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FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by ThothHermes: 4:44pm On Jun 21, 2019
liberalchick:
now you are moving the goal post. I didn’t argue the merits or demerits of it. Was just stating a fact.

The bolded is statistically inaccurate.

Yes.
Kindly demonstrate this inaccuracy.

People have choices. But factors beyond their control might force to settle for less. Marrying such women is settling for less. As any unfortunate man in such a situation would agree. A woman with high body count is damaged goods.
Shikena.
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by ThothHermes: 4:39pm On Jun 21, 2019
bukatyne:
Satyriasis (also satyromania) is the corresponding condition to nymphomania in men.
https://www.google.com/search?ei=l_YMXd_QArqG1fAPo5OP0AY&q=a+male+version+of+nymphomanic+is&oq=a+male+version+of+nymphomanic+is&gs_l=psy-ab.3...3631.15285..15485...3.0..1.556.7444.0j17j15j1j0j1......0....1..gws-wiz.......0i131j0j0i22i30j33i22i29i30.hB3ecTI5-DI

Satyriasis - Urban Dictionary
https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Satyriasis
Uncontrollable sexual desire in a man's behavior. ... But unfortunately there are some people--it is called satyriasis in men, nymphomania in women--who engage in it compulsively and without joy. ... The male version of a nympho.

Bed hopping is a sign of an underlying disorder in men or women.
Never seen a man suffering from this. I'm quite certain it's this politically correct people that have invented and classified it as a disorder. grin

A balancing act. Nothing like that.
Kai.
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by ThothHermes: 4:29pm On Jun 21, 2019
liberalchick:
lol how is it a lie when this is literally some people’s realities right now? Have you never heard of a man marrying a prostitute? Because it is not something you would do, doesn’t mean another man will not do it. The world is huge.
Pointing out exceptions is not a good way to advance your position.

It's only men with baggages of their own than marry prostitutes, pornstars, etc. There is always a compromise somewhere.
You WILL NEVER see a man who has everything going for him settle for those kinds of women.
NEVER!

Love dey see road. grin

Would you want your brother/son to marry such women?
There's your answer right there.
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by ThothHermes: 3:57pm On Jun 21, 2019
bukatyne:
Well someone who loves sex with different partners is a slut.

Male or female.
Male -- Player, stud, womanizer (at worst). All terms of endearment

Female -- Slut, Olosho.


Stop mixing things up grin
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by ThothHermes: 3:54pm On Jun 21, 2019
liberalchick:
So how do you know it’s unnatural for a woman to be ‘licentiousness’? Why is it natural for men?
I don't know. It just is.

Nymphomania is a medical disorder. I've never seen a male nymphomaniac. grin
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by ThothHermes: 3:48pm On Jun 21, 2019
bukatyne:
You are taking anonymous jambites and jobless men serious?

Put it on your real facebook page with your family following then we can have a convo.
I'm waiting for anonymous women and jambites to open their own version. cheesy

Some famous men have given staggering figures you know?

Tiger woods -- 300 plus

Antonio Cassano -- 700 plus

Lamar Odom -- 150 plus??

All documented. Straight from the horses' mouths.

These are the ones I know off the top of my head. cheesy

What do you think Giacomo Casanova was famous for tongue tongue
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by ThothHermes: 3:36pm On Jun 21, 2019
liberalchick:
So are you saying it’s not natural for some women to like sex?
It's not natural for women to be licentious.

Is "liking sex" a synonym for licentiousnesshuh
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by ThothHermes: 3:34pm On Jun 21, 2019
bukatyne:
Do guys share theirs?
Are you a learner?

Some even inflate figures grin It's a thing of pride grin

What do you think happens on this thread?

https://www.nairaland.com/4957496/ashewo-beer-parlour-share-ashewo/1362
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by ThothHermes: 1:35pm On Jun 21, 2019
liberalchick:
This is an example of a double standard, why are women shamed for having a high body count, but a man is not? Why would they be instinctively shamed? Would a man have same emotions?

Because a lot of people on this thread will not behave like the girls doesn’t mean some won’t fight and protect to have a society where these girls’ choices will be as validated as a man’s. You don’t have to participate in something to fight for the right for someone else to do it. That is how organized societies are built.

What are immoral behaviors? Who decides what is immoral or not?
Nature.

Are you trying to legislate naturehuh
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by ThothHermes: 1:33pm On Jun 21, 2019
bukatyne:
Funny.

A lot of people on this thread would not behave like the girls in the cinema in the first place.

They instinctively know it is wrong.

