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fairygeh: The Bible even says spare the rod and spoil the child which means a little bit of lashing aint too much,At a certain stage,peer group influence could affect a child and what he/she needs is to be warned by the parents else he/she goes haywire.Insults on the other hand could affect a child negatively by cursing and stuffs.My own opinion is parents have the right to scold and not insult and if the child refuses to heed to warning,beating could be resorted to but not beating that the child could be seriously injured. I doubt it if i would be able to beat my future children though,dont think i can stand it.

The same bible says train a child the way he should go and he would never depart from it,on no condition should a parent raise his or her hand against a child.Dialogue has averted many wars,dialogue has mended many homes how much more if parents had to apply to unruly or stubborn children. The truth is parents have become just too lazy and shy away from their responsibilities and I bet if you told such parents that if their child refuses to heed warning,beating could be resorted to,they will go above and beyond using ''spare the rod and spoil the child'' as their defence. Parents simply abuse it!


Found a video on youtube,see link below might be funny but reflects what many of such parents are like.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=0LNxLjrMO_8

Very funny,when you hear some parents hurl insults at their kids,you will think a herbalist is chanting incantations and you begin to wonder if those kids were forced on them.
Parenting is not easy but it sure is fun. Parents do not need to hurl insults,yell or hit a child before they imbibe discipline in their kids but I guess you might tell this to the thin air for all they care. The cane/insults has replaced their mouth and the place of dialogue.

These are the same people who will not stop comparing their children to other kids and wishing their children were at least half as 'perfect' as their mates,big Irony.

Please if anyone knows any parent who indulges in this shameful act,please encourage them to memorize prophetic bible/quaranic/traditionalist verses(whichever applies),anytime they feel like they are about to have a verbal diarrhea it will come in handy. Kids need to me spared that mental and emotional torture.

You this tolotolo tonot Tonto of a girl sef!If AY had put the video on youtube and it had gone viral am sure you would have made his little girl your role model/inspiration. She would have been opening shows/concerts for you sef!

As for you AY,I have not seen the video but am assuming its one of them parody videos,am sure you meant no harm so why apologise to Tonto?If not anything,you help boost her popularity now?She suppose pay you abegi!

Please retract your apology quickly!!!

Maxymilliano: Am I missing out something here? What unmentionables are we talking about here and how can it went missing even after suffering a bite?

The same way you 'misfire' that your bullet is the same way 'it can went missing'

pak: brilliant girl.

E pa atewo fun.

''pa pa papapa papapapa milo!!!!''

Una don start again oooooo!!!!
What is it with abnormal stories taking up relevant space on NL?

INNO18: And this Agbaya doesnt Know no one Ashewo on Nairaland has a Crush on him. Oponu!

I am amazed that in this age and time people still use extremely disgusting and derogratory words such as that which you have used.

You should apologise for calling someone that a-word.
Please be a gentleman.

Opoki: @OP: How old are you?
For anyone to go back to his ex, is either he's a kid or he's kidding.
Ex keh?
I remembered that year @ the level of Africa-amphi theatre when she said she needed some time to assess the relationship and i replied with, "its a very good thing cos i knew you slept with him @ Diganga last nyt" and she flare up.

The fact is... Forget your X and move on, dont ask me Y, cos ur Eve who will appreciate you for who you are is ryt out dere.

Greatest Ife!

salolo: Women needs to remain where God place them, Eph 5 :22, to be submissive, by doing this they will not create any ordeal for themselves

Wake up male chauvinist!

blackborn7: Babe u dey vex oo!! do you have to classify all in that just to bring one definition for something?

Talk about driving the message home dude!!! Dont want to see her like this next time.

I hate everything about it,overheating,hanging and most important of all the BBM chat.Absolute waste of my time.
Once people know you have got a blackberry,next thing is ''send me your pin,gimme your pin,inbox me your pin,DM me your pin,bla-bla-bla effin bla pin'' What tha heck is that about?!
Parting ways with it today,I have had enough.

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See review below:

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Need I say more?!Over to you Tonto.

More money for food at Aso Rock? Because you died of hunger in your first life huh?
This is becoming something else.

Big question is why would you want your ex back?

Please permit me to say that this is a mentality alien to the western world.This age thing is so strong it transcends beyond the workplace and its not uncommon to have ladies pick petty fights over who is older.I don't know what obtains in naija in terms of employee relations and engagement but I can tell you what obtains where I am.There is something called discrimination on the basis of age is a BIG NO in the workplace.Call it what you like but no one wants to know who is older,what's important is to get the job done.Now if anyone chooses to disclose their age to you and you are stupid enough to treat that person their age cos you think you are older,best be ready to accept whatever comes to you if any of your acts or utterances is termed unnaceptable by the younger party.

