₦airaland Forum

Skillzystick:
You can actually make some cool cash amidst this lockdown. it's absolutely free.

Will teach you how you can mine ethereum.

You just need your phone or laptop.

Drop your WhatsApp number to be added to the group. It's absolutely free.

09097084427

i like ur story na the kind guys na him i dey like omoluabi like u

kestolove95:
Go upgrade ur life Mr poster

girls will always be girls and men will always be men

I would love to be made anonymous. Jide (not his real name) and I dated on and off for five years. I knew there were other ladies in his life. But every time he came back to me,I found out he treated me better than the other guys I was dating.Lets just say: I left the door of my heart open to Jide. He came and left as he liked. My parents did not like that but no other better guy. Jide’s mom, a single mom loved me but she too could not influence her son to settle down.Jide(not his real name)got admission to further his education abroad. Three month before he left,I got pregnant. That did not change anything. Jide left and almost 7 months later,I had twins baby girls. Jide’s mother was supportive. Jide called a few times. Not too long I was seeing Jide post pictures of his new woman on social media.So yes, I am a single mother. I did not think of terminating the pregnancy. I loved Jide and I wanted to have his children. It was my choice so whether he supports me or not…I will be fine.Its been three years. Jide has only come around once in three years. He is in a relationship but he loves our girls . The last time Jide came,he told me he was marrying his girlfriend. I took it in good faith. They got married. But divorced in less than a year. Maybe the girl realized no woman can keep Jide…lol
Last year, I met someone very spectacular. We have been together and so far things are going well. He proposed and I said yes. We have done our introduction in February. But Jide was around a week later. He asked me to see him and I ended up sleeping with him.I feel like a mess. I know Jide will never marry me. I doubt if he will marry anyone. But I cannot ever say no to him. He charms me every time. He is my ride or die. I will do anything for him. Since then,I have been thinking maybe its not a good idea to get married to my fiance.I have been unfaithful to him and I do not know if I can be faithful to him with Jide being in the picture as the father of my children. I do not know what to do…please advise me. I do not want to hurt anyone but my mother says for me to forget Jide,another man must be in my life.Is that true…if I get married…will I be able to free myself…if that is true….why did I cheat? I need some advise to help me clear my head. I appreciate no insults…I know I not in the best frame of mind…that is why I am asking for advise.

Thank you for your advise what would u do ladies?

finczydabadman:
So a friend texted me now that she is getting raped at Jonic or Jonix hotel at oke itunu in ibadan... Who's nearby abeg??

wat took her there abeg?

Evablizin:
Like seriously... I was confused,addressing herself as a lady at the same time using a male moniker.

the story was shared from a female friend who needed advice

Hello nairalanders,

Please keep me anonymous. I need advise from this group . My name is Temi (not my real name). I am 20+. I work in a telecoms company. Its a very rewarding job and friendly environment. I have been working there for almost 3 years and things are moving fine.

There is this colleague of mine that we are friends. He told me he likes me but I was like,lets be friends first. I like him but I do not want to rush into any relationship. He treats me very well. Respects and cares for me. I knew I would say yes to him soon.

Then, we got a new HOD. He was moved from another branch to ours. He is very handsome and cool. Everyone likes him. He is a good boss. He charming too. He took to liking me and I cant lie,I like him too. He always likes to work with me,always assigning me tasks so I can be close to him.

He eventually told me his intentions two months ago. He wanted us to date. I can say,I am under his charm. I told him I am single but the other guy in our department is interested in me. He laughed saying: which man will not be interested in me cos you are so beautiful.

I told him to give me time to think about it. He said cool. Now these two guys are seriously in competition to get my attention. It is becoming obvious in the office. The bad part is that one of them is a boss so he tries to send me on errands that brings me close to him,making the other guy very jealous.
Now,the tension between them is so much that someone has asked me what is going on. I finally had to make up my mind and I choose my boss. The other guy is feeling so betrayed. Like he asked me first and I denied him. But I thought I was following my heart …now am not so sure.

I hate to hurt peoples feelings. He is no longer talking to me and its like he hates our boss now. He tells people that I choose the other guy cos he is the boss and maybe earns more money than him but that is not true ma.
Now,I feel bad. I actually miss gisting with this other guy. I love my boss and he is very cool but I cant help feeling some how about this other guy. Did I make a mistake..please advise me. Now,I am hearing that the other guy has said he is looking for another job cos he cant stand seeing me with another guy. I feel bad…is he going to loose his job that he loves so much cos of me?

