENT OF FEDERAL REPUBLIC OF NIGERIA .... FACT

See how you settle down type this long rubbish. Ozuor

yarimo:
SOWORE And OBI are unqualified candidate in reality

But Tinubu who is sick and cannot speak properly or qualified abi? You and the people who liked your comment are stupid.

Naira20:
Sowore still dey behave like SUG President.

The so called Nigerian leaders who behave like politicians where have they taken Nigeria to?

bewla:
Thanks for reminding me God will bless you

Why will you support a very sick man who cannot think or speak properly for president ?

Why will you be supporting someone who is a known corrupt politician as president ?

How can you be calling God when you are trying to inflict pain on Nigerians through Tinubu ?

If you vote this man in, know that Allah will never forgive you.

bewla:
Our dream is not just to win but for Bola to win and succeed where others fail

You are sick in the head.

Gadafii:
So a man with his clear eyes and not under he influence of Ogogoro, or suffering from dementia like tilinbu go mount this thing

Ah, why not? This is the kind of women I like sef. Number 1.

LIVINGICONREBOR:
See person body for God sake. wtf!!
Damn!!

What are you saying?
She is cute.