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oluwadabira111:
I don't have an okadabooks account is there anything you can do

Deceitful couple sent, sir

Tbrak:
pls ma i need deceitful couple or shadow of yesterday thanks

Send me a pm

oluwadabira111:
I don't have an okadabooks account is there anything you can do

I'm really sorry but there's nothing I can do

oluwadabira111:
Hey ma pls I need that deceitful couple! and how much are u selling captor of my heart

Send me a mail and I'll send you "Deceitful couple'. By the way, Captir of my heart is unavailable in pdf copy. You can purchase it though, on Okadabook.com. A copy costs #500

I thought the Christmas giveaway always happens in December but it seems I thought wrong.
Every giveaway, i give out free pdf copies of my story to the first five people to quote me. Just quote me and state the story you want. Note that "Captive of my heart" is one book that i can't give out so you are free to choose any of my books, apart from Maureen's story.

Merry Christmas in advance

BS continue
At this point, all my mother wanted was for the surgery to go well. She and the other nurses began begging my husband to let it all go and conserve his energy into praying for me and the baby to be well.
Hearing my mom spoke, my husband calmed down. Soon, the second Doctor came and I was taken into the theater. At this point, l was so cold my body began to shiver. Told the doctors that I'm very cold and they said something will be given to me.
An injection was given to me and I passed out. By the time I regain consciousness, I heard a baby seriously crying and my husband telling my mom that I'm finally coming through. The pain on my stomach was unbearable. In my semi consciousness, I could see and hear my mum and husband trying to feed my baby because she was really crying. The surgery was over at past 11 pm that Sunday.
So many other things happened that I don't even want to talk about it here. To be honest, I regret going to that hospital. I wished I had gone to a general hospital. For instance, my CS was done vertically and not horizontally. My baby drank water in the womb and she sometimes fight for breathe. My mom and I complained tire but the nurses said she was well. When I insisted for a test to be carried out, it was discovered that she was ill. It pains me to see my little girl in pains. She has been placed on medication. As I'm talking, we are still at the hospital and have spent almost 100k already.
This hospital was supposed to be the best in this town-or so I was told.

By the way, as for that unprofessional nurse, iI heard a query would be issued to her. She wasn't even free with me. My husband wanted challenge her but decided against it. After all, it would change nothing.
So many things happen that made me question my decision to have my baby at that catholic hospital. There were many mistakes. They forgot to write down baby's weight and so on.
As I'm typing this, I feel so down. If i had listened to my husband and not register here, all that had happened may not have happened.
Mothers to be, learn from my story. If you are discharging too much water, don't just sit at home, take action.
So sorry my BS was long. My battery is almost down but i had to quickly write it. Will come back later to edit this.
October cappo, BS submitted.
I wish all expecting mothers save deliveries. May God save us all from careless nurses and doctors. It can really be a nightmare.

