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@Op,you're not being fair to your SIL.She's the one who is hurt in all this.Her actions are her own best way of dealing with the situation though not the best.
An innocent child is in this picture and doesn't deserve to suffer for her parents' misdemeanor.She should understand that.
Keep showing your niece love and do the best you can.Your SIL will come around someday when maturity sets in.
As for your BIL,he should man up and take responsibility.

od501:
All of you shouting education this education that. The dude is a licenced doctor, and baby in question is his. He can't do anything to hurt the child in question. What you all should be asking is, what are the advantages of female circumstition?

Cos the lady I checked, they circumcise the male too. So...what's the hype?

Says who?She could get infected and be scarred.The psychological effect on her too will hurt her.
If circumcision will stop her from being promiscuous,what happens when she gets married?They bring the clit back and join?Is she not allowed to enjoy sex in her marriage ?

You compare male circumcision with the female? Anatomically speaking,what they do with the female is akin to removing the penis cap in males!

adefitim:
Our mothers and mothers before them circumcised without no complications. According to the wife story she did her own at age 12 surely this will have complications that’s why it is done after birth to avoid that. I can’t blame the man for wanting to do that only fault him for beaten his wife.

So what will the circumcision achieve?
It's like putting tribal marks on a child's face and defacing the child in the name of culture.

She may not be ashamed.She may just not be comfortable stepping out due to internal and external reasons.

He deserves it.

Una go chop this one too?

Finding fun in a tragedy.

Meatloaf....legend

It's amazing the hold traditional and cultural indoctrinations have on some people.A doctor yet can't reason properly because of culture.

Na wa o.She must be a cantankerous woman.

Research has confirmed that a lot of first born children are not children of the men their mothers married.

See a dermatologist.The issue could be due to skin infections,a hormonal issue or your diet.

He wants to be controversial obviously.

Pastors shouldn't be talking like this.Yes,God has blessed you but these kinds of words are often misconstrued.

Nice one.Baba born plenty sha.

What a way to die.

Congrats to them.Now their daughter has a 'rival'.
E be like say this one na fair pikin.Na 1-1 goaless draw for dem.

He should have known better as a security personnel himself.

Try and look for money and complete your studies first.
You can train on your own in the meanwhile.You can always go back to boxing.

He should avoid contesting for the ball with his head for now.

Keep at it.The storm will be over.

It's a cat most likely.

Lol,these guys are getting more invasive and daring.

Nyascobar1414:
Aunty is feeling Big...
A sensible man cant marry and feel so committed at this era to a female...
Cos Ion see your worth..
Your toto smells, you also menstruate and relaease that stench blood...
So with all these, how would a man tie the knot with a female..

Its just to set an agreement, he gets you impregnated pay you..
And you GTFOutta his life simple..

Stop being so derogatory.
You came through one and the process brought you forth.

There are those who don't want to live abroad.Leaving her kids and husband may be too much for her to bear.

athaliya:
If he's asking for 50-50 then he should have figured these out right?

Yea.

Yes,you have an ideal home with what you have written here.
Make sure he agrees and maybe even sign documented agreements before you tie the knot.

DubaiLandLord2:
Nah because we never get president who is determine to make it work you dey talk like this.

Atk1nson:
There is only incompetence....let's stop giving these guys an undeserved softlanding.

Has anybody been fingered or prosecuted for sabotaging the sector?

That's where the conspiracy is.Who owns the companies in the sector?Who owns companies dealing in generator supplies and diesel?
It's the same people in power.

There's so much conspiracy and sabotage when it comes to electricity supply that it's almost like it will never work.

I know this will never happen as this is the same story he's been giving me for six years now.

This is enough reason to get the place.
You have been living apart for six years so this doesn't make any difference.If he won't visit the place,you visit where he stays and spend some time there from time to time.
He has unnecessary ego.

Datboredberry:
I do too.. but I'm talking about the judgmental attitude towards sex...

Nowhere in my first comment made mention of sex.Learn to read right.