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Romance › Re: Please Write An Open Letter To Your Ex by TheSeeker(m): 5:00am On Aug 17, 2009

Kunbee:
Ok ooo just remember u brought it upon urself and i also hav ekiti blood and u know we dont take crap darn it i shuld hav stayed wiv Theseeker

Typical regret of a misled woman grin

[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=261058.msg4364481#msg4364481 date=1250480504]^
u having more girl issues?

hmm seeker. how many wives, exwives do u have sef?[/quote]You're coming next on my list and don't you dare say I can't handle you! grin

Romance › Re: Please Write An Open Letter To Your Ex by TheSeeker(m): 4:56am On Aug 17, 2009

C2H5OH:
no i was just thinking.
come on now, i don't think i can top my last incident in that short ass frame of time.

something really dumb did happen yesterday.
i wish i could talk about it but i'm always keeping shit in.

You said the same thing last weekend or so. Where and how do you spend your weekend?

Oyinda, better keep tabs on yo man grin

Culture › Re: Osun -- State Of The Living Spring! Identify Here by TheSeeker(op): 4:53am On Aug 17, 2009

FL Gators:
Because itz the medicine of life

Laugh with me

True that. ~Laughing~

Forum Games › Re: Answer The Question Above U And Ask Yours by TheSeeker(m): 4:52am On Aug 17, 2009

No, not been there.
Do you want me to come?

Celebrities › Re: Pete Edochie Kidnapped by TheSeeker(m): 4:51am On Aug 17, 2009

Nigeria is merely expanding their horizon to discover talents in all fields of making money grin

Very sad

Culture › Re: Osun -- State Of The Living Spring! Identify Here by TheSeeker(op): 4:30am On Aug 17, 2009

And why are you laughing? grin

Culture › Re: Osun -- State Of The Living Spring! Identify Here by TheSeeker(op): 4:02am On Aug 17, 2009

FL Gators:
You know me so well

Will only make me a foolish man if I don't know what woman I'm hanging with wink

Culture › Re: Osun -- State Of The Living Spring! Identify Here by TheSeeker(op): 3:53am On Aug 17, 2009

FL Gators:

For important stuff, trust me

Like where to disperse all the money you'll get from me when we divorce? grin

Culture › Re: Osun -- State Of The Living Spring! Identify Here by TheSeeker(op): 3:20am On Aug 17, 2009

FL Gators:
I use 3 of those mentioned sha

But remind me na

You have accounts with 3 banks? Now, I'm iffy. What do you do with 3 banks? I bet you have at least 2 accounts with each (checking and savings) and maybe a credit card account grin

~shaking head~

Culture › Re: Osun -- State Of The Living Spring! Identify Here by TheSeeker(op): 3:03am On Aug 17, 2009

FL Gators:
What exactly, cant rem.

You gotta say it na

Ohhh, if its not about you sending me $50000, then I dnt rem o

Yeah, you got it right. But your account hasn't been upgraded from Wachovia yet. Go get a better bank like Bank of America, Chase, US Bank, Capital One.

Culture › Re: Osun -- State Of The Living Spring! Identify Here by TheSeeker(op): 2:50am On Aug 17, 2009

FL Gators:
Scannning. . . .scan. . . .scan. . . .scanity scan. . . .scannnnnnnnnnning.

I got nothing. Remind me jare, omo labi

What you talked to me about on YM!!! ~now scan deeper~ wink

Romance › Re: Please Help, I Am So Confused Now by TheSeeker(m): 2:49am On Aug 17, 2009

Given that what you did was wrong and she has every right to call of the relationship, but tendering an apology to her mom shouldn't be the only reason the relationship will hold -- it means the relationship isn't worth anything unless her mom gets involved and who goes into such relationships these days? What y'all do is strictly your business. Her insistence that you make an apology to her mom shows she's either bossy (which you have to stand your ground and be the man) or she's immature (in this case you'll sit her down and snipe some senses into her). Wait it out, if she really needed you, she'll come to a talk with you.

And if you ever make up, don't you ever check her phone let alone stalking her. For no reason whatsoever should you hit a woman. No matter what a woman does, you have no right to hit her (even if she cusses your mom). Hitting her makes you just as weak minded as herself.

Romance › Re: Settle Your Nairaland Romantic Disputes Here by TheSeeker(m): 2:38am On Aug 17, 2009

190:
@seeker
be there seekin 4 answers
that was clearly wat was been said 2 the defender of humanity na2day by oge4real

what a loser he is
some pls cry 4 him

I wonder

Romance › Re: Settle Your Nairaland Romantic Disputes Here by TheSeeker(m): 2:26am On Aug 17, 2009

Hey y'all slow down; is this a joke or some serious posts? wink

Culture › Re: Osun -- State Of The Living Spring! Identify Here by TheSeeker(op): 2:22am On Aug 17, 2009

I thought we had an agreement. ~scan your memory to remember~ angry

Forum Games › Re: Answer The Question Above U And Ask Yours by TheSeeker(m): 2:11am On Aug 17, 2009

Yes, I am here.