The other day,in an office meeting,my boss asked him a question and he answered rudely. I knew it was because of me. Its like these two guys will soon have a world war in the office. What do I do…both guys are very good guys…I have done my many comparisons of both guys..they are simply cool…

They both have qualities that I love in a man….how do I make sure I have chosen right…and how do I douse the tension between both men…what should I do nairalanders?

fairfora:
Yes...sajaira meira, waskele je, eli jah, ado ni jah abraka jah!

Translate that with caution pls.


It's a powerful book....not the book itself but the content.

What is in the book did Moses write about occult I don't seem to understand is there a kind of misconception

This app doesn't even give correct prefiction

Ladies are funny they would go and do body enlargement to cause attention and later they will come out and still complain that men are looking at them can u see that we live in a confused world when people can not really defined wat they want out of life

Because Wizkid is a Superstar how will someone with 3 babymamas have care for you abeg we all know Wizkid na starboy dats why you like him to the extend of leaving the father of ur child for him

hotseat:
I'm in a secret love affair with this married woman. The issue is she's equally interested and I find her irresistible each time we meet though we haven't done the do yet. My conscience is pricking me because I know that it is not the right thing to do. I'm now fighting with my conscience because I don't know how she would react. I don't want to hurt her fjeelings. Should I just go ahead?

Very stupid u are in love with a married woman do you know the dangers of absolutely wat u are doing you are playing with fire in ur pocket and ur inner voice is warning u and u care wat the woman will think let me tell u the truth you will be severely purnish if u carry out that act and two may u not lose ur destiny and end up been worthless 3.all the liking for u and the liking u have is temporal meaning wat ever relationship u have with her it wouldn't last it will stop and leave ur soul empty and u will be full of regret

anslemarinze52:
I'm so addicted to pornographic movies.

whenever i buys Data to my phone next thing you see me doing is checking xvideos(a site for pornographic videos).... I can even say that what Burns my Data most times.

Please can anyone help!!!!!......I've been trying to stop but to no avail..... there was a day I deleted all the videos before Yu knew it I was back at it again.

Those of you that were able to stop how did Yu do it??

Listen to Paul washer message on flee from sexual immorality is it on YouTube it would be of great help to u then go to a deliverance church seriously ur addiction is demonic go to mountain of fire ministry dunamis healing ministry tell the people there they would surely help u out I certainly know

Good day everyone,

My issue is with a very close friend of mine. We live in the same compound for years. Actually, her husband and I were buddies as bachelors. He brought her in as girlfriend,they dated for two years. I was like a brother to them,although they are like 3 years older than me.
From dating,they got married and she became our iyawo. This lady is dead gorgeous and I counted my friend (Dalton,not real name) as very lucky. Iyawo is any man’s dream:sexy and a good cook. Plus her figure na die.I used to call her sister mi or iyawo.Them getting married brought me even more closer. I ate in their house most times. Their first son came and was actually 9 months old when Dalton passed on in a motor accident. All our worlds stopped. It was the most painful time of all our lives. I mean,he was a young father and husband,friend and son.
I was dating someone at the time. Later on,I traveled and was in UK for 3 years. I kept in touch with Iyawo. Sent her money now and again even though she didnt need it.I relocated back to Nigeria last year. And Iyawo looks even more stunning.I was perplexed that she was not dating yet. She was like,she is still mourning her late husband. Its been four years later. I think she should move on and get married again but she was like,no one wants a single mother with a kid.She used to tell me how lonely she gets and all that. I knew I liked her alot but we are just like family. The more I saw her,the more I wanted her. I was single. I am 36 years,she is 39. I thought about this for a long time and I told her how I felt about her.She laughed and said it would never work. According to her,I was like a junior brother to her and too close to her late husband. That people would think we were having an affair while he was alive. I see reasons with her but I think there is no excuse good enough to let her go without a fight for her heart.Please I need directive..advise…how do I convince her that all her excuses do not matter..will people actually disapprove of our union…I just want to know what chances I have or concerns that anyone may raise about this before I push further for her love. I love this woman and her son with all my heart.
If there is anyone who has been in a similar situation,please advise also thank u as u offer ur advice no insult please

espn:
Take story...you claim you are a guy from your profile while your story's claims otherwise...

This story was shared by the lady

OceanOfJoy:
Fake story. Look at OP's previous threads, smh. He is simply a story-fabricator

Is very wrong when people share their story with others looking for solution and u call them a liar

Teeceepat:
This matter hard o. Just be very careful with him. He said is his past, why are d pictures and d video still with him.