BS
This being my first pregnancy went without hitch. I never vomitted, spite out saliva and I was never ill. Not once did I go to the hospital for any form of illness. I slayed my pregnancy and added weight. At seventeed weeks, I went for my first ante natal appointment and the midwives told me I'm doing great.
I really wanted to have this bay at 38 weeks. By 37 weeks I was begging God to help me fall into labor but the thing was, labor wasn't forth coming.
At 39 weeks and a few days, my husband who works in a different town from where i worked came to spend the weekend with me. He arrived on Saturday evening and was teasing me of the fact that i don't want to put to bed. After dinner that evening, we sayed our prayers and retired for the night. Soon, i noticed that I urinate more often and there was this pressure on my pelvic that wasn't there.
At exactly 1:20am I felt a gush of water ran my thigh and immediately knew that my water has broken. I woke my husband up and he decided we should head to the hospital but i told him that aside mild back ache and contraction, i feel nothing else. We decided to wait for contractions to be strong and frequent.
What i didn't understand was why water kept gushing down my legs like tap. The water was too much that I had to use my towel. By 3am, the towel was completely soaked. I knew that membrane water wasn't supposed to be this much and wondered where the water was coming from.
By 4 am, bloody show came up. Still i was feeling mild back ache and lower stomach pain. My husband was scared at the amount of water coming out from me and insisted we head to the hospital but I bluntly refused.
The thing became so unbearable that I told him we have go get going at exactly 6am. We took my hospital bag and a water flask full of hot water. The distance from my house to the hospital is like 20 minutes walk and since i wasn't feeling contractions, I told my husband that we should trekked.
As we were leaving, i remembered that there is this leaf that my colleagues told me about. Once u eat it in labor, you will have a smooth one. I know three people that the leaf worked for. In fact, my mom told me she had a smooth labor and birth when she was having me due to that leaf.
I got some of the leaf and we walked all the way to the hospital. The nurse on duty looked at me and said i didn't look like a woman in labor. I was calmed, collected and even laughing. She checked me and found out i was only 2cm gone and felt only one contraction in like fifteen minutes.
I told her about the water gushing out and she too looked surprised and decided to immediately admit me though she told me I may not put to bed until evening. I decided to go walking. I walked for another thirty minutes and by 8am, the morning nurse came to start her shift. The night nurse filled her in on what was happening. By then, my husband went back home to wash my towel which was very socked with water.
The morning nurse took a good look at me and said i was not in labor. I was a bit offended and told her that I'm not a child. I told her my water broke and it has been gushing out like tap for hours.
The nurse finally concluded that I was only mistaken my urine with water. She said many first time mom's know nothing about their water breaking.
Again i tried to convince the nurse but she wouldn't hear of it. She said i should go home and return when i feel real pains. I was really disappointed with the nurse because it is a Private hospital owned by the catholic church. I expected professionalism and not that. The nurse didn't even make an effort to check the kind of water coming from me.
I said nothing more and left. Since i was not feeling serious congractions, I decided to trek back home. Meanwhile, i called my mom and she said she was on her way. My husband was shocked to see me back home so early and i explained to him what really happened. He asked me if I told the nurse that water is really draining from my body. I said yes. I lay down to rest and to my surprise, more water kept gushing down my body. My husband insisted we go back to the hospital and i told him there was no need. It's a weekend. We will still meet that nurse. We decided to wait for her shift to finish.
When my mom came, she asked what happened and i explained. By 6pm, we decided to go back to the hospital again. I was only having mild back ache and stomach pain. We trekked to the hospital and meet the nurse on night duty.
She asked if i was the patient that came that morning. I told her yes. The nurse looked angrily at me and said she just finished reading the report made on my file. She asked me why i left instead of allowing the hospital to immediately admit me. At this point, i explained what happened between the morning nurse and I. The night nurse immediately sprung into action. She told my mom to go buy pad for me to use because she wants to see the kind of water coming from me.
Less than 10 minutes after wearing the pad, it was so soaked I had to change to another. The nurse looked worried and called the doctor. Looking at me, the doctor laughed and said I don't look like a woman in labor but he decided to examine me.
He examined me and found out i was only 2cm gone. The night nurse explained the water coming from my body and the doctor said the only way to find out what was really happening was to have an obsteric scan.
Immediately, I was taken to the synographer( or whatever they call them). The scanning was carried out and to the surprise of both Doctor and nurse, the scan revealed that there is no lycon. I am completely dry. The water that is supposed to help my baby out is gone and fetal heart rate was really down.
"Madam, I'm sorry to tell you this but there is no time to waste, we have to carry out an emergency CS to save your baby." the doctor told me
I wasn't surprised. I knew that a thing like this would happen. We went back and i told my mom. She began to cry. I called my husband and told him to come meet us at the hospital cause I will be in the theater soon. When he came, he was too quiet. Knowing my husband, no one needed to tell me he was already too angry to sag a word. The night nurse immediately called the matron and informed her that they have an emergency case. The matron, hearing it was me because my who is an admin staff at the hospital begged her to take care of me came running to the hospital.
A form was given to my husband to sigh and was getting prepared to enter the theater. The time was already 9pm and the other Doctor's number wasn't going through. One doctor alone cannot perform a C-section.
When my husband finally asked them to allow him and my mother pray for me, I tear ran down my cheeks. I blamed everything on the morning nurse who was very unprofessional. My husband at this point couldn't keep quiet. He challenged the hospital as to why they decided yo hire an unprofessional nurse. He said the Cs was uncalled for as the nurse should have simply induced me that morning but she didn't.

I will continue

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Price; #7,000

Oga, new one is 7500 and u still dy talk 7000. Please don't forget that this is supposed to be a clearance sale.

BA BA BA

My Princess made her grand entrance yesterday via emergency CS around 11pm. So I was told. Will confirm the time later. BS is on it's way

KINGreignn:
On jumia, its NGN7,500 BRAND NEW.

I bought mine at that amount in August. I wonder when the price suddenly went up to 10k for a used one when a brand new one is 7,500.

Boonmie01:
Clothe hanger for sale

Price; #10,000

Location; Lagos

Call; 08095129696

Is this hanger up to this amount at the market? The one I bought isn't up to 10k, sir. Maybe, the price suddenly went up without my knowledge

fekani:
Lagos ,Agbado area

Too far from me

fekani:
baby play pen still available for 7k.
baby bath sit for 2k
and baby carrier for 1k500.

pm if interested

Location?

tatacherie:
Good morning mamas
You are all amazing
Thanks so much for the prayers and support
You all made it easy for us
I'm so grateful

Now my daughter has finally spoken up!

