Romance › Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by ThothHermes: 10:53am On Apr 08, 2020 |
Life is spiritual. It is what is on your head that determines what goes on around you. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Seeing Demons, Angels, Fallen Angels, Spirits.. - Hsp's by ThothHermes: 8:19pm On Apr 07, 2020 |
I have a recurring dream about being unprepared for an examination. That is I have an exam tomorrow morning in the drew. and I'm not prepared a night before.
I have been dreaming this over and over again. I need help please.
CharlyG1 and other experts. Thank you. |
Politics › Re: Nwulu Converts Mansion To Tennis Court, Urges Nigerians To Comply With Lockdown by ThothHermes: 7:58pm On Apr 07, 2020 |
EverestdeBliu: Has the meaning of the word 'Convert' been changed in the dictionary.
Someone is using a dining table to toss a tennis ball, and OP rushed with the caption '....convert mansion to a tennis court.'
Is this a court?   |
Family › Re: Indecisive And Unhappy. Advice Pla by ThothHermes: 4:34pm On Apr 06, 2020 |
cococandy: Lmao  It's funny abi  Unfortunately, it's the only solution that will not destroy the home. Her eternal resentment will only poison and make her miserable.  Forgiveness and acceptance is the hard but best solution...and it's the key as well  It seems her mind is already made up. She's just looking for encouragement to do what she has already decided to do...and there's no shortage of that here. |
Family › Re: Indecisive And Unhappy. Advice Pla by ThothHermes: 7:50am On Apr 06, 2020 |
Brazenbabe: His family is in on it. He would go ahead to make a 2nd and 3rd baby with her. No baby mama is threatening him, he knows what he is doing. Get used to the fact that the woman is your Co wife. He would pay for her bride price and tell you 10 years after. He would say the woman refused to let him see the boy unless he marries her. He would say she seduced him into the getting her pregnant again. The earlier you remove love and other mushy emotions and make rational decisions that would help you move forward, the better for you. Start by dissolving the joint account By now, you should have even stopped contributing to the house expenses. Since he wants to be a typical entitled randy naija husband with misplaced ego. Give it back to him by letting him bear the cost of all your responsibilities. If he has enough time to get a woman pregnant, he has enough time to make more money
PS: This is the best time to make your demands, and share your assets with him. Now that he is still feeling guilty and pussy footing around the issue. He would be quick to do whatever yob you say to appease you. Act fast before his family get involved and embolden him, else you are leaving the marriage with nothing. Just Negodu. This one is always bitter. You need deliverance.  |
Family › Re: Indecisive And Unhappy. Advice Pla by ThothHermes: 7:48am On Apr 06, 2020 |
A very hard and painful situation. Look beyond your pain and allow him take care of the child.
Be kind to the child and even the woman (very hard I know).
It will do two things. One, save you from bitterness and anger which poisons only you. Secondly it will connect you to the grace of fruitfulness which you don't have. If you do these things, you will conceive and give birth so quickly you will not believe it. I guarantee you this in the Name of the Most High.
If you can find time, download and listen to the message "Commanding Results" by Apostle Joshua Selman. Do this I beg you. |
Health › Re: 5G Network: Can It Cause Cancer or COVID-19? by ThothHermes: 12:10pm On Apr 05, 2020 |
Nigeriabiafra80: Are you the inventor of 5G Who told 5G is 10^9hertz And you can't know the wavelength if you are not the inventor, Just like you can't calculate the exact power being generated from a particular engine If you're not the inventor Lol. The same way people believe their pastors is the same way he believes what he read in a textbook or an article, yet he's taking the high ground.  |
Family › Re: My Brother Raped My 11 Years Old House Help by ThothHermes: 12:50pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
Brazenbabe: The dumb trio should shock me naaaa  Give an appropriate punishment for the rapist please. The appropriate punishment is whatever the law says it is Pigs would fly first before whatever y'all say would make sense to me
A brain will be required for this to happen. |
Romance › Re: clp by ThothHermes: 12:46pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: clp by ThothHermes: 12:00pm On Apr 03, 2020 |
Start downloading and listening to the teachings of David Oyedepo on financial dominion.
