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A very hard and painful situation. Look beyond your pain and allow him take care of the child. Be kind to the child and even the woman (very hard I know). It will do two things. One, save you from bitterness and anger which poisons only you. Secondly it will connect you to the grace of fruitfulness which you don't have. If you do these things, you will conceive and give birth so quickly you will not believe it. I guarantee you this in the Name of the Most High. If you can find time, download and listen to the message "Commanding Results" by Apostle Joshua Selman. Do this I beg you. |
Nigeriabiafra80:Lol. The same way people believe their pastors is the same way he believes what he read in a textbook or an article, yet he's taking the high ground. ![]() |
Brazenbabe:The appropriate punishment is whatever the law says it is Pigs would fly first before whatever y'all say would make sense to meA brain will be required for this to happen. |
Magnoliaa: ![]() |
Start downloading and listening to the teachings of David Oyedepo on financial dominion. Don't allow children of perdition to dissuade you. |
Acidosis:That one is frustrated. The thread is just an outlet to vent. Leave her be. |
asapeola: ![]() |
Bla bla... Dem still dey on the matter. When this kind of thing happens in your family and half of your family members are saying "let's settle it as a family matter," then you will realize that "rape apologists", "cultists", and all what-not are also in your family. The internet is a great place to live out ones fantasies. |
shortgun:Wicked format. |
ahnie:Hear ye the word of the Lord...by this time next year, you shall carry your twins. |
crackkhaus:The emotional tantrums on the Internet ![]() You obviously can never understand the above when your mind is not developed enough to understand it.Thinking is very hard work And I'm not speaking for you or anyone else, I only made a play on your self-interest and I will say it again.. YOU will not have your brother arrested for raping your maid.The truth of this matter is that most people in the world will sweep this matter this under the carpet or find a gentler solution, including these champions of fake morality that have flooded the thread. |
yeyeosoronga:You don't know this. You cannot know this. It takes a long time even if rape victims are lucky to get the right support, before they can even try to have a resemblance of normal life and relationships.You have contra dicted your first sentence. If their victims are never punished, they cannot move on.You are making things up now. How can you possibly know this. I have seem too many young women, with their lives ruined, suffering from mental health issues because of trauma like this in their past.You must be at least 60 to have this kind of experience. Where did you see the many young women... Busola Dakolo came out after so many years despite the celebrity status, motherhood and 'wifehood'. Her husband confirmed she kept having nightmares for so long after they married till she was able to trust him with her experience, Yet many say she is telling lies and that she enjoyed it. Her own family were not able to get justice for her, but she still wanted it even after 17 years. Her husband could have easily said let's forget it, because it may 'tarnish' their image and the accused is also popular but he did the right thing for his wife.Hearsay. You can't be sure that any rape happened o. Can you swear on your life that Madam Dakolo was raped ![]() We enjoy covering up evil so much till it becomes a cancer that spreads and finally destroys.And here lies the meat of the matter and the thread. The OP is in a dilemma. Her love for her brother and her concern about the plight of her maid. It's easy to shout "crucify him, crucify him" when you have zero attachment to the perpetrator. Let your brother rape someone and you'll see whether you'll be able to hand him to the authorities in a flash, especially when it's a brother you've gone through mutual suffering (remember she said they are orphans) with. Mutual suffering is a phenomenon you might want to read about later. Bottom line: Not everything is black or white. |
Brazenbabe:Nah. It's something else that's frustrating you. The thread is just an outlet. Look inwards ![]() |
rhodman:Because they are not really new members ![]() |
Brazenbabe: ![]() Frustration |
crackkhaus:You are really smart. The posters have no attachment to the boy, so it's easy to call for his head. While they see a criminal who should put to the sword, the OP sees a sinner that is not beyond redemption. It is a dilemma really. The posters shouting traumatized and scarred for life bla bla bla are only saying things they see in Hollywood movies. They have no experience with any child that has been raped. Just emotions. A raped child can recover and live a full life. |
BadRadio:Oyedepo has done more for humanity than your entire lineage. This is not an insult. Keep heaping hot coals on your head. |
GboyegaD:You have any proof anyone was exposed ![]() Why not be objective as per your signature? |
greypencils:The sick went to meet Jesus. |
clemmonce: |
Ordinary ant na im you dey find advice ![]() Na wa o. |
GuyWise101:I don't believe he is fake. That's a known moniker. Nairaland does not like any kind of free promotion. But I'm sure the guy wanted to give away the money. The Topsquino is legit. |
topsquino:This is topsquino. Definitely for real. I dey here till six. |
fykes:Oga you are gay abeg. ![]() How can you watch gay porn and not be irritated? I can even stop watching a movie because of a gay scene. Closet homo... ![]() |
fykes:You are not serious at all. Are you among the most straight people? |
Tomorrow will take care of itself. Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof. |
Vega100:No mind am. Na for internet dem dey get mouth. |
Magnoliaa:People like you will always put their heads in the sand and reap the consequences. Morality is mainly a woman's problem. If you like claim equality from now till tomorrow. ![]() What makes the man a good husband material is his ability to provide. Doesn't really matter if he has sevensomes. On the other hand, a party diminishes a woman's market value. That's why the OP still has a problem despite all her other "good" qualities PS: I think this is a fake story by the way. |
Apostle Joshua Selman. Great man of God. This man has changed my life. I honour you Sir. |
Jaqenhghar:It might still happen. Let them win more. The more trophies Liverpool win, the more valuable that piece of paper gets. |
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