Have you been to hell before?

Culture › Re: Osun -- State Of The Living Spring! Identify Here by TheSeeker(op): 2:11am On Aug 17, 2009

amosexy:
nah, i thought she was trying to me mean to me, as usual na
Ki lo nbo = ki lo nsele = wat's gud
lolzzzz
I will ask my broda to give u yoruba lecturez 2hrs evry day for one month and at the end of 9mths we will all see the product

LMAO!!! You'll make a great aunt for whatever results that come from the extra classes grin

Romance › Re: Settle Your Nairaland Romantic Disputes Here by TheSeeker(m): 2:07am On Aug 17, 2009

Slowing down grin

So what's going on in this hood?

Culture › Re: Osun -- State Of The Living Spring! Identify Here by TheSeeker(op): 2:05am On Aug 17, 2009

Gators, where have you been hiding? sad

Romance › Re: Settle Your Nairaland Romantic Disputes Here by TheSeeker(m): 2:03am On Aug 17, 2009

~Passing through~

Romance › Re: Please Write An Open Letter To Your Ex by TheSeeker(m): 9:16pm On Aug 16, 2009

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=261058.msg4362152#msg4362152 date=1250450527]to all my plenty EXs

oya make una take turn by turn come apologize to me again angry

[/quote]Including your nastiest and money-demanding ex girls?

Romance › Re: Please Help, I Am So Confused Now by TheSeeker(m): 6:39pm On Aug 16, 2009

[quote author=MoneyRule link=topic=310478.msgl4361464#msg4361464 date=1250437300]The guy's obviously desperate to get the girl back and she keeps saying "apologise to my mum", though i think it's uncalled for but, let him do it already! So if after he apologizes to the mum, she stalls, then he knows it was never about the apology and can then go get a life. I think it's better than being stuck on one thing.Afterall the mum already knows they were dating and if she didn't kill him when he beat her daughter(@ poster; bad move) she a'int killing him now!
There's always a price for foolishness![/quote]There's a big difference between stalking and beating. He can go to jail for beating but never for stalking and that makes it less a crime. Remember, this is a choice he made (although a wrong one) but if he has to live with the consequence, it's got to be natural and not some disrespectful request. If she feels he's the kind of man she wants to be with, she won't stress him that much. Such lady is mainly out to receive self gratification and she's just egocentric and selfish.

To her it's a honor that he should beg the mom but for what? That's insane. I can't do that. No man in their right senses would do that. If he had engaged in any derogatory act against the mom -- that's different; but this is between the both of them. Let's be reasonably realistic. It should never happen.

If she's still bent on her demand to apologize to her mom, give her some space maybe then she'll realize if she needs you or not. A relationship is complicated enough than for anyone to come and add more pressure to it. Be a man and stand up against this nonsense. Come to think of it, if you didn't love her that much, you wouldn't have done what you did --- but you went on the wrong approach.

Any man who lays his finger on a woman is worse than an animal. angry

Romance › Re: Please Help, I Am So Confused Now by TheSeeker(m): 4:19pm On Aug 16, 2009

ThoniaSlim:
lol. . . . . .Now that would have to be plain stupid of me. . .Well I get where your coming from. . .but he seems so desperate to get her back. . .simply why I said he should do it. . .

Being desperate doesn't mean one has to follow through a stupid call. The girl's making a lousy and egocentric request, which the guy should sharply decline. She's simply looking for an avenue to hit on the guy and have an edge against him; she's no better than the guy. He shouldn't apologize to the mother, if she means that much to him, obviously he doesn't mean anything to her. I've seen many cases where girls make excuses for their boyfriends much less some foolish girl asking a boyfriend to apologize to her mom.

Like I said before, all he owes her mom is treat her daughter right, anything outside that is plain selfishness.

Romance › Re: Please Help, I Am So Confused Now by TheSeeker(m): 4:08pm On Aug 16, 2009

ThoniaSlim:
I would also be mad if I were in her position. . .but apologizing to her mum. . .is like? Hello you ain't in a relationship with her mum but with her. . .

But all said. . .If you love her as much as you've said. . .and apologizing to her mum is the solution to winning her love back. . .then you had better act fast brother!