Don't allow children of perdition to dissuade you. |
Family › Re: My Brother Raped My 11 Years Old House Help by ThothHermes: 11:54am On Apr 03, 2020 |
Acidosis: But the guy you quoted is right. Throwing out your brother is not the punishment for rape. That one is frustrated. The thread is just an outlet to vent. Leave her be. |
Family › Re: My Brother Raped My 11 Years Old House Help by ThothHermes: 11:38am On Apr 03, 2020 |
asapeola: See not every family b like ur own! When ur female relatives (infant or old) get raped, ur own family can have an Umu-Nna meeting and present an award to the rapist! Every body cannot be like u! So stop forcing us pls.  |
Family › Re: My Brother Raped My 11 Years Old House Help by ThothHermes: 11:24am On Apr 03, 2020 |
Bla bla... Dem still dey on the matter.
When this kind of thing happens in your family and half of your family members are saying "let's settle it as a family matter," then you will realize that "rape apologists", "cultists", and all what-not are also in your family.
The internet is a great place to live out ones fantasies. |
Family › Re: My Heart Cry As A Scammer And I'm Ready To Give My Life To Christ But... by ThothHermes: 8:14am On Apr 03, 2020 |
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Family › Re: COVID-19: I Pity Poor Men With Many Children by ThothHermes: 8:10am On Apr 03, 2020 |
ahnie: Born as you can cater for....I can only feed two kids...God has given me what I begged him for. Hear ye the word of the Lord...by this time next year, you shall carry your twins. |
Family › Re: My Brother Raped My 11 Years Old House Help by ThothHermes: 8:04am On Apr 03, 2020 |
crackkhaus: Only in the mind of a dimwitted hypocrite can identifying hypocrisy be the same thing as abetting a crime.  The emotional tantrums on the Internet  You obviously can never understand the above when your mind is not developed enough to understand it. Thinking is very hard work And I'm not speaking for you or anyone else, I only made a play on your self-interest and I will say it again.. YOU will not have your brother arrested for raping your maid.
You can only deceive yourself here. The truth of this matter is that most people in the world will sweep this matter this under the carpet or find a gentler solution, including these champions of fake morality that have flooded the thread. |
Family › Re: My Brother Raped My 11 Years Old House Help by ThothHermes: 7:53am On Apr 03, 2020 |
yeyeosoronga: Nobody moves on from rape. They never do. You don't know this. You cannot know this. It takes a long time even if rape victims are lucky to get the right support, before they can even try to have a resemblance of normal life and relationships. You have contra dicted your first sentence. If their victims are never punished, they cannot move on. You are making things up now.  How can you possibly know this. I have seem too many young women, with their lives ruined, suffering from mental health issues because of trauma like this in their past. You must be at least 60 to have this kind of experience. Where did you see the many young women... Busola Dakolo came out after so many years despite the celebrity status, motherhood and 'wifehood'. Her husband confirmed she kept having nightmares for so long after they married till she was able to trust him with her experience, Yet many say she is telling lies and that she enjoyed it. Her own family were not able to get justice for her, but she still wanted it even after 17 years. Her husband could have easily said let's forget it, because it may 'tarnish' their image and the accused is also popular but he did the right thing for his wife. Hearsay. You can't be sure that any rape happened o. Can you swear on your life that Madam Dakolo was raped  We enjoy covering up evil so much till it becomes a cancer that spreads and finally destroys. Nigerians have to learn to do the right thing. And here lies the meat of the matter and the thread. The OP is in a dilemma. Her love for her brother and her concern about the plight of her maid. It's easy to shout "crucify him, crucify him" when you have zero attachment to the perpetrator. Let your brother rape someone and you'll see whether you'll be able to hand him to the authorities in a flash, especially when it's a brother you've gone through mutual suffering (remember she said they are orphans) with. Mutual suffering is a phenomenon you might want to read about later. Bottom line: Not everything is black or white. |
Family › Re: My Brother Raped My 11 Years Old House Help by ThothHermes: 7:33am On Apr 03, 2020 |
Brazenbabe: Yes, I am frustrated by the kind of pain that girl is going through You are just useless I swear Nah. It's something else that's frustrating you. The thread is just an outlet. Look inwards  |
Romance › Re: . by ThothHermes: 7:08am On Apr 03, 2020 |
rhodman:
 Why are new members not qualified? Because they are not really new members  |
Family › Re: My Brother Raped My 11 Years Old House Help by ThothHermes: 6:42am On Apr 03, 2020 |
Brazenbabe: You are very stupid for saying this Your foolishness knows no bounds An 11 year old child was raped through the vagina and anus repeatedly and you think she can just move on like that? Hear yourself "a raped child" When they rape your daughters pat them on the back. OK? When they sodomize your sons, take the rapists for counseling. After all, they would get over it. So a rapist is a sinner who needs redemption? Why are we now complaining that Buhari is rehabilitating Boko Haram You people's foolishness is just wonderful  Frustration |
Family › Re: My Brother Raped My 11 Years Old House Help by ThothHermes: 12:18am On Apr 03, 2020 |
crackkhaus: There is an infestation of self-righteous hypocritical persons on this thread.
