₦airaland Forum

Haven't you heard of side chicks or side guys?That's the way it works.

If only they know when to walk away.
How can you brutalise your wife like this?

Many young couples keep making this mistake.Your wife can get pregnant about 2months after childbirth. ...breastfeeding or not!

Breastfeeding used to work well in those days.Now it is not that effective........diet change,hormonal factors,environmental changes,body adaptation e.t.c

I wouldn't advice you abort the child but whatever you decide, make sure you go on proper family planning after.

PrecisionFx:
No.

I read the P.O

No wonder.

AsianLoyalist:
Does she have any evidence to prove he really raped her?? This is one of the reasons I want DNA test facilities and other facilities that can help in determining whether a rape case is true or false in Nigeria . So many men have got their reputation destroyed because of false rape and sexual harassment accusations. I hardly believe a rape case if the lady say it didn't happen at the time she's reporting it. If we should interrogate this lady now she'll start counting months and years here so how will DNA or any judge know whether she was really raped or not

She should have reported when it just happened.She apparently lost the opportunity.

PrecisionFx:
did she say she was raped

Did you read the Op?

Tozara:
That's gone. What evidence would she provide? The moment she failed to report him immediately after it happened, she had lost the ability to get justice within the framework of our judicial system. There's no way to prove he raped her. She can't prove it to anybody.

And the OP seems confused and fücked up upstairs. I don't understand her.

Yes that's when she should have reported.It's hard now to substantiate the rape allegation.

madgoat:
Keep quiet and go and sit down somewhere. Any small consensual act una go dey shout rape.... Smmmhhhhhh

Mad rapist.
Don't worry,the long arm of the law will catch up with you soon.

See the kind of water they entered,one with a waterfall.

Only experienced swimmers go near this kind of waters na.

Why is everyone bullying you? You should be a .matured man.

You should not have accepted their results,you go to a good lab and do the test with her and see the result yourself.

It will be hard to continue the marriage except you don't want to have more children.The marriage was built on deceit anyway.

smileing:
ok
I ve not considered reporting him but if I do I don't think I have a strong evidence apart from the broken hymen.
is there anything else I need to know before reporting him that ll substantiate my evidence

Unfortunately,the evidence you would have had was when the rape occurred.You shouldn't have let it die then.

I'll say you should walk away and pick yourself up.A lot of men will still marry you without you being a virgin.You may just need to tell the person what happened and I'm sure he wouldn't hold it against you.

Don't continue to brood over the issue.Don't let it be a burden continually.

Do you consider reporting him to the authorities? What he did is rape and he has no excuses for doing that.

You don't think your people will like him,in your heart of hearts,you don't really think he is the one.
You should wear your shoes to walk,innit?

EgunMogaji:
There’s nothing wrong with driving on a spare tire on the road.

Just inflate to proper psi, stay within speed range and make it temporary.

The bolded is key.You can't speed too much with that.

swiz123:
Imo state. Nekede precisely

You say Nekede.Na n.aked be dat na.

Were they driving with that spare tyre on the express?

Yeah,yeah,yeah. .........joker!

Unfortunately,I don't see how you can legally compel your step-dad to take care of your mom.You can only persuade him.
That's the problem of not making good choices in life.Your mom married an irresponsible man and instead of investing in her own son,she spent on a man whose heart was not deep in it.

Try on your own to pull all the resources you can together(while still persuading your stepdad) and take care of your mom with what you have.

Maternal mortality is still very high in this part of the world.Sad

Please start ante-natal early as soon as you discover you are pregnant.Obey all instructions given including medication you are to take and NOT to take.
Please if you are told you would need a Caesarian section,don't try to force vaginal birth.Health of mother and baby most important.

He go dey score well for that side.

Miya and Maya ke?Abi na Miyatu and Mayatu

Dem no get Oyo name give them?

For real?
Anthropologists come o.

neolboy:
About 100 students lost their lives she was the only survivor of the sosoliso plane crash

There were two survivors in that plane crash.She and another lady.

She's got something g to live for.

By the way,what happened to the other survivor?

Crazy men.How can a grown man like that become attracted to a mere child?

His anger only reflects his own lack of wisdom.
Book of proverbs says wisdom is more precious than rubies.
Length of days are also in the hands of wisdom.
What more could you ask for?

Tragedy

Some guys are just ijiots especially on social media.

Olabenjamen22:
stop misquoteing the scripture, that chapter is talking about unbeliever that convert to Christianity but her husband did not convert.
And it is not the case here.

Show me where it says the the unbeliever converted in that passage of the bible?
You are the one misquoting(or does not understand) that scripture.

Nothing wrong with the ordination if she merits it.

Amitez:
You missed the message in the post. Go and read it again! I am not aware that a Pastor is a spouse to unbelieving husband. I am still learning though, but The RCCG that I know, where I worked as a marriage counsellor would not wed a Christian and muslim couple. So, why ordain a wife of a muslim as a Pastor?

Yes,the church should not marry them but are they doing marriage here now?
Read 1 Corinthians 7 about what the bible says concerning a believer married to an unbeliever.