After school lessons by 3.pm the pupils move from their classrooms to a waiting room where parents come to sign and take their children
All class teachers handover their pupils to the waiting room attendants and retire for the day

My family and my Landlord's are very close we are like brothers and sisters living together in love for close to 6 years now. My Landlady has 3 children in the same school my daughter attends so she takes her children to and fro school along side mine

Whenever my landlady is extremely occupied I pick and takecare of the children till she returns
Her children are age 10, 7 and 3 years.
So on Tuesday as usual she brought the children home at about 4.pm and usually I bath my daughter immediately on arrival.
The first thing my daughter does on seeing me after school is to report all the activities that took place as far she can remember. Someone pooped on the floor, Aunty spanked someone etc

Unfortunately she didn't say anything like she used to so I initiated it
I asked what happened in school and she said my neighbours daughter pushed her in the school field and she fell seriously hitting her bum on the ground. I scolded her never to go to the field and that she must always remain in the waiting room till mommy comes and I promised to scold the girl.

So I pulled down her pants to bath her and lo I saw blood stains, Lord!!! my heart sank as so many things were running through my mind at the sight. I asked who injured her and she said nobody. Ah! I immediately asked her to lie down so I can check and I saw the shock of my life!
I saw several finger injuries all around the labia of the vjay with fresh blood like it just happened. I started questionning but she refused to speak I begged and compelled but she was just staring at me like a dumb

I snapped the site and took the blood stained pants and went to show my Landlady she was shocked as well saying this is the first time she is seeing this kind of case physically and that she has only been hearing from afar

We took her straight to children emergency clinic and on examining her the nurses confirmed she was assaulted. But thank God her hymen isn't broken. They recommended drugs, wrote a report and assured to support us to get the culprit

And finally yesterday my daughter confessed my Landlady's 7 years old daughter and my next door neighbour's 6 years old daughter as the culprits
She said herself(my daughter) and my landladys 3 ys old daughter wanted to pee so they told my Landladys 7 ys old daughter who accompanied them to the school toilet and that she touched her vjay in the toilet

Both parents are shattered, according to them they have never discovered such happening in their homes before now and immediately got a nurse to examine the girls. And on examination their vjay hasn't been tampered with so how come my daughter insisting they are the ones

On investigation both girls said they are innocent of the act. Now I don't know if both girls have been assaulting my 3 y old together or separately
Police has also interrogated them separately and they said they have never done such an act before
And these are children that stay with me every now and then. I takecare of all of them when their parents are not around, my child stays with them when I'm not around too. The injuries on my daughters vjay are deep finger nails and these girls have no nails, I'm seriously thrown off balance. My instinct is telling me it's an adult female that did this due to the deep nail cuts but I can't doubt my daughter either

A child counsellor spoke to my daughter and she said the person is big! As at yesterday evening she stopped responding to questions like she's exhausted about the whole thing

We have been to the school and it seems over the years there have been such cases before ours and they usually fish out the culprit and prosecute. It's a Catholic school and the revd' sister in charge has started investigation
I want to know where the toilet attendants were when it happened
the waiting room attendants are not left out. If I don't get answers that school will surely go down with power of social media

My husbands lawyer friend who is a member of FUGA has taken up the matter

In summary I didn't protect my child and I'm bitter! I was overconfident! I shouldn't have trusted my daughter into anyone's care to and fro school
Generally the school is not safe since there has been such cases before I didn't do a thorough background check before registering my child and we are new there. We have only spent 6 or 7 weeks in the new school and see what I got
Its a big school but so unfortunate they don't have a CCTV something I learnt they had. It would have made investigation way easy

I wish I can homeschool her at this stage. I'm withdrawing my child from the school but I'm scared to put her in any other school

We will surely get to the root of this!!!
Thanks once more mothers
May we not experience such agony
Please mothers learn from my experience pls take your child everywhere you go! not easy but safer

Do not relent, God will expose the culprit. If after investigation it is discovered that your landlady's and neighbour's kids assaulted your daughter, please, leave the house and change her school. Make sure that poor innocent girl never sees those kids again.
You and your daughter are in my prayers, ma.

adontcare:
Op. This is bad. This is His true nature. He has two phase. Doing all this to please people is just on all level wrong. I believe in spouse protecting each other. Esp husbands are meant to protect wives. This is one major factor that can shatter a marriage. Lack of trust, bad mouthing, unapologetic and open embarrassment. Still talk to him about it. But if he don't stop, when ever he start embarrassing u or gossiping about u, bluntly tell him that he should stop it. In front of whoever he is doing it. And make sure u are firm and stand ur ground. Do not ignore him. Face them squarely and tell them how he behave when u guys are alone and how he also behave when they are around. Make him feel embarrassed too. When ever he make people disrespect u, u too should disrespect him in dia presence too. Tell his friend to serve himself too. But if he respect u ,do same.

