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athaboi:
He's too childish

He's but a child.

See person mentality.

Odikwa egwu o.

For sure the husband's salary cannot sustain the family.
The wife should not quit her job yet.If they can get a maid that can take care of the kids,that will suffice.

This is just pure evil.

kenzysmith:
when last did your nigerian coach qualified u 4 afcon or caf champions league make we dey reason b4 we type

Didn't Keshi win Afcon abi dem never born you that time?

Why can't a Nigerian coach do this job or at least an African coach?

Kobojunkie:
What is the world?

You are not even suggesting a mere job change .I.e. switching companies/employees but a possible career change/ possible downgrade for the woman?

I'm just giving an instance.The Op didn't mention what the wife does.I'm not saying she should quit her job or downgrade.

Kobojunkie:
so you are suggesting that changing a job will make one less preoccupied with one's job?

Jobs have varying demands.Most civil servants for instance have more time and are less stressed than a banker.

Kobojunkie:
You don't even know the specifics of the problem but are already suggesting a job change might be what she needs?

The Op already said she is 'too pre-occupied' with her job.Which other specific do you want?

You probably met her the way she is.She loves(or pre-occupied) with her job such that she's tired by the time she gets home and has little energy for attention or pampering.

She'll probably change if her job changes.If it doesn't,manage her like that.You try to give the attention kids crave to them.

She doesn't know what she signed for?

Nice one.Famlly is important.

Met her....we started have unprotected sex.....she visited and stayed for two months.....she took in......bla bla bla.
Why don't you youths always look at actions and consequences?

Anyway as it stands now,she will abort the foetus except you are able to convince her otherwise.
In your Op, you said you went to bury your baby mama.You need to learn about protective sex.

Pathetic to say the least.Can he even still get it up?

Pre-wedding or post wedding?
She's wearing a wedding gown already.

Anyway,congrats to them.

Awww,just when he hoped to make a name at Barca.

Looks like it might be an assassination..........but why both naked?

Kudos to her for building her craft and working on her weight.

These ones na elite.Dem don dey rob nose together.

How old is the child?If s/he's still a toddler,feed him/her well and when well fed,s/he'll sleep soundly and you can have your time.

May you continue to find that inner strength.Must have been tough growing up.

johnsonpal:
ok, he wasn't but yet Jacob became Israel

Yes,he had the covenant of Abraham through his father Jacob but he suffered for deceiving his brother.

johnsonpal:
I grew praying for unmerited favor - Getting Jobs, Contract and so on that you are not qualified for nor deserved. Look around you a lt of people are in a position that they are least qualified for, how do we expect progress then? And isn't this unfair to people who have worked hard to be qualified ? Is this not encouraging laziness and mediocrity ??

Let Examine some bible Verses :

Psalm 91:7 : Though a thousand fall at your side, though ten thousand are dying around you, these evils will not touch you. (New Living Translation). So it's OK for your neighbors, 10, 000 people infact to just die but as long as it doesn't affect you , all is well yea??

Romans 9:13 : Just as it is written: “Jacob I loved, but Esau I hated.”
This statement was made by God even before both of them were born, So does it mean God can just hate you for absolutely no reason whatsoever? An unborn child can't commit a sin right ?

Also let's consider Genesis 27 :23
Jacob cat-fished his brother an received the blessings meant for him , and yet God was happy with him. Isn't lieing and cheating a sin ??


Let;s discuss

Who said God was happy with Jacob for deceiving his brother?Go and meet your Sunday school teacher.

Geeman2006:
But he once said his Dad is Kano

He is Yoruba but grew up in Kano.He claims Kano because he didn't have a good relationship with his father.

She should go to the hospital na.
There is likely to bean infection.She will run some tests.

Great woman.

okoroemeka:
the op is lucky to be grown up and matured enough to know what is right and wrong,just imagine if the op is still a small boy,that his cousin will take his virginity and innocence in the blink of an eye,I grew up in a house with several house helps,cousins and secretary working in my father's business and the experience I got from this ladies and other aunties has marked me for life,they always force me with threats to suck their breast and pvssy while I am still in primary school,my cousin is the worst always suffocating me with her smelly pvssy,till today I cannot be comfortable to leave a small boy in the company of a girl,lady,cousin or aunty because what I learnt from them was life changing and traumatic,the op knows that sex with his cousin is utterly wrong but if he started sucking his older cousins pvssy at 8-9 yrs then the decision is clear and simple.

Wow,such a sad experience.

All these herbalists masquerading as prophets/pastors.
Well,if you look for things in the wrong places you'll find.

Wawelexy:
The person above me said it all....

The pregnant lady too was horney....

She was apparently hypnotized.

Now this is a large cobra.

Confusion break bone yeepa .........

There could be error where you did the test.DNA tests results are not infallible especially where there are human errors.
You will need to do the test again.Look for a reliable and experienced center.It'll cost you money again but it's worth the stress.Let the child grow a bit more too.

If you repeat the test and it's still negative,take it that someone that looks like you also slept with the girl.