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. As for we in Jos here. We know mobilization money was given

Maybe she for won use you get free food

BigYash:
Virgins dey bro. Don't rush,you will find one. Not all girls are hoes,but na hoes many pass

True talk

BigName101:
first you will drop religion

I just want to know if there are religious discrimination against muslims over there and if there are available places to pray

I just came to check something.. I wish I was disappointed

No lie detected.

Some people above me are already justifying the killing of a foetus.

The foetus you are talking about has a human DNA and it is going to develop in to a human. Aborting or flushing as someone said up there is killing a potential and a harmless human.

Women go for abortion without considering the harm it can cause to their womb. If they cant get pregnant later in the future and their husband leaves them, they will start to complain.

Please, if you are a woman and your blood group is rhesus negative it is best to remain a virgin till marriage. If you get pregnant and you abort it, your chance of carrying your pregnancy till term again is 20%. Na so so miscarriage you go dy see.

Very true.

In this era of hookups, men can't afford to marry a leftover as a wife or to become a father to a bast*rd...
What I heard from a lady yesterday while she was talking to someone on the phone, which seems to be her friend shocked me. I was like God "How can we still find virgins in this Nigeria?"

Only God can stop Asiwaju.

Deegee7788:
U will not read the content. Na wetin Dem dey tell u be that?
Are u a virgin

No

For me no virginity to marriage.
I can't father a child with another man's gene in his/her DNA as a result the mother's promiscuity

Good for you.

God please save us from unfortun*te women

Feminists, men going there own way(MGTOW) and loneliness are like 5&6.. If you think you are smarter and more wiser than God that gave Eve to Adam when he was lonely, then expect something like this in a long run.

Be a feminist with direction and an alpha male with sense

I need an advice from guys and ladies in UK, US and Canada.

What is the hope for persons like me who is a muslim and hoping to move to any of these countries in the nearest future as a practice as a Medical laboratory scientist.

Please I am not talking about the job aspect, but the religion and social aspect.
Thanks.

Hotice085:
Ethopia that mohammed ran to for safety and have been dressing like this since creation
Some of you are just dumb

Muhammed ran to medina not ethiopia. It was some muslims that ran to ethiopia that were mostly christians.

We have to start statements with references.
Not just making statements without backup.
Because you think so doesn't make it correct, references makes it right

Aemmyjah:
A special ability given through the holy spirit to some disciples in the early Christian congregation that enabled them to preach or otherwise glorify God in a LANGUAGE other than their own.

According to the Bible, tongues means language... You've seen or heard verse that mention how people from every nation, tribes and tongues.
Today too, I may say that Efik is my mother's tongue


Speaking in tongues is not speaking in unintelligible nonsense
If you read the Bible, when the disciples were filled with holy spirit and spoke in tongues, the audience UNDERSTOOD them cos they were speaking in their own language (Acts 2: 4, 8 and 11)

Thank you very much for this.
I have read the verse before but I always notice that people interpret it differently but I don't argue with them before they will say I am jealous of them because they can speak in tongues

Eyinju112:
while I was growing, my mother told me if I allow a man see my private part I’d
get pregnant, and if I get pregnant she’d throw me out to the street to suffer, and during the suffering she’d deny me access to see her, my father and my brother. That was a hell of punishment I thought to myself, knowing fully well my mom is a disciplinary I never questioned her words. I got to secondary school still carrying that mentality until my teacher said a different thing......that you can only get pregnant after sex and if the opposite sex cum inside of you. I wasn’t sure who was lying because I saw my mother as a saint and the way she beats I and my elder brother whenever we told a lie, then I concluded my teacher was the liar until I was 15 and in SS2. A very close friend of mine got disflowered, she narrated how it happened and I told her confidently she was gonna get pregnant, I think I’m out of the box lol...that’s another gist lol
So back to my point, I don’t know if I’m correct with using every ladies but I’d say 90% of ladies were given same orientation my mother gave to me. Our mothers made us see sex as a whole big deal, my mother questions my virginity all the time, we saw it as something precious we could ever give to anyone. That is why a woman feels so bitter and angry towards herself after giving her body in a relationship and getting dumped. Infact some hate the men they once loved and if possible they’d wanna harm the guy because they feel cheated. It’s not our fault we’re like that, our mothers planted that mentality in our head to keep us safe. Perhaps the western mothers didn’t do that to their kiddos, that’s why they’re like that and we’re like this. Ain’t saying you must be a virgin oooo. My point here is not virginity but our mentality towards sex..

I know my gender have messed this whole thing up and have made it look like it’s only the body we have to give, if we women can take sex out of the table and bring same energy the men gives, if he buys you gifts buy him gifts too, if he spends on you please spend back, all of this can be possible if you are set to work, women have a higher chances of getting job than men, women makes it well in every industry than men. The sex thing should be a voluntary thing, when you both are up for it, not because he’s giving you money you must give him sex, that’s a big mess and you won’t stop crying of being used if you don’t stop that nonsense... This is a new year, we can do better.. engage in something that keeps you busy and fetch you money, look for jobs, you have a better Chance of getting a good job, when you work hard for your money without your body being attached to it then you can earn every respect back.


Happy new year fellas

I will not be surprised if you are either married or in a serious relationship.
Every good lady and virgins (very sure) around me are engaged or in a serious relationship. Some guys have 3 eyes sha..

As for me
Non virgin = friends

Black americans collect dollars while Nigerian collect naira.

mukthar2000:
You reminded him that I’m from Delta and women from that state don’t meet other men once married.

But you have condom inside ur bag, yoy fully prepared for the rape that night as you no that the guy would rape you that night abiii?

Maybe the guy refused to pay

Jennyclay:
It's unfortunate animals don't behave the way men behave

I hate men

Rape apologist good afternoon o

Unfortunate chicken don't behave the way some women including you behave.
Go and follow your fellow gender.

Lezbo

I no trust that guy at all

"it was a mistake" will be their slogan.

advanceDNA:
The will just look for another excuse, like they use for virginity that they were not born with a hymen...

Or they lost their virginity while riding a bicycle

Which kind wahala be this na?
We wey dy look for virgins to marry within that age range, now another guy is on the loose.
God protect my future wives[sub][/sub]

You have lost your glory. Count your loss and move on.

You know what to do op, you are just afraid to do it because of the children.

You can either;
1 send her packing (not divorce o) to her parent's house. The shame will force her to change.
2. Just focus on your kids (if they are truly yours)

What I came here to see was clearly bolded by the op.
It saved me too much stress

This is a very sensitive matter. Elders in the house please help.

But personally I don't think I can forgive a cheating partner

The way I am seeing this 2023 now, heart breaks go too much for guys this year

Before young ladies were. Deceiving men now single mothers are now in the picture.

Oga please go back to 2022.

Happy new year to all the legends in the house. You guys have really contributed to my growth and I am loving the experience.
Thank you all guys.