There is also a reason most people women hide their body count when it is high: they are instinctively ashamed

Same with other immoral behaviours.
Fixed.
tongue
CelebritiesRe: Frank Edoho Claps Back At A Follower Who Tweeted At Him And It's Brutal by ThothHermes: 7:56am On Jun 21, 2019
Durhleepee:
I'm still very sad at how the show ended when I was just gearing up to get to the hot seat.
Me too.
RomanceRe: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by ThothHermes: 9:49pm On Jun 20, 2019
Logobenz:
I dey race with anybody undecided I'm living my life as it comes.no responsibility or anyone to please or account for.
See this one o.enyia go find better mattress sleep and think about your headway.
No worry about logobenz.
Men don dey alright and don chop up cool cool
Yen yen yen.
Yes. Show your true self. No come dey form philosopher wey you no be because you open thread.

To thine self be true -- Shakespeare
RomanceRe: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by ThothHermes: 9:42pm On Jun 20, 2019
Logobenz:
bro it's not too late!
First it seems like you've got a good job.
I think you should focus on getting fixed assets more.
You'll start again,dust yourself and continue with life now.
Stop making investments into things you don't know about!I never do it.
If it's something I don't understand,Bleep it.I'm not doing it.
Life no be race!!!forget your mates.looking at people from the outside can be deceiving.
Grow at your pace and stop carrying women.it cost a lot to fund that passion.(from experience)

Goodluck mate
You wey go insult people say dem no get this and that. Post car, post food, post even AC say you don "achieve" everything at 27. Na you still open mouth dey talk say life no be race. Better madness dey your head. You need psychiatric evaluation.
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by ThothHermes: 9:09pm On Jun 20, 2019
desvi:
am just not interested in copy&paste opinions
This is even more pitiable than the first excuse. grin
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by ThothHermes: 8:58pm On Jun 20, 2019
desvi:
you are a disgrace to manhood
shocked shocked shocked

In other words, you have run of gas. They are less ridiculous ways to admit that though. grin
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by ThothHermes: 8:56pm On Jun 20, 2019
sassysure:
Tell them my dear.
It was worst then.
Husbands will take official concubines. They call the courtesans. Wives will stay at home breeding, cooking and sowing clothes while courtesans, today's side chick will be at the court with the men learning the art of war, politics, literatures and what have you. Men go to their wives if they want to breed but when they need pleasure from the opposite sex, they go to these ladies.
Infact, mothers train their daughters to be official prostitutes. The men lavish these ladies with everything they can't give their wives yet now women have finally found their footing, they have become immoral and lost their charm abi mystique

Okay o.
Low-born ladieshuh
Would these men you speak of have allowed their own daughters to be courtesans to other men?
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by ThothHermes: 8:50pm On Jun 20, 2019
desvi:
who runs the pòrn industry?
there are no male actors?
or do you only watch lesbian pòrn?
Men run everything in the world cheesy

A man is wired is hump any and everything.

Women can exercise far more restraint. The burden of decency should and rightly does rest far more on women.
The standards are not the same. Stop trying to make it the same. Just like the standard for achievements are not the same for men and women. This is why women are slut-shamed everywhere and not. It's physiology. Not society.
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by ThothHermes: 8:45pm On Jun 20, 2019
crackhaus:
Has anyone here thought about how seemingly popular it is for 'liberated' women to want to exercise their liberation more in negative vices rather than positive ones?

- Men can be loud and talk about their sexual conquests, women should too. Liberation
- Men can sleep around and not be judged, women should too. Liberation.
- Men can be rude and not have to apologize for it, women should too. Liberation

Etc.

What happened to things like:
- Men have been the ones designing and building civilizations, women should begin doing this.
- Men go to space and walked on the moon, women should do that too.
- There are more male billionaires, women should aspire to this and match it.

Etc.


I just had to do this, despite my better judgment, because this is the substance I got from reading the OP, not what the majority of you are yapping about. I don't know what has happened to most women, but it seems a lot of you don't just have sense (pun intended).

Of course, those behaviours in men are equally bad...but in your so-called liberated minds, women should lower themselves to the same level of moral ineptitudes just to prove equality? Like are you people being serious?
Whatever happened to rising way above the negative things men can do/allowed to do and dignify yourselves by setting a new standard that should be emulated?

The regressive thinking being masked as progressiveness and liberation is astounding. May God help me to raise my daughter to not see men as her standard, but to set hers so men can then try to meet up.
The best way anyone should be able to do this is to build their personal library of books and literature from around the world.
If I were to ask how many of you have a library consisting of just 10 solid books with at least 500pages each, the lot of you will respond in the negative, yet you feel you know and understand anything. Where the hell then are you getting a deep knowledge of society and life in general from? From the internet? From just your own terribly limited subjective experiences?

Gosh this is becoming too much.
Ignorance has become the new fad, misinformation the new normal, simpletons the new intellectuals.