Makes no sense. What if you have a problem with your boyfriend and he tells you to apologize to his mom, would you do it in the name of "love"? There's a fine line between love and stupidity. Just how will he start to tender his apology to her mom? What will he be saying to her?
That's a purposeful disrespect and insult on the guy's person in retaliation of what he did to her; howbeit, it has to be made clear that some guys behave like sissies but that doesn't mean a partner should make the error of another a point of advantage to make stupid requests.

If she decides she wants to leave the relationship because of his refusal to apologize to his mom then she's no different from the guy either.

Romance › Re: Call Me Crazy by TheSeeker(m): 3:35pm On Aug 16, 2009

Just messing with you. Hold on tight to your man, girl!

Romance › Re: Call Me Crazy by TheSeeker(m): 3:31pm On Aug 16, 2009

ThoniaSlim:
Yes Westlife. . .I dedicated the song to Him. . .cus when I listen to the song. . .Its Him I think of. . . The lyrics are so true. . .

Pre or post whitelexi?

Romance › Re: Call Me Crazy by TheSeeker(m): 3:27pm On Aug 16, 2009

ThoniaSlim:
You've always been there for me. . .You've listened to me patiently pour out my heart to you when I've been in my worst moments. . .even when I was being my usual stubborn self. . .you've patiently looked on. . .You've patiently waited and understood me. . . I could go on and on. . .All I can say is Thanks for showing me what true love means. . .

you'll always have a special place in my heart. . .

"You Raise Me Up"

When I am down and, oh my soul, so weary;
When troubles come and my heart burdened be;
Then, I am still and wait here in the silence,
Until you come and sit awhile with me.

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up, To more than I can be.

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up, To more than I can be.

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up, To more than I can be.

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up, To more than I can be.

You raise me up, To more than I can be.

Westlife?

Romance › Re: Please Help, I Am So Confused Now by TheSeeker(m): 3:01pm On Aug 16, 2009

[quote author=,amebo no1 link=topic=310478.msg4360981#msg4360981 date=1250430446]exactum, apologise to the mum for what, he did not insult her, infact his primary priority is the gurl in question and not the mum,infact he owes the mum no apology or explanation, he should explain to the gurl who will be the one to pass it across to the mum

i mean why did she even tell her mother, cant lovers have probs without d gurls crying like victimised kittens to their mums and spilling the whole beans?

WTF undecided

[/quote]It doesn't make any sense. Why apologize to the mom? Even if she linked them both, he doesn't owe the mom no apology or explanation; what I think he owes her mom is treat her daughter right. I wonder why people don't work out their differences in a relationship but would rather shout it on rooftops for the whole world to hear.

Romance › Re: Please Help, I Am So Confused Now by TheSeeker(m): 2:43pm On Aug 16, 2009

What you did is the stupidest thing any guy can do. How and why in God's name will you be playing a girl's mind like that? If you've been together for that many years and you don't know who she is, then you're just the player/sucker here. Why couldn't you have let her be and let her deal with issues herself? And with your supposed finding now, you think she's not dating anyone else? What makes you so sure? How do you know she's not dating anyone else?
In a relationship, you do the best you can and leave the rest up to your partner and fate to decide. You can't know what runs in the mind of your partner or what they are doing behind your back; in fact, what they're doing behind you is inconsequential as long as you don't know about it and it's not done to your face.

If you don't trust your woman, there's every possibility that your relationship isn't healthy and there's no guarantee that it will be healthy. What would have happened if there was an undermining factor that led you to think she's cheap? What if she didn't tell you someone was messaging her? Wouldn't you have assumed she's worthless? My friend, take heed next time. You don't stalk a girl around, it'll make her hate you and worst of all, make you look like an eight year old boy.

As for you begging her mom, I don't think you owe her mom any kind of apology. So if you get married to her and you have a quarrel then you go plead to her mom? But for what? Doesn't make sense. I suggest you have a long talk with her and let her know you had let your feelings for her take over you and turned you into a jealous and insecure fellow. But apologize to her mom? No, it's not the right thing to do. If she insists you must apologize to her mom, then I'd safely conclude she's overbearing. Or does her mom know everything that transpires between you both? Na wa for this your relationship sef

Forum Games › Re: Answer The Question Above U And Ask Yours by TheSeeker(m): 12:15pm On Aug 16, 2009

Your village,
Who's the next sucker?

Romance › Re: Please Help, I Am So Confused Now by TheSeeker(m): 11:11am On Aug 16, 2009

Will come back to you when I'm done being mad at your foolish action angry

Romance › Re: Please Write An Open Letter To Your Ex by TheSeeker(m): 10:16am On Aug 16, 2009

C2H5OH:
sorry nau. please nau.

You've not crossed the line, she says.

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