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No matter how much you love her,someone like her will give you heartaches if you ever marry her.The turmoil you'll have in your marriage will eclipse whatever fear you have now.Tell whoever you need to tell that's it's over.They will all accept with time.

Don't listen to whatever she has to say.That lady is a fair weather lady.

This is serious.Your lungs are at risk.

Proudfather2022:
Yes I do

Dwell more on the positive than the negative then.
If your adopted daughter is to be taken away permanently by the father,then you can decide not to bother about her.If however she will remain in your house(which I believe is the arrangement now),ignoring her will begin to cause cracks in your home.
Eventually a loving family you had hitherto will cease to exist.

Proudfather2022:
She should have open up to me the very first day she went to visit him with the children. If she didn't then I don't see why she should do it now. I would rather mind my business for the sake of my own sanity. I have 3 children who needs me the most and I have to be alive for them.

You don't want your marriage anymore?

princeemmma:
i help her to the extent that, when am off work, i wash her clothes, bath my daughter, sometimes i do the cooking, i do most house chores sometimes to help, but still no good turn

It can also be biological.Some women's libido can change after childbirth.There have been some cases like that.She may need to see a gynaecologist(discuss this with her).

Proudfather2022:
Thanks..
My question is am I being unreasonable for not wanting to know anything concerning the child and her father. My wife thinks I should be interested but I don't want to. Like I said earlier I have told her to do as she pleases if the father want to visit she shouldn't inform me she should just take her to him and if I came home and I didn't see the child I won't be bother asking about her whereabouts because I am minding my business. So is anything wrong with that

You're being emotional and yet unreasonable.
This match didn't start at 0 - 0 like someone said.She had had two children and you accepted her like that.She told you the father of the second was absent and when he showed up,she let you know.You also gave her freedom to make her choice to let him meet the child or not and she chose.

You didn't like the decision she made and she apologized and has been open with you since.What else do you want?

Be the father you have always been and keep your home together.Sit with your wife and discuss the arrangement with her daughter's father.You may decide to involve a lawyer.
It's only right to allow the girl to know her biological father since he has chosen to be present and responsible.

She's obviously stressed.What kind of work is your wife involved in?Do you have a help at home or she does most house chores with the baby?

You need to relieve her of stress first and then speak to her in a calm maner about the situation.

I can wager that the child belongs to the man.The mumu idiot could not stop his wife from maltreating his own child.

Beautiful
Would have been a lovely place to visit but not in the times we are in before you go hear I don kidnap am.

AntiChristian:
I'm anti-christian because Christ never brought any religion called Christianity. Muhammad practiced and called the religion he practiced Islam.

Jesus's disciples called themselves Muslims in the Qu'ran.

Also Abraham, Moses, Noah and others.

So where does Christianity and Judaism come from in the Bible?

Probably from the powers of the world!

Listen to yourself@bolded.
You said Jesus and his disciples called themselves Muslims in the Quran yet Jesus and the disciples had left the world before Muhammed ever came up with the Quran.
Does that make sense?

That is why I asked you for the original copy of the injeel and you said Allah could not keep any.
To claim somebody said something is not the same as the person saying it.

You won't be the first.

lifezone247:
can be a rented apartment, what if I move to another place, or probably I build my house and moved in?

It can be LAWMA bill.They just need something that has your name and house address.

AntiChristian:
Does the book of Buddha in any way supports the previous revelations and Prophets?

The Qu'ran does!

The last Prophet is Muhammad.
The religion is Islam!

Unlike Christ- Christianity
Buddha- Buddhism

The Quran caims to corroborate the Revelations of the prophets(there's a difference).
If you say your moniker is antichristian,I can call you that too.It doesn't mean I agree with you.

ahnie:
That's my second piggybank,the first one is not touched.why this was raided for the purpose off restocking.

You dey try.2022 must groove.

Irupetepete:
Mothers will always be mothers
Fathers don't have time for all these.
It is true that no one can really take care of their children like the mothers..

Who says.You never see father wey dey very involved with his kids.

It means your baby isn't ready to come yet.I'm sure your doctor told you/wife to come back after a few days.
If your wife doesn't fall into labour after a few days, she may have to be induced.

AntiChristian:
The proof is the Qu'ran the final revelation revealed to an unlettered man!


The Torah was revealed to Moses for his people and after it served its purpose that's the end. It was never meant to be an Everlasting book. Allah never said he'll preserve them.