As if any of you can have your blood brother arrested if you were to be the one in the OP's position. You are really smart. The posters have no attachment to the boy, so it's easy to call for his head. While they see a criminal who should put to the sword, the OP sees a sinner that is not beyond redemption. It is a dilemma really. The posters shouting traumatized and scarred for life bla bla bla are only saying things they see in Hollywood movies. They have no experience with any child that has been raped. Just emotions. A raped child can recover and live a full life. |
Romance › Re: It Is A Lie, Mr Oyedepo Did Not Donate Anything !!! by ThothHermes: 9:13pm On Mar 30, 2020 |
BadRadio: he mustn't donate, but it's better he parades himself as a vicious politician than a humble and harmless religious leader! Oyedepo has done more for humanity than your entire lineage. This is not an insult. Keep heaping hot coals on your head. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Coronavirus: Bishop Oyedepo To Donate Ambulances And Medical Equipment (Pics) by ThothHermes: 9:08pm On Mar 30, 2020 |
GboyegaD: Medicine after death. After exposing some ignorant people, why then pretend to be humane? You have any proof anyone was exposed  Why not be objective as per your signature? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Coronavirus: Bishop Oyedepo To Donate Ambulances And Medical Equipment (Pics) by ThothHermes: 9:05pm On Mar 30, 2020 |
greypencils: I have an issue o. We don't want ambulances from Oyedepo, we want prophetic healing. Let him go to all those who are infected with Covid19...Did Jesus donate ambulance in the bible? Greater works than these shall ye do, Jesus declared and ye, Oyedepo and co are the current men of God. let'em go and heal the sick o. The sick went to meet Jesus. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Coronavirus: Bishop Oyedepo To Donate Ambulances And Medical Equipment (Pics) by ThothHermes: 9:04pm On Mar 30, 2020 |
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Family › Re: How Do I Get Rid Of Ants In The House by ThothHermes: 2:05pm On Mar 30, 2020 |
Ordinary ant na im you dey find advice  Na wa o. |
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Romance › Re: Topsquino Is Fake. by ThothHermes: 6:33pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
GuyWise101: Was closely following, hoping that something gonna drop, didn't know he was also hungry. I don't believe he is fake. That's a known moniker. Nairaland does not like any kind of free promotion. But I'm sure the guy wanted to give away the money. The Topsquino is legit. |
Travel › Re: I Am Traveling From Asaba To Onitsha Today, This Is How Prepared I Am (Photos) by ThothHermes: 3:48pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
topsquino: I've been on this platform since 2007. Thank you Seun for Nairaland.
I feel this is the right time to give back to the community.
I'm doing a 1 MILLION NAIRA giveaway today by 6pm
Please check my post today 6pm so that you won't miss out.
You can also check my profile to confirm my credibility.
I clean like slate and gentle like dove. This is topsquino. Definitely for real. I dey here till six. |
Romance › Re: My Young Brother Is Always Watching Gay Porn by ThothHermes: 11:09am On Mar 28, 2020 |
fykes: I wasn't talking to kids. Oga you are gay abeg.  How can you watch gay porn and not be irritated? I can even stop watching a movie because of a gay scene. Closet homo...  |
Romance › Re: My Young Brother Is Always Watching Gay Porn by ThothHermes: 11:00am On Mar 28, 2020 |
fykes: Relax dude....ur bros may not be gay. He's just an inquisitive boy. Most straight people do watch gay porn... They won't tell u... It's more like, let's see what it's all about.
However, d fact he even watches porn as a teen is a big red light. You are not serious at all. Are you among the most straight people? |
Health › Re: How Prepared Are You For Total Lockdown In Lagos, Other Parts Of Nigeria? by ThothHermes: 2:50pm On Mar 26, 2020 |
Tomorrow will take care of itself. Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof. |