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If you have the proof and you have shown her that and she couldn't refute it,there's only one decision for you to make.............move on.

She'll never change.

lovelygurl:
Are you talking from your personal experience

Well you could say the experience is 'personal'.

Poverty and illiteracy. Bad combo

It's allowed.Pregnancy no be easy job.

OBJ house of commotion.

hopefulLandlord:
Maybe they realised he was a fraud after he left them?

No,they lost it just like many have.

dominique:
So sad, my heart goes out the mum who was the only survivor. How can one cope with this kind of devastating loss?

She may deall with depression for the rest of her life.So sad.

There were some people in Jesus' lifetime that believed in Him initially because they heard His words and saw His acts.
Along the line,they stopped believing and turned back.Just reminds one of Jesus' parable of the sower.

Don't follow him to any native doctor.Tell him to go and swear at a shrine that he is not having an affair and that he should swear that if does,he should lose his potency.Tell him to go and do that first.

It's good you have chosen to ignore him.I hope you have a job.Concentrate on yourself more and the kids. Don't let him threaten you.
If you continue to feel frustrated with the marriage,you can separate/take the option of divorce.

You still have years ahead of you.Don't stay in an abusive marriage.

You can force a boyfriend on yourself. Enjoy yourself,do things that make you happy,build your career and acquire new skills.

You should socialise.You can join groups or organisations and meet people.

He's a professional. He has to do his job for Belgium.

*Marry someone you are sexually attracted to.
*Both of you should work on your sex game.
*Get busy,the more idle you are,the more the temptation.

Have a consciousness to not give attention to women outside.

You could be having hormonal issues.

TylerDurden:
Yoruba perversion knows no bounds.

This is why Awusa Fulani Muslims insist that only a Fulani can be a Sultan who doubles as the Supreme Head of Islam and Sharia in Nigeria.
If in doubt go and check out the constitutionally created and backed Govt funded Supreme Council For Islamic Affairs and who is the automatic authority on all things Islam and Sharia in Nigeria.

The Fulani Moslems know that you will pervert their religion to suit your superstitious diabolical ways as can be seen with the Yoruba afro-spiritual voodoo corruption of Christianity.

This one dey come from bush.
Wetin concern wetin you write now with the topic?

I think it's the masturbation and your sexual inexperience that is the cause.
Masturbation has some psychological and oftentimes physical effect on the body.It alters the state of deriving pleasure from yourself and from someone else.

You have to slowly work your way back.You have stopped the masturbation. Try to do a lot of pre-intimacy with your wife so she gets much satisfaction from that.Also you will have to go more than one round because your first will still come quickly.Use the second round to satisfy her.Also change sexual positions.Tell your wife to adopt the cowgirl position more when you meet.

It will take some practice but you will gradually overcome it.

freshvine:
if your husband is an ibo man, defininately he's a rabble rouser and wont do jack...another wife?,that's a taboo.

if he's a yoruba...prepare for the worst. it's a culture thing.

but if your husband is a moslem, you need not complain. thats a religious obligation.

Stereotype.Why do you people believe everything they tell you in the village?

Chances are that you could be the father.

From the figures you quoted,the chances that you could be the father is slim.However,having unprotected sex with a lady makes you the potential father of her unborn child.
Nevertheless in medicine,some things are not set in stone because you could actually have things happening outside 'normal values'.

The only way to confirm if the child is yours is by a DNA test or if you got strong genes like me,a look.n.a.

I wouldn't say you should marry her just because of the pregnancy if your heart isn't right with it.You could wait till after the child is born.

Parents have a lot of work to do.Young people don't seem to be getting the necessary guidance.

33 abortions? Na lie.U still get womb so?

All these US ghetto hoodrats sha.

dairykidd:
As of right now the boy is responding to treatment he's not dead.. His crew is already getting prepared to retaliate.... Well i guess it will be in news later tonight or 2mrw

Good for him.I hope he uses the second chance to be alive well and repent.

Correct guy!Rest in Valhalla or the hell they call it.
They never learn.Keep wasting their lives.

xynerise:
I wish girls could answer these questions too while demanding for money or you just created these questions because a man is asking?

It goes for both sexes.
I only addressed the issue from a lady's point because the Op is a 'she'.

You want to give your boyfriend money?

The questions are how much?What does he need it for?
What is the status of the relationship?How deep?

She made the announcement or just posted pictures?
Op,your name na overambitious aka oversabi.

Kleptomania dey her blood.

Well you can get connected on phone and have conversations to get to know each other.Get connected on other social media.I recommend you get connected on Facebook(You should connect with his friends and family members too).
Be smart.Listen well to his words and use Facebook to know more about his family and friends.

Forget about the idea of travelling to Nigeria to meet him just yet.That will depend on the rapport you must have built with him.They don't need to pay your air fare.

Don't get desperate. Listen to your intuition.

Benita27:
Pregnancy induced hypertension that wasn't monitored and then getting her killed? Even my mum whose BP occasionally rise over the years is still alive.

HBP in pregnancy is not like in a normal hypertensive individual.It is more aggressive with fatal consequences.
It is such that if the BP continues to rise,the solution to it is to deliver the baby at that time.
It causes a condition called eclampsia.

Dp you want to use a government or private hospital? If you will use a government hospital,go to General Hospital,Igando.
Don't know the quality of the private hospital around your area.

If you go to the hospital,you would be given a list of requirements for your baby's childbirth.

Dem dey kill for Canada too like the US?

Was she not attending ante-natal at the hospital?Was her BP not being monitored and controlled?

Benita27:
What was bothering a newly wed that it got to the point of having her BP kill her? RIP.

Pregnancy induced hypertension.It has nothing to do with her worrying.

This is not about leaving your child with 'grown kids'.The pool I saw the picture of is TOO EXPOSED to have a toddler around