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You are trying to cage women abi

Stop trying to police their bodies.

You don't tell men how to behave but you want to tell women what to do and how to do it.

This is not the 20th century. That's how they prevented from voting
Slut-shamers will go to hell.

lutherjay:
Believe me bruh.its not that easy.

What is not easy

Stilling your thoughts is not easy.

nwanneni:
you just have to know that there is no such thing as dignity without substance(money)
People argue this all the time but it's true.
So bro hustle anyhow to achieve your dream.achievements give courage and makes a person fearless.
You can even go to dinners in shorts and if anyone dares to complain or look at you somehow,you give he or she the embargo of his/her life...lol.money good o baba
As for courage,that one na small thing na.
Always take alcohol and be a little tipsy when going for business deals.works for me all the time(males you a beast in negotiating) and it's my nature to be fearless somehow..lol
Guy explore and just give one thing a try and you might get surprised!this is from my personal experience.
I got the idea that helped me much in life over sharing cans of hot Heineken with my best friend at the time

Strongly disagree but I get the point.

lutherjay:
Is your mom or dad like that ?
Both my parents are ill-tempered and my dad is not the forgiving type so are most of his brothers and sisters. I inherited both characters from them which sometimes it helps and most times, I still regret my actions till today.
I guess I grew up to realise that these two things were making me to loose the people I should have held closer.

Mind you, it sticks with u for ever.You just need to learn how to outgrow it.

I think there's a solution to this -- Meditation
Try to still your thoughts. Attain vacancy. I don't think it's possible for anyone to have anger issues if this is a part of your routine.


Michelle55

What is the difference between lack of courage, pride, and trying to preserve your dignity?

I think knowing the difference is my problem now.
Would have been farther than I am now if I could tell the difference.

Damn.

Mass mind.

It's being glamorized. So people now think it's a way out.
They don't weigh otherwise option.

It wasn't this high when the corpses of people who took their lives were thrown into a forest and their families ostracized or made to carry out sacrifices to appease the gods of the land their dead relative had defiled.

It's a theory though.

daddytime:
This is your downtime my friend and the process of passing through life's NYSC, if you can persevere and hold through legitimately, you'd understand how you aren't the first and certainly won't be the last to be facing this.


All I can tell you is, keep keeping strong. This phase will fizzle out even without any help financially from here.

Make una no dey fear life...

This was helpful. Thanks.

Another feminist is born

Judge self go confuse for the matter.

adeyemi91:
Someone just narrated the story to me not quite long.. Never knew twas dah complicated..

RIP to the dead.

Narrate am for us na

OsuMustGo:
LIES

Okay.
Test it with this post.

majamajic:
it a lie, the ones people deleted I still see them deleted on my phone, once u report a post, it's deleted for everyone

You can only report a post. Only a mod can delete a post.

Test: report this post of mine and see the magic.

CHoccolaTE:
Women don't seek out 'higher' men because they want to submit to them. What a very laughable notion.

Hahaha
Very laughable.
I did not say they want to. They have to.

Nature made it so that women seek out more dominant[/b]men to reproduce with because the women wanted their offspring to carry the strong dominant genes of those men to increase their likelihood of surviving in a harsh and competitive environment. You are making my point. The desire to be with someone whose dominance you can take. That's submission right there [quote]That's just how females evolved

Evolved to be submissive. I agree.

Every living human desires freedom.

Submission does not take away your freedom. If you disagree show how.

Nobody wants to subject themselves to another persons authority except maybe they have been brainwashed by religions or society to think they have to submit to others.

You make it sound so vile A captain is the leader of a football team. Other players will submit to his authority when there is need. Doesn't mean they are his vassals. It's the same thing.

You sound like one of those very young boys who have never had a girlfriend

#In Shao Khan's voice#
Finish him
Brutality
Chocolate wins

If you stay in close proximity with a woman for any considerable period of time you will see their vicious and rebellious and manipulative side then you will realize that the notion of women being naturally submissive is crap.

It is magnitude of times easier to manipulate a man you are submissive to. His defences are always compromised.