My friend's husband used to be like this until she began to insult him back whenever he insults her in public. She said that put a stop to his bullying. Well, what worked for one may not work for another

Good evening mamas. I'm already thinking of how to get back in shape after putting to bed. What should I go for? Waist trainer or a postpartum belt? Mummy Zaynie and co please help a sister?

Akposy:
Ha. why were they confusing me na

Kunu zaki is made with millet or Guinea corn. U put what we call Dankali(sweet potato) this one lasts longer than Kunu aya (tiger nut) which is made from tiger nut, dates and coconut.
Kunun aya can not survive a day outside the fridge but kunu zaki can survive days. They are both sweet and nutritious drinks

Akposy:
Kunu zaki... I heard it's made with groundnut, tiger nut and date. It was chilled and sweet

Prestonn, thanks for the explanation. I do appreciate

That's kunu aya(Tiger nuts) not kunu zaki
These two are different o.

Gloryne:
Sabi mamas, please come to my aid. I'm having painful contractions tho bearable and its 7 mins apart. I think I have seen show cos I saw thick discharge with blood this morning. Is it time to head to the hospital or till when the pain becomes unbearable? Please epp a FTM

So you too want to port abi? Lol. Abeg head to the hospital as soon as possible. Waiting for your BA ma.

cerpvad:
This is laudable. But wait, what percentage of increment is effected for workers on level 7 and above? Unless, we see that, it will be difficult to believe if what is being paid Kaduna workers is actually the appropriate new minimum wage.

From what I heard, it's 60 percent increment. I know of someone who was receiving 46k but got 75k.(she's in level 10). I know of another who was previously receiving 37k but received 57k(level 7) and I know of someone in the teaching sector who was receiving 33k without education certificate and now just received 54k.(level 8 step 5) those with education certificates saw 59k. So do the maths .

ffafolayan:
BA

My cute little Kung Fu princess arrived on Saturday, 21st Sept, 2019 weighing 2.5kg.
Sincerely, I was waiting to receive one giant girl with big fists and legs, but she is “Miss Portable “ (as the nurses call her).
EDD Oct, 3rd.

BS later.
Oct cappo, I’ve finally made it in life. I’ve ported. See you when else we see.

Na so u don born leave us ba? Congrats, ma

Akaylion:
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Oga, let's call a spade a spade. This your cabinet is too expensive. I had a carpenter made something bigger for me with a big wall cabinet included last month at a far cheaper price you just offered. Abeg o, this is a clearance sales forum

Spiritualgal:
Thank you all for the congratulatory messages.

Although i was booked for elective CS because foetus was in transverse position, the date for CS hadn't been given by doctor. On the 31st August 2019 until 1st of septembery i felt very uneasy and backache was out of this world. On the 2nd september, i went to the hospital for antenantal.The doctor checked me and declared i was already in labour. He quickly went to call another doctor to confirm his assertion. I was informed by both doctors that they needed to bring out the baby immediately, i started crying because i wasnt prepared for what i heard. I was asked to call my hubby or any family member to bring my hospital bags. I was then taken to the threater for prep-up while i awaited my hubby to bring the bags. At exactly 4:31pm, my long awaited jewel was brought out and shown to me. I became a MOTHER after so many years of reproach and shame.
I thank God for this priviledge of sharing my BS.I've read so many BS on this forum and I've been looking forward to this day.
May God make the remaining mamas have supernatural delivery.
Gracias...

Congratulation. He is a miracle working God.

zaynie:
It will make the flow of milk better.
Unfortunately, it is very difficult to avoid the soreness of the first few weeks especially for ftm. It's normal as the nipples will be constantly be latched on, pulled and squeezed by the newborn.
To make it easier, please read up on how to make baby latch properly as that is usually what makes the soreness worse.

Thanks ma

zaynie:
Now sounds like a good time.
Use cotton wool dipped in olive or coconut oil and gently clean the nips to remove cracked skin and dirt.
Rub a bit of the oil in your hands and massage your boobs gently too.

Note that this can sensitize your boobs and make them leak or cause mild contractions. If this happens, you may want to hold on till your 36th week and above.

Please will this prevent the nipples from getting sore or cracked when one starts breastfeeding? I heard that the first few days of breastfeeding can be very painful.

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