I rest.
Bukatyne take back your thread abeg. grin
grin
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by ThothHermes: 8:39pm On Jun 20, 2019
desvi:
the porn industry is male dominated but you decided to pick on the females
typical
Male dominated howhuh
Men consume porn far more than women. Guess who they are watching grin
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by ThothHermes: 8:32pm On Jun 20, 2019
doitforyou:
If my daughter is a grown adult, she is now independent, I no longer control her life. If that's what she says she wants to do, I will be sorely disappointed
Why would you be disappointed? It's a profession. She gets paid doing what she loves cheesy She could even become world-famous.
but at the end of the day she is grown and she makes her own choices and she will also be responsible for the consequences. It still doesn't affect you though.
It does. Porn affects us. Want me to start reeling out effects of porn. It would not be if women were not licentious, if they were not told to do what they like because it's their bodies.
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by ThothHermes: 8:15pm On Jun 20, 2019
doitforyou:
hahaha another woman sleeping around does not affect you in any way. You just want to force your values on people. Mind your business.
It does. Why not answer the rest of my questions angry
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by ThothHermes: 8:03pm On Jun 20, 2019
spongeisback:
Exactly! Whenever Africans bring up culture and religion just know they're about to infringe on someone's right. If a woman wants to have sex let her have sex, if she doesn't let her don't. No need to shame anyone for their choice after all you won't bear the consequences with them
Dead wrong. The consequences are far reaching. Economic, social, we can even argue spiritual. Everyone is affected eventually.

A thesis could be written on this.

That is why slut-shaming is a thing. It's not society. It's a mechanism we have evolved to protect ourselves.
Even those women who want the right to sleep around do not want their daughters to sleep around.
Yep. It's innate. cheesy

Would you want your daughter to sleep around in the name of not being shackled by culturehuh Would you like to see her in a porn.n flick??
What if what she wants is to have sex in front of the camera? grin
That's your answer right there.
RomanceRe: Lady Slams Man With Savage Reply After He Tried This ( Photos ) by ThothHermes: 8:14am On Jun 20, 2019
What is famhuh
CelebritiesRe: Tissy Nnachi Engages Nwafili, His Girlfriend On Her Birthday by ThothHermes: 9:19pm On Jun 19, 2019
razy75:
Manna u r behaving yourself these days. What's the secret?
Zombie salary has been stopped.
FamilyRe: Have Women Lost Their Feminine Mystique? by ThothHermes: 9:15pm On Jun 19, 2019
You are trying to cage women abihuh

Stop trying to police their bodies. angry

You don't tell men how to behave but you want to tell women what to do and how to do it. cheesy

This is not the 20th century. That's how they prevented from voting grin grin
Slut-shamers will go to hell. cheesy
RomanceRe: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by ThothHermes: 9:01pm On Jun 19, 2019
lutherjay:
Believe me bruh.its not that easy.
What is not easyhuh

Stilling your thoughts is not easy.
RomanceRe: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by ThothHermes: 8:47pm On Jun 19, 2019
nwanneni:
you just have to know that there is no such thing as dignity without substance(money)
People argue this all the time but it's true.
So bro hustle anyhow to achieve your dream.achievements give courage and makes a person fearless.
You can even go to dinners in shorts and if anyone dares to complain or look at you somehow,you give he or she the embargo of his/her life...lol.money good o baba
As for courage,that one na small thing na.
Always take alcohol and be a little tipsy when going for business deals.works for me all the time(males you a beast in negotiating) and it's my nature to be fearless somehow..lol cheesy
Guy explore and just give one thing a try and you might get surprised!this is from my personal experience.
I got the idea that helped me much in life over sharing cans of hot Heineken with my best friend at the time grin
Strongly disagree but I get the point.
RomanceRe: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by ThothHermes: 8:44pm On Jun 19, 2019
lutherjay:
Is your mom or dad like that ?
Both my parents are ill-tempered and my dad is not the forgiving type so are most of his brothers and sisters. I inherited both characters from them which sometimes it helps and most times, I still regret my actions till today.
I guess I grew up to realise that these two things were making me to loose the people I should have held closer.

Mind you, it sticks with u for ever.You just need to learn how to outgrow it.
I think there's a solution to this -- Meditation
Try to still your thoughts. Attain vacancy. I don't think it's possible for anyone to have anger issues if this is a part of your routine.


Michelle55
RomanceRe: Share Your Biggest Problems Let's Try And Help Each Other Out by ThothHermes: 8:36pm On Jun 19, 2019
What is the difference between lack of courage, pride, and trying to preserve your dignity?

I think knowing the difference is my problem now.
Would have been farther than I am now if I could tell the difference.

Damn.

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