Women would have contributed more if men were not depriving them of education and advancement telling them their place is in the kitchen. Or at home, submitting to men. Women were deprived of many of their rights in the past, rights to educational and to vote. Or just read the bible to see some of the animalistic injustices meted out to them, forcing them to marry their rapist, killing her if she didn't shout loud enough when getting molested, in the past women couldn't inherit property because they were considered property to be traded away in marriage.

That's in the past. What is stopping them in 2019.

Besides men have equally contributed just as much carnage and destruction to humanity as they have contributed whatever inventions you are talking about.

I don't disagree. Don't know what you are on about.

OsuMustGo:



I JUST HERE TO DELETE ALL 9JA BET AND MTN CREDIT SCAMMER'S POST

Are you a mod
You can only delete them for yourself. Every other person continues to see them.
To confirm: The next you "delete" a post, log out and click on the thread as a guest, you'll see the "deleted" post is still there. Log in and you won't see it again.
It's an illusion. Only a mod can delete them.

Sorry.

CHoccolaTE:
OK, you want love to be part of the package along with submission but if I said men should also submit to their wives along with loving them you will not agree.

I am guessing you've never been never been in love. You cannot fail to submit if you love. It's nature. Women will always seek out higher men. Those they can submit to.

I am not forming feminist, I have equality and justice fight in my DNA.

That's what they all say. It's no equality you want. It's equal outcomes.
There is no forming.

And I am not obsessed with men, I wish you all will just go away and maybe all the robberies and rapes and criminality the male folk perpetuate will drastically reduce.
This your statement was to provoke me, I knew but I just had to make my stand clear.

A stand built on falsehood and mischief.
Men also build civilizations, if they left development will also come to a grinding halt. It's a two-way street

CHoccolaTE:
But they are the ones saying women need to show submission to husbands while men need to show love. Have they became tired and realized that they also need love instead of only submission?

Submission is enough. Love is part of the package. Of course you would agree with a thread that tends to weaken a man's position even if it is clearly made up crap.

Nonsense and ingredients

See all the threads you have created.
Men, men, men!

Obsessed with men. Still forming feminist.
Fighting your nature. You can never win. Nature always prevails.

asalimpo:
this isnt true. I've noticed d same issue. If u r smart or cerebral, u'll find ur choice of suitable dates shrinks terribly. Most nigerian women r so hollow nd empty tht a non-shallow conversation throws them off. They'll hate u for d experience of trying to get them to use their minds. I've known many women in real life,whom conversation dries up after d empty pleasantries.

I'm starting to think they don't exist.

Andrea Pirlo. One of the most elegant players ever

I think therefore I play.

CorGier:
it sucks doesn't it?

And guess what, all it takes to feel entitled to the good things of life is just a pair of títs and some àss to go along with. While we on the other hand should strive, scratch and claw our way to the top. To make decent men of ourselves just so we could stand a chance to be considered good enough.

Until we can get püssy off our respective pedestals, we'll all keep slaving for the love of women.

It can't be helped. There's a primal, innate drive to do it. It's our nature.

Frustration.

You are struggling with your "decision".

That's why you need to open a thread.
Seeking validation upandan.

Can't you report him to the police

Or get a huge male to threaten him?
In advanced countries a restraining would have been all you required.
Watch your back.

catwalq:
Yes I may not agree with your article, and yes I do not mind a discussion at any time.. But I respect your work.
That's what sane individuals do.

The nerve of him telling me to fvck off

What paragraph do disagree with?
Please highlight it.

ImaIma1:
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It hasn't failed. Can't you see the followers swallowing it hook line and sinker like zombies. You ain't seen anything yet.

The OP is somewhat the god of the weak men on Nairaland.

Cry cry baby. The truth is always unpleasant. Point out one line of that thread that is untrue.
I know you can't.
This is common knowledge. If you are doing the chasing then you are at a disadvantage. This applies to men as well as women. Don't know what you are getting worked up for.

Mayor08:
Wow... Though its still yet to be confirmed but if it falls through i will be so happy... He really deserves it, it is quite obvious he is going to be a starter.. A great player who took out time and worked for everything... A week in week out performer, gives his all every day.. One of the few nigerian players who grew his carrer and not so much his bank account... To me he is just behind Kante and Fernandinho in epl.. .
Still on still united go still remain 6th

To fall through means to fail.

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