Unfortunately age never translates to money anywhere,wisdom? Yes,for a few!

obi123: oyinbo people are funny , i used to work at a gambling place during my uni years , so mgt brought in one 20yr old boy to be our oga, we were very pissed as some us had worked for years and knew a lot more than he would know, they said he was outspoken, this and that and of course he was British, they were so convinced that he was what the store needed.
so on one faithful day we resumed work ah ah where is oga to open the store ? no show, they called his number, nothing, can you believe that the area mgr now decided to go to his house and the boy was dozing according to his mum, he went out the night b4, he didn't even show face , he sent his mum to give the area mgr the key to the store, of course he never came back .
Well they offered me the position , i accepted it nicely and scrammed 2mths later , me wey don dey find another job tey tey

Ladbrokes,paddypower,betfair,corals or william hill?My bet is on paddypower though

Nothing,just use that as an opportunity to wait on the Lord.

Billyonaire: 9 represents perfection, and its the highest of numbers, 10 actually equals 1 and from 10 is a repetition of smaller numbers. Add the digits of your birth day 1 by 1 and if you arrive at 9, then your birth date signify that your soul went through maturity and you are here to teach others. But not ruling out that you can be here fooling around too cos you forgot why you are here. Example, someone born on March 30, 1934 = 30+3+1+9+3+4 = 5 (5th cosmic cycle of birth), get the life mastery handbook and read what's in store for you.

I thougt people always said 7 is the number of perfection,others would say 8 and now 9.What's to believe now?
Nothing serious just wondering!

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I can bet you have got a special adviser on Nairaland matters,your glorified spy who will make it a point of duty to tell you every damN piece of stinky issh written about you.I hope you or your amebo is reading this and if you are this is for you ''QUIT BEING A FIGURE HEAD,THE PEOPLE WHO VOTED FOR YOU DESERVE ACTION NOT EMPTY PROMISES''

Singing ''My facebook NL love waiting for your comment on the threads,nibo lo lo,igbawo lo n pa da bo...''
You fit just use this ur story act another nollywood blockbuster like Nairaland love,the return of the Nairaland lover,Nairaland re-loaded,Nairaland Nights,Nairaland,me(insert name) and hubby(Insert hubby's name)

If you need more titles,contact me ok and if not,let me know how it goes with the Alaba marketers.

You better make urself ACTIVE for here,so no 'action will pass you by.Sing along with me as I end this comment ''pass me not o gentle saviour......''

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Eyaa,sorry Kimmy Pie,unfortunately this is not something Momanger can fix for you.

Better luck next time babes!

''It can't possible''

Thats so inhuman,they could have least considered that little child.
No love in the city.

[quote author=*Ileke-IdI]My friend shattap dia
My cat has a better chance of growing 5 heads than your God [/quote]Kare omoluabi,asotan oro lo so yen o.
Ileke ja si oko,ma ja si ile.
Ibi kan naa sha lo ma jasi.

Mo pa ilu fun e.

So who will pay if learner 'headboot' driving school car into Nepa pole for instance?

Rhetorical question that needs no answer,that's what your question is.

Next thread puhleeze!

By the way Mercy J ,just to let you know there is a particular range of clothing for people who look just the way you look now.Its called Maternity clothing. You have them in different styles which means you can afford to be pregnant and stay stylish.

YOur bump is cute sha o

Brainrex: B!tch looks so ugly

Not so nice to say if you ask me.
Just passing by though

zaza1: Nigerians and and unneeded advice..did she tell u that is the only bra she has?..u must comment sha

Isnt it obvious she needs a maternity bra at this stage? If you are her P.A or something,please make a mental note to remind her!!

[quote author=baby_123]Keep living in denial. And I think it is an insult to belittle the spirits of loved ones by calling them demons, to prove your theories. The fact is these things do happen, and will continue to happen. Maybe your loved ones were too demonic on earth to be given any priviledge to contact their loved ones. You cannot even be a better christian than my own dad, fact. So abeg, leave your story. Do I think he still comes around, yes! All of us even had experiences of him comforting us in our greif one way or the other. I think as long as I am alive he will keep finding non scary ways to contact me, I was his favourite. You can take that to the bank. And ask Elijah about spirit stuff before you talk about what you don't know.[/quote]Please pay no heed to ignorant people jare! You are making a lot of sense and thats what matters.
And for those who believe and those who do not take note:
''As it was in the beginning,is now and ever shall be....''

OP trust me you are not alone.
Do you know how many times I have played euromiilion,lotto etc and not to forget my new favourite,the health lottery but all to no avail.Many times,I sat in front of the TV watching each ball roll out,imagining my numbers on each of them but for where?!! Nothing o!!
The closest I have gotten to winning is through day dreaming so be like me and forget about it.

[quote author=deal_ordea]Now everybody.. Time to leave this thread and sleep in fear.. You all are seeing the ghost real for now[/quote]But how is a nolly-ghost(short for nollywood ghost) related to this thread now.What's the link?We are talking about credible ghosts here (not ghosts wey rub nycil powder wey sabi say he/she suppose look left and right before crossing the road).
By the way OP,sorry I would have loved to say something about your post but experience is needed I guess so can't comment.
This whole isshhh is scaring the hell out of me but enjoying it in a creepy way.Going to have to hug my hubby tighter tonight!