Still don't understand why

OceanOfJoy:
Fake story. Look at OP's previous threads, smh. He is simply a story-fabricator

Hello sister this story isn't fabricated the only thing is that people shared their story with me,and so many at times the story is posted here to allow her get advice on what to do

Good day nairalanders,

I have a question bothering me. I have been in a relationship with my fiance for almost 3 years. Our wedding is this Easter. So we got a new apartment and he has been living in that apartment .

I visit almost every day and we both cant wait to get married. We moved some of his stuff in one of the rooms and I was trying to clean up and arrange some of the items when I saw some pictures of my fiance and his ex.

Personally,I was surprised he still kept pictures of his ex. (I discovered this ex is in the same church with him. I recognized her cos she is a church worker but he never mentioned they were ever together until I found these pictures). I put them together and my intention was to confront him and later,maybe burn the pictures. So I packed them in a bag waiting for him to return so I can show them to him.

I continued cleaning but I also saw like old CDs and I was wondering which ones to keep or throw away so I had to play them one by one in the DVD to determine which one was still good or which ones are bad so I can throw them away.

Just as I continued playing the CDs,I played one that I was not expecting. It was a sx tape of my fiance and his ex (his church member o) and another woman. I recognized the ex from the photos that I saw earlier on. I was stunned and shocked. Why did he make sx tape of himself having a party with his ex and someone else?
At this point,I lost it and couldn’t wait for him to return. He of course lied that he did not know he still had the pictures and video. He said the video was a mistake. He was young and stupid. The video was made when they were drunk.

I met my fiance through a mutual friend. Never for once did my fiance mention that his ex is still in the same church with him. In fact,he never mentioned her. I go to his church once in while but I never got any hint…I feel so fooled.

For me,its bullshit. All I can picture is him and his ex and that LovePeddler. Who is she,that ex…who is the other woman?…why is the ex pictures and videos still with the man I am getting married to in a few weeks.
My fiance has been begging me,saying he has destroyed the pictures and video.But that is not comforting me,my gut is telling me there is something about this ex. I mean,I know my guy is not a virgin,I know he has been with other girls in the past but never in a million years did I picture him as the kind of guy who would sleep with two women at the same time and even film it.

Plus filming it..he kept the tape…We have been together for 3 whole years…why does is that tape still in existence?Maybe he is still in love with the ex or maybe they are still seeing behind my back.

Or maybe he kept the tape as a reminder of the kind of s*x he likes…I am confused and I truly feel like there is something he is not telling me but he says I am just paranoid for nothing,that there is nothing going on. That he has not spoken to this ex for over 4 years.
Please advise me…is he telling the truth…his motive for making the tape too is scaring me…is he that type of guy or was this just one time stupid mistake?

Abeg nairalanders,make una advise me on what to do?

blessingchinny:
I recently got into a relationship with a guy i met on facebook. We've been chatting for long till we decided to meet. Fortunately, we stay in same town. When we finally decided to meey, we got satisfied in what we saw in each other and thats how we decided to take the friendship to the next level.
Now the issue is this i told him am a virgin which i am truly. That i dont want sex till marriage. He frowned at it first, but later accepted on the conditions that we would be having MouthAction. But honestly, i still can't fo that. When i said i dont want sex, i just dont mean penetration, but not allowing a man to see my nude till marriage. I told him we can kiss and caress but not anything involving sex. Out of pressure i allowed him get to my nipples.

But that's the limit i can go honestly.
He still insisting that if he cant have me, that he would move on. He said he is planning to get married this year, but can't marry a woman that restricts him like that.

I have tried to be supportive to him even though we just met just to prove to him that i sincerely love him, but he is still adamant. Right now he is not even replying to my chats or picking my calls. What do i do?