Likewise the injeel revealed to Jesus.
The original copy of the revelations to Jesus does not exist anymore and what exists today are only hearsays, opinions, etc of others.

The worst is that the people who wrote the Bible can't be verified today. The journey of each book can't be traced.

Lol@ proof is the Quran........very escapist.
Why not book of budha as proof?

So person no dey fashionable except e open breast.

Yes,it will be weird.
Don't tell him you saw him die.Call him and tell him to be prayerful.
Also pray for him.

All your daily sales goes in there?

Kobicove:
It's not even like she was a famous movies star at the time they got married, she was just a duty continuity announcer with NTA 2 Channel 5

No matter what you do in this life people will always have an opinion...just do whatever makes you happy so long as it's not illegal

She could have gone ahead to build a career in the movie industry if she wanted especially because of the type of person she was as a youth(we attended same secondary school).She thought deep about pursuing that route especially with a husband who was already in the limelight.It was a better decision to make.

elated177:
I was expecting you to provide me with the version you quoted the above from.

New Living Translation.

They were not kicked out of the plane?

AntiChristian:
Muhammad recited the Qu'ran once every year and twice the last year he spent.

Many people in thousands memorised the entire Qu'ran during the Prophet's lifetime.
And till today millions still learn the Qu'ran by heart!

This is clear from authentic Islamic sources!

The people who wrote the Qu'ran were his companions! People who had memorised it in his lifetime. And it was compiled within the first few years after he died!

Compare this with your Bible.

Jesus never met Paul in real life. Saul who was anti-Jesus changed to Paul and then wrote about 60% of the new testament even more than all the remaining 11 disciples combined.

Mark was not a disciple.

Luke wrote Luke and Acts also wasn't a disciple.

Hebrew has no known author but some says it was written by Paul too.

Even Matthew was calling his own name when he me Jesus in Matthew!

Things don't add up! Just believe it in faith!
Ain't that Christianity?

Muhammed claimed to have seen Angel Gabriel.Can you provide proof it was Angel Gabriel he saw?
Muslims claim the Bible has been doctored.Okay,why does Allah not have an authentic copy of the Torah?He couldn't preserve one?

AntiChristian:
This is always similar to what other Christians say when they have nothing else to type!

But try and answer the last questions holistically!

I could break down all your comments and give you scriptures to explain but we probably will be going round in circles because of your stance(understanding).

You said Jesus didn't say but John/Paul.Mohammed never wrote the Quran It was said to be compiled by people who were with him.
You see I can also go on and on about why it was others who wrote the things you believe.
That's why I said the Light will shine upon your heart.

No.It just doesn't fit into that environment in my opinion.

AntiChristian:
This is great. John said something about fellowship up there not Jesus. Show us where Jesus said that. Not John or Paul.

And yes Jesus sung hymn once in the entire Bible that's why you Christians turn your churches to a Sunday-Sunday party!

Jesus prayed alone several times. He put his face on the ground and worshipped his Lord. Where is this in Christianity?

Jesus even gave you the lord's prayer which has been relegated mostly by many!

When the rich man came to meet Jesus asking for eternal life what was Jesus response to him?

Why didn't he tell him he'll die for him later and that he should accept him as Lord and savior? The first thing Jesus said was to obey the commandments!

Lol @ your comments.
You need a deeper understanding of Scriptures.
The Light that lightens all men shall shine upon your heart.

FancySweet:
I'm an old member here, but I just decided to create a new account for this topic.

I started having sex as early as which I know 7 years, please don't judge me...cause It actually started with my half-brother who is 8 years older than me.... I was just a child then so, don't know what I was actually doing....

And I later graduated to doing it with my next door flat neighbor who was same age with me and we were caught one day by their house � help, who went and told my dad.

God! I saw hell that day, I vividly recall how my my dad... wanted to kill me with belt that very day not minding that I was his only daughter and I was only 8yrs as of that time..It was one of our neighbor that heard my cry and came to my rescue, took me to her house gave me a bath and I slept off.

So, when my mum get back coz she wasn't around when the whole incident occurred she came at my neighbor's house to get me, the moment I sighted her I started panicking seeing the way I was she felt pity for me and took me home and cared for me.

That's one day I will never... forget in my entire life and from that day I hated sex with passion.

So, I haven't induge myself in any from of sexual act since then not

So you want to regrow your hymen?