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belle001: it took me God's grace to survive,if i never took that step,i won't be alive..i would rather be alone for good than find myself in that situation..it scares me that much..i'm talking about a man that locks me indoor when he goes out,that stalks me whenever i get the chance to go out,gets insane when my siblings call me..everything has changed me..

Young lady,if he did all these you wrote,then please don't go back.Men who act this way are not normal.I doubt if he can change but if he does,it's for his own good.
You have a new life now,start living it without him.I'll wish to talk with u.

Op collect dat car and give me.I go appreciate am.

This is a classic example of being a sheep.
Don't these people have bibles to read and can't they receive the Holy Spirit so they can discern?

Crazy stuff.

OP,u dey run snap?This your picture na negative o.

Is there a way for you to find out if indeed he is a changed man?Abusive men rarely change and that is why I'm really not on the side of you going back.My sister's friend married a man that was divorced against all advice.The man showed her hell, beat her often she once she had to run out of the house at 12am.I do encourage reconciliation however if there is no domestic violence.
If there is a way for you to see and meet often to spend time together without you packing in yet,you can give it a trial.If not,just be gone for good as you have.

U fine sha.why did u have to rush into marriage?Your skin colour will not be good for beating.

I honestly think a lot of women are not doing enough to keep their weight in check.I work in the health and fitness industry and I know regular exercise can go along way to reduce weight.
You may not go through all the gym routines like Horny4u but you can walk a lot instead of taking cabs or bikes.You also need a discipline when it comes to food.Avoid much of the fatty foods.

You are still in school,why don't you make your studies your priority for now!Be engrossed with school.At the right time everything else will fall into place.

Awww.Sad.The people around him could have done more to stop him going ahead with his plans.

Freewilly: I can only imagine the smell, kinda reminds me of the yoruba dude that was fired from my job for very poor personal hygiene.

Una don start.What's wrong with just saying the dude....

Can't they get hefty guys who will bundle him into a river?
And to think his job is tending to cows and not a job in an office with a/c.
I hail the wife....ewww!

Apache77.....beating her into submission worked?
I hope she's not bidding her time to take her pound of flesh back.

You need to have a discussion with your wife and try to get her to open up on what the issue is with your parents.
You have to still work at the marriage and not divorce yet.
Pray about this and seek God.Try to meet with an elderly person you both are comfortable with like your pastor for counselling.

Some women sha.You can't understand what they look for.
With the load on ground some women go still want chook head.

Barbaric!I think this guy is even worse than his father.

the warrior72: The Good Lord has always been good to this man, but his compromise on word of God is what I don't buy

How so?Can u expantiate on the compromise?

Hmmm.The anointing has been working a long time.
Saints have been passing out under the anointing since way back.

Your education should be priority now,not marriage.Find out from him if he is ready to wait for you to complete your education.If he is not willing then forget about him.
You need some years to develop mentally too so marriage even without your education cannot be now.

Breastfeeding exclusively used to work in preventing pregnancy but nowadays,the failure rate is high.You have to take up a form of contraception and I will suggest the proper use of condom.That will not affect bosom milk in any way.

Even though your mum walks through the valley of the shadow of death,there will not be fear of evil,for the Lord is with her,His rod and His staff shall comfort her.

It is well with your mum.have no fear.The Lord shall perfect that which concerns her.
She will live to declare the glory of the Lord in the land of the living.

The Op did not even have to dignify her by posting this here.
Utter rubbish!

^^You follow the pastor who has the leadership over you.
@Op,the effect of a prophecy depends on how much you believe it and choose to walk in it.
The prophecy for the year by my spiritual leader has always helped me make progress and achieve things each year and some of the things I achieve have been by supernatural accomplishments so i know it was prophecy.

Good for you.Wait till the middle of the year before you start your new year.

Do people still reason this way....damn!

She's got morbid obesity.This is nothing to be proud of.

Hmmm.Birds of the same feathers.

bongolistik: chai! Exactly what i am saying, jst SMH 4 U. So English belongs to indians, mexicans, germans, spanish, french. Its a pity that u are one of d people that will kip bowing 2 whites wherever u meet or see them 4 no reason even when nelson mandela has assisted ppl like u 2 gain back ur confidence. I am feeling 4 u seriously, so any white man u see, u believ he speaks better english than u, so u start imitating? Hav u seen an amerian before trying to speak like a british b4, or indian tryin 2 speak like american b4 in dier home country? Its obvious u don't even knw y u imitate any white guy voice, if u dnt knw, it is pure inferiority complex on ur part 4 u to see a pakistani wit pure arabic tongue speaking english nd u ar tryin 2 speak lik him jst because he is white. Its obvious u ar guilty of dat

LOL.You've got an inferiority complex.......dazz all!

There are grounds for excommunication in the Church.Please study carefully the scriptures quoted above.

We do not make statements based on assumptions,emotions or sentiments as Christians.We have the word as our guide.There are examples and scriptures dealing with this issue.

The language is theirs and the best way to speak a language is to try to speak it like the owners.Some whites who try to speak some African languages also try to speak in the tone of the native speakers.

She doesn't have to flash her cleavage to show she's a woman.

You have to confirm she is indeed your child.You said she looks like you but you will have to get the word from the mum and if need be,do a DNA test.
If it's confirmed,you will have to let your wife and family know about it.It was not like you cheated on your wife.It already happened before you met her.The child is here and you will have to take responsibility.

Sheykul Islam: In the Godhead, which is also called Trinity, we have God the Father, God the Son and God the Holy Spirit. This does not mean we have three different Gods.


1+1+1=1Christian maths


I don't know where you read in the Christian Bible that salvation is not beleiving in the name of Jesus.


matt 19 vs 16-17

Anyone saying 1+1=1 is ignorant.1 + 1 can never be 1.However,you can have 1 in 1 which is 1.Jesus said,I in my Father and the Father in Me(John 14:10-11)You can see the problem is ignorance.

Since you quoted Matt 19 vs 16- 17,why don't you read up Matt 22 vs 41-45.Come back to tell me what it means.