My advise for you is that I doubt the man truly loves you I know is hurtful but its true what kind of believer will associate with a sex oriented person he wants sex let him marry u then on time ,ask yourself what if he does not marry u again what will u do honesty know you stand to lose when he doesn't marry you eventually,the man ideology is different from us yet you want to give into pressure do u feel God will bring your man to u only for him to make you go contrary to ur beliefs so is up to u but having sex with u is no guaranty the man will marry you intact most men lose interest after the sex is done because there is nothing to experience pray for God direction you are already sliding gradually

Hello everyone I really would love to tell you the whole truth bet9ja is a scam what do I mean the whole betting stuff is just full of lies,they make it look as if they are there to make you rich but it is all a lie ,I feel bet9ja system has been so manipulated that no matter what you played you must lose I am beginning to suspect that bet9ja are even behind most games manipulation where clubs are supposed to win they lose so that more betters get to lose money and they stupidly enrich there pocket,and they come with lies to deceive our youth if you like bet Barcelona to win against enyimba that day you will see that they would lose .how is that possible for goodness sake bet9ja na thief na be serious one I wish there can be one better than this ponzi bet9ja scheme if you think am lieing ask yourself the last time you won money from bet9ja you will see what am saying is true ?bet9ja ladlas na scam na be

Casalindaa:
Why do people feel threatened by me?? I’m not controversial, I’m not dramatic I just pretty.

So this is the trending thing now every girl suddenly think she is beautiful Oyo u are not beautiful intact the fact that you have to tell it to us shows u ain't sure and u are looking for attention okay let me tell u ,I think u might be beautiful hope u like that one

EmperorAce:
Hello everyone, please I need your opinion on an issue bothering me. I have a female friend who toke me as her bestie, we are good friends and she is in my department in school. She knows my girlfriend very well and she respects her a lot. The issue is that she has refused to date anyone since she resumed school, so I asked her to have a boyfriend which she did and then on Valentine’s Day which happens to be her birthday, the guy didn’t call or text to wish her happy birthday or valentine. She got heartbroken, she came to my place and cried a lot, I pet her and try to encourage her. She felt better when I faced a stand fan on her. She removed her pant and raised her gown facing the fan while laughing and moaning that it feels good, and she requested for alcoholic gin which I gave her after diluting it with sprite soft drink. I wanted her to drink a little and sleep so she’ll stop crying. She drank a little glass and then she started feeling better but a bit happy. She started dragging me close which I felt was normal because she does that even while sober, but then she pinned me down on bed and started saying things like why I didn’t call her on her birthday, she called me her boyfriend’s name , I thought she was drunk and I try to put her to sleep. She was not even weak or drowsy. Her words were accurate and not like who is drunk. She suddenly grabbed my d*ck and begged me to have sex with her. I declined, but she begged me almost in tears, then she said that she ought not to be begging me, that we ought to be doing it. We end up having a breathtaking sex which lasted for an hour. She washed up and I bathed. She went to bed and woke up an hour later, we talked while she went home. We chatted later and I asked her to take Postinor but she said “why” ? She has not had sex for 2 months and she doesn’t need to cus she never had sex! I was shocked, I told her we did but she laughed it off that I am joking. A week later, she came to me that she was pregnant and doesn’t know who. She said it’s not her boyfriend cus they had sex for the first time a day before. She is crying always in confusion that she can’t think of anyone and she doesn’t know what to do.

Is it really possible she doesn’t know? I’m really shocked.

The girl is stupid intact both of u are stupid ,the girl doesn't know that she had sex with you meaning she played you for a fool and u played alone probably she knows she was pregnant but she was looking for Mr johnbull to take responsible for the pregnancy,anyway since she says she did not know she slept with u u self you will played not have having sex with her,u can't be responsible since she her self claimed you did not slept with her,see how this girl is playing movie with you,yourself how will u sleep with her to u she didn't have a boyfriend to her she has been sleeping around the whole alcohol is just a piece of shit to make you dumb she was been influence

XhosaNostra:
I find this story hilarious lol. It reminds me of a similar story from childhood, where one neighbour came to our house one morning to tell my mother about a physical altercation she had with her husband the previous night over something I can't remember now. Anyway, he'd beaten her up pretty badly. He was blind, which is what made it extra funny to me. Apparently, he also waited until she fell asleep to deliver the punches. I laughed then like I did now. Thanks for the laughs, OP.

U are busy laughing at this predicament I hope u don't experienced this too I hope u will be laughing then

Coolcalmcollect:
yes you're wrong, after paying an over priced brideprice on you and paying for the bulk expenses of the wedding, yes you've sold the right to your pvssy, you no longer have no say about how it's used. you deserve the besting, he's even supposed to lock you up in a bathroom naked for a week so next time he ask for sex you open up. a man can't pay a high marriage fee and not get sex when he wants it.

Jeez how can u think of so much wickedness like this ,don't you know the woman is the victim here

femi4:
Just RUN....you won't survive 12 months

Run away from a marriage of 4, month where should someone run to